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Dream A Little

How do I explain AB/DL to my partner? Learn to love my kinks? Start roleplaying with my vanilla partner? These are just some of the big questions that AB/DL advocate, Lo, discusses on the top-rated Dream a Little Podcast. Featuring interviews with people in the community as well as actionable advice, each episode is designed to help AB/DL's courageously and confidently share their kinks.
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Episodes

#115 How To Help A Vanilla Partner Understand AB/DL

This is the final installment of this 3 part series where I answer REAL questions and concerns from a listener's girlfriend. He recently told her about this AB/DL side and she is trying to understand what it's all about. In this episode I explain what AB/DL's get out of this type of roleplaying and why anyone in the world would WANT to be punished and comforted. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/115 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded ...

Jan 14, 201910 min

#114 Why Does Anyone Find AB/DL Aesthetically Pleasing?

This is the second installment of a 3 part series where I answer questions and concerns from a listener's girlfriend. He recently told her about his AB/DL side and she is trying to understand what it's all about. In this episode, I help her understand why AB/DL's find this aesthetically pleasing and how we are sexually attracted to something that's non-sexual. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/114 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded pe...

Jan 07, 201910 min

#113 How To Talk About AB/DL With An Extremely Vanilla Girl

This is the first installment of a 3 part series where I answer questions and concerns from a listener's girlfriend. He recently told her about his AB/DL side and she is trying to understand what it's all about. In this episode, I answer uncomfortable questions I've avoided answering. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/113 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Dec 31, 201814 min

#112 RIP TUMBLR? How To Connect With AB/DL's On Emerging Websites

With Tumblr now restricting adult content, where will the AB/DL community do? Here are some pros and cons of some social media sites that people in the community are going in. I'll also give you my thoughts on a new site called ABDL-Link.com Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/111 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Dec 24, 201818 min

#111 Amazing Gift Ideas Guaranteed To Make Your AB/DL Happy

Not sure what to get that special AB/DL in your life? Here's some ideas to inspire you! Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/111 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Dec 19, 201819 min

#110 How To Introduce AB/DL To First-timers

When should you bring diapers into the conversation? Here's my best advice on how you can introduce AB/DL to first-timers. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/110 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Dec 10, 201810 min

#109 Our AB/DL Journey + Answers To Your Most Common Questions

In this episode, I'll be sharing with you TK and I's journey into AB/DL and more tips from your most common questions so let's dig in! Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/109 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Dec 03, 201815 min

#108 Cloth Diaper 101 + How To Easily Find A Quality Professional Fantasy Facilitator

Thinking about switching to cloth diapers? Or struggling to find a pro that will help you live out your fantasy? Say no more! This episode is exactly what you need to make that switch or live out your best fantasies. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/108 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Nov 05, 201831 min

#107 How To Overcome Fear of Rejection And Stop Self Sabotage

If your fear of being rejected stops you from being honest to your partner and to yourself, listen up and together we'll dive into how you can overcome your fear of rejection and stop self-sabotage! Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/107 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Oct 29, 20188 min

#106 How To Love Your Kink So You Can Share It With Your Partner

Feeling ashamed of yourself for having an AB/DL kink can really take a toll on you and on your relationships! Take a breather and let's talk about how you can learn to love your kink so you can share it with your partner. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/106 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Oct 22, 20188 min

#105 What To Expect When You Open Up To Your Partner

Are you stressing yourself figuring out how your partner would react about your AB/DL kink? Let me simplify it for you so you'll know what to expect and how to handle the talk without scaring them off. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/105 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Oct 15, 20188 min

#104 How To Avoid The Most Common Mistakes Made When Introducing AB/DL

Worrying about how you're going to open up to your partner? Don't make these common mistakes! Learn how to get past these as I walk you through my AB/DL 101 of introducing your kink. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/104 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Oct 08, 20189 min

#103 How To Know You Can Trust Someone: Helpful Advice From Jake

Having a "trust checklist" doesn't seem so bad! Find out in this episode how Jake's checklist has helped him opened up to over 40 close friends! Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/103 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Sep 17, 201827 min

#102 Tested And Simplistic Advice To Come Out Of The DL Closet With Paul

Been hiding in the DL closet for a while? We know the struggle! So here's Paul with us to give you simple yet tested advice on how to come out of the DL closet! Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/102 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Sep 10, 201824 min

#101 The Best Way To Immediately Eliminate Shame

Sometimes having someone to talk about that shame can help relieve you of that burden of hiding it, so why don't we talk it out with our guest Max and let's hear how he has learned from it. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/101 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Sep 03, 201820 min

#100 Inside The Unique Life of a Professional Mommy

If you're looking for a professional mommy to live out your kinky fantasies, we just might have who you're looking for! Listen to this episode to hear more about the unique life of a professional mommy. Resources mentioned in this episode: /100 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out Music:

Aug 27, 201824 min

#99 How To Make Ageplay Attractive To Your Vanilla Partner

Is your partner a vanilla? And he is just not YET into it? Dive into this week's episode to learn how Hilly has actually got her husband hooked into ageplay. And make sure to take pointers! Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/99 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Aug 20, 201825 min

#98 How To Find The Courage To Be Honest About Your Kink

The first step to introduce your kink to your partner is to be honest and open about it and we know that finding that courage is never easy. In this episode, I'll be sharing my thoughts and answers about the real-life struggles of our avid podcast listeners. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/98 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Aug 13, 201820 min

#97 Helpful Advice For AB/DL's From A Professional Sex Therapist, Dr. Rhoda

I know we've all been curious about seeking an expert's advice on AB/DL so in this episode, let's hear it directly from a sex therapist herself, Dr. Rhoda. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/97 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Jul 30, 201819 min

#96 Unexpected Things That Happen After Being Exposed

Getting exposed to your family by a friend is definitely every kinky person’s nightmare! In this episode of DAL, let's learn it from Rob as he shares with us how he went through the ordeal and how he’s come out stronger plus some bonus tips on sending that first message! Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/96 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Jul 23, 201820 min

#95 How To Get Affordable AB/DL Products Delivered Discreetly + My Recommendations

Whether you’re just getting started on your roleplaying journey or you’ve been into this kink for a while, discreet shipping and finding good quality ab/dl products can be difficult, so I've made it easier for you! Here's a list of my favorites and some recommendations on where to find them. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/95 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com...

Jul 16, 201816 min

#94 How To Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Make Your Fantasies A Reality with Dolly

Putting yourself out there is like being naked in front of them and telling them to take their hit, but this week's episode of DAL, Dolly shares with us her experience on how she has successfully stepped out of her comfort zone and how you can too! Resources mentioned in this episode: /94download For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out Music:

Jul 02, 201821 min

#92 How To Actually Make AB/DL Friends In Person: Q&A With Steve

Looking for kink events can be quite a challenge. So here's our guest, Steve, to help you find live kink events plus some tips on what NOT to do when opening up as an ab/dl. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/92download For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com

Jun 18, 201827 min

#91 How To Make Genuine Connections In The Community: Helpful Advice From Miss C

If you're wondering why you're not getting responses for the nth time you've been sending out messages to connect with people, know what you may have been doing wrong as with today's episode with Miss C, we'll let you in on some tips and tricks on how to make genuine connections online. Resources mentioned in this episode: /91download For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out Music:

Jun 11, 201831 min

#90 What Actually Happens When You Confide In a Friend With Special Guest Will

Confiding in a friend is utterly nerve-wracking! Should you do it? Are they trustworthy? Is it worth the risk? Here's Will to share with us his story and some tips on how he was able to successfully open up his kinky side to his friends! Resources mentioned in this episode: For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out Music:

Jun 04, 201820 min

#89 The Challenge With Overcompensating For Your Unusual Kink: Q&A with Chloe

If you've ever felt you're overcompensating for the other aspects of your life because you're struggling to admit you're kinky, then this episode is definitely for you! Listen as Chloe shares with us her journey as a transgender and an ab/dl! Resources mentioned in this episode: /89download For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out Music:

May 28, 201821 min

#86 What Happens After You Open Up About Your Kink? Advice From A Little

How do you know when is the right time to open up? What then happens after? If you’re wondering the when’s and how’s in opening it up to your partner, check my conversation with Jake in this episode! Jake, identified solely as a little, shares with us his experience and insights on how he was able to introduce his kink to his wife. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/85download For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out: patreo...

May 07, 201822 min

#85 How To Share Your Unusual Kink In A Strong Way: A Guys Perspective

If you haven’t opened up about your kink to your partner because you're afraid of being rejected, lacking confidence or you're not sure how to bring it up, this episode is for you! MJ shares his positive experience in opening up to over four girls and some tips how to develop your self-confidence. Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/85download For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out: patreon.com/dreamalittle Music:

Apr 30, 201819 min

#84 How To Make The Most Of Your Capcon Experience As An Introvert

You want to meet more friends in the kink community, but you can't get over your anxiety as a first-timer? Join our conversation as Anna shares her experience and some tips and tricks to make the most out of your Capcon experience even if you're an introvert! Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/84download For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out: patreon.com/dreamalittle Music:

Apr 23, 201825 min
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