It's Caller Day! Today's caller, Claire, is in a happy relationship. However, her boyfriend's sister is rude in small ways. Are these slights a matter of obliviousness, dominance, or maturity? And is confronting her the right path? Can we *ever* hope for genuine harmony with our partner's family? Watch on for the Shandy take! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episode...
Nov 11, 2021•52 min•Ep. 502
Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.postmates.com (or use the app!) and use code SHANDY to get 50% off your first 5 orders of $50 or more! - Go to https://www.betterhelp.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first month of therapy! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, mean...
Nov 10, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 547
Today's topic came hotly requested and we're thrilled to be joined by a familiar face: Whitney Bischoff Angel, winner of The Bachelor Season 19! As an experienced fertility nurse, as well as a woman who has gone through the egg freezing process herself, Whitney is more than qualified to answer the Shandies' burning fertility questions! Whitney shares the leading contributing factors to infertility, whether or not the age 35 is overblown as being THE age when fertility begins to drop, the step-by...
Nov 04, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 89
Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Please note this episode contains spoilers about the next Bachelor—refer to time stamps below. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to get 35% off all bedding and loungewear! - Go to https://www.manscaped.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off + free shipping! 0:00 - Episode 3 Kick-Off 1:44 - Group Date #1 27:35 - Bachelor Spoiler Warning - Skip To Next Section 28:12 -...
Nov 03, 2021•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 504
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Why might a guy disappear after sex? If you want to rekindle with an ex, or "double dip", where's the line between following your heart and being cavalier with someone's feelings? And "number ratings": uncomfortable truth or unnecessarily cruel? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Q1: Did He Hit It And Quit It? Q2: The Guy I'm Seeing Rated Me A "7 Or 8"—Is He For Real? Q3: Living Together Led To Our Breakup, But No...
Oct 28, 2021•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 508
Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.rothys.com/SHANDY for $20 off your first purchase! - Go to https://www.postmates.com and use code SHANDY for 50% off your first 5 orders of $50 or more! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season be...
Oct 27, 2021•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 520
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 You may notice today's Love Fest is a little bit different! In honor of Andy's obsession with big waves, we're welcoming the stars of HBO's hit docuseries, 100-Foot Wave! This episode is where you'll catch Andy in a very rare state of being starstruck. Garrett McNamara, 8-time Guinness World Record holder for largest wave ever surfed, is one of the biggest names in surfing. His wife, Nicole, is not only his manager but also a passionate environmentalist and teacher. They'...
Oct 21, 2021•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 540
Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.betterhelp.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first month of therapy! - Go to https://www.manscaped.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off + free shipping! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season bef...
Oct 20, 2021•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 515
It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Marcela. Marcela struggles between waiting for the light at the end of the long distance relationship tunnel, versus wanting to live life to the fullest as a single and unattached woman. Where's the line between holding out for something good and heeding FOMO's siren song? Listen on for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.betterhelp.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first month of therapy! - Go to https://www.franklyapparel.com/SHA...
Oct 14, 2021•58 min•Ep. 529
For anyone going through a breakup, or just anyone whose patterns around love and dating need rewiring, this episode is for you. Today's guest is the founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp, a retreat that takes a scientific and spiritual approach to healing the heart. She is also the author of the instant bestseller Breakup Bootcamp: The Science of Rewiring Your Heart . Needless to say, she knows a thing or two about breakups and how to recover from them! Amy shares the top 3 mistakes people make whe...
Oct 07, 2021•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 549
By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down the finale of season 7. Thanks to our sponsors! Go to https://www.grove.com/SHANDY to choose a FREE starter set with your first order! Go to https://www.manscaped.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off + free shipping! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhil...
Oct 06, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 546
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How soon is too soon to doubt a relationship you just entered into? If your longtime friend has been neglected you for some time, should or shouldn't you attend her wedding? Are "white lies" just a matter of convenience or do they amount to red flags? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Q1: Are Everyday Annoyances Simply A Part Of Marriage? Q2: For Feminism Reasons, My Sister Refuses To Let Our Father Walk Her Down...
Sep 30, 2021•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 521
By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 10 of season 7. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hea...
Sep 29, 2021•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 545
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Sharleen's best friends from the franchise, Jasmine Lorimer, the one and only Bachelorette Canada! She and her boyfriend of nearly 2 years, Eric, join Shandy to talk first impressions, how they complement each other, how they navigate different love languages, and of course, how they FIGHT! This one's a real treat for our Canuck Shandies (especially those born in the 80s!) as the Canadian references never stop. 🇨🇦 Finally, one of the funnies...
Sep 23, 2021•1 hr 32 min•Ep. 522
By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 9 of season 7. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.getquip.com/SHANDY and get $10 off your smart electric toothbrush! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $15 off your dermatology visit! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. A...
Sep 22, 2021•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 538
It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Vivian, who is in a happy relationship but with one caveat: she doesn't feel understood when it comes to their exchange of gifts. Does this speak to a greater issue? Just how important is the effort behind gift giving, and what if that effort is barely there at all? Listen on for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.franklyapparel.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first purchase! - Go to https://www.hellotushy.co...
Sep 16, 2021•56 min•Ep. 524
By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8 of season 7. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear...
Sep 15, 2021•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 510
Dear Shandy is officially 1 year old! We wanted to do something a little different to celebrate this milestone, so we asked you over on Instagram to submit your questions. Shandies, THANK YOU for a truly rewarding and enriching year of podcasting. Listen on to hear us reflect on this journey! Sharleen's "Starting A Podcast" blog post: https://www.alltheprettypandas.com/blog/dear-shandy-podcast Q1: A Toast To Our Shandies! Q2: Why Did You Start A Podcast? Q3: Who Are Your Dream Guests? Q4: Which ...
Sep 09, 2021•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 531
By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7 of season 7. Thanks to our sponsors! Go to https://www.grove.com/SHANDY to choose a FREE starter set with your first order! Go to https://www.manscaped.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off + free shipping! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile...
Sep 08, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 533
By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of season 7. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear...
Sep 07, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 509
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How much should you hold out for your fairytale? How many friendships with exes is TOO many? And is it worth it to re-pursue a former high-paying career, even if it's at the cost of your partner's? This episode also features Andy's kissing tips (you do NOT want to miss these). Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes ...
Sep 02, 2021•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 520
By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of season 7. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear...
Sep 01, 2021•54 min•Ep. 503
By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of season 7. Thanks to our sponsor! Visit http://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off and free shipping on your Hello Tushy bidet! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded th...
Aug 31, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 525
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 We have YOU, dear Shandies, to thank for this Love Fest as you passionately requested this wonderful couple. Today we are joined by Jess Ambrose, stylist and co-host of the Chatty Broads podcast, and her husband Evan Ambrose, musician, producer, and co-host of Chatty Bros! This couple may not be directly from the Bachelor world, but they are more than qualified thanks to their famed podcast and commentary, so this marks our first foray into non-Bachelor coupledom! Jess an...
Aug 26, 2021•1 hr 27 min•Ep. 557
By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3, season 7. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear S...
Aug 25, 2021•46 min•Ep. 517
By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2, season 7. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear S...
Aug 24, 2021•47 min•Ep. 503
It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by TWO callers, both of whom have meet-cute stories with guys at friends' weddings. With Nicole, we decipher a text thread, and with Leila, we discuss the importance of a meeting story. Where's the line between serendipity and forcing a square peg into a round hole? Listen on for the Shandy take! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art...
Aug 19, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 507
By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere of season 7. Thanks to our sponsors! Visit http://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off and free shipping on your Hello Tushy bidet! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarde...
Aug 17, 2021•48 min•Ep. 532
Have you been seeking marriage or a longterm relationship but find it eludes you? Have you ever wished someone would just give you the honest truth about what's up? Today's guest is the famed straight-shooting relationship author, Tracy McMillan. Tracy shares what she believes the single biggest mistake people make when it comes to dating, why she thinks FWB arrangements aren't a good idea, and her thoughts on masculine/feminine energy in a dating climate which, unlike a mere decade ago, forces ...
Aug 12, 2021•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 63
Shandy is back with your recap of the finale of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Thanks to our sponsor! Visit http://www.manscaped.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off and free shipping! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). B...
Aug 10, 2021•1 hr 31 min•Ep. 558
