I am so excited to introduce this new part of the Drinks First ecosystem! Cocktail Hour is a collection of episodes in which I interview seasoned vets of the NYC dating scene for a different perspective. I could not be more stoked that my debut episode is with Lindsey Metselaar of We Met At Acme fame! We Met At Acme is a podcast about millennial dating in NYC and Lindsey is a native New-Yorker, podcaster, food instagrammer, and social media icon. We talk about attending the same high school, her...
Apr 21, 2020•42 min
This week our guest (Male, Straight, 22, Manhattan, NYC) gives us some on his glow up journey. We start at the beginning with his first love and girlfriend and walk through how that relationship changed his life for the better, how he became more self confident, steps on how he tries to achieve his life and relationship goals, dating in college, juggling multiple girls, getting with roommates, what to do when an intern hits on you, and so much more!!! Thank you so much for a successful first sea...
Dec 24, 2019•1 hr 9 min
This week our guest (Female, Straight, 22, Manhattan, NYC) is new to NYC by way of Dublin and Mumbai. We talk about her experience dating her brothers friends, including her Ex who she went to high school and college with, navigating work/life balance, getting with someone you then have to interview, and more! This episode is a little different because we have an in-depth conversation about cross-cultural dating and what it is like to be an Indian woman and the expectations that come along with ...
Dec 17, 2019•35 min
This week our guest (Male, Straight, 26, Manhattan, NYC) gives us some insight to dating after you've been in the city for a while. We talk about the transition between all-boys school to co-ed, being over dating apps, the best way to approach someone at a bar, investing in an online date, getting with your friends sibling, being ghosted, dating someone vs. being in a relationship, instagram etiquette, getting with a 40 year old, and more!!! **If you are interested in meeting him- please DM @dri...
Dec 10, 2019•41 min
This week our guest (Female, Bisexual, 23, Manhattan, NYC) is freshly on the market and divulges her dating past. We talk about woofing, "The Ick", getting with a cop, pursuing vs. pursuer, hooking up with brothers, oblong ding-dongs, exploring sexuality, the importance of being single, different kinds of love, sexting tips from a writer, new dating apps, "Power of the Pass", and much more!!! **If you are interested in meeting her- please DM @drinks.first on Instagram or email drinksfirstpodcast...
Dec 03, 2019•40 min
HAPPY 10TH EPISODE !!! I never thought I would keep this up but I'm so grateful for all you listeners and the support I have gotten. Since it is ep 10- I'm giving you a double whammy episode. I have been waiting so long to be able to interview this guest (M, 23, Straight, Manhattan) since I met him. Still trying to figure out why he decided to do this but I'm not complaining! He gives us all the brutally honest details about his open relationship, how it works, who initiated it, and what it is l...
Nov 19, 2019•1 hr 7 min
This week our guest (Female, Straight, 22, Manhattan, NYC) is a dating queen. We talk about clingy men, dating with references, good and bad texting, worst date stories, being psycho to your crush, puking on a date, general red flags, hinge vs. bumble, dating profile nono's, drunk texting, and more! Listen to find out ;) **If you are interested in meeting her- please DM @drinks.first on Instagram or email drinksfirstpodcast@gmail.com . Specific instructions on how to match is under our highlight...
Nov 12, 2019•37 min
The DM's are wide open for one of my oldest friends! (M, 22, Straight, Manhattan, NYC) tells us about his experiences with JAPs, recognizing your privilege, what it is like to be in a fraternity, how to get over a sex (position) scandal, what boys talk about, our guidelines to Hinge, how to plan your first dating app date, and a lot more! Straight men- be sure to listen to this episode very carefully there are lots of great tips ;) **If you are interested in meeting him- please DM @drinks.first ...
Nov 05, 2019•38 min
This week our guest (Female, Bisexual, 23, Manhattan, NYC) is our first bisexual guest! We talk about prom, dating in high school vs. college vs. adult life, hooking up with your best friend, mental health, exploring your sexuality, being spit sisters with Malia Obama, queer sex vs. straight sex, age difference with hooking up and dating, consent, shitty texters, when you grow up the most, sugar daddies, etc.etc! Listen to find out ;) **If you are interested in meeting her- please DM @drinks.fir...
Oct 29, 2019•37 min
This week our guest (Trans Non Binary, 24, Brooklyn, NYC) is our first queer guest! We talk about their life experiences, where to meet people in NYC (spoiler alert- it's in soho), decorative cabbage season fka cuffing season, what traversing the dating scene has been like as a trans non binary queer individual, if keeping a list is good or bad, fetish vs. type, farting in front of your date, threesomes, getting with someone in your uber pool, how to take a nude/sext, yik yak, surefire way to ge...
Oct 22, 2019•46 min
*disclaimer- sorry for the less than stellar audio but I'm learning and growing so I appreciate all of you who are along for the ride :~)* This week our guest (F, 22, Manhattan, NYC) is an NYC-native and our first ~influencer~! We talk about her favorite NYC recs as a food instagrammer, why Brass Monkey aint it, date planning, finding an NJB (nice jewish boy), how to dress, app red flags, dating people of different political backgrounds, booty calling, women making the first move, nudes, and so....
Oct 15, 2019•36 min
Get ready because this is one of the nicest, most sincere men I know. It was a treat to have this guest (M, 23, Straight, Manhattan, NYC) in to talk about the NYC scene, our shared love of Berlin, how to get into the most exclusive club in the world (Berghain and Panorama Bar), being on the worlds most exclusive dating app *which can't be named but coughcough it rhymes with Maya*, blind dates, red and green flags in relationships, the importance of siblings (mostly sisters), and our new rapid fi...
Oct 08, 2019•34 min
Our powerhouse of a guest (F, 22, Manhattan, NYC) is new to NYC and is killing it in her high stress job. When I say she is a CEO in the making- I'm not joking! We talk about her favorite nyc places, astrology in a relationship, being on America's Got Talent, work/life balance, never being on a dating app, fwb (the grey area and the convo YOU MUST HAVE), and so much more! If you think you can keep up with her work hard, play hard lifestyle- hit the DMs. **If you are interested in meeting her- pl...
Oct 01, 2019•34 min
Our first MALE guest ever is here to give us a new perspective (M, 22, Straight, Manhattan, NYC) and we talk about everything from life at Cornell, being new to dating, how to navigate the apps, why Hinge doesn't work for me, first date dilemmas, and more! **If you are interested in meeting him- please DM @drinks.first on Instagram or email drinksfirstpodcast@gmail.com . Specific instructions on how to match is under our highlight "How to Slide" on instagram.** Any and all feedback is appreciate...
Sep 24, 2019•35 min
Our first guest ever is a good friend of mine (F, 22, Straight, Manhattan, NYC) and we talk about everything from peanut butter, SoulCycle, Venmo stalking, how to dress to impress, all-girls school, and more! **If you are interested in meeting her- please DM @drinks.first on Instagram or email drinksfirstpodcast@gmail.com . Specific instructions on how to match is under our highlight "How to Slide" on instagram.** I know the quality of the episode is shaky but please share with your friends and ...
Sep 18, 2019•48 min
