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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Montswww.dontblameme.show
Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa D. Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while. It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more.  On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.” Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation.  On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well.  Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions. They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.
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Episodes

DBM: My Friend's Friends Don't Treat Me Like a Friend

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: Getting Your Sister Out of a Bad Relationship (January 29, 2024) Getting stood up by your "friends" Telling your conservative parents you're moving in with your boyfriend Talking to your red-state of mind family members Hypothetical questions to ask your partner Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @meghanandm...

Mar 25, 20241 hr 10 min

FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: Ghosting Your Therapist

Meghan and Melisa share the result from But Am I Wrong: Ghosting Your Therapist. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 22, 202422 min

But Am I Watching: Mean Girls The Musical The Movie

This week Meghan and Melisa take a deep dive into the plastics takeover of 2024 with the new musical adaptation of Mean Girls! They discuss their hot takes, share your thoughts, and then pick their best and worst of the film. Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.i...

Mar 21, 20241 hr 17 min

DBM: Death to Your 20s

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Engaged before moving abroad Funeral themed birthday Parents blaming you for their divorce DBT -New Hobby -Making Work Friends Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @meghanandmelisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? dontb...

Mar 18, 202458 min

FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: My Friend Has Bad Breath

Meghan and Melisa share the result from But Am I Wrong: My Friend Has Bad Breath Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 15, 202440 min

BAIW: Ghosting Your Therapist

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: 99% of TikToks are staged Melisa: The President is not a celebrity But Are You Wrong: Borrowing money from your anniversary fund Not missing going to therapy But Are They Wrong Savory Fig Michael Meyden Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www....

Mar 14, 20241 hr 18 min

SYNT: What are The Boy Nuns Called?

This episode of See You Next Tuesday is a wild ride! Meghan and Melisa dish on Melisa's sister's crush (awkward!), then take a deep dive into the fascinating world of world record tongues. Brace yourselves, because the secret's out: these ladies were secret band kids. They reminisce about middle school clubs and their shared love for the Smith family (Melisa's even directing Willow Smith's audiobook!). Get ready for double the podcast fun: Melisa spills the beans about her new project, "Full Dis...

Mar 12, 202445 min

DBM: I Don't Want to Get Married

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Attachment styles and dating Parents still parenting even though I'm in college Making friends at work Racist Boss Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @meghanandmelisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? dontblameme.show ...

Mar 11, 20241 hr 7 min

But Am I Watching Results: This Is Me... Now: A Love Story

Meghan and Melisa share the results from the But Am I Watching episode of Jennifer Lopez's This Is Me... Now: A Love Story. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 08, 202440 min

BAIW: My Friend Has Bad Breath

But Am I Wrong: Melisa - Don't Bring Babies on a Plane Unless It's an Emergency Meghan - Men Shouldn't Be Doctors But Are You Wrong: Telling a friend about their breath Moving out of a terrible situation But Are They Wrong Judge Robert Adrian Kellogg's CEO Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontb...

Mar 07, 20241 hr 23 min

SYNT: LA Reboot and Spidey Overload

This week on See You Next Tuesday: Melisa reads your thoughts on D&D Alignments and reveals where she falls. Meghan accidentally marathoned a bunch of Spiderman movies. Did she get her fill of the Tom Holland and Zendaya magic (aka Tomdaya)? After a whirlwind adventure, Melisa is back in LA, ready to hit the ground running and reboot her life for the year. Hear all about her plans and fresh start! Meghan gets down and dirty (literally) with some yard work. Was it a back-breaking chore or a s...

Mar 05, 202444 min

DBM: Aunt is Competing with Me

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Zero motivation for school Complicated relationship with mom I hooked up with the guy I'm dating's friend Aunt wants to do everything with me Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @meghanandmelisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Ther...

Mar 04, 20241 hr

But Am I Watching: This Is Me...Now: A Love Story

Meghan and Melisa watch Jennifer Lopez's incredible film: This Is Me...Now: A Love Story. But Am I Wrong: Meghan - This Movie is sponsored by AI Melisa - It doesn't deserve the hate it's getting But Are You Wrong: JLo needs to stop rapping JLo has incited cringy wedding dances But Are They Wrong Meghan - Jay Shetty and Sadhguru Melisa - The casting for the Zodiac Council Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.meli...

Feb 29, 20241 hr 13 min

SYNT: Alignment Shenanigans, Villainous Realities, and a Disastrous Birthday

This week on See You Next Tuesday, buckle up for a chaotic ride! Melisa needs your help! Dive into the world of Dungeons & Dragons as she enlists listeners to determine her character's true alignment. Will she be a lawful good paladin, a chaotic neutral trickster, or something in between? Meghan takes center stage with a deep dive into the drama and intrigue of the reality show "House of Villains." Get ready for hot takes, insightful analysis, and maybe even a few predictions. Switching gear...

Feb 27, 202458 min

DBM: One-Upping Trauma

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: Karaoke Stalker Find a hobby Friend is constantly lying Parent try to set you up Letting your kids go to sleepovers Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @meghanandmelisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Cura...

Feb 26, 202459 min

FF: But Am I Wrong? Results - Scaring Straight Men

Meghan and Melisa discuss the results from But Am I Wrong: Scaring Straight Men then talk about MonopolyGo. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 23, 202433 min

BAIW: Not Inviting Brother's Girlfriend on Vacation

But Am I Wrong: Meghan - Lying For Sport Melisa - Country Music is For Black People But Are You Wrong: Inviting everyone but your brother's girlfriend on family vacation Girlfriend is on Bumble Dating But Are They Wrong Julia Ernst Charlotte Cowles Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme F...

Feb 22, 20241 hr 27 min

SYNT: Thank you Beyoncé, Thank you Usher, Thank you Tony Hale

Yeehaw, honey! Saddle up for a rootin' tootin' good time with the latest episode of your favorite podcast. This week, the gals are serving up a Texas-sized platter of pop culture goodness: ** Queen Bey Rides In:** Dive into the twangy tunes of Beyoncé's new album, "This Ain't Texas, You Can't Hold 'Em." Can she pull off country music royalty? Is this a long-lost Chicks collab? Get ready to two-step to the answers! ** Psychic Sisters?** Meghan and Melisa unleash their inner fortune tellers with w...

Feb 20, 202452 min

DBM: Failed Valentine's Date

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: Friend isn't giving the same energy Husband was too tired to celebrate Valentine's Day Racist co-worker friend Girlfriend is extra clingy Family wants you to give up your dream Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @meghanandmelisa https://www.in...

Feb 19, 20241 hr 31 min

FF: Musical Mayhem and Marvelous Love Stories

It's party time on this episode as we celebrate Melisa's birthday! Join the dynamic duo as they: Review Melisa's nephew's theatrical debut: Drama on and off the stage? Dive into the world of musicals: Wicked whispers and beyond! Discuss Halle Bailey's baby news: Keeping it real in Hollywood. Dream up Meghan's movie musical masterpiece: What show will she bring to life on the silver screen? Finally unleash their "The Marvels" love fest: Carol and Maria, unite! Get ready for laughs, gossip, and a ...

Feb 16, 20241 hr

REPLAY: Dad Cheated with An Online Lover

Original Air Date: August 4, 2022 For But Am I Wrong Meghan thinks that Trader Joe's is overrated Melisa wants the executives at Klondike that discontinued the Choco Taco should be fired In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Feeling guilty for quitting your job while your husband still works Not inviting your father to your wedding because he cheated on your mom with a woman online And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate Meghan nom...

Feb 15, 20241 hr 16 min

SYNT: Movie Mayhem, Musical Musings, and a Miley Cyrus Vindication?

This week, Meghan dives deep into her latest movie marathon, sharing her hilarious (and slightly traumatic) experience with "Argyle." Then, the hosts dissect the internet's surprise over Keke Palmer's podcast guest: Bobbi Althoff. But that's not all! The Grammy Awards take center stage as they rave about Jay-Z's powerful speech, shower Victoria Monet with well-deserved praise, and celebrate Melisa's long-held belief in Miley Cyrus' talent (turns out, she was right!). Plus, Meghan throws in some ...

Feb 13, 202458 min

DBM: My Friend Thinks I'm Flirting With Her

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: Telling your mom that your dad is cheating Friends think I flirt with everyone Uncle wants to talk about my dad Don't Blame Them: -- Diet talk in the work place -- Not able to pass a test Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @meghanandmelisa htt...

Feb 12, 202446 min

REPLAY: Peed on Dorm Floor

For But Am I Wrong Melisa: Farts shouldn't be taboo Meghan: White Americans are hypocritical when it comes to their proposed ally ship with Black Lives Matter and systemic racism shown by their obsession and praise of the monarchy. In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Not being attracted to your partner Boyfriend won't go to soccer game with you in honor of your brother Participating in coworker gift exchanges Urinary incontinence And in But Are They Wron...

Feb 08, 20241 hr 20 min

SYNT: This Is Us… Now: A Story of Friendship

Join Meghan and Melisa as they spill the tea on their latest adventures! ️ Meghan: Is Hollywood calling? Meghan recounts the highs and lows of the audition circuit, leaving you wondering… Did she land the role? Melisa: Manifesting her dreams! Melisa takes us on a trip to a vision board party, revealing her wildest aspirations and inspiring you to create your own! ✨ Both: Dive into the deep end! Meghan and Melisa announce their plans to conquer their fear of water and take swim lessons together. ...

Feb 06, 202442 min

REPLAY: Lily Marston - He Showed Me His Sex Tape

Lily Marston is here once more! We’re answering your questions on what to do if your co-workers ignore you, anxiety while dating, knowing if a guy is into you, and handling your roommate’s smelly, creepy boyfriend. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares their advice on having confidence while giving a blow job. Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @lily_marston www.instagram.com/lily_marston @dontblamemepod www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/she...

Feb 05, 20241 hr 3 min

BAIW: Scaring Straight Men

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: America is Racist Meghan: Not Everything is For You But Are You Wrong: In-Laws Coming Over Whenever Verbally Fighting with Men But Are They Wrong Abrazo Homes Pastor Eli Regalado Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan....

Feb 01, 20241 hr 5 min

DBM: Getting Your Sister Out of a Bad Relationship

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update Coworkers telling you you're making excuses (December 26, 2023) Buying an expensive bag Sharing Chores Leaving a co-worker out of a friend group Sister is in a toxic relationship Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @meghanandmelisa https://www.i...

Jan 29, 20241 hr 14 min
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