Send us a text This episode (featuring Bryce Savoy) centers the experiences of a diverse group of Black fathers. They have an unfiltered conversation around the relationship with their own fathers, what fatherhood means to them, how their masculinity has been challenged since becoming fathers, common stereotypes, and so much more! This is definitely an episode you will not want to miss (especially if you're a father), as these gentlemen provide a much-needed perspective that we typically don't h...
Jun 13, 2025•1 hr 30 min•Season 2Ep. 4
Send us a text In this episode of the podcast, the guys introduce a new member to the podcast and have a conversation around Black men and the idea of success. We also talk about grind culture, how to celebrate small wins, and REST. It's been a little while, so make sure you tune in to this episode because it's another good one. As always, please "like", comment, share and subscribe!
May 31, 2025•1 hr 26 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Send us a text On this episode, the guys talk about what it would be like to only buy Black and if it's realistic. They also share some best and worst date stories they've experiences in the past. The energy was definitely lively. This is another DOPE conversation that you don't want to miss, so be sure to tap in. Please "like,' comment, subscribe, and share! *** Please note that the views expressed by the individuals on this podcast are their own, and do not represent the position of "Dear Blac...
Feb 28, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Send us a text On the first episode of 2025, the guys share their reactions after watching (or not watching) the inauguration of Donald Trump. Then they continue the conversation from the previous episode around Black men and community: how to find it, cultivate it, and what gets in the way. This is another DOPE conversation that you don't want to miss, so be sure to tap in. Please "like,' comment, subscribe, and share! *** Please note that the views expressed by the individuals on this podcast ...
Feb 12, 2025•1 hr 30 min•Season 2Ep. 1
Send us a text In the final episode of 2024, the guys discuss their thoughts and feelings around the results of the 2024 election. They reflect on the strategies of both the democrats and republicans, what went wrong for Kamala, what worked for Trump, and make some predictions about the next 4 years. They also transition into discussing the role of "community". This episode was only days after the results of the 2024 election, so emotions were definitely high and points were made. This is truly ...
Dec 19, 2024•1 hr 15 min•Season 1Ep. 13
Send us a text In this episode, the guys talk about the wild series of events leading up to the upcoming election between VP Kamala Harris and former president Donald Trump. A few topics discussed include Project 2025, how both candidate's policies will realistically affect us, and why so many Black men are choosing to vote for Trump. This is a thought-provoking episode you don't want to miss, so make sure you tune in! Don't forget to like, comment, share and subscribe! (*Please note that the vi...
Oct 04, 2024•1 hr 33 min•Season 1Ep. 12
Send us a text In part 3 our Pride trilogy, we bring in a mix of both queer and heterosexual Black men to speak on Queerness in the Black community (we know it's August, but some us are Queer 24/7)! The group discusses the potential reasons many Black folks don't accept queer folks, how folks were able to let go of their own homophobia/transphobia, the role religion plays, and so much more! This is another dope episode and one you definitely want to check out. Be sure to like, comment, share and...
Aug 09, 2024•1 hr 12 min•Season 1Ep. 11
Send us a text In part 2 of a very special Pride episode, we're continuing the conversation around Black queer male experiences. We're again joined by Eric Cole, M.Ed (WURD Radio & Hung Up Podcast)! In part 2, we talk about dating, over-sexualization vs. sexual liberation, portrayals of Black queer men in media, and so much more. We also get very candid about some personal experiences we've had! This is yet another amazing episode that you don't want to miss out on. Don't forget to 'like', s...
Jul 19, 2024•1 hr 31 min•Season 1Ep. 10
Send us a text In part 1 of a very special Pride episode, we're centering Black queer male voices! We invited two phenomenal men to join the conversation: Dr. Safi Mojidi (Founder of Hacking the Workforce and Pacletics), and Eric Cole, M.Ed. (WURD Radio & Hung Up Podcast)! This episode not only highlights the diversity of queer Black men, but it also delves into the unique and shared experiences of being queer-identified and how it shapes our presence in the world. We talk about our own expe...
Jun 29, 2024•1 hr 25 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Send us a text On this episode of the podcast, the guys start off talking about the rap beef between Drake and Kendrick Lamar. They discuss the entertainment aspect of it, but also the potential harm that sometimes follows. They then move to talking about their own current mental health struggles, the harm of holding in emotions, and how they deal with negative emotions. Black men typically have many obligations and responsibilities, but are also comfortable saying "I'm good" when we're truly no...
May 31, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Send us a text In this episode of the podcast, the guys start the conversation by talking about the allegations against P. Diddy. They share their thoughts on everything that has come up in the media about him, but then the conversation shifts to the topic of accountability. Ideally, many of us believe that we'd step in if harm was being done to another person. However, how does this change when we're out in the community versus with close friends and family? Does it change when safety is at ris...
Apr 30, 2024•1 hr 29 min•Season 1Ep. 7
Send us a text In this special episode, we celebrate Women's History Month by centering the experiences of some incredible Black Women. Kim Young, Tiffany Bacon, and Tiffany Roxanne Barrett share their thoughts around their connection to Women's History Month, how representation of Black women has shifted, how Black men can show up for them and so much more! This is an episode you definitely want to listen to! Remember to like, share, subscribe, and follow us on Instagram at @dearblackman_yougoo...
Mar 30, 2024•56 min•Season 1Ep. 6
Send us a text On this episode of “Dear Black Man, You Good?” the group plays Black History trivia and no one gets their black cards revoked. They discuss the significance of Black History Month, and what they would like to see happen within the Black community moving forward. The group also discusses mindset shifts that could help empower black youth, as well as the need for successful African Americans to help uplift and pour into the community. Lastly, they discuss ways to incorporate black j...
Mar 03, 2024•1 hr 15 min•Season 1Ep. 5
Send us a text On this BONUS episode of “Dear Black Man, You Good?” the group talks all about love! The group starts off discussing where they saw romantic love growing up. Then they move to the ways in which they express their love for their partners, differences between heterosexual love and queer love, and the ways that they like to be loved. They also talk about how toxic masculinity potentially limits how Black men show love to romantic partners, one another, and ourselves Tune in to this t...
Feb 16, 2024•1 hr 10 min•Season 1Ep. 4
Send us a text On this episode of "Dear Black Man, You Good?" the group discusses how they feel about expressing their emotions. They discuss what makes them feel emotionally safe and the overall lack of safe spaces for black men to be vulnerable. We discuss how black men have to feel emotionally connected to people to become empathetic. The group session ends with the guys giving men tips on how they can overcome fear of addressing their mental health, and ultimately healing. Sit back and liste...
Jan 31, 2024•1 hr 18 min•Season 1Ep. 3
Send us a text On this episode, the group reflects on their feelings of grief, loss and joy during the holiday season. They discuss the different ways they navigate family, the pressure of gift giving and how as adults they began to make their own holiday traditions. Marvin also gives tips on how to establish healthy boundaries with difficult loved ones. Remember that the holidays are the time of the year where people are potentially experiencing various emotions, take time for yourself to valid...
Dec 20, 2023•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 2
Send us a text In this first episode, group creator Marvin Toliver talks about why he created the group and we come up with group agreements for the space. Then we get into some dope conversation around why spaces like this don't exist for Black men, how emotions are sometimes viewed as weakness, and how holding in emotions can potentially be harmful to ourselves and the folks we love. *As a reminder this is NOT a replacement for therapy but a unique, supportive and therapeutic space for ALL Bla...
Nov 30, 2023•54 min•Season 1Ep. 1
