When it comes to finding true love and truly loving yourself, self-worth is the key. Dating is made so much more difficult in a society that lacks self-worth. In this episode, Franny gives guidance on changing your mindset around self-worth and actions to take to actively change it. When you feel more self-worth, it changes who you’re attracted to and what types of behavior you’ll put up with while dating. If you’re ready to go deeper and finally have the true love relationship you’re seeking, y...
Oct 15, 2021•26 min•Season 3Ep. 84
Have you ever had someone sweep you off your feet, only to ghost you or break things off suddenly? If so, you know the pain of love bombing, one of the toxic behaviors that can happen while dating. The good news is, you can avoid getting love bombed when you know what it looks like and how to respond when you see the signs. In this episode, Franny breaks down how to protect yourself from love bombing while dating. If you’re ready to go deeper and finally have the true love relationship you’re se...
Oct 08, 2021•24 min•Season 3Ep. 83
Dating online can be hard, especially if you have a bad or ineffective dating profile. Most people aren’t great at writing a profile that attracts the right kinds of matches. But after this episode, you’ll know exactly what to write in your online dating bio to stand out online (in a good way)! In this episode, Franny walks you through the 5 elements that make a great profile, and how to incorporate them into yours! If you’re ready to go deeper and finally have the true love relationship you’re ...
Oct 01, 2021•23 min•Season 3Ep. 82
Online dating is a great tool, but what about meeting people offline, in real life? Do you know how to make that happen in 2021? In this episode, Franny shares how to actually find dates in the real world. And she encourages you to embrace her mantra: “Every time I leave my house I have the potential to meet someone special.” This episode provides simple reminders to allow one to trust in the universe, in addition to using unconventional methods to lead to more serendipitous dates. Please share ...
Sep 24, 2021•21 min•Season 3Ep. 81
In this episode Franny drops a hard truth—we are the common factor in all of our relationships… which includes your unwanted dating pattern. Franny breaks down the steps to changing your unwanted dating pattern for good! Whether it’s going after emotionally unavailable people or relationships that fizzle out quickly, or not dating at all —-coming to terms with these patterns will lead to change and more successful and fulfilling relationships. If you’re ready to go deeper and finally have the tr...
Sep 17, 2021•22 min•Season 3Ep. 80
Season 3 starts off with the basics and THE most important dating skill -- flirting. Francesca shares how to step up your flirting game. Flirting is fundamental in building more confidence and spontaneity around dating, and gives you the ability to meet and connect with more potential partners. If you’re ready to go deeper and finally have the true love relationship you’re seeking, you’re invited to join The True Love Society , Franny’s membership community for single women. Get a monthly live m...
Sep 10, 2021•25 min•Season 3Ep. 79
In this introduction to Season 3, Francesca explains how this season will focus on the questions How to Find True Love and How to Truly Love Your Life . Each weekly episode will tackle a different question relating to dating and true love, from flirting, to how to get over your ex, to how to change your dating pattern. Get Francesca’s on-demand flirting workshop, Ready, Set, Swoon here . Get a FREE audio course on online dating, learn your Dating Archetype and more at www.spreadtruelove.com . Ge...
Sep 10, 2021•5 min
Season 2 wraps up with a replay of a live dating advice Q&A @dearfranny recently hosted on the social audio platform Clubhouse. Along with her special guest co-host, @princeamari, Francesca answers a wide array of audience questions. Plus -- she announces the big change coming to the podcast in Season 3! Take the Dating Archetype™ quiz HERE and Submit your dating advice question for Season 3 HERE Keep in touch! @dearfranny on Instagram @dearfranny on Twitter @dearfranny on Facebook @dearfran...
May 21, 2021•1 hr 23 min•Season 2Ep. 78
In today’s special episode @dearfranny breaks down how to diagnose your dating challenges, and talks to 4 previous clients. These amazing women share exactly how working with Franny helped them to get closer to true love. Join Franny for The Confident Dater, her online course that will transform your love life! Try TCD for a week and if it isn’t for you, Franny offers a money-back guarantee. What is there to lose? Grab your spot today. Visit www.theconfidentdater.com to enroll! The cart closes A...
Apr 03, 2021•51 min•Season 2Ep. 77
In today’s episode, @dearfranny gives a brief history of the origins of Valentine’s Day and explains the importance of focusing on the love within ourselves. Using the holiday as an opportunity to dive deeper into the relationship with self and practicing self-compassion and suggestions for self-care. Special thanks to our sponsor, Audible! Get your free 30-day Audible trial: http://audibletrial.com/dearfranny Resources to help you date and live with more ease and flow: Text DATINGQUIZ to 44-222...
Feb 12, 2021•17 min•Season 2Ep. 76
What’s The Fairytale Industrial Complex? The shame fog? The fantasy cloud? In today’s episode, Francesca (@dearfranny) breaks down the mindset blocks common to dating, and how to clear them. Whatever the roadblocks that might be keeping you single, this episode will help you clear the path towards the love you want! Join Francesca and special guests for The True Love Summit , happening February 11th-14th. On Clubhouse & and Zoom! Special thanks to our sponsor, Audible! Get your free 30-day A...
Jan 29, 2021•30 min•Season 2Ep. 75
Today’s episode is a rebroadcast of an oldie but a goodie! In this episode, love coach Francesca (@dearfranny) goes over 5 main questions/ tips to ask yourself to ensure you are not just going through the dating motions. Sometimes just a little mindset shift is the thing that really facilitates the breakthrough that you're looking for! Do you go on lots of dates that go nowhere? Are you looking for instant chemistry? Reflect on your part; what am I projecting into the world? Do you find dating s...
Jan 15, 2021•35 min•Season 2Ep. 74
Can we be taught how to date? Is there such a thing as being strategic when dating? In this episode of the podcast, love coach Francesca (@dearfranny) says “yes!” and teaches the steps to take to be intentional about dating. Listen in to learn more about how to build a foundation, the questions to ask yourself, why self-reflection and awareness are important, and how to be intentional when using dating apps. Become a member of Francesca’s text community to stay in touch and find out more about t...
Jan 01, 2021•33 min•Season 2Ep. 73
Today love coach Francesca (@dearfranny) introduces Human Design and discusses how understanding your aura type is the foundation of starting to understand your design. After listening to this episode you’ll understand each of the five aura types and your strategy: Manifestor Generator Manifesting generator Projector Reflector Through the end of December 2020, Francesca is offering three one-on-one Human Design consultations. To enter, text 323-402-6863 and tell her two things: Human design type...
Dec 18, 2020•33 min•Season 2Ep. 72
Today love coach Francesca (@dearfranny) hosts Aycee Brown, a psychic channel, spiritual leader, entrepreneur, and podcast host. Aycee offers people a deeper look into themselves helping them to reframe who they are and clarify where and why they belong through spiritual self-development, Human Design, astrology, and metaphysics. She's also the host of the Is My Aura on Straight? podcast. Listen in as Francesca and Aycee connect about how she realized she was intuitive and had psychic gifts, und...
Dec 11, 2020•53 min•Season 2Ep. 71
Today love coach Francesca (@dearfranny) hosts Toni Jones (@iamtonijones), a well-being leader for women and an affirmation musician. Through her stories, she embodies her brand’s message to wife your life through well-being. She teaches how to be more conscious and empowered in our well being and to love ourselves more. Listen in as Francesca and Toni connect about her career journey from coaching to music, what it means to wife your life and put your relationship with yourself first, and the c...
Nov 27, 2020•57 min•Season 2Ep. 70
Today, love coach Francesca (@dearfranny) hosts Tangia Reene, women’s empowerment coach, travel and wellness blogger, and podcast creator. Listen in as Francesca and Tangia connect on body image, starting her business, and self-worth. Francesca and Tangia also dive into understanding your why when it comes to body image, diet, and fitness. Tangia Renee: Tangia’s IG: @tangiarenee Free Body Society: www.freebodysociety.com Special thanks to our sponsor, Audible! Get your free 30 day Audible trial:...
Nov 13, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Season 2Ep. 69
Listen in to hear love coach Francesca (@dearfranny) discuss 6 mindset shifts to supports you in your quest for love. Your mindset is the filter through which you see possibility and reality. After listening to this episode you will know how to change your mindset around these 6 love blocks: Rejection Pessimism Unworthiness Self Judgment Being closed off Lack of gratitude We all have mindsets that serve us at times, and we have mindsets that don't serve us at times. When it comes to love, your m...
Oct 23, 2020•31 min•Season 2Ep. 68
Listen in to Francesca’s (@dearfranny) and comedian London Hughes’ hilarious conversation. Besides being a comedian London is also a writer, an actor, an executive producer, and incredibly brave, as you will hear. The friends chat about how London got into comedy, her drive, and the challenges she has faced, not just in the industry but in life. Francesca also talks about how beauty is subjective and ask successful people to reconsider what they are looking for in a partner. Just a reminder that...
Oct 09, 2020•45 min•Season 2Ep. 67
Today love coach Francesca (@dearfranny) speaks about heartbreak and romantic disappointment. Whether you are the one that walked away from the relationship, was walked away from, or had your heart stomped on. This episode will inspire you to heal from heartache and disappointment so you can grow from the experience and get closer to having the relationship of your dreams! Francesca breaks this down into 3 main steps; Allow yourself to feel your feelings free from judgment Do not villainize or p...
Sep 25, 2020•32 min•Season 2Ep. 66
Love coach Francesca (@dearfranny) is moving beyond the fantasy of ‘true love’ we have all seen in the fairy tales and is talking about actual love. Today she goes over 5 elements that define a true loving relationship. True love is intimate. True love is safe. True love is committed. True love shows respect. True love is joyful. This episode will encourage you to not only assess your past or present relationship but also inspire you to have the humility to understand that you may need to do som...
Sep 11, 2020•21 min•Season 2Ep. 65
Today love coach Francesca (@dearfranny) goes over 5 main questions/ tips to ask yourself to ensure you are not just going through the dating motions. Sometimes just a little mindset shift is the thing that really facilitates the breakthrough that you're looking for! Listen in to hear more about how reflecting on these questions can change your dating life! Do you go on lots of dates that go nowhere? Are you looking for instant chemistry? Reflect on your part; what am I projecting into the world...
Aug 28, 2020•31 min•Season 2Ep. 64
In today’s episode, love coach Francesca (@dearfranny) addresses the question of what SHE would do to meet someone during the pandemic. She also provides the exact 10 action steps she would do, simultaneously, to meet someone special during the COVID-19 pandemic, while sheltering in place. Hopefully, this episode will inspire you! See the action steps she lays out below. Get on a traditional dating site Be on a dating app Start flirting on Twitter Turn video on and do some zoom classes Find grou...
Aug 14, 2020•19 min•Season 2Ep. 63
Let’s just start by saying my mother is amazing. I’ll follow that by saying little did I realize how strong, selfless and amazing she is until I looked back at how she raised me, always allowing me to be myself. It is through her tireless pursuit of ambitious goals and fierce refusal to compromise her values that she instilled in me an appreciation for treating others as I would love to be treated. We unpacked her childhood days during the segregation period, growing up as the last born in a fam...
Jul 31, 2020•53 min•Season 2Ep. 62
This week's special episode is a rebroadcast of the Purple Pants Podcast featuring our own Francesca (@dearfranny) with the delightful Brice Izyah (@briceizyah). Tune in to hear them discuss : How one can be open to the possibility of meeting someone and still work on their aspirations and goals. (And yes, this is very possible!) How to make yourself available to receive back the same amount of energy with which you put yourself out there. How to deal with negative self thoughts by compassionate...
Jul 17, 2020•40 min•Season 2Ep. 61
“Anyone can be a creative. It’s just a matter of embracing creativity and taking on its identity.” Do you believe this? Do you consider yourself a creative person? Well, by the end of this episode, you probably will! Nadia (@nadiapayan) is an artist, mentor and guide who believes that the path to embracing your creativity is being willing to accept yourself as you are. This week, Francesca and Nadia discuss how one can embrace their path to finding their creative muse, how love and creativity ar...
Jul 03, 2020•52 min•Season 2Ep. 60
Now is the time to show yourself some love more than ever. Over the years of being a love coach, Francesca ( @dearfranny ) has realized that falling in love and getting your perfect match depends on so many factors. People are in different places in terms of their readiness for love, how they feel about themselves and how that determines who they are attracted to. Some of the love blocks you might experience while looking for love are self imposed. They include: The fear of rejection Pessimism F...
Jun 19, 2020•34 min•Season 2Ep. 59
What is your purpose? Some define their purpose as their careers, their passion or even what makes them wake up every morning. However, Francesca (@dearfranny) believes that someone’s purpose is the intersection between talent and abilities, and opportunities for one to be of service. Where do the things that you are naturally good at intersect? Are there things that you sometimes take for granted because they come so naturally to you? Things like making people to effortlessly open up to you, or...
Jun 15, 2020•16 min•Season 2Ep. 58
“The world needs you to love yourself enough that you can then go out and be a powerful force for love and change for others.” In this week’s episode, Francesca (@dearfranny) shares how one can go the extra mile in fighting the battle between justice and injustice - by showing themselves some love. While condemning injustice by posting on social media plays its role, taking care of yourself first goes a long way. So if you are looking to be genuinely grateful for the person you really are (if yo...
Jun 05, 2020•26 min•Season 2Ep. 57
Dana Hamilton ( @dana_hamilton_ ) is done with diet culture. As a comedy and sex writer who shares her own journey through eating disorder recovery, she’s got a lot to say about how to ditch the toxicity of diet culture and dating culture. Now an anti-diet dating coach, Dana shares her views on body positivity, intuitive eating, and having the great sex you deserve! Connect with Dana: Dana IG @dana_hamilton_ Dana Twitter @Dana_Hamilton_ Dana’s Patreon https://www.patreon.com/DanaHamilton Dana’s ...
May 29, 2020•52 min•Season 2Ep. 56
