Episode 127: You Can't Submit and Stay in Charge at the Same Time Download the free guided meditation mentioned in this episode: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/offers/aZEToAu5 Links Mentioned in This Episode: Lovense toys (affiliate): https://www.lovense.com/r/c5fglq Submissive Foundations: https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations One of the most common questions Andrew hears from women: how do I feel submissive when my life requires me to be in control? This episode is the honest a...
Apr 06, 2026•39 min
Get all of Andrew's free guides, training, and resources at: infinitedevotion.com/free-resources Most episodes of Dom Sub Devotion lean into what's possible. This one goes somewhere different. After years of coaching and deep observation, Andrew has watched D/s dynamics fail in ways that were painful, patterns, and in many cases, preventable. In this episode, he shares nine of the most important lessons he's learned from dynamics and relationships that didn't make it, including some that Dawn an...
Mar 30, 2026•54 min
Episode 125: What It's Really Like Inside a 24/7 Dom/Sub Marriage - Q&A with a Dom Seven years inside a 24/7 Dom/sub dynamic. Fifteen years of marriage. And for the first time, Andrew opens up about the actual texture of his and Dawn's life together, not the teaching, not the framework, just the reality. This is a listener Q&A episode unlike the ones that came before it. No advice-giving. No problem-solving. Just a look inside the life. The podcast shows you what these dynamics can look ...
Mar 23, 2026•53 min
Eternity Collars: Dawn has worn her titanium Eternity Collar since the very beginning of our dynamic. Over 7 years around her neck. This is the company we trust and use exclusively for Dawn's collars. Get a discount using our code "DEVOTION" at checkout. Click here to shop Eternity Collars Most people enter Dominant submissive dynamics carrying codependent patterns they don't even know they have. And the hard truth is that D/s doesn't dissolve those patterns. It amplifies them, because the struc...
Mar 16, 2026•48 min
In this first ever listener interview on Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew sits down with Robert, a longtime follower and friend who has spent decades building genuine masculine strength across martial arts, competitive racing, and breath work. And still found himself completely disarmed the moment a woman got emotional. Nearly 40 years of martial arts training under the same Korean master, and what it actually builds in a man Why physical competency short-circuits the lizard brain stress response even i...
Mar 09, 2026•1 hr 4 min
Episode 122: Sovereign Desire: How Men Build Magnetic Power Most men are terrified of desire because unfulfilled wanting feels like weakness. So they either suppress what they want or chase after everything they can get, becoming slaves to their appetite in the process. This episode reveals why a Dominant man's power comes from his ability to hold desire without being controlled by it. Why wanting without needing is the foundation of masculine magnetism. And why the space between desire and fulf...
Mar 02, 2026•42 min
Most women kill their own desire by trying to fulfill it too quickly. They move from wanting to getting, from emptiness to fullness, and wonder why they feel numb, exhausted, and burned out. This episode explores why feminine desire is meant to be held, not fulfilled. Why wanting itself is the point. And how the space between desire and having is where your aliveness, magnetism, and capacity to receive actually lives. You'll learn: Why you can't want what you already have (and what this means fo...
Feb 23, 2026•42 min
Most people think the death of desire in long-term relationships is inevitable. But what if that's just resignation dressed up as wisdom? In this live episode, Andrew breaks down why Infinite Devotion isn't really about dominance and submission. It's about something much deeper: learning to integrate love and power so you can have both intimacy and intensity in the same relationship. What You'll Learn: The two paths that don't work: power without love, and love without power Why everyone has bee...
Feb 16, 2026•50 min
Episode 119: Still Learning: How My Teachings Have Evolved Through Lived Experience After seven years of living in a 24/7 DOM/sub dynamic and several years of teaching, Andrew shares how his understanding of the concepts he teaches has deepened and evolved. Growth means being willing to reconsider what you thought you knew, and in this episode, Andrew opens up about the nuances he's discovered through lived experience. In this episode, Andrew explores: Masculine Emotion: Why letting her see you ...
Feb 09, 2026•57 min
Resources: Get all of Andrew's free guides, training, and resources at: infinitedevotion.com/free-resources Ready to go deeper? Explore our blog, courses, and coaching at https://InfiniteDevotion.com Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/_InfiniteDevotion Subscribe to our OnlyFans for exclusive content: https://dawnofdesire.net SHOW NOTES: Dr. Robert Glover's "No More Mr. Nice Guy" is one of the most important books in men's development, but most men completely miss how Nice Guy patterns...
Feb 02, 2026•1 hr 5 min
Most couples try to build a 24/7 D/s dynamic by devoting a few hours per week to scenes and protocols. Then they wonder why the dynamic keeps falling apart when "real life" takes over. The problem? You're running two different operating systems. One for D/s time, and one for everything else. And thats why it feels like life is working against your D/s. Because you’re trying to live two completely different lives. In this episode, I break down: Why compartmentalization suffocates your dynamic Wha...
Jan 26, 2026•1 hr 1 min
Let me ask you directly: are you strong enough to be a dominant? Not strong enough to tell her what to do. Strong enough to actually lead her. Because real strength isn't about being unmoved by emotion. It's about being able to handle emotion without shutting down, without running away, without needing it to stop. And if you can't do that, you're not strong enough. Not yet. In this episode, I challenge the lie that dominance requires emotional armor. I break down why that version of "strength" i...
Jan 19, 2026•1 hr 3 min
You're bringing D/s into your relationship, and you have no idea where to start. Or maybe you've been trying to make this work and something just isn't clicking. This episode covers the ten most important things I've learned in seven years of living a 24/7 D/s dynamic and five years of coaching thousands of people through this transition. These aren't theories. This is what actually works when you're building dominance and submission into a real relationship with real responsibilities and real c...
Jan 12, 2026•50 min
Dawn is back to kick off 2026! In this Q&A episode, we answer your questions about building trust in D/s dynamics, navigating vanilla decisions as a submissive, becoming more sexually open, and what to do when your dominant loses his edge. Links mentioned in this episode: Eternity Collars is where we get almost all of Dawn's submissive collars from. It's what she's worn every day as her day collar for over 7 years now, and they have always impressed us with quality and service! Use code DEVO...
Jan 05, 2026•1 hr 7 min
Episode Summary Episode 113: The Final Dom Sub Devotion (of 2025) In this special year-end episode, Andrew and Dawn reflect on a transformative 2025. After 113 consecutive weeks of podcasting, Andrew announces a December break to recharge before returning in January, stronger than ever. This isn't a typical recap episode. It's an honest look at what building a business from lived experience actually requires, the curriculum life puts you through before you're ready to teach, and what happens whe...
Nov 24, 2025•1 hr 3 min
Episode Summary In this raw, unscripted episode, Andrew tackles the toughest questions from Instagram followers—covering everything from spirituality and authenticity to jealousy, commitment, and what real dominance actually looks like. Topics Covered: What "divine" really means (and why spirituality doesn't have to be serious) Why commitment to one person can make you a better man—and the difference between polyamory and avoidance The truth about dominance: why jealousy and possessiveness are s...
Nov 17, 2025•1 hr 7 min
Episode Summary In this powerful episode, Andrew tackles the aspects of polarized relationships that most people don't expect—and aren't prepared for. While many are drawn to dominant-submissive dynamics for the intensity and passion they create, few understand that these relationships are designed for transformation, not comfort. Andrew explores why truly polarized relationships feel threatening to the ego, how they amplify both light and shadow, and why the version of yourself you are now will...
Nov 10, 2025•56 min
In this deeply personal episode, Andrew pulls back the curtain on the daily practices and intentional habits that create the foundation for his dominance. This isn't about what he does TO Dawn—it's about what he does WITH himself that makes their dynamic work. Key Topics Covered: The Power of "No" - How protecting time and energy became the foundation for everything else (10 years of building freedom from a single day of quitting) The Sacred Morning Routine - Waking at 5 AM not to grind, but to ...
Nov 03, 2025•50 min
In this episode, Andrew speaks directly to one of the deepest sources of pain in the BDSM and power-exchange community: the instinct to hide. He explores how secrecy masquerades as safety, how it keeps shame alive, and how the simple act of being seen becomes an act of leadership. Drawing from five and a half years of living and teaching dominance and submission in real life and online, Andrew unpacks: • The childhood roots of hiding. How we learn early that approval is safer than authenticity—a...
Oct 27, 2025•1 hr 1 min
Episode 108: Why Won't She Just Let Go? Episode Summary In this companion episode to "Why Won't He Just Lead?", Andrew explores the genuine challenges women face when trying to surrender and submit—even when they desperately want to. This isn't about a woman's willingness; it's about her nervous system's ability to feel safe enough to let go of the protective control patterns that have kept her safe. Key Takeaways Understanding Her Resistance as Feedback Her resistance isn't defiance or rejectio...
Oct 20, 2025•1 hr 7 min
This episode aims to help women have some compassion for the challenges that men face stepping forward in their lives and relationships. And, I show why his leadership is not missing because he’s lazy or because he doesn’t care…it’s missing because he’s conflicted and afraid. You’ll get: • The mirrored fears behind his hesitation and her exhaustion • Why performance leadership falls flat and what embodied leadership feels like • How to invite direction without pressure and stay soft without coll...
Oct 13, 2025•55 min
In this episode, Andrew shares ten ways he’s learned to create a sense of calm, safety, and freedom in his submissive. Not through control or tactics, but through who he is. Early in his journey, Andrew thought being a Dom meant he could finally get what he wanted: peace, obedience, and ease. What he discovered instead was that no woman relaxes because she’s told to. She relaxes because the man she’s with is safe in himself. This episode explores how to stop managing your partner’s emotions and ...
Oct 06, 2025•1 hr 9 min
In this special livestream edition of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew and Dawn go live with the audience for an “Ask Dawn Anything” session. For the first time in quite a while on the podcast, listeners get to hear Dawn answer your most personal questions about life inside their 24/7 D/s marriage, from sex and submission to everyday “normal” moments and how she’s grown into her sexuality. This episode is part intimate conversation, part coaching, and part behind-the-scenes look at how their dynamic act...
Sep 29, 2025•1 hr 6 min
Devotion is not discipline, loyalty, passion, or even commitment. It’s an orientation of being that is irrevocable and unconditional—chosen from love, not forced by fear. In this solo episode, Andrew dismantles the common counterfeits of devotion, explains why self-devotion must come first, and shows how two people who choose true devotion create a container where love deepens, desire grows, and evolution is permissioned—not policed. What you’ll learn • Devotion defined: Not what you do, but who...
Sep 22, 2025•1 hr 7 min
Andrew is joined by his longtime friend and former co-host Eric (Conscious Dominance → now DSRX) for a candid, high-signal conversation about what long-term devotion actually looks like in a D/s relationship. They trace the arc from weekly podcasting accountability to the deeper craft of polarity: owning your desires, simplifying your life so love can lead, and learning to read and steer feminine energy without shrinking it. Eric shares what changed after a serious shoulder injury, why downsizin...
Sep 15, 2025•1 hr 3 min
Communion 2025 is open for enrollments, where we show you real life examples of what it takes to live your life from your feminine energy. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/communion2025 In this episode, Andrew speaks directly to women about the truth of feminine energy—and why so many feel exhausted, burnt out, or disconnected from their natural state. He unpacks common misconceptions, exposes the trap of “performative femininity,” and explains why most women today live in an inverted ...
Sep 08, 2025•48 min
Most men think dominance means force. They bark orders, tighten control, or push until she submits. But that kind of control only creates compliance, not devotion. In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, I share why true dominance doesn’t come from pressure or intimidation, but from presence. Your ability to be steady, grounded, and unshakable in yourself. Over the course of this hour, you’ll learn: • Why force erodes trust while presence builds it. • How to become a man whose energy shapes the roo...
Sep 01, 2025•1 hr 3 min
Dawn rejoins Andrew to celebrate 100 Episodes! Two years ago we launched this podcast with a simple vision: to share our real life as a Dom/sub couple beyond the limitations of short captions and quick clips on social media. Week after week, we’ve opened our lives, our marriage, and our devotion. Today, Episode 100 is a celebration, and a reintroduction. In this conversation, we revisit the heart of Infinite Devotion: • Who we are as a couple, and how our 24/7 D/s dynamic has shaped us. • What w...
Aug 25, 2025•1 hr 12 min
Fear is the single most corrosive force in any Dominant/submissive dynamic. It distorts truth, poisons consent, and quietly turns devotion into performance or control. In this episode, I break down how fear shows up for both Dominants and submissives, how even fears outside the relationship bleed into your dynamic, and why no amount of technique or protocol can save a power exchange that’s built on fear. We’ll look at: • The subtle ways fear masquerades as love, responsibility, or boundaries • H...
Aug 18, 2025•58 min
Most people are living by rules they never wrote. Rules about what love should look like. Rules about what makes you a “good person.” Rules about success, morality, sex, and identity. Most of those rules were handed to you by someone else. Parents. Culture. Religion. People who didn’t even live by those rules themselves. But you’ve built your life on them without ever asking if they’re actually yours. That’s what this conversation is about: questioning everything. Not to rebel. Not to burn your ...
Aug 11, 2025•51 min
