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Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen

Chastity Queenwww.chastity-queen.com

Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub. 

Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side of yourself? Does the concept of control & mental power exchange, wet your intellectual interest? Maybe you are currently in the BDSM scene and fighting to find joy. Do you have a D/s relationship but need to understand how to successfully satisfy your partner? I have the answers and many stories to share. 

It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes. 

I specialize in chastity, Femdom, crossdressers, humiliation play, emasculation and have experience in ABDL/DL, E-stimulation, urethral sounds, the mind games that make a Sadist so powerful and the vast Dungeon tools + tricks, that make up a High Protocol, BDSM Dungeon. Consent & physical safety will be discussed. The psychological and mental health aspects of BDSM will be discussed. 

BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community. 

I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.

Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book! 

If you do not have a Mentor, Goddess, Domme or Queen, you have found One now! Let Me be your Teacher, disciplinarian, mentor and queen! If you learn anything from My stories and knowledge, know that what I say, is about loving yourself and that you can do anything. My purpose is to take the misunderstanding OUT of BDSM and those who enjoy fetishes that others may not understand. I want submissives and Dommes, to succeed with ease and pleasure. 

BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be. 

There is no limit, to success. As I said, in the beginning, if you can harness your creativity and mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. Enjoy and rate the episodes, if you have a moment. Sincerely, Chastity Queen "Chastity is freedom!"

Chastity Queen xoxo

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Episodes

From Fantasy To Real Submission

I invite you to move from screen-fed fantasy to lived submission through safety, consent, and high protocol. I share how fear softens when community, structure, and a trusted Dominant give you a clear path and a choice at every step. • purpose of guidance and submission • why porn myths block growth • fear, exposure, and first steps • what real events look and feel like • consent, safewords, and discretion • high protocol as safety and clarity • integrating alpha life with submission • chastity ...

Mar 03, 202615 minSeason 6Ep. 12

Chastity Is Freedom

Listen as I will inspire your journey to cage up with a purpose! Chastity IS Freedom! - Chastity Queen Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a pu...

Feb 03, 202613 minSeason 6Ep. 11

How Visualizing Your Outfits Can Change Your Life

A packed suitcase can be a love letter to your future self. We open Violetta’s travel diary and follow every deliberate choice—panties in soft colours, stockings with texture, clear pleasers, a red lace blouse—while honouring her commitment to stay locked with clarity and care. What begins as a packing list becomes a blueprint for courage, showing how outfits, accessories, and small travel hacks help move private desire into public life. From airport realities to creative layering, we share simp...

Jan 23, 202610 minSeason 6Ep. 9

Sissy Wardrobe Diaries

A quiet ritual can change everything. We invite you into Violetta’s Sissy Wardrobe Diary, a tender, detailed look at how task obedience from Chastity Queen, clothing, and daily routines can reshape identity with grace. What starts as a simple day at home unfolds into a fully embodied practice: a floral dress chosen with care, pink tights and fishnets layered with intention, and a six-hoop petticoat that turns each step into music. As heels click and fabric swishes, chores become choreography and...

Jan 19, 202612 minSeason 6Ep. 8

Chastity Hypno: Celebrating International Male Chastity Day!

Hello caged sub! Ready to submit? I will guide a consent-first hypnosis that uses breath and movement to quiet the mind, then step into a ritual of chastity, ownership, and daily devotion while returning you to wakeful energy. Clear rules, vivid cues, and a calm re-entry help focus grow beyond the session. • consent and memory affirmed before hypnosis • breathwork and muscle release to ground attention • ritual framing of International Male Chastity Day • keys, clicks, and symbols as daily ancho...

Jan 14, 202620 minSeason 6Ep. 6

LOCKTOBER 9 DAYS IN!

Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com LOVE SHOP 15% OFF Sex Toys & MORE Get 15% OFF sex toys, lingerie and more, using PROMO CODE: CHASTITY QUEEN Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for...

Oct 10, 20258 minSeason 6Ep. 5

Surrendering Control: Hypnotic Journey into Chastity

Dive into a guided hypnotic journey exploring dominance, submission, and the psychological aspects of chastity and power exchange. • Consent and boundaries established for safe hypnotic practice • Progressive relaxation techniques to enter a receptive mental state • Exploration of chastity as both physical and psychological control • Sensory play and bondage incorporated through hypnotic suggestion • Power dynamics and ownership as central themes in dominance relationships • Psychological aspect...

Sep 25, 202539 minSeason 6Ep. 4

Your Penis Will Shrink Under My Hypnotic Control

It is time to lay back, relax and listen as I tell you how small your penis really is! In fact, it will begin shrinking for Me, if you listen to this over and over again! I love to tell men that they are small and I could do this daily! So, get relaxed, open you mind and body to Me, and accept what I have to tell you! • Special 15% discount at LockedInLust.com with promo code CHASTITYQUEEN for chastity devices and other kinky products • Follow on FetLife at chastity-queen for updates, polls, pic...

Sep 17, 202517 minSeason 6Ep. 3

The Power of Chastity

Chastity is not about torture or deprivation but rather a transformative practice that elevates men's sexual awareness and creates profound power exchange. Through controlling urges and transmuting sexual energy, men can discover deeper forms of pleasure and submission that honor their dominant partners. • Understanding why chastity is fundamentally about control and power exchange • Transmuting sexual energy into something more elevated and illuminated • Breaking free from patterns of instant g...

Jul 18, 202513 minSeason 6Ep. 1

The Crown and Cage: Building a Secret Society for Submissives

The Crown and Cage Society is forming as a structured secret society for men who embrace chastity as a lifestyle. This new female-led group will provide guidance, training, and community for submissives seeking a serious approach to chastity experiences. • Service must be humble, respectful, and filled with gratitude • The society welcomes all forms of chastity (device, mental, belt) • Members will be guided toward exploring new aspects of submission • Protocols and rules will create structure w...

May 14, 202517 minSeason 5Ep. 13

The Secret World of Male Chastity: Chastity Queen's Community of Caged Men

My dear chaste slaves, sissies and subs, The Crown and Cage Society emerges from the shadows as an exclusive community dedicated to male chastity under My guidance as High Priestess. This podcast reveals my vision for uniting chaste men in a structured environment that transcends conventional kink dynamics while maintaining privacy and ethical standards. For those drawn to the transformative potential of chastity, joining begins simply by connecting with the FetLife group "Chastity Queen's Crown...

May 03, 202520 minSeason 5Ep. 12

Sissy BIMBO Bottom

Are you constantly looking at cocks? Maybe you ARE a sissy! I have a task for you. Chastity Queen Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com LOVE SHOP 15% OFF Sex Toys & MORE Get 15% OFF sex toys, lingerie ...

Apr 23, 20256 minSeason 5Ep. 11

Unlocking the Potential of Male Chastity: The Crown and Cage Society

Discover the revolutionary Crown and Cage Society - a first-of-its-kind secret organization for men devoted to chastity and female-led relationships. As Founder and High Priestess, I'm opening the gates to my Chastity Kingdom where purpose meets pleasure in denial. With 100+ keys already in my possession and thousands of followers locking themselves away in my honor, I'm creating something unprecedented: a structured community where chaste men can find meaning beyond their cages. This society is...

Apr 20, 202519 minSeason 5Ep. 10

A Dream Estate for Crossdressers: The Queen's Vision for a Liberating Sanctuary

Dreams have power, especially when they've been nurtured for over fifteen years. Join Chastity Queen as she unveils her most cherished vision – creating a countryside Femdom Manor where crossdressers and submissives can escape societal expectations and truly be themselves. The dream unfolds with remarkable detail: a sprawling country estate with separate wings for the Queen and her sissy slaves, weekend retreats for professionals seeking liberation from their structured lives, and a renovated ba...

Mar 10, 202530 minSeason 5Ep. 1

🔒SUBS & SLAVES - This message is for you!

Task: LISTEN Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com LOVE SHOP 15% OFF Sex Toys & MORE Get 15% OFF sex toys, lingerie and more, using PROMO CODE: CHASTITY QUEEN Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launch...

Feb 20, 202510 minSeason 4Ep. 15

CUSTOM Clip for My Sissy Maid

Hello sissy maid, Listen to Me today. I have specific instructions and some helpful insight into how you must approach your job as sissy maid. Listen, obey and please Me! Chastity Queen Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at ww...

Jan 27, 20255 minSeason 4Ep. 7

CUSTOM CLIP: Message to My Dry Humping Beta Bitch Loser!

Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com LOVE SHOP 15% OFF Sex Toys & MORE Get 15% OFF sex toys, lingerie and more, using PROMO CODE: CHASTITY QUEEN Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for...

Jan 21, 20254 minSeason 4Ep. 8

Slave REMINDER

Hi slave Now and then, it is necessary to highlight what is important in a D/s. Often slaves get so wound up in their desires and fetishes that there can be an imbalance of power. Knowingly or unknowingly, a slave might begin to top, from the bottom. The Domme, begins to realize She is merely a fantasy facilitator. I think it is important to reiterate how it must be in a D/s. Now, if the power positions do not suit you, then maybe a D/s is not for you? All valid questions to ask yourself. This i...

Jan 16, 20252 minSeason 4Ep. 5

🔒 BREAKING NEWS! Celebrate International Male Chastity Day with Chastity Queen on January 14, 2025!

Hello kinky men! Unlock the secrets to personal empowerment and self-discovery as We/we celebrate International Male Chastity Day on January 14th, 2025. Join Me, Chastity Queen, as We/we embark on a bold journey that challenges the norms of manliness through a 24-hour chastity experience. Whether you're exploring solo or with a partner, prepare to uncover how temporary abstinence can lead to unexpected personal growth, heightened testosterone levels, and a renewed sense of focus. This episode pr...

Jan 14, 202513 minSeason 4Ep. 4

One on one CHASTITY Instructional

Dear sub, This episode isn't just about a fictional narrative, but a reflection on real-life experiences and the extraordinary dynamics of slave and Domme. For those curious or already practicing chastity, I present a task to you. Whether you're new to the concept or a seasoned practitioner, this instructional session is for you. Chastity Queen Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fet...

Jan 13, 20259 minSeason 4Ep. 3

My Journey into the World of Feminization and BDSM

Feminization emerges as a powerful topic as our host shares her personal experiences with submission and dominance within BDSM relationships. She emphasizes the importance of trust, communication, and exploration, encouraging listeners to embrace their desires and try new experiences in a safe, fulfilling manner. • Explaining the roles of Chastity Queen and Mommy Celeste on FetLife • Emphasizing safety and trust within BDSM explorations • The importance of mentorship in navigating the BDSM commu...

Jan 09, 202531 minSeason 4Ep. 2

2025! Embrace a Kinky New Year: Power Play & Manifesting Joy with Cinnamon!

Hello kinky listeners! This episode promises not only to inspire but also to encourage self-improvement and the pursuit of happiness in 2025. So, join me as we welcome a year of growth, joy, and optimism, and embark on a fulfilling path together. Happy New Year! Chastity Queen Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Loc...

Jan 02, 202518 minSeason 4Ep. 1

Challenge Your Wanking & Porn Habits and Transform Your Life with Chastity

Dear men! Discover the transformative power of chastity as I challenge the norms of routine stress-relief mechanisms like porn addiction and masturbation. Join me, Chastity Queen, on this journey of self-reflection and empowerment, where we question whether these habits still add value to our lives or if they have become dull, repetitive chores. Learn how adopting chastity can lead to greater mindfulness, self-awareness, and a revival of excitement in your daily routine. Embark on a guided medit...

Dec 03, 202422 minSeason 3Ep. 37

🔒 🔒 Embrace Female Power: FUCK PATRIARCHY

Why do more men choose to embrace female power, and how does this reflect on their strength and intelligence? Join Me, your Chastity Queen, as WE/we unravel the ENDURING influence of female dominance and its transformative impact on OUR/our lives. In a world often marred by patriarchy and misogyny, WE/we celebrate the rising tide of men who REJECT toxic norms, choosing instead to uplift and SUBMIT to female leadership. It's not about weakness but about breaking free from unrealistic societal exp...

Nov 09, 202423 minSeason 3Ep. 34

The Power of Chastity: TRY IT!

Men! Ever wondered how surrendering control can heighten your desires and reshape your understanding of pleasure? Imagine the thrill of being unable to touch yourself, the growing anticipation, and the profound psychological shift that occurs as you hand over control. As October approaches, there's no better time to experience the ultimate in restraint and desire. Join me as I challenge you to take the plunge, even if just for a month. Chastity IS freedom! Chastity Queen Try to connect with your...

Sep 28, 202411 minSeason 3Ep. 30

🔒 Locktober 2024: GET READY!

Hi chastity lovers! LOCKTOBER 2024 is quickly approaching! Are you concerned about the challenges of extended chastity during Locktober? I've got you covered. Learn how wet dreams might fit into your Locktober 2024 journey without breaking your commitment and get expert tips on finding the right cage through research. Whether you're participating solo or with a Keyholder, discover practical advice for negotiating terms, enhancing your experience with materials like electroshock and urethral soun...

Sep 18, 202424 minSeason 3Ep. 28

Locktober 2024 with Chastity Queen

Are you ready for Locktober???? Ever wondered what it takes to endure a month-long chastity challenge? From an intriguing encounter with a cuckold at a kink club to understanding the psychological nuances of metal versus plastic chastity devices, this episode will prepare and inspire you for Locktober. Learn the importance of selecting the right device and how to mentally and physically prepare yourself for this unique challenge. Get ready for Locktober with practical advice, like using a lockbo...

Sep 17, 202422 minSeason 3Ep. 27

From Conservative Roots to Dominance: My Journey into BDSM + Practical Tips

How does one transition from a strict religious upbringing to becoming a professional dominant in the BDSM world? Join me, Chastity Queen, as I share my unique journey of personal and sexual evolution. This episode promises to offer you practical advice on how to connect with the BDSM community and explore your fetishes. I dive into my transformation from an extreme vanilla background to embracing the diverse and complex world of BDSM, with an emphasis on open-mindedness and challenging societal...

Jun 17, 202445 minSeason 3Ep. 20

A Queen's Personal Experience:From Nightmares to New Beginnings The Art of Reassembling My Life

Hello My dear fans and followers, Facing the specters of a troubled past is a journey few can speak of with both candor and hope. My story, deeply rooted in the complexities of an oppressive religious upbringing and the struggle for personal liberation, unfolds in today's heartfelt dialogue. I take you through My attempt at therapy to focus on and improve intense dream flashbacks, the unexpected surge of nightmares, and the soul-stirring purge of my home, an act guided by nothing but my trusty w...

May 14, 202430 minSeason 3Ep. 15

How I Began My Journey as a Female Dominant. Being a Newbie Submissive + TASK

Listeners, Step into the world of BDSM with confidence and grace as Chastity Queen takes you under her wing, revealing the secrets behind mastering the role of a Domme. Uncovering the layered importance of preparation, safety, and communication in the dynamics of dominance and submission. This episode is not just a guide; it's an invitation to understand the profound responsibilities and the profound self-awareness necessary for navigating the complex world of BDSM. Get an inside view into the a...

Apr 16, 202435 minSeason 3Ep. 14
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