This episode was inspired by a @manlydeedspodcast clip where the hosts express their love of the show Love on the Spectrum. It’s also Francesca’s favorite dating show, and in this discussion Francesca encourages listeners to consider how they can create new dating norms that prioritize authenticity and connection. Get your copy of Francesca’s new book, How to Find True Love: On Bookshop On Amazon On Porchlight (for bulk orders) On Barnes and Noble On Books-a-Million Join Franny and the True Love...
Apr 25, 2025•23 min•Season 6Ep. 144
In this episode, Francesca Hogi celebrates the launch of her first book, How to Find True Love: Unlock Your Romantic Flow and Create Lasting Relationships. To celebrate, she’s giving away prizes that include a Theragun, a signed copy of the book and more on Instagram. No purchase required. Enter before Friday, April 11th @dearfranny ! Get your copy: On Bookshop On Amazon On Porchlight (for bulk orders) On Barnes and Noble On Books-a-Million Join Franny and the True Love Society community on Patr...
Apr 08, 2025•19 min•Season 6Ep. 143
In this episode, Francesca shares a personal story about a relationship that taught her invaluable lessons about self-love, intuition, and the importance of listening to herself on her dating journey. She shares the need for self-awareness and how learning from painful past experiences makes for better future relationships. Pre-order Franny’s book (and take a screenshot of your receipt -- a bonus for pre-orders will be announced soon!) Join Franny and the True Love Society community on Patreon! ...
Mar 21, 2025•16 min•Season 6Ep. 142
In this episode, Francesca discusses self care, the importance of being present and intentional in love and dating. She breaks down the unhelpful advice to “stop looking and then you’ll meet your person” and shares what to do instead. Pre-order Franny’s book (and take a screenshot of your receipt -- a bonus for pre-orders will be announced soon!) Join Franny and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for free live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! https://www.patreon.c...
Mar 07, 2025•22 min•Season 6Ep. 141
In this episode of the Dear Franny podcast, Francesca reflects on the complexities of Valentine's Day and the emotional challenges it can bring. She also talks about the grief associated with letting go of old patterns and the courage required to take your love life to the next level. It’s not always easy, but you are worth it! Join the True Love Class Series ! Pre-order Franny’s book! Join Franny and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for free live monthly sessions, a library of r...
Feb 15, 2025•20 min•Season 6Ep. 140
Inspired by a memorable quote from a matchmaker that’s stuck with her for over a decade, Francesca discusses the importance of us looking out for each other romantically speaking. In this episode, she encourages us to take care of ourselves and each other by embracing a more collective approach to dating, moving away from the isolating nature of modern dating culture. She also introduces her upcoming True Love Class Series, aimed at preparing your for 2025’s evolving dating landscape. Join the T...
Feb 07, 2025•18 min•Season 6Ep. 139
Do you know your love assignment? We are all being called to become more loving, but do you know what that actually means for you right now? This is a can’t-miss episode for anyone looking to move past confusion and who’s ready to graduate to the next chapter of your love journey. Pre-order Franny’s book! Join Franny and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for free live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! https://www.patreon.com/dearfranny Watch Franny’s TED talk: Fra...
Jan 31, 2025•19 min•Season 6Ep. 138
Have you ever experienced a powerful dream? Have you ever had an insight or an experience in a dream that helped you in your waking life? This episode is a replay of a True Love Society conversation Francesca had with her friend and dream mentor, Angela Stalcup, on the significance of dreams and the practice of dream incubation. Angela breaks down how to use this powerful practice for yourself (starting tonight!) and they discuss how dreams can serve as a unique personal experience, a tool for e...
Jan 24, 2025•1 hr•Season 6Ep. 137
In this episode, Francesca reflects on her connection to Los Angeles amidst recent challenges, announces her upcoming book, and shares insights on setting intentions for romantic love in 2025. She emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, compassion, and community support while discussing the evolving dating culture and the potential for positive change in relationships. If romantic love is a priority for you in 2025, this episode is for you! Pre-Order Franny's Book! Join Francesca and the T...
Jan 17, 2025•19 min•Season 6Ep. 136
In this conversation, Francesca Hogi and Elle J. discuss the challenges and realizations that come with approaching milestone birthdays, particularly focusing on relationships, self-worth, and the importance of connection. Elle shares her journey of seeking a committed relationship after years of prioritizing her career, the impact of COVID on her social life, and her efforts to engage more with others. They explore the complexities of vulnerability, the significance of self-love, and the need t...
Jan 11, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 6Ep. 135
Special guests alert! In this engaging conversation, Francesca is joined by the AstroTwins, Ophira and Tali Edut, about their journey into astrology, their breakthrough IAM system, and how astrology can be a valuable tool for personal development and understanding relationships. Be sure to check out their new books, The Astrology Advantage and their 2025 Horoscope guide! Get their books HERE Learn your IAM success archetype: https://astrostyle.com/astrology-advantage/iam-archetype-quiz/ Follow T...
Dec 23, 2024•53 min
This week Francesca coaches Mary through her personal narratives surrounding her attractivenss, her ability to meet someone, and the impact of societal standards on her confidence and relationships. Mary opens up about her experiences with trauma, the challenges of navigating the dating culture, and her journey towards self-acceptance. Apply to be coached by Franny for an upcoming episode HERE . Join Francesca and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for live monthly sessions, a libr...
Dec 13, 2024•49 min•Season 6Ep. 133
In this episode of the Dear Franny podcast, Francesca Hogi reflects on her previous conversation with Tyler, focusing on the theme of honest communication in relationships. She emphasizes the importance of expressing one's needs and goals, particularly in the context of dating. Francesca encourages listeners to confront their fears and the potential downsides of vulnerability, highlighting that love and connection require conscious choices. She advocates for embracing emotional intimacy and the ...
Dec 06, 2024•24 min•Season 6Ep. 132
In this special one-time session, Tyler shares with Franny his journey of navigating self-esteem issues that have impacted his love life. He discusses a new, powerful romantic connection he has formed and his uncertainty about its future.The conversation explores the dynamics of his relationship, including the challenges of non-monogamy and the desire for clarity and alignment in their future together. Tyler reflects on his past experiences and how they shape his current understanding of love an...
Nov 23, 2024•48 min•Season 6Ep. 131
In this episode, Francesca explores the themes of self-worth, vulnerability, and relationship dynamics. Elaborating on some of the themes from last week’s 1-on-1 coaching with Allison in Episode 129, she emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's own value, choosing the right partners, and being aware of the patterns we normalize in our relationships. Francesca encourages listeners to embrace vulnerability as a courageous act and to identify their personal 'love assignments' on the journey t...
Nov 15, 2024•25 min•Season 6Ep. 130
In this special episode, we get a front row seat to a 1-on-1 love coaching session with Franny. Allison joins the show to seek help with her dating challenges, self-perception, and emotional growth. Allison candidly opens up about patterns of abandonment she’s struggled with and her desire for a healthier, more balanced romantic relationship. Listen in as Franny helps her gain more clarity and create a plan to break her old dating patterns and love herself more in the process. Watch Franny’s TED...
Nov 09, 2024•44 min•Season 6Ep. 129
In this episode, Francesca Hogi dives into the ups and downs of navigating life’s transitions, especially when it comes to dating and relationships. Ever wonder why you’re stuck in the same dating patterns or can’t quite connect the way you want? Francesca introduces four relatable dating archetypes—Avoider, Looper, Surfer, and Sailor—designed to help you figure out your dating style and uncover the barriers on your path to finding real love. With her signature mix of insight and warmth, she sha...
Nov 05, 2024•30 min•Season 6Ep. 128
In this episode, Francesca Hogi discusses her upcoming book 'How to Find True Love' and emphasizes the importance of the four dimensions of love she discusses in the book — mindset, heartset, soulset, and skillset. She critiques the oversimplified dating rules of the past and advocates for a more holistic approach to relationships that includes self-discovery and intuition. Francesca highlights the significance of following one's intuition and being open to unexpected experiences that can lead t...
Oct 25, 2024•25 min•Season 6Ep. 127
In this episode, Francesca Hogi explores the concept of true love, challenging the notion that it is a rare occurrence reserved for the lucky few. She emphasizes that true love is not just about finding 'the one' but about cultivating a relationship with essential qualities such as respect, emotional intimacy, and joy. Francesca discusses the importance of self-love and personal growth in attracting and maintaining healthy relationships, encouraging listeners to recognize their own role in the d...
Oct 18, 2024•20 min•Season 6Ep. 126
In this episode, Francesca Hogi gets listeners thinking about their love lives with a focus on self-compassion and curiosity. She highlights how important it is to break old habits and make room for new possibilities. Francesca also dives into how life changes can affect dating and why creating personal space is key for building romantic connections. She encourages listeners to take practical steps towards improving their love lives by reflecting on their patterns and making intentional choices ...
Oct 11, 2024•25 min•Season 6Ep. 125
In this episode of the Dear Franny podcast, Francesca Hogi dives into the ups and downs of dating apps, stressing the importance of being intentional and staying true to yourself when navigating the online dating world. She talks about how dating apps have evolved, their pros and cons, and shares practical tips to help you build a standout profile and effective strategy for getting OFF the apps. Franny also reminds us that real-life connections matter too—don’t put all your eggs in the dating ap...
Oct 04, 2024•29 min•Season 6Ep. 124
Join us in this episode as Francesca takes us on her inspiring journey into love coaching. She talks about the spiritual nature of love and the power of self-love to empower us to take charge of our love lives. She shares practical advice on using self-awareness and intuition in dating, and why centering love in all aspects of life is key. Whether you're navigating new relationships or looking to grow within yourself, this episode will give you the tools to embrace love in a whole new way. Takea...
Sep 27, 2024•32 min•Season 6Ep. 132
In this episode, Franny continues last episode’s conversation about keeping it real when it comes to dating. She breaks down the three levels of authenticity: knowing yourself, owning your true personality, and making sure your actions line up with who you really are. Franny also points out that being genuine isn’t just key to finding the right partner—it’s also how you can experience more joy and fulfillment in your life. Key points: - Dating norms have shifted, and the old ways of thinking no ...
Sep 20, 2024•27 min•Season 6Ep. 122
Hey everyone! Welcome back to season six of the Dear Franny Podcast! 🎉 I’m Franny, and I’m super excited to kick off this new season with you all. Today, I’m diving into my journey of writing my first book, ‘How to Find True Love,’ and I’ve got some juicy insights to share. We’re chatting about why being your authentic self is a game-changer in dating and relationships. It’s all about moving from a fear-based mindset to one that’s rooted in love. Trust me, embracing this shift can make a world ...
Sep 13, 2024•23 min•Season 6Ep. 121
Hello! We’re back with a surprise bonus episode introducing Franny’s new love manifestation offering, Believe and Receive. If you’re ready to bridge the gap between belief in the abundance of love and having a true love relationship, this 6-month mentorship program is for you! Learn more and sign up at: https://dearfranny.com/believe Keep in touch! Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk at: https://go.ted.com/francescahogi @dearfranny on Instagram @dearfrannypodcast on Instagram Credits: Edi...
Mar 29, 2024•18 min•Season 5Ep. 120
In the final episode of 2023, Franny lays out the six most common perspectives on dating that block you by making dating much more difficult. Learn how to make your love journey more fulfilling in 2024 and beyond. If you’re ready to go deeper and make 2024 your year of true love, join Franny for her new 6 class series that will teach you how to put love at the center as you date with more success than ever! Get $50 off The True Love Series when you sign up by December 31st: https://dearfranny.co...
Dec 23, 2023•31 min•Season 5Ep. 119
As 2023 comes to a close Franny reflects on the year and the advantages of setting a yearly theme. Her 2023 theme was intention, and she reflects on the impact it had on her 2023 manifestations, from her TED talk to a book deal. Franny invites you to reflect on what your 2024 has in store! WATCH Franny’s talk at: https://go.ted.com/francescahogi ***Franny’s 21-Day course, How to Date With Intention is 50% off for a limited time! Get your copy HERE.*** Keep in touch! Join Franny’s free community ...
Dec 15, 2023•22 min•Season 5Ep. 118
The wait is over! Franny’s TED talk about a world where everyone has true love is finally live! In this episode, she talks about manifesting this talk, as well as how, by embracing love holistically, we can make true love inevitable. WATCH Franny’s talk at: https://go.ted.com/francescahogi ***Franny’s 21-Day course, How to Date With Intention is 50% off for a limited time! Get your copy HERE.*** Keep in touch! Join Franny’s free community for single women, The True Love Society, by clicking HERE...
Dec 08, 2023•21 min•Season 5Ep. 117
Franny is back! With lots of major life and career updates. One of them being the release of her Ted Talk on December 8th! This episode is a brief preview of some of the topics discussed in that conversation. Including exposing some of the ways that the Fairytale Industrial Complex sets us up for romantic dissatisfaction, such as the importance we put into diamond rings, setting folks up for romance scams, and simply unrealistic relationships. ***Franny’s 21-Day course, How to Date With Intentio...
Dec 06, 2023•30 min•Season 5Ep. 116
Franny’s back from a mid-summer break with an episode everyone looking for love needs to hear. This is especially true if you’re burnt out with dating apps or repelled by them entirely. Because she wants you to know how to meet people organically and serendipitously, Franny shares the 7 pillars of her “meet cute” mindset. This is the mindset she embraced that enabled her to meet her own true love walking down the street in Los Angeles. It worked for her, it works for her clients, and it will wor...
Sep 01, 2023•23 min•Season 5Ep. 115
