Desire on Fire

Aimee Batuski & Ellie Montgomerie•www.desireonfire.com

Welcome to the Desire on Fire podcast! (Formerly With Pleasure) We're Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie, intimacy experts and two best friends on a mission to help YOU put pleasure first and own your feminine power. If you are ready to become a powerful agent of change, who allows your desires to lead the way as you step into a whole new world of freedom, manifestation, and ease, then you're in the right place! On this podcast we interview friends, lovers, experts, and thought leaders to remind you that no matter how big, wild, or taboo your desires are... you CAN have it all.

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Episodes

Ep. 7: Vulnerability Hangover with Julia and Kelley

On today’s show I get deep with my two Bali roommates, Julia and Kelley. We dive into re-evaluating unhealthy relationships with people, substances, and sometimes ourselves. We talk through the portals of growth that got us here and the purposeful work that we continue to do as we keep on our journeys to finding what truly serves our own desires. We get into: Personal growth and untapped freedom. Conscious and aware sex and asking for what you want. 12 step programs and the stigma conditioning s...

Jun 04, 2020•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 7

Ep. 6: Go With the Flow with Travis Day

The journey to personal growth and discovery is my deep passion. I share this passion with my amazing friend Travis Day and on today’s show, we get into the juicy relationship between the two of us. We reflect together on our past and the resistance, acceptance, and healing that has resulted from our experiences, shared and otherwise. We talk about what happens when you just start asking yourself, “what do I really want?” We get deep into: Learning to receive, trust, and heal through Orgasmic Me...

May 27, 2020•1 hr 29 min•Ep. 6

Ep. 5: Learning to Receive with Ellie Shepley Montgomerie

In our culture, we are taught a lot of things that do not serve us. Things that limit our beliefs and bind us to truths that disconnect us from others. In today’s episode, my best friend and business partner Ellie Shepley Montgomerie comes on to talk about how to give ourselves the permission to accept all the parts of ourselves that we do not embrace. We get into: The dynamics between the feminine and masculine energies. Finding depth in relationships through self-acceptance. Dropping into a se...

May 20, 2020•58 min•Ep. 5

Ep. 4: Journey to the Nest with Debbie Baxter

We all hold different levels of trauma that have driven our insecurities or self-doubt. Finding a way to release this pain is essential to stripping ourselves down and finding the freedom to live a pleasurable and protected existence. In today’s episode, I sit down with Debbie Baxter, artist, mother, woman of sincerity, and among so many other things - creator of The Nest Project. We get into her creative response to her own wounding and the injustice of our culture and how she helps take people...

May 13, 2020•58 min•Ep. 4

Ep. 3: Living an Unconventional Life with Lauren Harkness

There is an energy that runs through our lives. It affects everything - our love, our community, our money, our patterns. What if we were to harness that energy and work on trusting ourselves to create the life we want? What if we challenge societal perspectives and reveal our inner truth? In today’s episode, we get into some really juicy topics with Lauren Harkness, Tantra Educator and Co-Founder of the Tantra Institute. We relieve some of that pressure and silence around sexuality and discuss ...

Apr 29, 2020•47 min•Ep. 3

Ep. 2: Learning Self-Love with Gina Swire

Big, small, fat, thin, these constructs have bound us to a reality that isn’t our truth. In today’s episode I talk with Gina Swire, former plus-size model, current manifesting queen and self-love mentor. Her mission: to help women fall madly in love with themselves. So let’s do it! Let’s create some time and space to really dive into this issue of our own power and self-acceptance. We discuss: The damage of negative self-talk Her career as a plus-size model and the effects of the industry Decidi...

Apr 28, 2020•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 2

Ep. 1: It’s My Pleasure To Meet YOU

Do you have an unmet desire? Something you really want that is out of reach or you are simply not allowing yourself to have? I invite you to go on a journey with me to challenge what you know and get into what ignites and blocks us from living out the electric life we want. We will talk about: My personal journey and experience as an intimacy coach living an authentic life The importance of mentorship and the incredible teachers that molded me Valuing ourselves and our worthiness to allow abunda...

Apr 28, 2020•35 min•Ep. 1

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