Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude with Ryan Kalamaya! In this episode, Ryan and co-host Amy Goscha tackle one of the most frequently asked questions in divorce and separation: Should I move out of the house—or make my spouse move out? Whether you're early in the separation process or navigating a high-conflict breakup, this conversation breaks down the legal, emotional, and financial implications of moving out while cohabitating with a spouse. Episode Highlights Safety First • Why safety conce...
Jun 20, 2025•15 min•Season 1Ep. 234
Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude with Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha! In this episode, Ryan and co-host Amy Goscha are recording from their brand-new office near Cherry Creek—and reflecting on the mindsets that shape how clients experience divorce and custody disputes. Drawing from both their professional and personal experiences, Ryan and Amy unpack what it means to manage emotions, expectations, and communication through one of life’s most difficult transitions. Whether you're an attorney or ...
Jun 13, 2025•29 min
Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude with Ryan Kalamaya! In this episode, Ryan is joined by co-host and family law attorney Amy Goscha to explore how property division impacts spousal maintenance in Colorado divorce cases. Whether you're a high-net-worth individual or navigating a more modest estate, understanding the relationship between property distribution and support obligations is critical. Ryan and Amy unpack how Colorado law approaches these issues and the strategic implications for both ...
May 08, 2025•29 min
Welcome back to another episode of Divorce at Altitude ! This week, host Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP) Karla Kyte to discuss the critical intersection of divorce and real estate . With real estate prices and mortgage rates making headlines, it’s more important than ever for divorcing individuals to understand how homeownership, refinancing, and mortgage assumptions play a role in their financial future. Karla brings 27 years of lending experience in Col...
May 01, 2025•44 min
Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude with Ryan Kalamaya! In this episode, Ryan is joined by co-host and family law attorney Amy Goscha to explore how property division impacts spousal maintenance in Colorado divorce cases. Whether you're a high-net-worth individual or navigating a more modest estate, understanding the relationship between property distribution and support obligations is critical. Ryan and Amy unpack how Colorado law approaches these issues and the strategic implications for both ...
Apr 24, 2025•32 min
Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude with host Ryan Kalamaya ! In this episode, Ryan is joined by co-host and seasoned family law attorney Amy Goscha to break down the most significant proposed changes to Colorado’s family law rules in over a decade. After spending two years working on the Colorado Supreme Court's Family Issues Committee, Amy offers a behind-the-scenes look at how these reforms aim to modernize and streamline the family law process. Whether you're a legal professional or navigati...
Apr 11, 2025•26 min
Navigating a high-conflict divorce can feel like an overwhelming and unrelenting storm, especially when emotions run high and communication breaks down. In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , we revisit our sitdown with Liz Merrill , a seasoned mediator, divorce coach, and someone who has personally navigated the challenges of a high-conflict divorce. Liz offers invaluable insights into how to cope with the complexities of high-conflict divorces and maintain your mental and emotional wellbeing...
Jan 30, 2025•42 min•Season 1Ep. 228
In this rebroadcasted episode of Divorce at Altitude , we revisit a powerful conversation with attorney Lisa Zeiderman , Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP . Lisa offers her expert insights into the often-hidden world of financial abuse and manipulation within marriages, sharing how it can manifest and how individuals can protect themselves. With her deep experience in financial forensics, Lisa brings both a calculated and compassionate approach to understanding these sensitive issues. In ...
Jan 23, 2025•35 min•Season 1Ep. 227
In this episode, renowned divorce mediator and therapist Karen McNenny joins Ryan and introduces her innovative approach to divorce, which she calls “divorce-gasmic.” Karen emphasizes transforming divorce from a destructive event into a constructive process, encouraging us to rethink how we view the end of a marriage. We explore: The societal fears that keep couples trapped in unhappy relationships Positive co-parenting practices that celebrate children’s milestones post-separation The roles of ...
Jan 17, 2025•43 min•Season 1Ep. 226
In this insightful episode, Ryan and Amy walk through key topics that often come up in the early stages of divorce in Colorado, including what the state considers when determining alimony, parenting responsibilities, and the impact of who files first. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Does the reason for divorce matter in Colorado? Does it matter who files for divorce first? How are custody and parenting plans decided? When is it okay to start dating after a divorce? How is property division determ...
Jan 10, 2025•37 min
In this episode, host Ryan Kalamaya is joined by divorce coach Karen McMahon to discuss how personal growth and financial resilience can empower individuals during divorce, particularly for high-achieving executives and entrepreneurs. Episode Highlights: Role of a Divorce Coach: Karen shares how coaches help clients manage emotions, clarify priorities, and stay productive during high-stakes divorces. Setting Boundaries for Co-Parenting: Learn to establish temporary arrangements and negotiate bou...
Dec 19, 2024•39 min
In this final episode of our "Marriage and Money" series, host Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Nikki Tucker, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and founder of The FIIRM Approach, to discuss: “Screw Love: Are You Financially Compatible?” They examine how financial alignment can impact relationships and offer practical advice for improving financial compatibility. Episode Highlights: Emotional vs. Financial Compatibility: Nikki and Ryan explain why financial compatibility is often overlooked and how...
Dec 12, 2024•20 min
Welcome back to another thought-provoking episode of Divorce at Altitude ! In this episode, co-host Ryan Kalamaya continues the three-part series on marriage and money , diving into the compelling topic of why prenuptial agreements aren't popular enough . Joining him again is Nikki Tucker, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and founder of The Firm Approach. With over 20 years of financial expertise, Nikki offers valuable insights into the stigma surrounding prenups and why they can be an essent...
Dec 05, 2024•23 min
Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, your trusted resource for navigating Colorado family law with attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. Each week, they dive into topics related to divorce, co-parenting, and relationships, offering practical insights and expert advice. In this episode, Ryan is joined by Nikki Tucker, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and founder of The FIIRM Approach, to kick off a three-part series on Marriage and Money. The first topic in the series is understanding your partne...
Nov 21, 2024•22 min
Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, your guide to Colorado family law with attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. In each episode, they tackle topics related to divorce and co-parenting, offering insights for navigating the complexities of family law in Colorado. This week, Ryan and Amy break down one of the most complex aspects of family law: decision-making standards and enforcement in custody cases. They dive into the recent Colorado Court of Appeals case, In re Marriage of Humphries, which addr...
Nov 14, 2024•16 min
Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, your guide to Colorado family law, hosted by attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. Each week, we dive into a topic related to divorce and co-parenting to help you navigate the complexities of family law in Colorado. In this episode, Ryan is joined by Raj Kukreja, a high net worth divorce expert, to explore Intangible Assets in Divorce—a complex but crucial topic for many high-asset cases. Together, they unpack the concept of intangible property, including Name, ...
Nov 07, 2024•43 min
In this "how-to" episode, Ryan dives into high-income scenarios and how they impact child support in Colorado. Using the case of hypothetical clients, Eric and Melanie Wolf, Ryan breaks down what happens when combined incomes exceed $30,000 per month, the legal floor for child support. Drawing on the Colorado Supreme Court case of In re Marriage of Boettcher, Ryan explains how courts determine child support in high-income cases, focusing on lifestyle disparities between parents and the needs of ...
Nov 04, 2024•7 min
Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, a Colorado family law podcast hosted by experienced attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. Whether you're going through a divorce, considering one, or simply want to understand more about the intricacies of family law in Colorado, we’re here to help. We aim to provide practical guidance to make the process a bit easier and empower you with the insights you need. In this episode, Ryan and Amy discuss Divorce 2.0, or what happens when someone wants to reopen a fina...
Oct 31, 2024•29 min•Season 1Ep. 218
Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, a podcast focused on Colorado family law, hosted by Ryan Kalamaya and co-host Amy Goscha. In each episode, we delve into various topics related to divorce, child custody, and co-parenting in Colorado. Whether you're navigating a divorce or just curious about the legal process, we offer practical advice and tips to guide you. In this "how-to" episode, Ryan explores extraordinary medical and extracurricular expenses and their impact on child support in Colorado divo...
Oct 28, 2024•16 min
Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude, a podcast on Colorado family law hosted by Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. In this "how-to" episode, Ryan explores work-related daycare and its impact on child support in Colorado divorces and parenting disputes. Episode Highlights: Work-Related Daycare & Child Support: Ryan explains how daycare, preschool, and after-school expenses influence child support calculations. Using a hypothetical example of Eric and Melanie Wolf, he demonstrates how these costs c...
Oct 21, 2024•11 min
In this episode, Ryan and Amy discuss the complex topic of reintegration therapy in family law. They explore its role, challenges, and how it helps children rebuild relationships with estranged parents amid recent media coverage. Episode Highlights: What is Reintegration Therapy? Ryan and Amy define it as a therapeutic intervention designed to help children reconnect with a strained or severed relationship with one parent. Challenges in High-Conflict Cases: They address scenarios where children ...
Oct 10, 2024•26 min•Season 1Ep. 215
Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude! After a brief hiatus, hosts Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha return to discuss a frequently debated topic in divorce: separate property. They explore what constitutes separate property, how it’s treated in Colorado, and the nuances involved in tracing its value. Episode Highlights: Introduction to Separate Property: Ryan and Amy explain the difference between marital and separate property in Colorado, noting that separate property (acquired before marriage or thr...
Oct 03, 2024•38 min•Season 1Ep. 214
Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude! This week, host Amy Goscha speaks with Dr. McNamara, a licensed psychologist with over 30 years of experience in divorce and two-home parenting. They discuss reintegration therapy and its role in family law. Episode Highlights: Introduction to Reintegration Therapy: Dr. McNamara explains reintegration therapy and its definition under Colorado law, particularly the 2023 Cadence Law, focusing on rebuilding relationships between children and estranged parents. R...
Sep 26, 2024•33 min
Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude! This week, hosts Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha explore the complex and emotional topic of parental relocation cases, increasingly common in mountain areas. Episode Highlights: Introduction to Parental Relocation: Ryan and Amy define parental relocation and its impact on co-parenting dynamics under Colorado law. Pre-Decree vs. Post-Decree Relocation: They contrast relocation during divorce (pre-decree) with post-divorce relocations, noting the challenges of pos...
Aug 22, 2024•40 min
Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude. After a brief summer break, hosts Ryan Kalamaya and Brett Hirsch are here to preview their upcoming presentation at the Family Law Institute in Vail, Colorado, titled "Summiting the Financial Slopes: Seven Key Strategies to Master Divorce Economics." They share essential legal and financial insights for navigating divorce complexities. Episode Highlights: Family Law Institute Overview: Ryan introduces the significance of this annual conference, where divorce ...
Aug 15, 2024•46 min•Season 1Ep. 211
We are Ryan Kalamaya explores the crucial aspect of witness preparation in divorce proceedings. Joined by Jessica Brylo, an expert in litigation and witness preparation, the discussion delves into how emotional management and presentation significantly impact the outcomes of divorce cases, particularly in custody and financial disputes. Key Highlights: Expert Guidance from Jessica Brylo: With her extensive background in both the legal and psychological facets of witness preparation, Jessica offe...
Jun 28, 2024•31 min•Season 1Ep. 210
Welcome to another instructive episode of Divorce at Altitude. Today, host Ryan Kalamaya dives deep into the complexities of child support calculations in Colorado, building on the foundational knowledge from episode 203, "Child Support Basics." This episode, primarily visual, provides a detailed walkthrough of the child support worksheet using a case study of hypothetical clients, Eric and Melanie Wolfe. Episode Highlights: Understanding the Child Support Worksheet: Explore a visual demonstrati...
Jun 17, 2024•11 min•Season 1Ep. 207
In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya talks with Ron Seigneur, an expert in business valuations, about evaluating closely held businesses during divorce proceedings. With the holiday season approaching and discounts on everyone's mind, this conversation addresses the financial complexities of including a business in marital assets. Episode Highlights: Valuation Basics: Ron explains foundational aspects of business valuations, including fair market value, fair value, and investmen...
Jun 13, 2024•40 min
In this practical episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan dives into the complexities of child support initiation and temporary child support measures during a divorce. Join us as we navigate through the legal landscape with the hypothetical scenario of Eric and Melanie Wolfe, illustrating key aspects of child support under Colorado law. Key Highlights of the Episode: Onset of Child Support Obligations: Learn about the specific conditions under which child support obligations begin, highlighting th...
Jun 11, 2024•5 min
Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Divorce at Altitude. Join hosts Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha as they delve into the dynamic world of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) in Colorado, focusing on how it is reshaping the landscape for families embroiled in divorce and custody disputes. Episode Highlights: Overview of ADR: Discover the different forms of ADR available in Colorado, including mediation, arbitration, the roles of Special Masters, Parenting Coordinators, Decision Makers...
Jun 05, 2024•24 min
