Stopping divorce often begins with a willingness to pause, reflect, and reconnect. Many couples drift apart not from a lack of love, but from unresolved hurt, unmet needs, or poor communication. To stop divorce, both partners must commit to rebuilding trust and emotional safety. That means listening with empathy, owning mistakes without defensiveness, and learning how to speak each other’s emotional language. Seek help—through counseling or coaching—to break harmful patterns and learn new tools....
Jul 07, 2025•13 min•Ep. 362
Forgiveness in marriage can be blocked by several powerful emotional and psychological barriers. Deep hurt, betrayal, and unresolved pain often create walls that are hard to tear down. Pride and ego can keep someone from admitting fault or extending grace. Holding onto anger or resentment can feel like self-protection, especially when trust has been broken. A lack of empathy or understanding for the other person's perspective makes forgiveness harder. Sometimes, the offense feels too great or re...
Jul 01, 2025•12 min•Ep. 361
🎉SHARE This With A Friend! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode! A sexless marriage can deeply affect a man’s emotional, psychological, and even physical well-being. For many men, sexual intimacy is a primary way of expressing love and feeling connected to their partner. When that connection disappears, it can lead to feelings of rejection, inadequacy, and loneliness. Over time, this may erode his self-esteem and create emotional ...
Jun 25, 2025•12 min•Ep. 360
✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW & Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions and I'll respond to them on a future episode! Fixing an unhappy marriage is possible if both partners are willing. The first step is to consider what's caused the drift in your marriage in the first place. Second, you must be willing to address your resentments because nothing will go well when there's active resentments. Third, you must nurture your friendship through emotional intimacy, dates, and affecti...
Jun 20, 2025•11 min•Ep. 359
🎉SHARE This With A Friend! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode! Developing emotional safety in you relationship is essential. When we don't feel safe, we pull back, we build walls, we shut down. In contrast, when we feel emotionally safe, we open up. Think of emotional safety as the sun and you're a flower. The more sun you receive, the more your peddles open up naturally and vice versa. In this episode, I cover the top five ways...
Jun 11, 2025•13 min•Ep. 358
✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW & Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions and I'll respond to them on a future episode! Learning to fight fair in marriage is a growth area for many couples. Instead of fighting fair, many spouses fight unfair and doing so eventually destroys their relationship. How you handle conflict often impacts your entire relationship. In this episode, I discuss two examples on how to fight fair from my marriage. 🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolv...
Jun 06, 2025•12 min•Ep. 357
🎉PLEASE SHARE WITH OTHERS! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode! An uneven workload can create a troubled marriage. An uneven workload creates emotional distance, and a sense of imbalance in the partnership. When one partner consistently bears more responsibilities—whether in parenting, household tasks, or emotional labor—it can lead to feelings of being undervalued and overwhelmed. The other partner may become complacent or unawa...
May 11, 2025•11 min•Ep. 356
✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW & Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions and I'll respond to them on a future episode! 🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. There are many tips to fight less with your partner. However, this is one you may not have heard of. It's called "sharing your tender underbelly." ...
May 06, 2025•12 min•Ep. 355
🎉PLEASE SHARE WITH OTHERS! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode! To learn more about my FRCA program to become a Certified Relationship Coach click here! 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. Saving your marriage begins with open, honest communication. Take time to really listen to your partner without interrupting or judging. Rebuild trust by being consi...
Apr 25, 2025•16 min
✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions and I'll respond to them on a future episode! To learn more about my FRCA program to become a Certified Relationship Coach click here! 🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. Compatibility is often romanticized as the cornerstone of succe...
Apr 18, 2025•15 min•Ep. 354
✋PLEASE SHARE WITH OTHERS! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode! 🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. Marriage, like any meaningful relationship, needs the right ingredients to truly thrive. At its core, successful marriage is built on a foundation of lov...
Apr 11, 2025•13 min•Ep. 353
✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions and I'll respond to them on a future episode! To resolve your resentments and get your marriage back on track, learn more about my ER Marriage Intensive in Dallas, TX 4/27 here! Assuming negative intent in your partner can quickly erode trust and damage the foundation of a healthy relationship. When we automatically jump to conclusions or believe the worst about our partner’s words or actions, we shift from curi...
Apr 04, 2025•10 min•Ep. 352
✋PLEASE SHARE WITH OTHERS! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode! 🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. Learning from someone with more experience is a smart decision because it accelerates personal and professional growth. Experienced individuals have alre...
Mar 29, 2025•22 min•Ep. 351
✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions and I'll respond to them on a future episode! To learn more about my CO Marriage Retreat 3/29 click here! Want to learn more about my most cost effective resource no matter where you live? Read about my Tools Marriage Course! Discerning whether your perception of your partner is true or false requires self-awareness, open communication, and a willingness to challenge assumptions. Emotions, past experiences, and ...
Mar 23, 2025•12 min•Ep. 350
✋PLEASE SHARE WITH OTHERS! Defensiveness is a normal human impulse. When we are blamed, we instinctually want to justify our intent. We can't stand the idea of our partner thinking we did something that we don't feel like we did. However, the more we defend, the more it makes our partner feel invalidated. In this new episode. I discuss the top steps I take in my marriage to avoid becoming defensive. Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions! 🚨ER MARRIAGE INTENSIVE- My best pro...
Mar 13, 2025•12 min•Ep. 349
📢PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW! Learning how to resolve conflicts effectively is essential if you want a heathy marriage. Feelings are going to get hurt. Actions are going to be frustrating. Needs are going to be unmet. When those things occur, we need to know how to respond properly or else things will get worse. We aren't trained on how to handle conflict well so inevitably we handle it poorly. In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show I discuss how I handle conflicts in my marriage. Listen in to see...
Mar 05, 2025•13 min•Ep. 348
📢SHARE WITH OTHERS! Interested in my marriage conference in Florida on 2/23/25 to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love? Learn more about the marriage retreat here to sign-up! Emotional intimacy is a mysterious topic for many partners. What is it? Why do you need it? How do you provide it? If this topic has interested or confused you in the past, you're going to appreciate this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show Podcast. In it, I explore what it is, why you need it, and how to get more...
Feb 20, 2025•15 min•Ep. 347
✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW! Ready to move your marriage from roommates back to lovers? Join my most comprehensive resource to rebuild your relationship in 90 days. Learn more about my ER Marriage Intensive here! Thinking about couples therapy but not sure what to expect? Heard both good things and negative things about couples therapy? Need support but feel apprehensive? You're not alone. Many couples need help but aren't sure what to think about couples therapy. The truth is that couples therapy o...
Feb 05, 2025•9 min•Ep. 346
❤️ ER Marriage Intensive Begins 1/28/25! Ready to move out of roommate status and into lover status? Ready to learn how to communicate effectively, resolve your conflicts, nurture emotional intimacy, and much more? Ready to make 2025 the best year yet for your marriage? If so, join my most comprehensive resource starting 1/28. My ER Marriage Intensive. Learn more here! CALL 303-578-0618 & LEAVE A VOICEMAIL WITH YOUR QUESTIONS FOR THE PODCAST! Making changes for your partner is important beca...
Jan 24, 2025•9 min•Ep. 345
🤝 PLEASE SHARE WITH SOMEONE! Ready to move out of roommate status and into lover status? Ready to learn how to communicate effectively, resolve your conflicts, nurture emotional intimacy, and much more? Ready to make 2025 the best year yet for your marriage? If so, join my most comprehensive resource starting 1/28. My ER Marriage Intensive. Learn more here! CALL 303-578-0618 & LEAVE A VOICEMAIL WITH YOUR QUESTION! Emotional safety is the cornerstone of a healthy and thriving marriage. It cr...
Jan 17, 2025•13 min•Ep. 344
✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW If you have a heart for couples and want to help me lower the divorce rate one marriage at a time, enroll in my ICF Accredited program FRCA to become a Certified Relationship Coach in 90 days. The next cohort begins 1/15/25. Learn more here! 🛋️ BOOK A SESSION If you'd like to book a full day intensive or single session with me in my practice, click here! In this episode I discuss the simplest way to improve your marriage, which is asking your partner what changes they wa...
Jan 10, 2025•15 min•Ep. 343
🔗 SHARE THIS EPISODE WITH OTHERS! If you have a heart for couples and want to help me lower the divorce rate one marriage at a time, enroll in my ICF Accredited program FRCA to become a Certified Relationship Coach in 90 days. Learn more here ! In the episode today I discuss how to become more attractive for your partner emotionally and physically. It's easy to get sloppy in both departments through the years and that strains our marriage. Your partner fell in love with you because they were at...
Jan 02, 2025•21 min•Ep. 342
✏️ PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW! The fastest path to healing your marriage is having your partner make a list of their resentments, working through each one with the Reunite Tool, then making long-lasting changes. The more your partner sees your effort and consistent changes, the more hope they'll feel and the stronger their commitment will become. 👉 FREE CONSULTATION If you're ready to save your marriage from divorce, schedule a FREE Consultation with a member of my team to learn more about my ER Mar...
Dec 20, 2024•10 min•Ep. 341
🥳 SHARE THIS EPISODE WITH OTHERS! Have conflicts with your partner? Who doesn't? Unfortunately, we're not taught how to do conflicts right. Therefore, we stuff. We blow up.💥We avoid. We engage even though we're flooded. Sound familiar? We don't know how to do conflicts well. 😩John Gottman said the more couples have defensiveness, criticism, contempt, and stonewalling during conflict the more likely they'll divorce one day. Therefore, leaning how to master conflict is paramount. In this new...
Dec 12, 2024•7 min•Ep. 340
✏️ LEAVE A REVEW In this new episode I share the story of my own marriage. How we started out with rose colored glasses and fell madly in love. How we thought life would be easy. How trauma surfaced in our relationship. How we developed toxic, vicious cycles. How we both developed walls and felt unsafe. How we almost divorced. How we recovered. How you can recover too! FREE PDF GUIDE Are you struggling in your marriage? Are you starting to feel hopeless? Get my FREE Guide on How To Rebuild Your ...
Dec 04, 2024•11 min•Ep. 339
🤝 SHARE THIS EPISODE! Most couples have relationship problems. The causes are varied but the patterns are consistent. One of the most important ways to fix your relationship problems is by learning what conflict mistakes to avoid. For example, my wife and I had a conflict a few years ago about leaves. You heard me, about leaves! I did all the raking and felt like I picked up enough leaves 🍂 without it blocking the sun and harming the grass. She disagreed and thought more needed to be raked. Sh...
Nov 21, 2024•12 min•Ep. 338
✏️ LEAVE A REVEW It's easy to feel hopeless when your partner asks for a separation. What you may not realize is your behavior during the separation can either push your partner further away or attract them back to you. In this new episode I discuss four steps to take to attract your partner back to you during a separation. 💥 Want my FREE training on How To Move Your Marriage From Surviving To Thriving? Get it here! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your marriage question and I'll re...
Nov 14, 2024•10 min•Ep. 337
🤝 SHARE THIS EPISODE! In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show podcast a caller is asking how to save his marriage. They've only been married 4 months and his wife is already asking for a divorce! It's amazing how common divorce has become. There are certainly times when divorce is recommended. However, most of the time partners want a divorce way too quickly. In the podcast I respond to his question and then I discuss 4 lessons we all can learn from his situation. 💔 Tired of all the resentme...
Nov 07, 2024•11 min•Ep. 336
✏️ LEAVE A REVEW & SHARE THE EPISODE! Do you struggle with anger? Do you get harsh with your words when you're upset? Do you say and do things you later regret? Do you ignore your partner to punish them? Do you get sarcastic with your comments? Do you know that how you handle your anger can influence your divorce risk? Dr. John Gottman found the more people stonewall, are defensive, get critical, and are contemptuous the more likely their marriage will not last. Therefore, learning to manage...
Oct 26, 2024•14 min•Ep. 335
🤝 SHARE THIS EPISODE WITH SOMEONE TODAY! Want to know what happens to a lot of people through the years of marriage? They fall asleep. They take their eye off the ball.👀 They let the fire go out. It's usually not intentional. A little emotional neglect here. A little physical neglect there. And before long you're feeling detached and walled off. In this new episode of the Dr. Wyatt Show podcast I interview Meygan and Casey Caston, founders of Marriage365 about this pattern. Listen to their sto...
Oct 17, 2024•36 min•Ep. 334
