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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Montswww.dontblameme.show
Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa D. Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while. It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more.  On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.” Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation.  On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well.  Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions. They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.

Episodes

DBM CLASSIC: Numb Mouth

Original Air Date: July 8, 2019 This week we’re answering your questions on what to do if your boyfriend doesn’t want to hang out with you family, negotiating your sugar baby status, returning to normalcy after a break up, and having compassion for your sociopath brother. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on being scared that you’re going to get pregnant. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 05, 20251 hr 17 min

BAIW CLASSIC: Didn't Tell Boss Our Co-Worker Was Pregnant

Original Air Date: September 8, 2022 For But Am I Wrong Melisa: Behind every trend is a PR company Meghan: Faking mental illness is a mental illness In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Not disclosing personal information about a co-worker Boyfriend wanting to see his friend and not you And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate Melisa nominates Mary Znidarsic-Nicosia, Nicholas Nicosia and their racist Juneteenth party Meghan nominat...

Jun 03, 20251 hr 18 min

BAIW CLASSIC: He Said My Dead Cat Was Not Cute

Original Air Date: September 1, 2022 For But Am I Wrong Meghan: People thinking negatively on others that don't read Melisa: Sending emails to people who want to collaborate but don't research our shows In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Boyfriend who doesn't care about your dead pet Changing your mind about having kids And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate Meghan nominates Governor who vetoed supervised injection sites Melisa...

Jun 02, 20251 hr 35 min

DBM: Meet The Parents

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Plane anxiety Making mistakes at work Rekindling a friendship Doubts about a new relationship Buy Our Merch ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (300 words or less) Follow Us! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/meghanandmelisa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @meghanrienks ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/meghanrienks⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/meghanrienks⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @sheisnotmelissa ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.c...

May 29, 20251 hr 8 min

SYNT: Unethical Patient Posting

Meghan and Melisa share the results of But Am I Wrong: Unethical Patient Posting. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - [email protected] DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form...

May 27, 202550 min

BAIW: Regifted PR

But Am I Wrong: Meghan - Do not let a man embarrass you Melisa - Implement International Deadbeat Parent Shaming Day But Are You Wrong: Receiving leftovers as a gift Rant on dressing up But Are They Wrong: Meghan - Guy Edward Barkus Melisa - xAI, Mayor Paul Young, Mayor Lee Harris Write In: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Buy Our Merch: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-...

May 26, 20251 hr 9 min

FF: Too Hot for But Am I Wrong

This week, Meghan shares a sad recap of her chaotic morning. Melisa serves up a "non-but-am-I-wrong" hot take on graduations. She also recounts sitting through a tornado watch with her parents. Later, Meghan asks Melisa to recount a hilarious story abuot her dad. Plus, Meghan's found a new movie to replace "Game Night" and finally started watching Melisa's recommendation: Poker Face. Finally, Melisa questions Meghan's love for Michael B. Jordan. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone....

May 23, 20251 hr 1 min

DBM: My Boyfriend is Hitting on my Friend?

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Selling vinyl records Having more pleasurable sex Quitting drinking Friend thinks my boyfriend is lying Don't Blame Them: Unsure what to do with life Buy Our Merch ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠⁠⁠⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠ (300 words or less) Follow Us! ⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/meghanandmelisa⁠⁠⁠⁠ @meghanrienks ⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/meghanrienks⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/megh...

May 22, 202558 min

SYNT: Locking Down Your Situationship

Meghan and Melisa share the results from Don't Blame Me: Locking Down Your Situationship Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - [email protected] DBM Submission Form BAIW Submissi...

May 20, 202547 min

BAIW: Unethical Patient Posting

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Proposes a new agency to take down the monsters in our society Meghan: Playing on insecurities is a terrible way to promote your business But Are You Wrong: Their surgery being moved for cancer patients Coworkers posting patients But Are They Wrong: Melisa: John Reilly Meghan: Sophia Culpo Write In: ⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠ Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Buy Our Merch: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://store.dftba....

May 19, 20251 hr 2 min

FF: She's A Runner She's A Track Star

Melisa's reporting live from Arkansas, still dreaming about a mouthwatering burger from Angus Jacks. Meanwhile, Meghan's battling a painful UTI. But fear not, Melisa comes prepared with essential tips on how to stay hydrated and not get a UTI. Meghan shares info on random articles written about Romy Mars and Romy’s pop career. Then they discuss the viral "100 Brits vs 100 Americans" TikTok debate, which raises the question: Why are Brits so obsessed with us? And Meghan makes another passionate p...

May 16, 202556 min

DBM: White Lies

Content Warning: #2 - Child Loss and #3 - Abortion This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Lying partner Honoring your friend's child Support during an abortion Don't Blame Them - Finish work quickly Update - Regretting not moving for college Buy Our Merch ⁠⁠⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠⁠⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠ (300 words or less) Follow Us! ⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/meghanandmelisa⁠⁠⁠ @meghanrienks ⁠⁠⁠instagram.com...

May 15, 202556 min

SYNT: My Sister is Cheating on Our Cousin + Met Gala Review

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Sister is Cheating on Our Cousin. Then they do their annual Met Gala Review. Vogue Best Dressed Reddit Best Dressed Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or ...

May 13, 20251 hr 3 min

BAIW: Locking Down Your Situationship

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Getting Your Sibling's Name Tattooed on Your Body Melisa: AI Ruining Business But Are You Wrong: Big Egg rant Asking someone your dating to be exclusive But Are They Wrong: Meghan: Syd Towle Snark Members Melisa: Liberty Hotel Write In: ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠ Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/⁠⁠⁠ Buy Our Merch: ⁠⁠⁠https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me⁠⁠⁠ Join Our Patreon: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.pa...

May 12, 20251 hr 20 min

FF: WE SAW Cowboy Carter and The Rodeo Chitlin' Circuit

Giddy Up, Giddy Up! Hold onto your chaps, BeyHive. Meghan and Melisa just left the "Cowboy Carter and the Rodeo Chitlin' Circuit Tour," and these TYRANTS share what they witnessed. Join them as they raise II HANDS II HEAVEN and unpack every breathtaking moment from Beyoncé Giselle Knowles-Carter's latest global spectacle. From the groundbreaking fusion of country, Black history, and pure artistry to the overwhelming emotions it stirred, prepare for what might just be Beyoncé's most impactful tou...

May 09, 20251 hr 1 min

DBM: Never Had Sex With Your Partner

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Flip-flopping in a relationship Splitting items with your roommates Talking for 2 years Birthday drama Buy Our Merch ⁠⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠ (300 words or less) Follow Us! ⁠⁠instagram.com/meghanandmelisa⁠⁠ @meghanrienks ⁠⁠instagram.com/meghanrienks⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://twitter.com/meghanrienks⁠⁠ @sheisnotmelissa ⁠⁠instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa⁠⁠ ⁠⁠i...

May 08, 20251 hr 5 min

SYNT: This Lady

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: This Lad. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - [email protected] DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! ins...

May 06, 202540 min

BAIW: My Sister is Cheating on Our Cousin

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Sperm Race Fraud Meghan: No Issue With Jordon Hudson But Are You Wrong: Kissing cousins Twin bond But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Julia and Fred Ramos Meghan: Kate Mackz Write In: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠ Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/⁠⁠ Buy Our Merch: ⁠⁠https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me⁠⁠ Join Our Patreon: ⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme⁠⁠ Buy Our Merch ⁠⁠https://crowdmade.com/collec...

May 05, 20251 hr 19 min

FF: Ziwe For President

Meghan and Melisa attended Ziwe's hilarious and thought-provoking and they had a good ass time! Speaking of good times, Melisa finally caved and watched "Grosse Pointe Garden Society," much to Meghan's enthusiastic "I told you so!" Meghan is finalizing her perfect "Cowboy Carter" outfi. Meanwhile, Melisa's been spreading joy by letting people taste her biscuits. Melisa caught a Dodgers game against the Pittsburgh Pirates. Finally they dive into a less glamorous but very real Los Angeles issue: t...

May 02, 20251 hr 1 min

DBM: Upgrading My Friends

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Former friend calling your partner Regretting not moving for college Having a very chill dating situation Friends can't accept the new you Buy Our Merch ⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠[email protected]⁠ (300 words or less) Follow Us! ⁠instagram.com/meghanandmelisa⁠ @meghanrienks ⁠instagram.com/meghanrienks⁠ ⁠https://twitter.com/meghanrienks⁠ @sheisnotmelissa ⁠instagram....

May 01, 202552 min

SYNT: Just The Tip - An Embarrassing Blast Off Into Space

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Just The Tip - An Embarrassing Blast Off Into Space Follow Us: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unhingedandimmoralpod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unhingedandimmoralpod/ Patreon: patreon.com/UnhingedandImmoralPod This has been a Diamond MPrint Production Hosted by Jamila Bell and Mecca Evans Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production Sound by Coco Llorens Graphics by Claudia Choi Music By Audy and Brooklyn Billionairez Learn more a...

Apr 29, 202548 min

BAIW: This Lady

Content Warning for Melisa BAIW: Sexual Assault and Rape But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Nail Polish Without Acetone Melisa: If you’re having sex with someone young enough to be you’re daughter, even though they are legal (barely), it’s still assault But Are You Wrong: Not being referred to by your name by your partner Lending Money But Are They Wrong: Meghan: Mark Measures Melisa: Latrance Battle Write In: ⁠[email protected]⁠ Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram ⁠https://www.instagram....

Apr 28, 20251 hr 11 min

FF: Pregnant By A Hood Alien

Ever tried to introduce someone who just wasn't having it? Meghan experiences it firsthand this episode when Melisa seemingly ignores her attempt to connect her with Quan Millz. We dive into Melisa's week, including her spoiler-free thoughts on Ryan Coogler's "Sinners," and Meghan's audition results (or lack thereof). But spirits lift as they both gear up to be OUTSIDE next week! However, disagreement brews over Melisa's track meet clashing with the Cowboy Carter concert– Meghan thinks it's a wi...

Apr 25, 20251 hr 4 min

DBM: Nude Beach FOMO

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Not happy at new job Too pale for the beach An exhausting "friend" Bringing toys to the bedroom Update: Movie photography job Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa inst...

Apr 24, 20251 hr

SYNT: Get My Boyfriend Out of My House

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Get My Boyfriend Out My House. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 22, 202554 min

BAIW: Just The Tip - An Embarrassing Blast Off Into Space

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: If just the tip still virgin, then just the tip of space does not make you an austornaut Meghan: Going to space is embarrassing But Are You Wrong: Doesn't want mom to get a gun Should have got a heads up from their situationship But Are They Wrong: Melisa - Mayor Dan Rodrick Meghan - Elon Musk Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/...

Apr 21, 20251 hr 18 min

FF: Your Spring TV/Movie Recs

What's with Meghan and the salt shaker this week?! While she's busy seasoning, Melisa makes the tough call to miss The Hunger Games livestream for her friend Samantha's film "Marshmallow". Meghan has finally watched "One of Them Days" (Netflix), so she and Melisa can FINALLY talk about it! Melisa also breaks down her love/hate relationship with the ending of Netflix's "The Residence," gushes over "Survival of the Thickest." Meghan's been busy with NBC's "Grosse Point Garden Society" and Amazon P...

Apr 18, 20251 hr 7 min

DBM: My Friend is A Leech

Content Warning: Don't Blame Them - Weight Loss This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Work friend having feelings for you Friend making plans on your behalf Announcing you don't want to have sex with your friend Having a crush on your lab partner Don't Blame Them: Weight loss due to health issues Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghana...

Apr 17, 202554 min

SYNT: Calling The Police

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Calling The Police Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - [email protected] DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa in...

Apr 15, 202540 min

BAIW: Get My Boyfriend Out of My House

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Clayton Echard Melisa: Protest should be a little scary But Are You Wrong: Turned off by my man's past escapades Tired of waking up next to your boyfriend But Are They Wrong: Meghan: J. K. Rowling Melisa: Kiss of Life Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our ...

Apr 14, 20251 hr 13 min
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