Beans! In this Headnoise episode, I cover everything from dealing with a friend’s cheating partner to navigating friendships drifting apart. I give some tips & advice on what I would do in these situations for anyone facing similar struggles. If you would like to send in a question email please email: info@dyfmpod.com or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @ alexisfernandezpr...
Jul 03, 2025•41 min•Season 1Ep. 428
Welcome to today's episode! I am so pumped about this episode, I talk all about breaking social media addiction and that constant phone scroll. I’ll also share the learnings of the Rat Park study by Dr. Bruce Alexander and what it teaches us about how our environment and connections impact addiction. I’ll give you some practical tips to cut down on social media and start creating your own ‘Rat Park’ - a life full of connection and limit compulsive behaviours. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow ...
Jun 29, 2025•32 min•Season 1Ep. 427
Beans! Today's episode is a head noise episode. We've got questions about breaking up a long distance, moving versus not moving, avoidant attachment style & breakups! If you would like to send in a question email please email: info@dyfmpod.com or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @ alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG F...
Jun 26, 2025•32 min•Season 1Ep. 426
I’m sharing how I tackle that overwhelming feeling of “I have so much to do but nothing’s getting done.” I walk you through how I create my to-do lists in a way that actually works. With a breakdown of soft vs. hard actions, how to tell what needs deep focus vs quick wins and how I use time-blocking to stay on track without burning out. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @ alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mind...
Jun 22, 2025•33 min•Season 1Ep. 425
It's Headnoise Friday, where I answer questions you sent in. From confronting the idea that your bestie might be a gold digger, to navigating jealousy in relationships and the sting of a lost friendship. I give you tips & practical advice on how to handle the situations. If you would like to send in a question email please email: info@dyfmpod.com or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on ...
Jun 19, 2025•40 min•Season 1Ep. 424
In this episode, I am talking about that all too familiar feeling of second guessing the good things in our lives like wondering if there's something better out there. Whether it's your relationship, job, or even a personal goal. I discuss the difference between knowing when to walk away and when you’re just not seeing the value in what you already have. I share some super practical tips and easy exercises to help you figure out what’s really going on. If you’ve ever found yourself sabotaging so...
Jun 15, 2025•44 min•Season 1Ep. 423
Guys welcome to a Headnoise episode where I answer your questions! Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to info@dyfmpod.com. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @ alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy inform...
Jun 12, 2025•32 min•Season 1Ep. 422
Guys, I after the live show I had SO MANY questions come through that I never had the chance to answer so I thought it would be good to go through some of them here on the pod. (still thousands more to go LOL) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 10, 2025•38 min•Season 1Ep. 421
In this episode, I answer listener questions on friendships, moving homes, reality TV's impact on our brains & navigating dating as a single parent. We’re talking red flags, boundaries, growth & how to protect your peace while still showing up for the people you care about. Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to info@dyfmpod.com. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @ alexisfernand...
Jun 05, 2025•34 min•Season 1Ep. 420
In today's episode, I talk about the topic of rejection and how to avoid being rejected by the same person or situation twice. I chat about building your self-worth, picking up on red flags early & protecting your energy from relationships that aren’t good for you. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @ alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order you...
Jun 01, 2025•46 min•Season 1Ep. 419
In todays Headnoise episode, I cover the topic of In-Laws (one of my most requested topics). From the self-appointed family CEO to navigating living with controlling parents I answer your questions! Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to info@dyfmpod.com. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @ alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follo...
May 29, 2025•30 min•Season 1Ep. 418
In this encore episode, I talk about those times when you’re feeling a bit off and feel like something is lacking or that you are 'not enough'. When this happens you start to feel more self critical in all areas in your life not just the one area that caused you to feel this way & this can then affect your own relationship with yourself. I go over 6 tips to start feeling like you are enough & you can start to action these today. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG F...
May 25, 2025•50 min•Season 1Ep. 417
In this encore episode, I talk about Narcissism. What actually makes someone a narcissist? And what’s the real difference between covert and overt narcissism? I break down the traits to look out for to how to actually deal with a narcissist in your life. Especially when it’s someone close, like a parent or in-law. I also answer a listener question about moving cities for a partner while still in the middle of uni. How do you know if it’s what you want, or if you’re just trying to close the dista...
May 22, 2025•51 min•Season 1Ep. 416
In this episode, we’re diving into The Alter Ego Effect by Todd Herman. I’m sharing how creating an alter ego can help you show up more confidently, get through tough stuff, & feel more in control. Whether it’s at work, the gym or just day to day life. I chat about building your own persona, little rituals to help you step into it, & how this whole idea can actually shift how you see yourself. My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your ti...
May 18, 2025•32 min•Season 1Ep. 415
In todays encore episode, I talk about how to stop keeping our focus in the past, and the importance of shifting your awareness and thoughts to the present and future so you can expand your opportunities and experiences. Brain Fact: Hemispatial Neglect My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @ alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispred...
May 15, 2025•39 min•Season 1Ep. 414
In this powerful episode, I chat with the incredible Robin Sharma , one of the world’s most widely read authors & a true expert on happiness, purpose, & self-mastery. At 25, he walked away from a successful law career, not because he had to, but because something deeper was calling. Fast forward to now: he’s one of the most widely read authors on the planet, & his mission is clear - to help people live with more joy, purpose & peace. Robin shares powerful lessons on how small shi...
May 11, 2025•59 min•Season 1Ep. 413
My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @ alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
May 08, 2025•34 min•Season 1Ep. 412
In this episode, I’m joined by none other than my sister Stefanie to unpack the mindset hacks that fuel purpose, motivation & real life satisfaction. We discuss goal setting, staying driven & doing the actual work to get where you want to be. Whether you’re in a slump or just need a mindset refresh, this one’s for you. Follow @steffernandez on IG My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow ...
May 04, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 411
In this episode, I am answering some of your biggest life questions with honest advice and a bit of tough love. We talk about getting over a breakup, staying motivated when you have too many hobbies, going back to school after a long time, and dealing with imposter syndrome. If you're feeling stuck, unsure, or just trying to figure things out, this episode has something for everyone! Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to info@dyfmpod.com. My...
May 01, 2025•34 min•Season 1Ep. 410
In this episode, we’re chatting about how to deal with difficult people in the most productive and sane manner possible. We’ll walk through ten super helpful tips - from getting clear on what you want to spotting what’s driving the other person - so you can handle tricky situations like a pro. Brain fact: How Ritalin actually works for ADHD. My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmi...
Apr 27, 2025•33 min•Season 1Ep. 409
Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to info@dyfmpod.com. My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @ alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See om...
Apr 24, 2025•37 min•Season 1Ep. 408
In today's episode, I talk about how to turn jealousy into excitement. I dive into the concept of jealousy & explore ways to transform it into an empowering feeling instead of something that takes away our power. I discuss the different types of jealousy, including relationship and generalised jealousy & give you steps on how to reframe jealousy as motivation. My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook...
Apr 20, 2025•39 min•Season 1Ep. 407
In the final episode of this 5 Day Series, I discuss how to handle daily setbacks & maintain control over your life. Setbacks are inevitable, & it's important to plan for them, accept them, & move on without spiralling. I share practical tips on reframing consistency, celebrating small wins, & using tools like the Brain Journal to track your progress. My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook ...
Apr 17, 2025•17 min
Welcome to my 5 Days to Reset & Reclaim Your Mind series! In this series, I am going be talking about research backed ideas that are going to make you feel like you can get on top of your game again. Day 4 is all about three simple steps you can start weaving into your routine - little things that are free, easy & don’t take much time, but can seriously shift your mindset. You don’t even have to do them every day - just consistently enough to feel the change. My first ever National Live ...
Apr 16, 2025•14 min
Welcome to my 5 Days to Reset & Reclaim Your Mind series! In this series, I am going be talking about research backed ideas that are going to make you feel like you can get on top of your game again. Day 3 is about how we’re fuelling the brain - emotionally, physically & chemically - to support this mental reset and boost happiness. I give you simple, daily tweaks you can make using what you already have around you. Most of it’s totally free & it can make a big difference in how you ...
Apr 15, 2025•19 min
Welcome to my 5 Days to Reset & Reclaim Your Mind series! In this series, I am going be talking about research backed ideas that are going to make you feel like you can get on top of your game again. Day 2 is about retraining our thoughts - how to rewire the brain, reconnect with what actually feels good & re-approach the way we’re working towards our goals. My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook G...
Apr 14, 2025•19 min
Welcome to my 5 Days to Reset & Reclaim Your Mind series! In this series, I am going be talking about research backed ideas that are going to make you feel like you can get on top of your game again. Day 1 is about acknowledging how to zoom out, how to regain perspective, how to kind of reassess, redirect, reprogram everything that we're working on in our life. My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook Gr...
Apr 13, 2025•21 min
Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to info@dyfmpod.com. My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @ alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See om...
Apr 10, 2025•34 min•Season 1Ep. 406
The ultimate SLEEP episode. In this episode I dive into how sleep affects your moods, alerterness, weight gain or maintenance, memory, addictive behaviours and MORE. I hope you enjoy and put these tips into practise. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Apr 06, 2025•46 min•Season 1Ep. 405
BEANS! The most ultimate life update episode! TWIN beans are entering the chat!!! Listen for the full story of how we found out, the SHOCK and everything in between! A x See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Apr 03, 2025•48 min•Season 1Ep. 404
