The Dildo Whisperer has a recent sex adventure that inspired this week's topic. Find out how Romaine was injured during sex and learn about the most common sex injuries. How many times has Ajay been injured during sex? More times then he wants to admit! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow u...
Sep 17, 2025•49 min•Season 3Ep. 34
Purity culture promised protection, but often left behind shame, fear, and silence around sex. In this episode, the Dildo Whisperer unpacks the history of the purity movement—from abstinence pledges to purity rings—and explore how these messages impact self-worth, relationships, and sexual health. We'll also talk about ways to heal, reclaim your sexuality, and move toward a healthier, shame-free understanding of intimacy. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire...
Sep 10, 2025•49 min•Season 3Ep. 33
In this episode, Romaine and Ajay are joined by the hosts ofthe DNR Studios show the Cookie Jar. Together they dive into the often-overlooked topic of men's body image and self-esteem. From pressures to look muscular, worries about hair loss, aging, or penis size, to the impact of comparison culture and media ideals—men face unique challenges when it comes to feeling confident in their own skin. We'll explore how these insecurities affect mental health, relationships, and sex, and share practica...
Sep 03, 2025•1 hr 12 min•Season 3Ep. 32
Breaking up doesn't always mean breaking away. In this episode, Romaine and Ajay dive into the complicated world of staying friends with an ex. From setting healthy boundaries to spotting red flags, we explore the emotional realities, potential perks, and pitfalls of keeping that post-breakup connection alive. Whether you're hoping to preserve the friendship or wondering if it's time to cut ties, this conversation will help you figure out what's truly best for your heart—and your future. Send th...
Aug 27, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Season 3Ep. 31
This isn't an ordinary episode of the Dildo Whisperer. Romaine has a crush and that crush led to one of the most incredible interviews of her 20+ year career. Romaine and Ajay are joined by model and actress Tori Easton. In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Tori Easton shares her journey of transitioning as a trans woman- from early self discovery to navigating relationships, identiy, and intimacy. With honesty, humor and heart, Tori opens up about the emotional and physical aspects of ...
Aug 20, 2025•1 hr 42 min•Season 3Ep. 30
How do you explore intimacy without sex? This week Romaine and Ajay discuss what it is to experience intimacy in a relationship without sex. Why is it important to a healthy relationship and how to recognize if those needs are not being met. Are you being intimate with your partner? Has the intimacy been lagging? It's time to take a look at what we are doing or often not doing to provide intimacy with our partners and others important people in our lives. Send the us your sex and relationship qu...
Aug 13, 2025•1 hr•Season 3Ep. 29
How long should you wait to have sex in a new relationship? The dildo whisperer takes a look at this question and provides some methods for you to consider when asking yourself what the right time is? Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer...
Aug 06, 2025•52 min•Season 3Ep. 28
Romaine and Ajay are taking a trip to the bathhouse! Learn about the history of bathhouses and how gays turned up the sexuality in them. Plus, find out who go their start in music in a bathhouse! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is p...
Jul 30, 2025•57 min•Season 3Ep. 27
Birth control is a hot topic when it comes to sex. Who's responsibility is it? What method is the best option? What works and what doesn't? For as long as people have been having sex protecting themselves against an unwanted pregnancy has been important. This week we are discussing all things birth control. And the dildo whisperer has a question for Ajay that stumps him completely. He called his wife for help but did she know the answer? Tune in to find out. Send the us your sex and relationship...
Jul 23, 2025•53 min•Season 2Ep. 26
Porn is everywhere now a days but understanding how porn impacts our sex lives and our daily interactions is very important. This week the Dildo Whisperer is going to go deep with a conversation about porn literacy and why it matters. Tune in to learn more about the relationship between porn and real life sexual encounters. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our ...
Jul 16, 2025•42 min•Season 3Ep. 25
June is gay pride month and this week the dildo whisperer is talking about how being part of the LGBTQ+ community impacts a person's view and take on sexuality. This discussion covers some of the differences in sex education for queer people and brands and toy shops that are inclusive of the queer identity. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2...
Jul 09, 2025•44 min•Season 3Ep. 24
This week Romaine and Ajay are joined by a special guest to talk about vaginal rejuvenation. Jeanne Perkins is the inventor of the V-lit which is a device that uses the power of LED light frequencies to help women who are facing issues with their vaginas as a result of things like menopause. If sex has become painful, or your vagina just doesn't get wet like it used to this episode is NOT to be missed. Plus, Jeanne provided us with a special discount on the V-Lit. For a limited time you can go t...
Jul 02, 2025•58 min•Season 3Ep. 23
What is your love language? This week Romaine and Ajay explore the love languages. What are they and how can understanding them help your relationship? Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this...
Jun 25, 2025•45 min•Season 3Ep. 22
This week Romaine is going to teach Ajay about Sounding and just wait until you hear what he thinks it is! This episode had Ajay squirming in his seat. Together they explore what urethral sounding is, why people do it, how to do it safely and how to avoid injury. If you have ever thought about trying it out this episode is a great place top start your sounding education. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have tw...
Jun 18, 2025•50 min•Season 3Ep. 22
Our Dildo Whisperer just returned from a 16 day cruise and it inspired this week's episode about cruising while cruising! Find out the joys of hooking up at sea and how to find the right cruise line to fit your needs. Romaine and Ajay discuss the proper way to cruise on a cruise without making rookie mistakes. Plus, they answer a couple of listener emails in Dear Dildo Whisperer! This is a fun episode that will have you wanting to take a vacation! Send the us your sex and relationship questions ...
Jun 11, 2025•1 hr•Season 3Ep. 21
As we grow up we are taught a lot of things about sex from our parents and the educational system. But what if what we learn is actually wrong or harmful? This week the Dildo Whisper addresses some common things that people are taught about sex and addresses the issues that this misinformation can cause. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766...
Jun 04, 2025•47 min•Season 3Ep. 20
The dildo whisper is always asking you to write into the show and this week you did! Romaine and Ajay start this week with a whole bunch of Ask the DW questions! Followed up by the much anticipated segment featuring Ajay's review of the AutoBlow! You aren't going to want to miss his honest thoughts on this advanced sex device. Special thanks to www.autoblow.com and Brian Sloan for sending Ajay an autoblow to try out. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the ...
May 28, 2025•1 hr 7 min•Season 3Ep. 19
May Is masturbation month and this week the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay are joined by spiritual guide and author Kae Ecstatic. Kae is competeing in the Great BateWorld BateOff! Which is a masturbation competition that is taking place every Thursday on BateWorld.com. So make sure to check it out and cheer Kae on! Together Kae, Ajay and Romaine have a deep discussion about the connection between mind and body as it relates to our sexuality. Prepare to hear a deeply moving conversation about masculini...
May 21, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 3Ep. 18
Another listener inspired episode! The NYT Wire Cutter recently published their review of the Best Anal Sex Toys. This week the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay discuss their picks. Find out if Romaine agrees with their selections and why she might not. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on soc...
May 14, 2025•50 min•Season 3Ep. 17
The vast majority of people fantasize about having sex in public. What is the appeal? While it can be exciting it comes with plenty of risks. Romaine and Ajay share their tales of public sex while discussing the reasons behind why we are attracted to the idea. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. F...
May 07, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 3Ep. 16
Where do you keep your sex toy collection? Is it easy to access? Do you need to keep things descreet? People ask the Dildo Whisperer all the time for tips on how to store their sex toys and this week she is providing some answers! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dild...
Apr 30, 2025•35 min•Season 3Ep. 15
Gentlemen, we are going to talk about your prostate. Ajay is often afraid to talk about anything butt related but this week the Dildo Whisperer is going to educate him on his prostate and how sex can actually keep it healthy. So if you are one of those guys that doesn't have a full understanding of howyour prostate functions or can play a role in your sex life this is the episode for you! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whi...
Apr 23, 2025•38 min•Season 3Ep. 14
Are you ready for the next generation of sexual devices? It is so good that the manufactures actually had to create a warning label for this product! Romaine and Ajay are joined by Autoblow inventor Brian Sloan and they discuss the evolution of the Autoblow and how AI is changing the game in men's sexual wellness. Check out www.autoblow.com to see for yourself what all the hype is about. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whis...
Apr 16, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Season 3Ep. 13
We recently took a look at the needs of a gentlemen's toy box and we decided that we should life the hood and look at the ladies too. THis week is dedicated to the most important tools a lady should have in her toy box. From Lube to vibrators we cover everything a lady needs. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askth...
Apr 09, 2025•46 min•Season 3Ep. 12
No one can agree on this mystery spot that has the ladies all questioning why it feels so good. This week Romaine and Ajay dleve into that mystery known as the gspot! What is it? Where is it? And how do you make the gspot work to your advantage during sex? Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follo...
Apr 02, 2025•40 min•Season 3Ep. 11
This week's episode is dedicated to the gentlemen in our listening audience. Int he past the sex toy world has centered around women but what about the guys? This week the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay discuss the things that every guy should have in his toys box. Yes, gentlemen you deserve a tox box full of fun too! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-...
Mar 26, 2025•56 min•Season 3Ep. 10
The Dildo Whisperer recently discovered a device to help men when they need a little extra support and she can't wait to talk about it! She invited Naci Kerr Smith inventor of the Stealth Shaft Support onto the show to talk about her invention and how it can help a lot of guys out there! Learn more about this device at www.stealthshaftsupport.com Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show....
Mar 19, 2025•38 min•Season 3Ep. 9
The Dildo Whisperer has decided it is time for another history lesson from the wonderful world of sex toys. This week they are going to talk about the gold standard of vibrators. it has been around since the 1960's and it is still going strong. What is it? The Hitachi Magic Wand! Find out what makes this device stand out from all the rest! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You ca...
Mar 12, 2025•39 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Neither the Dildo Whisperer or Ajay have a foot fetish but that doesn't stop them from talking about the wonders on all things feet! They discuss what makes a foot fetish and the many ways that people engage in foot fetishism. But beware because these two might have a fear of feet that might just have them laughing more then usual. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call i...
Mar 05, 2025•50 min•Season 3Ep. 7
One of our listeners sent in a topic idea and this week the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay discuss how music can enhance the sexual experience. Find out what makes a great sex playlist and how to make one! Plus, learn about why music is such an important tool in your sex tool box. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthe...
Feb 26, 2025•36 min•Season 3Ep. 6
