Minisode: Big Boyfriend Problems with Yamaneika Saunders

Hi, Welcome to a mini episode where these are minisodes. We have a special guest on our minisode. Her name is Yamnika Saunders. Hi, Catherine, how are you today?

Hi?

Jelsey, Hi, Yamnika, Hi Ya Minika, Hi, Yamnika, Hi.

I endure you guys.

Okay, bye, bye? Okay, Catherine, what do we got with Yamnika?

Say? Well? Our first thing that we have up is a follow up from a wonderful caller. We had Wit who called it on our John Lovett episode. He was wrestling with whether or not to reveal to his longtime girlfriend's family that he's trans okay, So I checked in with him and Wit said, oh, my goodness, Hi, it's really nice timing to hear from you and give you an update.

We ended up.

Telling them, well, my partner did in a very casual conversation back in November. Long story short, they received it very well. We're honored that we trusted them with the information enough to tell them, and also said it would have been okay had we chosen not to tell them. At first, I thought, oh damn, maybe we didn't need to say anything, but ultimately it was a huge weight off my shoulders.

Yeah.

Never in the moment, never and he was worried about, like, are they going to ask awkward questions? Never in the moment, nor since then have they asked any inappropriate questions. And really just were happy that my partner was happy and could see the genuine love between us, and this week I proposed and we're now engaged. Prior to asking her, I had a conversation with her parents about my intentions, hoping to have their support. They were nothing but thrilled

Wow, that's nice.

That's a nice results. Because her family didn't know that he was trans, and she did.

Partner's family, Yeah, the partner's family.

His girlfriend's family didn't know that he was trans, and they didn't know if they should tell them or just like leave it off the table.

And I don't even remember.

I think I said to have her do it in a casual way if they feel inclined, right, Like they don't need to know that he's tranced, but like if they want to tell them that it's not really his I.

Don't remember what the fuck I said, quite.

Frankly, No, that's exactly what you said. You were like, if you really need to, And I know it was this sort of thing where some things were coming up where it's like, oh, we're going on a beach vacation together soon, so people are going to be in you know, swimsuits and I will too, and like they're a scar, you know, different things that he was like, I don't know if I need to explain this ahead of time sort of things.

People we have a scars, the shot got ketoys all over the place.

Yeah, well that's a little bit different than being tranced.

But okay, anyway, anything else, Catherine, Well, we do.

Have a caller and yaminy guy.

I'm very interested to hear well actually both of your advice on this. Okay, So Michelle says, Dear Chelsea, I've had your email address saved in my drafts for like two years. I've had many things that I've wanted to consult with you about, but things come and go. I'm currently reading your newest book I'll have what she's having, and wanted to tell you how much I love it. I just read the chapters on POOPSI Whoopsie and Oopsie and shed a tear. This coming from a girl who

For me.

He's age appropriate, has an education and a good job, and it's loving, sweet and communicative. So I would love if this would work, but I also can't wreck my body for it. Any advice or experience Michelle.

Oh god, I've never had a penis that was so big that it didn't fit, that it didn't hurt.

So you can't even get it? And are you like lubricated and ready to rumble?

Yeah, I mean we've tried it a few times. I mean I can't even get my hand around it.

Oh God, that's big, too much? I mean, what's young? Hello?

What do you have to say, Yaminika? Do you have ever experienced a penis that was too big for your.

The ways in which my vagina has other stories that can be told.

The way in which your vagina kind of adapt to a large penis, Is that what you're trying to say.

I have a very tight vagina, okay, and so a lot of times is hard for things to get in there. But I also have a competitive go get a spirit? And does he know that he is too? Like you've told him this, right, you know.

He's like he played it off at first, like it's.

Not that big.

Come on, And I'm like what After a few times, I'm like, has this been a problem in the past, And he's like, yeah, it's been a problem, And he feels bad and he really is trying, and I am trying and we haven't had one successful session.

How did yeah, what was going on there? Do that so well?

I think it's like a combination. I quit drinking for about a year just it just wasn't serving me. But I decided I needed to try drinking again.

Yeah yeah, well yeah, he got that Hennessy dick.

So I had a few drinks.

I also did some research and I found this herb called Damiana And basically it's just that you take every day and it's supposed to like help that your lining and your wetness and everything. And I feel like the combination of that, my nerves were settled a little bit from the alcohol and not being nervous that this thing coming at me. And it's still hurt a little bit. And I feel like if we keep trying, I'll just adapt more.

But yeah, it's huge. I leave you.

I believe that it's very big, and I understand that that's unpleasant. But if you really like this guy, I mean, you can warm up your vagina to a bigger penis. It works, you know what I mean, Like, you can get your vagina acclimated. I just worry after the honeymoon phase is over and you're really like then what do you do with that big dick that's coming at you all the time?

You know, Well, I'm worried like if I move on to another person, not that that's no.

It retracts, It retracts. Yeah, it goes back.

It's like when you have a baby, Your vagina goes back, you know what I mean, Like it can come and recover from a big dick. I have definitely had bigger penises and then it's gone down and it's like, oh I can still feel when I have sex with somebody who doesn't have such a big penis.

It's not like my vagina's stretched out.

You know.

Can you close your mouth? Are you getting ready? Face put that dick in your mouth, because it looks like you want a dick in your mouth right now? Is that what you want? I was just I didn't.

I looked at you the second you says something about your pissy beer stretched out. God bless what it was going on. Yeah, have to be comfortable with him. It's you know, and like I agree with everything Chelsea said after the honeymoon face and you gotta keep you know what I'm saying. Seeing him around with this nonsense, it's gonna be like, get out of here, you know, scram you and your penis got to get out of here.

I feel bad for him.

I mean, this won't even go down my throat further than this. And the thing is, it's more like triangular shape, so like at the base is wider.

Oh god, oh, anything like it? And you're really are you really into him?

I really like everything else about him is great and it's so rare for me to find.

Yeah, tell him to eat it first, and then you have Yeah, he gotta put okay, Yeah, he going to put the work in.

Yeah, my god, this is a real dilemma. I wish we knew how to open up your Pikachu more.

Well, have you tried a lot of different positions and like lots and lots and lots of lube?

Yes, yes, both, And so I think we've ruled out that we cannot do mission. It's just it goes too deep and like from behind is perfect because it can't go in all the way.

Yeah, and you can kind of move so it's not like going as deep sort of thing.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, you know that's progress.

Yeah.

I like that at a certain age, you like doggy style. You ain't gotta look at them.

You can do other things. You can do your accounting.

Yeahs, yep, yeah yeah yeah, b one hinge looking for another another man with a smaller dick.

You know, you could do all this kind of stuff.

But I've got that same go get them attitude like I want to.

Yeah, I mean, I hope, I hope it works out. I wish we had better advice for you.

Well this, I mean, if anyone has the same problem, this is called Doniana Domiana. I feel like I feel like this is really helping me.

Okay, So that's to loose, that's to get your juices flowing a little bit more like loosen things up.

Yeah, because I at like a perimenopause age too.

Yes, of course.

And everybody there's a lot of people that can have sex when they're going through perimenopause where it feels like razor blades, like you really want Also, are you on estrogen and progesterone?

No, I can't take any horm moms.

Oh you can't. So you're supposed to just go through perimenopause.

No, I don't ever want to get to the point where Dick feel like.

I know, but sometimes that can happen when you go through perimenopause.

So she needs all the help she can get. I know.

I know.

I'm the one who told you you were so I.

Knew I was at perimenopause the day before you told me. Okay, somebody you told me second that.

Okay, this is not about you, this is about our caller, and we have.

Got an amazing problem the penis. Do you have a good problem?

Okay? I feel for this guy because if it's been a problem before, like I know girls who can't deal with Big Dick's either, Like I've heard this story before. I don't know if it's the same guy, but anyway, I mean, I wish, I wish you well. I wish you and I hope that it works out for you guys. I hope it does. Yeah, Okay, yeah, blessings to y'all.

Blessings. Yeah, you need a blessing.

Okay, thank you, Carol, you too, Bye, And that concludes our minisode for today. I think, right, Catherine, I think we're done with Yaminika here, she's sitting here. Did you see her mouth open as soon as this woman described the dick and the.

Girth of it. Did you see Yama's mouth just become a jar.

It was open waiting.

For she was ready to receive it immediately you open your mouth.

I mean, that's what kind of sick fuck you are.

If you didn't have any type of reaction to what she was describing, there's something wrong with you.

There's a whole lot wrong with you. I had a reaction. I didn't open my mouth.

That was I think about it. It was so much a thinking, but I could even hold my mouth up.

I want to thank you for having me, Thank you for coming. Bye. So I added a couple of new dates.

I'm not on Tori yet, but I added a couple of dates just because I felt like we need a little bit more laughter and a little bit more medicine for the end of the year. And I was wrapping things up, but I thought, maybe let me do a couple more. So I'm adding three more dates in addition

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