Difficult but Beneficial Conversations about End-of-Life Care - podcast episode cover

Difficult but Beneficial Conversations about End-of-Life Care

Mar 21, 202327 minEp. 154
--:--
--:--
Download Metacast podcast app
Listen to this episode in Metacast mobile app
Don't just listen to podcasts. Learn from them with transcripts, summaries, and chapters for every episode. Skim, search, and bookmark insights. Learn more

Episode description

For families and dementia care partners, palliative care can help improve the quality of life for their loved ones and themselves by addressing physical and emotional needs. However, starting conversations around end-of-life care and planning can be difficult. Dr. Elizabeth Bukowy joins the podcast to explain the difference between palliative and hospice care, share how families and care partners can start these challenging conversations, and discuss why these discussions are essential for quality of life.

Guest: Elizabeth Bukowy, DO, CMD, assistant professor, Medical College of Wisconsin Division of Geriatrics; medical director, Lutheran Home and Congregational Home

Show Notes

Learn more about the 20th Annual Update in Alzheimer’s Disease and Related Dementias on the Wisconsin Alzheimer’s Institute’s website.

Watch the full keynotes of the event on our YouTube channel. Watch the pre-conference workshop for new dementia care professionals on our YouTube channel. Dr. Bukowy’s keynote starts at 1:46:46 in the recording.

Learn more about Dr. Bukowy in her bio on Froedtert Hospital’s  website.

Learn more about palliative care from our past episode, “Palliative Care And Hospice Conversations For Dementia Patients, Families And Caregivers.”

Connect with us

Find transcripts and more at our website.

Email Dementia Matters: dementiamatters@medicine.wisc.edu

Follow us on Facebook and Twitter.

Subscribe to the Wisconsin Alzheimer’s Disease Research Center’s e-newsletter.

Transcript

Intro

I’m Dr. Nathaniel Chin, and  you’re listening to Dementia Matters, a podcast about Alzheimer's disease.  Dementia Matters is a production of the Wisconsin Alzheimer's Disease Research  Center. Our goal is to educate listeners on the latest news in Alzheimer's disease research  and caregiver strategies. Thanks for joining us.

Dr. Nathaniel Chin: Welcome back to Dementia  Matters. Today I'm joined by another key speaker from the Wisconsin Alzheimer's Institute's (WAI)  20th Annual Update in Alzheimer's Disease and Related Dementias conference, Dr. Elizabeth  Bukowy. Dr. Bukowy is an assistant professor in the geriatric and palliative medicine division  at the Medical College of Wisconsin and Froedtert

Hospital in Wauwatosa, Wisconsin. She's also  the medical director for the Lutheran Home and Congregational Home and a practitioner at  the Clement J. Zablocki VA Medical Center. Her work focuses on advanced care planning and  dementia education, as well as end-of-life care, which was the topic of her WAI annual update  presentation, “Difficult Conversations around Palliative Care,” this past November.  Dr. Bukowy, welcome to Dementia Matters.

Dr. Elizabeth Bukowy: Thanks,  Dr. Chin. Happy to be here.

Chin

You are a geriatrician and a palliative care  physician. What led you to pursue training in both fields, and how do they best complement  each other in the work that you're doing?

Bukowy

I have always loved older adults.  I've always known that that is what I wanted to focus on. I volunteered in a memory care in  high school. And then before medical school, I actually took a year off and spent time at a  nursing facility doing certified nursing assistant work. Once I figured out that I could only work  with the older population and that I could even further do just nursing facility care. I knew  that this was really where I was going to be,

and I've been sold and never looked back.  The palliative care piece came just from one of those light bulb moments with a family  interaction, and it was just one of those things that I knew I had to do with this additional  fellowship to really ensure that the way they compliment each other is, not only can I take  care of somebody's loved one who is older, but also when they come into my nursing facility,  they know that I can take care of them from the

moment that they enter the door throughout their  entire life, no matter how long that life is.

Chin

It's incredible that in high school, you  knew not only, "Oh. I wanna be a doctor." But you knew the exact specialty and the exact  setting that you were going to be working.

Bukowy

Yeah, just one of those things, I just always knew older adults is what  I wanted to spend my life doing. And yep, never looked back, especially in the nursing  homes. I just always knew that was my place.

Chin

That's wonderful. And of course, we need care. We need providers like you in  those nursing homes. So your talk at the WAI Annual Update was on difficult conversations  around palliative care. Now, in my experience, people often have the wrong or incomplete idea  of what palliative care is. So I'm hoping you can describe palliative care for us and how  it differs in particular from hospice care.

Bukowy

Sure. It is kind of sometimes a nebulous  term that is thrown around. I'll try to describe it in a couple of different ways and hopefully  one of them sticks for the listeners. At the simplest level, palliative care has been  rooted in the hospice movement. However, unlike hospice, you don't have to have  a terminal or a near-death condition. You can think of it as a special service for  any age and stage of somebody's illness. It

can be done in addition to potential curative  treatments. That's like the simplest way you could look at it. It's kind of this, a little bit  of a gray zone in between curative treatments, management with a doctor and certain appointments.  And you have this thing, this diagnosis, you have dementia or the beginnings of dementia.  We know what's gonna get worse, we're not there yet. So how do we make that time good quality  time? And that's kind of where palliative focus

is. Not the, "now we're near death", "now we're  talking about hospice." It's that middle range, and for different illnesses – for dementia, that  palliative care range could be an involvement; could be much larger and a longer relationship  with those providers. For a medical community, it's a newer specialty. We just got into  our training and board certifications around 2006 and 2007, so we're in a newer specialty  when you think of different heart specialists,

brain specialists, things like that. It's usually  a team approach. The benefit of palliative care is that there's a lot of different people that  are focused on somebody's quality of life. You can have clergy members, social workers and  case managers. You have a physician or an advanced care provider and psychologist. Sometimes you can  have music, than entologists thanatologists or music therapy. So there's a lot of holistic, whole  body support that comes with palliative care.

Sometimes we get questions of, "Well, where is  palliative care?" Really, palliative care should be provided in any setting because somebody's  quality of life is always important no matter where they're at. Palliative care can be on the  inpatient. If people are admitted to the hospital, there is usually a palliative care team. There's  outpatient appointments,o you could go to a clinic. There is some home-based palliative care  programs that are usually rooted in a home care

agency or a hospice agency. There's some different  levels, but also any provider that you have, you can ask them to talk about some of these  bigger picture ideas in somebody's quality of life. If we dive into it a little bit deeper,  really a palliative care provider can focus on difficult treatment symptoms due to somebody's  underlying illness and engage in some of those, what we would call "difficult medical  decision." In the medical community,

we would use the term "goals of care." And we  really just think of that with our patients and our family members as those really difficult  conversations where we talk about the big picture. We really try to support patients and families  and try to provide anticipatory guidance to them as their illness progresses, and also try  to help with making plans for the future.

Chin

There's so much that palliative care  does. And what your answer highlights so much of what I tried to explain to my patients,  which is it's not that we're giving up, it's not that we're doing less. In fact, it's the  opposite. We're involving more people, more teams, thinking outside of the box in this holistic  manner to treat conditions, to treat symptoms, to think about the future. And that it can be  actually more intensive than what people think

meant there to be person-centered, but whole  person. And so I appreciate your answer. And also that it's in every context, every setting.  You can be in a hospital, it can be at home. But it is for serious conditions in general. If you're  a healthy individual, you wouldn't necessarily need palliative care, but it is sort of also an  approach. It's an approach to how we provide care.

Bukowy

I like to say it's a lot of the art  of medicine rather than some of that science and guideline of medicine. It's really, we're  not looking at really somebody's lab work and

all that kind of stuff. We are talking to the  person, seeing how they are able to function, seeing how they are able to think and  express themselves, and trying to figure out what makes that life, quality life and  trying to help people talk through: “Well, if this is what somebody's quality of life is,  then these are the treatments moving forward that seem to make sense to either maintain  that quality of life or try to improve it.”

Chin

So then what does palliative care offer  people living with dementia, more specifically?

Bukowy

Because dementia can be such a long  illness, in the beginning, if somebody's diagnosed with dementia, advanced care planning and these  kind of discussions about quality of life and what makes their life quality and how we can  maximize that quality for as long as possible. So having those discussions when our loved ones with  dementia are still able to express their wishes,

potentially, we're not taking away care, we might  just be transitioning care. So discussions about putting potential limits to care when it doesn't  seem to make sense or benefit somebody's quality

of life. I always like to ensure proper paperwork  is in place, so talking about a power of attorney, if anything financial needs to be done –  not that us as a medical provider does that, but giving that recommendation – and  having the discussion about code status, about if somebody would like to be a full  code or do not resuscitate and having those discussions about what that means not only for  their body, but also for their brain and chances

after somebody does have a CPR event. Also talking  about going to and from the hospital anymore. And maybe somebody when you're talking to them in  the beginning still has benefit of going to the hospital. At some point they may say, “if I get  to this point,” whatever that point is for them, “I no longer want to go back and forth to  the hospital.” Some of those big pictures are helpful to kind of address when our loved ones  with dementia can actually express those wishes.

Chin

And so on this podcast, we talk  a lot about those clinical syndromes of dementia, mild cognitive impairment. So I want  to know what you think about palliative care, perhaps even earlier than dementia in this  whole spectrum of cognitive change. Is there a place for it with someone who has mild  cognitive impairment (MCI), but it's due to a progressive condition like Alzheimer's  or Parkinson's disease or Lewy body disease.

Bukowy

I think there is. For some of the same  reasons that I just touched on about making sure the proper paperwork is in line. The other  thing is that it's such a big responsibility and a job to be somebody's power of attorney.  I've been asked by family members, and I say, “I will do this for you, but we're going to sit  down and have a conversation about what you want

done in certain big picture situations.” When  somebody has mild cognitive impairment, it's that perfect time of getting that information in line,  getting it to all your medical professionals, but also you as a power of attorney or a  caregiver, knowing not just that that paperwork is there but what that paperwork means and how  you can best advocate for your loved one as their

dementia progresses. So I think for MCI, that's  really a big piece of it. For somebody that has, well, really anything, Alzheimer's, dementia,  Parkinson's, or Lewy body – specifically with Parkinson's disease that progresses to dementia  too – is that there's gonna be a swallow aspect of it. We all see our loved ones with Parkinson's  disease develop a wet voice, issues with swallowing, and risk of having lung infections or  pneumonias. Somebody that has Alzheimer's disease,

they may forget how to eat appropriately and  not be able to swallow appropriately. In the beginning, doing discussions about “would you want  a certain modified diet,” because for some people, food is quality of life. So asking if that is  something that they would ever accept. And then talking about if you get repeat pneumonias  because you can't swallow and unfortunately, it's because of your brain you can't swallow.  Is there a point when we wouldn't want – when

you wouldn't want to go back and forth to the  hospital? So I think you have to add in that specific swallow piece really with all dementias,  because we know that it's likely gonna happen to everyone at some point. So that's an  important piece to put in there as well.

Chin

Many people with serious medical  conditions will ask their provider, “how long do they have left to live?” This  question becomes even more prominent when they have a condition like dementia. So  how do these conversations go with you, and how accurate do you think  providers are in giving estimates?

Bukowy

I'll start with that last bit of  the question, and we are not accurate. I think we all want to be, and we all wish  that there is some science of medicine. We wish there was some really good guideline  that we can check some boxes and figure out, “this is when our loved one is expected to die  from their illness.” We really don't have those. This is that art of medicine, again, where we look  at somebody and we say, “well, because our loved

one isn't getting up, they're not eating, they're  not as alert,” things like that. All those little things are meaning that we may be nearing our  dying time. However, we're just not very good at saying what that time looks like. I find that we  get much better when time is closer. When somebody is very near their dying time, something like  hours to days, providers are very good at saying that. However, beyond that, sometimes there's a  gray period where we as providers have a hard time

saying your loved one is somewhere in weeks or  months or maybe even many months to years. We're not good at kind of breaking that part down. When  I'm talking about this conversation with patients, I always tell them that I'm gonna be honest  with them. And I try to, what I would call, give them a warning shot, and really just say  that to my patients and their family members, that we're gonna talk about some hard things. Is  that okay with you? And by doing that, it gives

them the chance to kind of mentally prepare that  this is gonna be a hard conversation. And also if there are people in the room that maybe they would  not want there, sometimes there's grandchildren or neighbors or people that aren't really involved  in the medical care, it gives them a time to kind of look around the room and say, I'd like this  person to leave, or I'll ask, “is it okay with these people in the room?” It gives them that  opportunity to prepare and also make sure the

people they want in the room are there. I would  say that for the most part, everybody says yes, that they are ready and that they want to know  their own prognosis. Really when I'm talking about it, I try to start by asking how much they  have heard about their medical illness and how are they feeling about it. That kind of gives me  good grounds for figuring out where we're at. So if I'm talking with a loved one who says, “Mom  does not have a quality of life anymore. She's no

longer able to respond with her environment around  her. She's barely able to eat what she loved.” That's a much different conversation about  prognosis because then we can really get right into where we're at as far as time, versus if  somebody does not seem to have a good knowledge of where their loved ones is at, then sometimes  we have to do a little bit of catch up with giving some information. When I'm giving somebody  prognosis, I always do a range. Again, I'll

ask like, “has anybody ever talked to you about  prognosis?” Most people say, “No.” And when I ask if they would like to know prognosis, most people  say, “Yes.” I think there's only been two times where somebody's ever said, “No, I don't want to  know what my time is.” Or depending on somebody's ethnic background, they may say, “Please tell a  different family member, I don't actually want to know.” Then we go into what the range of time is.  I always do a range because you're always going to

have that person who wants to put it in a calendar  and mark the day that you have given. So I always do a range. I talk about hours to days or long  days to short weeks. I'll talk about long weeks to months or maybe several months. I'll always  say too that I don't have a crystal ball and that people surprise me either way. Sometimes they  die sooner or sometimes they die after the the

estimated time that I give. I also try during this  time to add some anticipatory guidance for what families can expect, because you could give this  range but if they don't know what they're looking for with their loved one then it's not as helpful.  So I do try to give families some anticipatory guidance about what dying time looks like and  how we know that dying time is getting closer. I'll talk with them about breathing changes or  skin changes, changes in their cognition and

their function. We'll also talk about what that  means as far as somebody's eating and drinking and then I'll usually take it a step further and  say how we use medications for comfort to ensure that that dying time or that near dying time is  as comfortable as possible for their loved one.

Chin

That is a very comprehensive and intense  discussion. I'm glad you shared all the details because these are things that I'm not aware  of and I've been having these conversations or similar conversations for years. I  am surprised that people don't want to know – or there are very few people who don't  want to know that most people do want to know

what their prognosis is. And I think as a  clinician, that's important to hear because that's probably something we're not really  sharing because of our own discomfort in being able to give that information. So having  a layout like you've done is very helpful. I think for our clinicians that are listening,  that's a very helpful way of presenting it.

It leads into my next question, which is another  difficult part of the conversation. Because an important component when talking about future care  planning is to talk about code status, and you alluded to this earlier. That's a medical term. It  can be technical, but it's also really important to the person and the families and certainly to  the healthcare system, particularly inpatient if

you're in a hospital. How do you approach the  conversation of code status? What do you think are important things for people to know about  code status before talking to their provider?

Bukowy

I try to make it a conversation. I  really try to paint a picture for families so that they know that we can do a lot of things  up until somebody's heart and lungs stop and they are considered to have died and then also talk  about, if they choose to have a full code status, what that means for potential success rates  and what recovery afterwards could look like for their loved one. I always want to make sure  that at what is included with a do not resuscitate

and a full code.I will always say that we try to  prevent someone's heart and lungs from stopping, you know, our goal as medical providers, and that  we can treat infections with antibiotics, we can provide fluids. We can give oxygen, medications,  and try to treat heart attacks and strokes. So all of those things are usual medical care as  long as that aligns with somebody's wishes.I always say that it includes going back and forth  to the hospital. Just because somebody is a do not

resuscitate doesn't mean that it's no treatment  or no hospitalizations.I'll say that despite these interventions, if somebody's heart and lungs  stop and they are considered to have died at that point, what would you or your loved one want done  at that point? We'll talk about if you want CPR or chest compressions, if you want shocking and to  be placed on life support with a breathing machine

in your lungs – that's called “Full Code.” If at  the point that you are considered to have died and your heart and lungs no longer are working, and  if you say, "I would like a natural death at that point," and not to do those things, that is what's  called a “Do-Not-Resuscitate”, “Do-Not-Intubate.”

I think sharing with patients and family members  that there is a range of treatment options before somebody's heart and lungs stop is very important  because people get scared that if they choose a do-not-resuscitate that that means that anything  that happens to them from now o, we're not gonna manage or we're not gonna treat. That's absolutely  not the case. We treat plenty of things for people that are do-not-resuscitate, and also that they  know that they do have the option to go back and

forth to the hospital. People can be uncomfortable  with the conversation. However, they really need to weigh the risk and benefits of any intervention  that happens to them. A heart doctor or a cardiologist would talk to you about the benefits  of certain cardiac or heart medications but that seems a lot less scary, whereas when we're talking  about someone's heart and lung stopping. I mean, this is one of the most invasive procedures we're  ever gonna have done to our body or our loved

one's body. It feels weird because we're almost  asking for consent or approval before we even know when this event is gonna happen. However, it is  one of the most important consent processes that we all have to think about and really weigh  what makes sense for us and our bodies or our loved ones' bodies. People need to know that doing  full code interventions does not treat somebody's underlying medical illnesses, that if they've  had heart, lung, kidney, any other multitude of

issues, dementia, it is not going to cure those  events. In fact, somebody is gonna come out of a successful code event in worse shape, both  functionally and thinking and cognitively wise, especially in our older adult populations. Being  a full code doesn't give us a new heart and lungs. It just makes the current heart and lungs that  we have sicker and potentially more damaged, and now our brain is even more damaged because of  the whole event. So that's just really important

for people to know. Sometimes they don't think  of the fact that it's not what we see on TV and that it's a really invasive process  and that unfortunately the success rate for an older adult – and you add older adult  with dementia or other health illnesses – the success rate is incredibly low, and those that  do survive, they have a multitude of cognitive and functional limitations that usually leads  to them needing more and more and more support.

Chin

So to end, we have a lot of listeners  that are family members of people living with dementia or cognitive change. What  conversation should or could they start having with their loved ones? And how  do they initiate those conversations?

Bukowy

It's a very hard conversation to  have. Depending on your relationship with your loved one, it can make it even a more tenuous  conversation. I recommend just talking with your loved one and saying, “This is gonna be a hard  conversation. I know neither of us wanna have it. However, this is going to happen to everyone at  some point. And to be your best advocate, as our mentation continues to decline, as our dementia  progresses, I need to talk to you about this.”

That's my personal way about it. You just ask and  say, “This is hard. I need to be your advocate. We need to have this conversation.” By having the  conversations early on, you don't need to do the entire thing. You can start it. You can give that  warning shot of, “Hey, mom, dad, aunt, uncle, we need to have this conversation. Why don't we pick  a time, 15-minutes down the line, and we're gonna do part of the conversation.” So you can kind of  break it up into chunks if you start early enough.

And again, like I said earlier that, I wanna make  sure that any power of attorney documentation is done, that this is a great time when our loved  ones are able to tell us what's important to us so we can be their biggest advocate as their dementia  progresses. Getting any other trust, living will, any other legal documents or paperwork, all of  those things taken care of is really important to try to have while our loved ones can tell  us those things. You can also use home safety

depending on where our loved ones are living. That  can be a very touchy conversation too because so many of our family members and loved ones are very  fiercely independent and want to remain that way as long as possible. But this can be a time where  you can say, "Hey, we're not there yet. However, we do need to talk about your driving in the  future or your cooking safety or our drug safety or – depending on where you live and what you're  interested in – gun safety.” All of those things

are wonderful to have conversations about early on  and make a plan. And they're hard conversations, but they need to be done, and the biggest thing is  going to be asking what makes their life quality life and that, if and when that quality of  life isn't able to be achieved or reached, what they would want done or not done to them  at that point. Honestly, as a family member, you don't need to go through every scenario. You don't  need to say if this, then this, if this infection,

then this treatment. If you know your loved ones  quality of life wishes and what that big picture is, and you tell the medical providers, we're  able to then give you recommendations on what treatments make the most sense to either get or  maintain that quality of life for your loved one. So talking about tube feeding or dialysis for  somebody's kidneys or prolonged life support,

all of those things are great. If you're able to  do that, wonderful. But if you're not, and you're just able to say, “My loved one would never want  to get to a point where they couldn't interact with their surroundings,” or, “My loved one loved  eating. And if they can't eat, they would not want to always be on a tube,” or something like  that. If you just know that big picture quality of life and share that with us as the medical  professionals, we can help kind of navigate

what that means as far as medical treatments in  the future. That's really what it all comes down to is just making sure that somebody's quality  of life is maintained for as long as possible.

Chin

With that, I'd like  to thank you, Dr. Bukowy, for your excellent presentation at WAI and  the care that you're providing the community.

Bukowy

Thanks for having me.

Outro

Thank you for listening to Dementia  Matters. Follow us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, or wherever you listen or tell  your smart speaker to play the Dementia Matters podcast. Please rate us on your favorite podcast  app -- it helps other people find our show and lets us know how we are doing. Dementia Matters  is brought to you by the Wisconsin Alzheimer's

Disease Research Center at the University of  Wisconsin--Madison. It receives funding from private, university, state, and national sources,  including a grant from the National Institutes of Health for Alzheimer's Disease Centers. This  episode of Dementia Matters was produced by Amy Lambright Murphy and Caoilfhinn Rauwerdink and  edited by Haoming Meng. Our musical jingle is

"Cases to Rest" by Blue Dot Sessions. To learn  more about the Wisconsin Alzheimer's Disease Research Center and Dementia Matters,  check out our website at adrc.wisc.edu, and follow us on Facebook and Twitter. If you  have any questions or comments, email us at dementiamatters@medicine.wisc.edu.  Thanks for listening.

Transcript source: Provided by creator in RSS feed: download file
For the best experience, listen in Metacast app for iOS or Android