¶ Plant-Based Diet for Divorce Recovery
Welcome to the Divorce Rich Podcast . I'm your host , jackie Ressler . I've been a certified divorce financial analyst for 28 years , helping clients and their attorneys navigate the often complex and confusing financial issues in divorce .
If you're in the process of , or considering , divorce , now is the time for you to take a deep breath and give yourself permission to find clarity on the financial issues you're facing . Rich means many things to many people . I believe the best definition of being rich is someone who has access to many resources .
Along with my guests on this podcast , I will be bringing you a wide variety of information so that you can make sound and informed financial decisions for your financial future . Welcome back to the Divorce Rich Podcast . Today's episode is one that is very personal to me .
When I was getting divorced many years ago , I really felt out of control in my life , and one of the ways that I was able to take some control in a time that was very traumatic and difficult was by taking a look at how the foods that I put into my body impacted my energy level , my health , my weight , my migraines that I was having at the time , my
skin , everything . That was one way that I could really change and take some control over the trajectory of my life post-divorce . Our guest today is Katherine Pallard . She's an author and a nutritionist and she is here to talk about her new book , eating Does it , which is a great book .
She won the 2024 Living Well Book Award for this book and it really goes into a lot of detail about some smart and simple ways that we can take control back . This is one of those episodes that I invite you to just sit back , take a deep breath and open your mind to some new ideas . So welcome , catherine .
Thank you , Jackie . It's such a pleasure to be with you and I'm really honored to be on your podcast and meet your listening audience .
In your book you're putting forth what the benefits are of a plant-based diet . Can you explain what a plant-based diet , Can you explain what a plant-based diet is different than maybe a vegan diet ?
It really just sort of connotes eating good , eating well , eating whole plant foods . So that of course does correspond with this concept of a vegan diet . But the term plant-based diet was really invented by Dr T Colin Campbell , who is a nutritional biochemist and did the most extensive research done on proteins and its effect on the body , particularly cancer growth .
And then he also facilitated the largest population study , or one of was done back in the I think we'd say the 80s in china , called it's . It's referred to as the china park project , where he looked at the dietary patterns of rural chinese people who have been eating and staying in one place and eating like their their ancestors had for generations .
And what he found in years and years of research , both in the lab and in population studies , is that the closer to a whole food , plant-based diet , the healthier people were able to stay and avoid disease . So that's pretty dramatic and it's dramatic today .
So a plant-based diet is one that sort of connotes whole foods , whole grains , fruits , vegetables , legumes , beans , pulses and nuts and seeds , and did I say fruits in there Fruits and vegetables . And did I say fruits in there ? Fruits and vegetables .
The people I work with , Catherine , are stressed out . I don't want to overwhelm them by making things really additionally complicated for them and how they eat .
¶ Simple Plant-Based Eating Guidelines
One of the things that I really loved about your book was your four eating does it rules , which I thought were really easy and simple to try . Can you walk us through ?
those . Okay , sure , a lot of my research is really influenced with healthy diets and healthy eating patterns around the world and how that corresponds with avoiding chronic disease at a time of climate change .
And I know that a lot of my research has just been influenced by well being married to a climatologist for 37 years now and the conversations that we've had , and that there's a lot of intersection and overlap between our own personal habits and what control that we have over really big , challenging issues , in fact , the issues of our time chronic disease and
climate change . So that's what got me to the book and to writing the book , and we could certainly start with the four food rules in my book because it simplifies things . It's a travesty that just figuring out what good food is and how to keep ourselves healthy is complicated , and it's really not .
So that's why I wrote down these four food rules and let's start with them here . It is plain and simple . We've defined what whole foods , whole plant foods , are . The more whole plant foods in your diet , the better , the more you will avoid risk of disease and allow your body to heal .
So that's a very general statement that doesn't say , okay , vegan tomorrow , or else we're going to die , no Right . The more you can add these fiber-filled whole fruits and vegetables , nuts and legumes , whole grains into your regular dietary pattern , the better . So that's number one the more the better .
And the second is going along with that Don't sweat the small stuff . You're going to go to a party . You're going to celebrate grandma's birthday with a cupcake .
You're going to have a glass of wine , you know , every once in a while , whatever , whatever it is that you know is not supporting your health in terms of nutrition , it's okay until it becomes a pattern . If you're going to have a cupcake once every couple weeks , that's a little thing .
If you go to birthday parties and office parties and celebrations like this time of year and it becomes a regular thing , it's going to add up . So that's the difference Don't sweat the small stuff , don't make it into a pattern . The third one is my fave . It's eat the rainbow .
And what I refer to in terms of the rainbow , or the variety of the colorful whole plant foods that you find as close to picking it from the soil as you can , because those colors of all of the different vegetables and plant foods and white is a color I include those are the same chemical compounds as antioxidants that help clear our blood , keep our parasites
at bay and build up good bacteria both in our gut and keep our bloodstream and our colon healthy . So that's what the rainbow of colors in our food or variety of plant foods represent , and that's number three . Number four is my favorite , and that , as well as three , okay , I like this one .
I think your audience will like this one , but you'll have to let me define it .
Okay , ready . Yeah , I'm ready .
Eat as much as you want , love it as long . Here's the caveat .
There's a caveat to that right .
Eat as much as you want , as long as the food you're eating has intact fiber . Okay , so what I mean by that is that all whole plant foods nuts and vegetables and fruits and you know avocados and coconut these foods , if they're intact , they have fiber .
That regularly how quickly those macronutrients get into your system the sugar , the glucose , the protein , the fat and so that fiber not only regulates those nutrients and allows our body to control those nutrients to be absorbed as needed , it fills us up and it also cleans our gut and allows and gives our microbiome the right food it wants to create a healthy
bacterial colony in our gut which supports our immune system and regulates our inflammation level and really leads our health . So eat as much as you want , as long as that food has intact fiber , as much as you can . And of course , all of this is not medical advice . If you have a chronic condition , you've got to work with your health care practitioner .
This is just a great guideline . It's eat as much whole plant food as you can , don't sweat the small stuff . Look at your big dietary pattern . Eat the rainbow of valuable colors from the plant world every day and eat as much as you want , as long as you have that whole food that has fiber along with it .
So you brought up a couple of things that I want to circle back to . Can you give me an example of what is an intact fiber and what is not ?
Great question . Yes , so intact fiber is what you'd find on the hull of a grain or the bran of a grain and the nuts and seed on the outside and the inside of an apple . So if you take an apple and you put it in a blender , you take out the seeds first .
You're going to break up the fiber , so it's not whole anymore , it's not intact , it's turned into a liquid , say . It still has the fiber in it and that's good for you . Quite often we take fiber in a powdered form because it's been broken up like that .
Then it's dry and put in the powder and put it in the jar and then we take a teaspoon of it and that's fiber . It does a good job in an isolated form . But the less you touch that fiber , like if you were to eat the apple whole the more intact that fiber is and the more effect it has to protect your health .
So , um , processed foods have wiped out all the fiber like white rice , or right , that's White flour less fiber . There's a little fiber in white rice , as you say . There's very little fiber in white flour , but there's more in whole grain flour , whole wheat flour . It's still broken up .
If you were to eat the whole wheat buds itself , the grains itself , like whole brown rice as opposed to white rice , then you're getting more of that fiber .
Okay , so the closer you are to the natural unbroken fiber , the healthier it is .
Yes . So that doesn't mean that I'm never going to have a smoothie with bananas and greens . I do . I have them quite regularly . But I know that if I were to eat because I don't have time to eat an apple plus five dates plus three leaves of kale and all this , I'm getting all this nutrients pretty quickly into my body with a smoothie .
But I want to make sure to have the intact fiber as much as I can . So steamed spinach would have intact fiber . You know a vegetable medley , a stir fry , would have intact fiber . You know nuts and seeds . You know sunflower seeds intact fiber . That sort of thing Does that help . Very helpful , thank you .
We are so used to getting concentrated heaps of isolated ingredients like sugar and fat and high hunks of protein that our bodies are just not used to . That's not how our bodies are designed . They have addictive qualities . These foods , these isolated ingredients put together , have addictive qualities to them because they're in such concentrated form and our body isn't .
You know , not only are they not used to that from an evolutionary perspective , but our taste buds get used to it and then they want that and that can be the beginning of food addiction . I mean , it's not our fault . It's just that you know food manufacturers know how to hit us with food , so we keep wanting to come back to it , and so that's a problem .
We need to sort of get our taste buds used to the foods that they're designed to eat , with the portions of sugar and fat and salt in the amounts that they're used to .
Does that help . I find that it does help , and I find that one of the first arguments that people have or actually probably the first one that I had when someone suggested to me that I try a plant-based diet is that everything is going to taste terrible when I'm incorporating more of these foods .
I don't feel deprived , and that's one of the things that I like about your book is that there are recipes in there for some foods that sound really delicious , because it's one thing to tell people that they should eat better , but it's another thing to show them some simple , easy ways how to incorporate that into their life .
So I like that . Thank you for that .
¶ Transitioning to Plant-Based Eating
And you're right . I mean , the cuisines of the world are just so tasty on their own . It just takes our taste buds a bit of time to get used to it , or just a bit of detachment away from what the ultra-processed foods and the manufacturers who make them want us to taste .
So , yeah , the food is flavored by natural herbs and spices and fats coming from whole beans and whole nuts , and even coconut , and if you have these foods along with fiber , you can be able to mitigate that fat and you'll get that mouthfeel that you're looking for . And there are a couple of tips , and that would be .
You know , look at these recipes that I've presented in the book or other whole plant food recipes , and don't add the salt as you're cooking .
Don't add the fat as you're cooking , salt after you've cooked , because that way you'll use a lot less and no matter what you're making food at home , you're going to have less sodium in your diet than if you buy products already made for it Fast food or right exactly .
So , catherine , this may not be a fair question , but in my own personal experience and I'm going to sound like a commercial here for whole food , plant-based eating , but in my experience when I was getting divorced and I was trying to find some ways to take control back in my life in ways that I could I found amazing fast results from changing my diet by
adding more whole food plant-based foods into my diet . I don't know how typical that is For the person who is eating the standard American diet . How long can they typically expect that change to provide some noticeable results ?
Yeah , it's not a fair question because everyone's different and everyone is coming with their own health status and environmental experience . But if you were to take a normal American who eats , you know 15% of their diet is animal protein and they have a lot of processed foods in their diet and chips and sodas and all that Standard American diet .
Standard American diet and you take them off . If it was immediate , people would quite often I hear this all the time feel pretty immediate effects . In a few days and in a couple of weeks you can really feel less tired , feel your energy coming back , you might see your skin get better , you might start losing weight .
So you know you can get pretty amazing results in a couple of weeks . And then you keep going and you know it's just it's . You know it's sort of uphill , but easy from there as long as you don't expect perfection . It's sort of uphill , but easy from there as long as you don't expect perfection , because we're not perfect . We're humans .
It's that all or nothing thinking mentality that , if I mess up this one thing that I may as well forget it . And that's what stops people from ?
You can't mess this up . There's always another meal , there's always another way to add a green vegetable into your diet , a salad into your next meal , sweet potato pudding , I mean , there's some great examples of easy recipes in there that people don't have to feel like never going to be able to get a better diet .
I would say that that's the idea is to make it simple . That's why I wrote the four food rules . The more whole plant foods , the better . You don't have to stress over how many calories do I ? You know . You don't have to stress over the numbers . You know how much protein , how much fat , how many calories am I taking ? And Do I have to add ? You know ?
Do I have to combine grains and beans together to be healthy ?
No , the more whole plant foods the better , and these foods include leafy greens , other vegetables , whole grains , nuts and seeds and legumes , and I'd like to just highlight beans and pulses and legumes like lentils and chickpeas and beans , because these high-protein food that has been the cornerstone of so many diets around the world .
Those are the populations where they haven't had diseases .
Another part of what I do with clients is I go through their budget with them and I sit down and one of the areas that's pretty consistent for my clients across the board when I sit down and look at their budget , everyone is shocked when they go back through their expenses at how much they're spending on food . Everyone oh yeah , prices are going up .
Grocery prices have been going up . It's really easy to see the real life effect of inflation when you go to the grocery store , but it's not even just the grocery store . I think that we are we . We eat out a lot and so much money gets funneled that way .
And as a financial advisor working with people that need to find ways to reduce their budget , this is a great way , even if they just were able to replace a few meals , even a week , with something that they put together at home .
And it can be as easy as a sheet pan dish with , like you said , chickpeas and spices and some vegetables and you throw it in and you don't have to think about it . Those little ways that we can tweak our budget . Also , the big ticket items on most people's budgets for the groceries are meat , dairy and processed foods .
Ah yes , very good point , jackie . Thank you for bringing that up . I mean dried beans and whole brown rice in bulk or in packages is not expensive , way cheaper and very filling . So , yes , you do need to learn maybe some new kitchen skills , because we're used to opening can . Can beans are pretty good too , and you can easily find those on sale .
There's nothing wrong with that with canned beans at all , and you're right . So we just need to learn that . Oh , we can open a can of beans , we can get a jar of salsa that doesn't have any additives in it and preservatives , and we can make some brown rice . Can even find frozen whole organic brown rice in the freezer .
No , a Trader Joe's . But there you go .
That's a little bit processed , not ultra processed , but it's cooked for you , so that's going to be more expensive than buying dry rice and making it at home . Right , so you know your budget . As you're saying , you're working with people . You can make this an expensive journey of adding more plant foods into your diet , but it shouldn't be and there's no need .
And the more whole the plant , the whole the food is the beans that you haven't cooked yet , the more fiber you're going to get and the healthier you're going to get as a food product .
Right , so it's a win-win all the way around . Can you talk a little bit about dairy in particular , because I really think there's a misconception that dairy is good for children and I would love it if you would share some wisdom on that .
Okay , let's talk a little bit about dairy , because dairy is the perfect food . Dairy is the perfect food If you are a baby cow . It's got the right ratio of proteins and fat , saturated fat and very little carbohydrate . I mean , it's got sugar in it , of course , and it's just what you need .
If you're a growing bovine but we're not we don't grow into 1,500 to 2,500
¶ Dairy, Alternatives, and Stress Relief
pounds . We're different species . We're not designed to drink milk as adults , let alone the milk of another species .
So , if you think about it , it's a little odd that we are taking the milk , the breast milk , that we are taking the milk , the breast milk , in a way from another species , and that stuff has a lot of fat and sugar , lactose , and when you make it into cheese , for instance , it's really concentrated . It's got salt and sugar , lactose and fat .
It takes 10 pounds of milk to make a pound of cheese , for instance . It also contains casein , a certain protein , casein morphine . It's a compound similar to morphine that during digestion it gives us a hit of pleasure .
It may stimulate the brain the same way to make us crave more and more , and it could play into such a food addiction of this very high fat food and lead into . You know , obesity and it's like it's it's . I really want your audience to know it's like not a fault . It's not our fault that we can't give up these high fat foods .
They're designed so that you keep wanting more . There's a lot of growth hormones in there and dairy , particularly IGF-1 , which can simulate the growth of cancer . Milk and we're already grown the protein is going to want to grow stuff and if you might have some exposure to cancer cells or something , it's going to grow the wrong cells .
So there is an association of dairy with a lot of issues , including diabetes , autoimmune disorders , of course , lactose intolerance . People often complain of constipation , ear infections with children , sinus congestion , you know , skin problems , asthma , digestion issues , arthritis . All these things mean we're all so different .
We could be associated with the amount of dairy that we take in . So a lot of us , like 75% to 90% of us , particularly those with Asian or African and East Asian descent , are lactose intolerant . Many people don't even know it , including Hispanics and Native Americans .
Hispanics and Native Americans because these cultures have had less time to evolve the genetic tolerance to milk as white Europeans have . They've been drinking milk the longest . Dairy , bovine milk Also , particularly cheese .
There's a higher acid load , from meat , from animal foods and cheese in particular just because it's so concentrated and that could demand more calcium to buffer the acid in our blood , and so it's really hard to figure out where that calcium is coming from .
But our storage of calcium are our bones , calcium and minerals magnesium and phosphorus so we might be leaching calcium from our bones in order to , you know , buffer the acid .
So are there other , better places to get calcium and vitamin D than from dairy ?
products . There are , yeah , there are all sorts of foods . There are , yeah , there are all sorts of foods leafy green vegetables , foods that are set with calcium , like tofu .
And if your audience isn't familiar with tofu , it's soy , it's made from soybeans , it's processed soybeans into soy milk , so there's not much fiber left in it , but it's lightly processed , so it's almost a whole food , not quite so tofu bok choy .
I think that when we think of comfort food in the standard American diet sometimes we think of things like macaroni and cheese , and pizza Cheese is so particularly addicting I know from friends of mine the most difficult thing to try to eliminate from your diet sometimes is cheese Because it is so addicting . I hear it all the time .
I hear it all the time . So women out there listening , it's not you , it's this addictive body of food , just so you know . And it's a great time to think about alternatives , because there's a burgeoning market of cheese , alternatives made from nuts , cashews and in particular , those can be really good in grains .
So , there are a lot of good replacements that are really yummy and they're high fat , but you can't really get a higher fat than cheese made out of cow's milk . It's pretty high fat . So , even going down to cashew cheese , I suggest , if you are lucky enough to have a grocery store that carry , ask do you have cheese alternatives ?
I know that there's so much that we could talk about alternatives and I know that there's so much that we could talk about .
Okay , well , you know , I would say I just I can't just imagine some of your listeners going through very stressful times and I want to emphasize what you said , that a lot of these plant foods they're anti-inflammatory , they're calming foods .
They're foods that will allow your body to take a breath and heal and allow our body's stress reaction , which is inflammation , to calm down that I mentioned . There's so many of them , there's so many different kinds and I go through some of them , just a few of them in the book . But here's some good news Cocoa is rich in flavonoids .
That's a color like dark brown . It's like chocolate yeah , chocolate or cocoa powder . I have a smoothie recipe in the book and if you want to just add some tablespoon of cocoa powder to that , then that will help the release of endorphins that you know are like the relaxing hormones that help you feel better and improve your mood
¶ Plant-Based Stress Relief Tips
. You know , it's just amazing how just these plant foods , compared to ultra-processed foods , they affect our stress hormones , our cortisol levels and those foods that are associated with lower stress . You may know like chamomile and chamomile tea , but dark chocolate has those flavonoids and green tea is very soothing .
The antioxidants in almonds and blueberries and alternative to dairy yogurts like coconut yogurt or cashew yogurt , those can be very calming and they sort of affect your level of stress hormones . So that might be a bit of a tip of um of stress hormones , so that that might be a bit of a tip .
Thank you so much , catherine . I so appreciate you being here and I am excited to introduce you to um people that are going through a stressful time for kind of one way that they can take some control over back over their life by trying to incorporate some of these ideas .
So , again , I'm going to have all your contact information , your tips and access to purchase your new book on our show notes . So thank you again for joining us .
Oh , thank you , Jackie . It's been a real pleasure to chat .
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