"One person can't fix the relationship alone." Dr. Emily Jamea In this engaging conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz speaks with Dr. Emily Jamea, a sex and relationship therapist, about the intricacies of intimacy, the importance of planning sexual encounters, and the challenges women face in maintaining desire amidst the demands of modern life. Dr. Jamea shares insights from her new book, 'Anatomy of Desire,' and discusses the concept of flow state in sexual experiences, the impact of technology on i...
Nov 05, 2024•28 min
"Life is short; have an affair." ~ Ashely Madison Website I'm uncertain about this tagline and the concept of a "dating site for married people," but it's important to hear other people's perspectives on Doing Relationships Right! So, here we go! People like you join the Ashley Madison® network daily to find discreet relationships. Married, attached, looking to explore, or just curious to discover what's out there – Ashley Madison is the world's leading discreet, like-minded dating community. In...
Oct 29, 2024•45 min
Is EGG FREEZING right for you? In this engaging conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Beth Gulotta, a licensed mental health counselor and host of the podcast 'Quiet the Clock.' They discuss Beth's journey from finance to mental health, the societal pressures surrounding relationships and parenthood, and the importance of egg freezing. Beth shares her experiences with egg freezing, its emotional weight, and the significance of being ready for major life decisions. The conversation also touch...
Oct 22, 2024•37 min
"The greatest legacy is love." ~Dr. Kimberly Harms We all know the importance of life insurance to make certain our loved ones are financially secure after we pass on, but what can we do to ensure they are emotionally secure without us? Dr. Kimberly Harms has been around the block in life! She has served as a Commissioned Officer in the United States Public Health Service, a dental school professor, a grief counselor, a clinical dentist and practice owner with her late husband Jim in Farmington,...
Oct 15, 2024•32 min
In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz reflects on her life as she turns 52, sharing valuable lessons she wishes she had known earlier. From self-care tips like wearing sunscreen and using Retin-A to the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing mental health, Jennifer emphasizes the significance of personal growth and self-love. She also discusses the impact of alcohol on health, the necessity of dental care, and the value of travel and experiences in shaping one's identity. The episode conc...
Oct 04, 2024•18 min
Looking for Coconu? Here you go! Just use my code MS15 to get 15% off your first order! https://discovercoconu.com/shop.php In this episode, Jennifer and Jim discuss the complexities of menopause and its impact on relationships. They explore various symptoms of menopause, such as hot flashes and mood swings, and emphasize the importance of communication and support between partners. The conversation highlights the emotional and physical changes during menopause and offers practical advice for ma...
Oct 04, 2024•26 min
"We have to go in there and find out what the core wounds are associated with the trauma and recondition those ideas about ourselves." ~Thais Gibson In this conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Thais Gibson, a counselor and co-founder of The Personal Development School. They discuss topics such as shadow work and attachment styles. Shadow work explores and integrates the parts of ourselves that we try to deny or hide. It involves identifying triggers and examining the root causes of our rea...
Oct 01, 2024•51 min
"You need to know if you like the human being. How you feel with them, if they are good, you can work on the rest later. If you don't like the human being, I don't care how they feel. It means nothing." ~ Aleeza Ben Shalom Aleeza Ben Shalom is a renowned matchmaker, dating coach, speaker, and soulmate clarity expert who empowers marriage-minded singles to find The One. As a dating coach, Aleeza works with people of all backgrounds. Her impressive track record has earned her the title of “Jewish ...
Sep 24, 2024•35 min
In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz discusses dating during midlife and provides tips for navigating the modern dating scene. She emphasizes the importance of being authentic, confident, and patient while dating. Jennifer also encourages daters to be open-minded and to use technology effectively. She reminds listeners to stay positive and not settle for perfection. Overall, she highlights the rewards and challenges of dating over 50 and offers her services as a dating coach. Takeaways Dating durin...
Sep 19, 2024•22 min
If a financial counselor and a personal organizer decided to create the perfect "lab love child," it would be Nikki Tucker! She's a mom and financial professional who firmly believes all women deserve financial security. Going through a separation or divorce is hard enough. When a woman’s economic security is threatened, the stress can become overwhelming. Nikki’s goal is to help women feel confident, inspired, and ready to take control of their financial futures during one of the most challengi...
Sep 17, 2024•34 min
Is texting another person when you're in a relationship cheating? In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz discusses whether texting someone while in a relationship is considered cheating. She believes that if you are doing something you can't share with your partner, it is cheating. She shares her experience texting her ex and how it started to feel wrong. Jennifer also talks about poaching, where someone reaches out to a person in a relationship and tries to undermine it. She provides examples of whe...
Sep 12, 2024•13 min
"Acknowledge and notice the times when you didn't listen to your intuition and learn from those experiences." ~ Colby Rebel Colby Rebel is an award-winning International Celebrity Psychic Medium, best-selling author, and host of the acclaimed Colby Rebel Show podcast. Her unmatched accuracy and precise guidance have made her the go-to confidante of Hollywood’s elite, serving a roster of celebrity and influencer clients. Colby’s unique no-tools approach emphasizes her authenticity and natural gif...
Sep 10, 2024•30 min
In this episode, host Jennifer Hurvitz interviews private investigators Bari Kroll and Jennifer Rosant about infidelity and cheating in relationships. They discuss the prevalence of cheating, the role of social media in infidelity, and the different types of cheating. The private investigators also share their stories of getting into the business and explain the process of hiring a PI. They emphasize the importance of trust and communication in relationships and offer advice for those who suspec...
Sep 06, 2024•46 min
In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz shares the best relationship advice she has ever heard and uses when coaching. She emphasizes the importance of saying goodbye and hello to your loved ones, learning how to communicate effectively, understanding attachment styles and love languages, and watching your tone. She also discusses the benefits of sharing household and child-rearing duties, finding levity in the relationship, taking turns in emotional support, prioritizing mental and physical health, p...
Sep 05, 2024•18 min
In this episode of Doing Relationships Right, we dive deep into sober dating. Whether you're newly sober or have been sober for years, dating can present unique challenges and opportunities. I’m thrilled to have my guest, Holly Walsh, a Positive Psychology and Alcohol-Free Coach. Holly is a positive psychology and alcohol-free coach and will host wellness retreats starting in 2025. She has been sober for almost one year and will be launching a sober dating app so that people can go on dates with...
Sep 04, 2024•27 min
Jennifer Hurvitz returns with a new season of Doing Relationships Right! She's got BIG NEWS to share! She briefly updates her life and introduces her new gig as a relationship guest expert on Charlotte Today. Jennifer also mentions her courses and offers an Ask Me Anything session for those seeking dating advice. She encourages listeners to follow her on YouTube and Instagram. Jennifer is excited to be back and looks forward to connecting with her audience. Takeaways Jennifer Hurvitz is back wit...
Sep 03, 2024•10 min
If you don't already know, your attachment style, which is basically how you relate to others in your close relationships, falls into one of four categories: secure, anxious, avoidant (sometimes known as dismissive-avoidant), and disorganized (also known as fearful-avoidant). Today, we’ll focus on romantic relationships with someone with an avoidant attachment style — a discomfort with emotional closeness, a deep need for independence, and a reluctance to rely on others. Having a relationship wi...
Jul 10, 2024•37 min
Are you finding the guy but need help to get past the three-month mark? Does online dating seem frightening and way too time-consuming? Give this episode of the Doing Relationships Right podcast a listen to learn about the dating mistakes you might be making and how to fix them! Dating isn't easy. I've experienced divorce, dated, and been in numerous relationships - some good, some not so good. I've lived it, so I understand! Dating can be challenging, but it can also be amazing! 🖤💕😎 This is ...
Jun 20, 2024•19 min
We're back and better than ever- after our one year breakup, that is! Today's episode features my all-time favorite guest, Jim Healey, my best friend and partner for the last eight years. We will delve into our entire story, including what's beyond the pages of my book, Midlife Priceless, and leave no topic untouched. In this episode, we're plunging into a subject many of you have been asking about navigating the path of rekindling a relationship with your ex the right way! It's been some time s...
Jun 11, 2024•34 min
In this episode, we delve deep into gaslighting in relationships. We discuss what gaslighting is, its signs and symptoms, the psychological impact on victims, and ways to address and overcome it. Jennifer shares her personal experiences with gaslighting and how she found herself in these situations repeatedly, even in her role as a coach. Jennifer will discuss: - Definition and origins of the term "gaslighting." - Historical context and examples. Identifying Gaslighting - Common tactics used by ...
Jun 05, 2024•17 min
This episode generated a lot of buzz among my listeners back in January, so why not re-air it? Today on Doing Relationships Right, Jim Healey is back, and we're talking about "Living Apart Together" - an old trend that's getting more popular. It's something we've been doing since we met in 2017! It's been good for us, but could it work for you? Listen to our chat to hear the upsides and downsides. It's important to do what's right for your relationship. Scientific evidence suggests that living a...
May 31, 2024•33 min
It's been a couple of months, so I thought I'd bring back one of my favorite episodes about my new bestie, PERRY! Perry Menopause and all she brings to the table. UGH! If I don't laugh, I will lose my cool. Are you with me? And men, this one is for YOU, too. It's essential to understand how your partner is feeling! Menopause can affect a lot of things in a relationship - hormones go up and down, hot flashes, mood swings, and decreased libido can be challenging to deal with. It's a tough time for...
May 28, 2024•15 min
Let's get into it: Valentine's Day. Whether you love it or hate it, you can do a lot of things to make it work for you. We're diving into all of it today, so buckle up. Have any questions for us? Please feel free to DM me- remember, it's okay to try different ways of doing things! Read more about The Unblended Family, Nesting, and Living Apart Together in my books- One Happy Divorce, Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda and Midlife Priceless. You don't know what you don't know! Happy Relationships! xo j And ...
Feb 13, 2024•16 min
Let's get REAL about MENOPAUSE! The stigma around women's health during menopause can leave women feeling like they are just too old and that nobody would want to date them- not true! Prioritize your health, eat well, and look after your mind and body. Get help from a coach or therapist to support you while you learn to date again, and it can be a positive experience! Menopause can mess with a lot of things in a relationship - hormones go up and down, hot flashes happen, and the mood swings and ...
Jan 23, 2024•15 min
You ask, you get it! This week on Doing Relationships Right, Jim Healey is BACK, and we are discussing LIVING APART TOGETHER- a growing trend. And one that we have been doing since we met in 2017! It has worked for us, but can it work for YOU? Listen to our conversation and hear the pros and cons; doing what suits your relationship is essential. Scientific evidence shows that living apart may significantly strengthen a long-term relationship. Are you great partners but terrible roommates? Are yo...
Jan 16, 2024•33 min
GASLIGHTING: SIGNS & HOW TO STOP IT! I’m back with ALL NEW EPISODES of DRR! It's 2024, baby! This JUST JEN episode lights up the truth about gaslighting in the dating world. Don’t let anyone dim your shine or twist your reality. Trust your instincts, set boundaries, and keep your heart guarded- but not too closed off! Not everyone is GASLIGHTING YOU! Remember, you deserve genuine connections, not mind games. Stay true to yourself and let the right one light up your life. xoxo j Oh! And if yo...
Jan 09, 2024•17 min
Dating and not succeeding may seem frustrating. I'm here to talk to you about the common mistakes women make during the early stages of dating. xoxo j Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer hurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT! Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast Where to find me: Website: https...
Dec 19, 2023•19 min
Happy Holidays! But it may not seem as happy if you're spending it alone, maybe for the first time, or maybe for the 10th time. I'm here to talk to you about some ways to enjoy your holiday, even if it's not exactly like the ones you had before! xoxo j Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer hurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING MIDLIFE RIGHT! Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a fut...
Dec 12, 2023•18 min
Jump back to 2021, right after the pandemic shut down the world, my oldest son went off to college, and shit started getting REAL. Really. I started to take my partner for granted after being in "captivity" with him for so long during COVID-19; we were both frustrated, and I was annoyed. It's time for a wake-up call for both of us! Listen as I talk about those qualities that go overlooked in our partners, the ones that are sometimes forgotten. Right now, one of the most popular things people wan...
Dec 05, 2023•14 min
DATING AT MIDLIFE CAN BE ABSURD! I know, I've been there. But it can also be amazing! Did you know that dating during midlife can be very different from dating in your 30s? Do you need help with technology? Are you unsure about how to navigate the new "rules" or understand the latest "lingo"? No worries, I got you! I've been there, done that...and endured it all! Have you read the horror stories in my latest book, Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right ?...
Nov 28, 2023•20 min
