Here's a step-by-step guide for new tops to the ABDL world. Perhaps your partner just came out to you about being ABDL or have an interest in adult diapers or you just want to learn about participating in the lifestyle. We'll talk about: - Before you even a diaper on them. - How to prepare everything - Positioning and taping it on. - Things to say & do during and after. - How to do a thorough diaper check. Help for AB/DL Partners Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCOPP-4_vdc&list...
Dec 26, 2025•26 min•Season 1Ep. 70
Here's a step-by-step guide for new tops to the ABDL world. Perhaps your partner just came out to you about being ABDL or have an interest in adult diapers or you just want to learn about participating in the lifestyle. We'll talk about:- Before you even a diaper on them. - How to prepare everything. - Positioning and taping it on. - Things to say & do during and after. - How to do a thorough diaper check. Help for AB/DL Partners Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCOPP-4_vdc&list...
Dec 26, 2025•26 min
Hey all! I'm back after a short break & I can't wait to have a very intimate discussion about my thoughts & feelings about ABDL MESSY diapers! Am I actually into messy diaper guys & do I like changing messy diapers. Part explanation and part AMA (ask me anything). All messing ADVICE questions will be answered in a future video with ABDL friends that actually mess their diapers. NOTE: This video was from my phone so the audio is not super great. You might also enjoy an OLDER messing t...
Dec 19, 2025•35 min
My personal top 10 favorite ABDL memories from the last DECADE! Yes, I've been "in the community" for 10 years now. I've had these interests for much, much longer but never interacted with folks until 2015. Let's step back & remenice on some of the funnest ABDL moments (pretty much ALL G-rated, surprisingly!) Storytime with me! Only 2 are Halloween related!1. Trick or Treating during my Diaper Change Happy Hour at Capcon 2019.2. Mini Haunted house in my room during Trick or Treating Capcon 2...
Aug 30, 2025•24 min•Season 1Ep. 69
3 female diaper tops ( SitterSunflower, MommyMelanie & Diaperperv) & Livewire25 (switch) give our tips on how to be a better "diaper sub/bottom" if that's the role you aspire to be in the ABDL dynamics! In this chill, conversation, we hit all the points including, messaging, hygiene & hearing vs. listening plus more! Lots of giggling & some pull up twerking. You can find us all on FetLife under our usernames. All Diaperpervs Links here!...
Aug 01, 2025•24 min•Season 1Ep. 67
After a short break, we're here to catch up with SitterSunflower who's been doing AB/DL sessions in Vegas since Feb. So many questions like:What's your favorite things you've done so far?Favorite session activity?How do you feel after a session? and more! Just a casual conversation updating us on her diaper fantasy facilitation journey with me, MommyMelanie Livewire25 & her daddy RecklessJay (all of us are found on Fetlife under our names! ABDL bathtime tips: https://youtu.be/ZpSNKzjgJsY?si=...
Jul 25, 2025•24 min•Season 1Ep. 66
You asked them on social media & we (Livewire25 & I) answer them. I actually missed a few questions that I had saved on my phone; whoopsies. I feel like some of our answers weren't the most thought out but we tried our best! Drop any advice below in the comments. Diaperpervs Links are here!
May 30, 2025•32 min•Season 1Ep. 65
Some are "WTH" moments in the modern ABDL timeline and some are actual mainstream events that involved diapers that have gone viral! Joined by Greejay & SailorinDips plus an anonymous ABDL; we have a blast talking about all these fun & crazy things that have happened. Not all are bad things. All in-community drama avoided. All Diaperpervs Links are here!
May 23, 2025•26 min
Some are "WTH" moments in the modern ABDL timeline and some are actual mainstream events that involved diapers that have gone viral! Joined by Greejay & SailorinDips plus an anonymous ABDL; we have a blast talking about all these fun & crazy things that have happened. Not all are bad things. All in-community drama avoided. I'm also uploading the video version which has lots of visuals and additional notes. All Diaperpervs links are here!...
May 23, 2025•26 min•Season 1Ep. 64
This isn't a new problem but people have being calling me literally WHATEVERTHEFUCKTHEYWANT for many years and I've been taking it! FULL STOP TODAY! I still get so mega angry triggered when ppl call me stuff like "mistress mommy domme professional dominatrix" and ALL combos of those things. Let's talk about what those words mean and why I do not like it. I have a name. Use it. I don't go around calling every person who enjoys diapers a "loser slave sissy b1tch cuckold" right?? I just wouldn't. B...
May 16, 2025•20 min•Season 1Ep. 63
SORRY! The ENTIRE 30min audio is now uploaded. This is supposed to be May 2nd episode. Let's do a TMI "Ask Me Anything!" TMI means Too Much Information, as in ask VERY personal questions where I'll give way too much detailed, cringe info. I got a lot of General Advice type questions as well but I'll answer those in a future video.I answer all the SPICY questions first; ones about fists, messy diapers & more.Then I give my opinions on other topics HONESTLY.Hope you enjoy! Next week is a very ...
May 10, 2025•29 min
Who hasn't felt guilt or shame with liking AB/DL, diapers and ageplay?I think the answer is most of us. We (Greejay & JayBDL) have a LONG & EMOTIONAL (ok, it's me crying as usual) discussion about dealings with these feelings. How does our guilt/shame play into our relationships? How do we start finding self acceptance?This one is more of a casual conversation & it gets DEEP. I deal with my own diaper purge & work through it on camera. Weigh in with your own stories & opinion...
May 09, 2025•53 min•Season 1Ep. 62
Aging while one part of you wants to be young again! It's gonna happen to each & every one of us. What's it like being in our 40's and seeing the demographics change at events? JayBDL and Greejay have a long discussion about our feelings, perceptions and experiences in the ABDL "community" (we all participate in events and online). Do you think you'll ever "age out" and stop attending events?Do your role dynamics change when you age?
Apr 25, 2025•42 min
It can be scary going to your first AB/DL event, especially when you don't know anyone. How do you get the conversation started? JayBDL & I come up with some SAFE conversation starters (and also what not to talk about) in this video. I also inspect a 6 tape Depends diaper & it's like, why are they so thin?! Other MUNCH/EVENT related videos you may enjoy:Event Anxiety? https://youtu.be/4aVVrj69XlI?si=LdLrw4GikbOzmGjAABDL Event tips: https://youtu.be/GTyeAmfWY0o?si=NuKNMqe3-xFsIZz8
Apr 18, 2025•26 min•Season 1Ep. 59
We're excited to announce a brand new convention, the first of it's kind, DiaperFetCon - a DL focussed gathering! There are plenty of ABDL events but here's one for DLs to have their kind of fun. Oct 29-31, 2025 in Las Vegas, Nevada! Complete with interesting classes & seminars such as:- Restraints & Diapers- Introducing your partner roundtable- Feminization makeover classes & swap- Messing 101 & 102 - Learning bum toys & pegging.Parties, ice breakers games & even a mini ...
Apr 01, 2025•9 min
Livewire25 suggested I write a book about my time as a professional diaper fantasy facilitator and I'm like "nope! I'm way too lazy and no one wants to know all that stuff. They can just book a session with any pro DFF" and he's like "people want to know what's behind the velvet rope" and I"m like "you're ridiculous. I'll just make a tell all youtube video instead." So here it is. Why did I start? What was my first session? How did ppl find me? Crazy stories!? Perhaps! Joined by MommySunflower (...
Mar 20, 2025•54 min•Season 1Ep. 58
Join SleepySunflower (FetLife) and Diaperperv as we work out our personal ABDL boundaries on video, LOL. What happens when our boundaries get crossed, how to we discover our boundaries and learning how to say no. How do we communicate it to others?Then we try Jelly Belly "Beanboozled" where you don't know if the jelly bean is a yummy flavor or a GROSS flavor! Could it be Juicy Pear or Booger?! Find out with us! My links can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com
Mar 07, 2025•23 min•Season 1Ep. 57
I'm answering more of your questions today (from YT, FB & Twitter). Stuff like: How can we foster a better ABDL community to What to bring for babs on the go! You can watch the AMA part 1 (Reddit edition) here: https://youtu.be/COthEmCT_bo?si=KmQrnpdJuBy8S2Dq For my Ask Me Anything about ABDL Sessions (last year), here's part 1: https://youtu.be/avHw8UTkhvI?si=TQ9ueMgrNefQOroCand part 2: https://youtu.be/OnxJz1O_F7U?si=GnKAscmqySxiERmF Thanks for all your interesting & fun questions! Unt...
Feb 28, 2025•29 min
We've got Diaperperv (straight), MuscleDogSlayer (gay) and Baby Donny (bi) having a casual and honest discussion about the differences & similarities between gay, straight and mixed ABDL events. Is there drama in both circles? Do you go to different events or do you stick to one type only?Add MuscleBard https://bsky.app/profile/musclebard.bsky.social BabyDonny is http://www.twitter.com/Draven_navarro on Twitter. Diaperperv can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com
Feb 21, 2025•30 min•Season 1Ep. 55
It's been 3 years since my last AMA. I did an "Ask Me Anything about being an EX-Pro Diaper Fantasy Facilitator" last year here: https://youtu.be/avHw8UTkhvI?si=Gk9YU0_eD4wv738H and Part 2 here: https://youtu.be/OnxJz1O_F7U?si=QKYkU4QR4DeRix0uThere were so many questions, I had to split it in two. I balanced them the best I could; most of these are from Reddit. Enjoy and leave any comments below. Join me next week for more of your questions answered! All my links at: http://www.diaperperv.com...
Feb 14, 2025•30 min
It's Diaperperv, Livewire25, SleepySunflower and her daddy RecklessJay here to share some ABDL and general kink advice! We talk about some of the non engaging and less than stellar messages we've gotten and how that can affect peoples perceptions of you when you transition to a real life event! Aka. the cr*p that we deal with & how not to be that person. If you get inappropriate messages, link them to this video as an educational tool! All my links at http://www.diaperperv.com
Feb 07, 2025•31 min•Season 1Ep. 53
We (LiveWire25 & SleepySunflower) do a mini review of the new Potty Training Dropouts - Beddy Bye adult abdl diapers. They have a heat pressed outer, non-plastic backed shell & can hold up to 6500ml of pee. They are hook & loop closure style & the inner lining has a "pearl embossed core" for max absorption. Sunflower also wets her first ever diaper and we all clap. SleepySunflower & Livewire25 can be found on fetlife. Diaperperv can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com...
Jan 31, 2025•10 min•Season 1Ep. 52
We've got our first couple on the show & Sunflower (and her Daddy) are going to explain how she converted him from being TOTALLY VANILLA (didn't know what BDSM meant) to living this dynamic as an authentic 24/7 Daddy/BB Girl couple. Some great advice ahead so tune in! Also, a beautiful announcement & Livewire also cries a little bit. I hope this gives you hope that you'll find your partner in the future! References we mention: MilkWebs Youtube Channel, Daddy AF podcast on Spotify....
Jan 24, 2025•34 min
This is one of my "hot mess" videos where I had no new ideas but I wanted to keep the streak of weekly Youtube uploads going (this is Week 11). I actually taught a class on convention dropping at Capcon 2020 but I totally go off script & just jump around today. If you don't know what it is, it's the psychological let down (sadness, lethargy) after the excitement of a big event! There are plenty of youtubers who address event dropping with lots of great self care ideas. So don't watch this on...
Jan 17, 2025•20 min•Season 1Ep. 50
I forgot to upload this last week, whoops. It's my husbands 3rd?? time on my Youtube channel & this is 100% leading this interview. I honestly had NO clue what questions my husband was going to ask me (he wouldn't let me see) so all answers are authentic but not well thought out, if that makes sense. I reveal some heartfelt things I've never said out loud before. I also talk about some "origin story" stuff about how I got into ABDL. Yeah, I fucking cheese it up hardcore here.
Jan 14, 2025•42 min•Season 1Ep. 49
Happy New Years!! Let's start off with some silly adult, consentual ABDL diaper games for your next gathering, convention, party! Baby Donny & I literally came up with these on the fly. Do you have any game ideas involving adult diapers? Let's hear em in the comments! Diaperpervs links are here!
Jan 03, 2025•12 min•Season 1Ep. 48
The fact that we can come up with 10 iconic moments in history that changed the AB/DL (Adult Baby/ Diaper Lover) trajectory of how you lived, discovered & interacted as one... means we've come a long way! Join me & Baby Donny as we discuss these life changing events! Not in any order: 1. The first DPF printed newsletter! 2. You'll just have to watch! All my links here! Follow baby Donny here!...
Dec 27, 2024•21 min•Season 1Ep. 47
The fact that we can come up with 10 iconic moments in history that changed the AB/DL (Adult Baby/ Diaper Lover) trajectory of how you lived, discovered & interacted as one... means we've come a long way! Join me & Baby Donny as we discuss these life changing events! Not in any order: 1. The first DPF printed newsletter! 2. You'll just have to watch! All my links found here! Follow Baby Donny on his Twitter!...
Dec 27, 2024•21 min
What does community service look like in the AB/DL lifestyle? I share the ways I've given back to the community (yikes, if I sound preachy or like I'm bragging, I really don't mean to). I also share ways that you can get involved with community participation (lots of different ways for your comfort levels). Why do it? It just feels good to pitch in and be part of something bigger than yourself. Hope this was inspiring & helpful!! Happy Holidays. All my links at http://www.diaperperv.com...
Dec 20, 2024•14 min•Season 1Ep. 46
Just checking out my friends new ABDL Nursery (where we live, Las Vegas, NV) and I'm seeing a lot of this stuff for the first time myself! Open the drawers with me. Half the video we just talk about diapers, lol. I discover some new (to me) Japanese diapers from Amazon. Friend is Mister_EEEE on FetLife if you'd like to add him! All my links at http://www.diaperperv.com
Dec 14, 2024•29 min•Season 1Ep. 43
