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Wow, I Really Love Them

Aug 22, 202315 min
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Dave and Jenny talk about how they're doing after all the big changes that took place yesterday, we chat about breathwork, what is your moment of "wow, I really love them" with your partner, and more!

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Transparency. We usually try to read emails before we put them on the podcast, because sometimes they get a little bit dark, or sometimes they get a little bit personal, or they'll ask a question that we don't really want to answer, or sometimes it's just not meant for the radio. But guess what, Jenny, I'm not pre read shit today, not reprere. I don't know what I'm going to get into. Hello'll what a big week for the show. Sad to see Fallon go, but I'm excited to see Jenny and

Drake shine even more than they already do. Me too, I mean, seriously, we've had such a great time on the show this morning, and I'm My only concern is Jenny being overworked. And I told Susan about this last night. I said, if Jenny gets to the point where she is so overworked and drained, She's going to come in one day and say I'm going to go work at the Rocky Mountain Chocolate factory at Mall of America and she won't come in anymore. I did so much chocolate and then I have

a stomach ache even more than I have here. Oh gosh, so how are you doing? Tell us like somewhat candidly without getting serious, like how are you doing with your I mean, you have a personal life, you got a boyfriend, you got a dog sitting thing on the side, that's your side hustle, and you love your dogs. But at the same time, I don't want you to come in every morning going, uh man,

this is too much. Yeah. No, I mean, I, like full honesty, have had like a few moments of feeling very very stressed. And I've never experienced a stress headache before, and I did for the first time last week, and that was like not fun because it made me actually like nauseous, and I was like, this is really fucking weird. I've never experienced this before because I just I'm always thinking of things to do, things that need to get done, whatever, and I just felt very overwhelmed.

So because I mean, we did know last week. Obviously we revealed this yesterday, but we found out last week that all of these changes were happening. So there were moments of like, I was very overwhelmed. I'm doing fine right now. I mean, there's definitely some things I'm gonna need to talk to Drake about having him help me out a little bit more. You need to do that, yeah, but I'm doing fine right now, just trying to like I don't know. I mean, it's a lot of

mindset stuff. You just gotta stay positive, like change is hard for everyone. Like I said, I love Fallen and I'm like sad to not have her on the show, but I'm also really really excited for their show and what they're going to do. So it's like a weird mixture of like I'm sad selfishly, but like also like good for her to like move on and have her own show and stuff. It really was like it's a good thing.

And people said, somebody wrote last night. They said why, and we said, well, because there's a lot of you know, like in radio. We've talked about this. I don't want to get too deep into it, but radio for music is still a very valid thing where the Twin Cities number one hit music station. At the same time, people want companionship more and more from rad and so we thought, we've got two people on KWB at least that can do a show like this. I'm one and Fallon

is the other. So that's why Fallon is on in the afternoon to bring more I don't know, content, personality, connection to the afternoon show. Ye Zach is a music kind of a guy, and he was definitely a TikTok kind of a guy, but Fallon will bring a whole new connection thing to it, and so kind of that's what radio was headed for. In the afternoon. She goes on to say, I have been and continued to be grateful to hear you. Also speaks so candidly about mental and emotional health.

I related deeply to Jenny's shares about anxiety as it used to be and still is from time to time a part of my daily life. One thing that has made a huge impact for me has been breathwork. We even this into short or longer session through my week. I explained breathwork as meditation for

those who can't meditate. I started my practice in twenty eighteen to twenty twenty, was certified as a trauma inform to breathwork facilitate or interesting Okay, not sure if it's something you tried or would be interested in, but maybe supportive to you. You have questions or want to try a session, I'd love to givet a session to you. This offer goes to Jenny everybody else on the show. If you feel called to it. Keep doing what you're doing.

So grateful you have a local show that crushes it. From Megan, I'm gonna put this out there and we'll talk about this, you know, off the podcast, but maybe we should get Megan on the show. I'll bet a lot of people if we talk to Megan for three and a half minutes one morning about breathwork. I'm going to forward this to you, Jenny, and maybe we can get Megan on the show because I don't know much about breathwork and what you do, but that could be really valuable for somebody

who's like got stress and anxiety. So email forwarded. Let's go to the next one. No, not interested. Like I said, I have not pre read these, So hello Dave, Ryan crew. Congrats on the continued success of the show and the individual success you are keep achieving. As a longtime listener, I appreciate your ability to navigate change, seeing it as a necessary part of innovation and a long term investment. Congrats to Fallon and Jenny.

I also want to share that is a long time listener about nineteen years. It's really easy for familiarity to create comfort. Listening to you all oddly provides me a sense of comfort when I need it. You're familiar. I know about your families, we have a history. I love it because I feel so close to you in almost twenty years. The announcement about Fallon felt a bit strange today. It's obviously a great opportunity for her and Jenny,

but I can't help but feel it all seemed a bit forced. It was odd hearing Fallon quickly summarized her experience on the morning show as it's been awesome, and also how she randomly wrapped up her time and you all said goodbye in the seven o'clock hour. I will say that we didn't have a rule book for how to handle it. We didn't have you know, there was nothing that was like, here's how you do it. I thought that we did a good job. We talked about it for twenty minutes, and it

wasn't as if Fallen was saying goodbye forever. Right, she is moving to the afternoon show, and I'm sure she'll make guest appearances back on the show. So it wasn't going to be a big, morose kind of a sad thing. And plus we're really bad at sad because once it turns, something turned sad one of us will make a really inappropriate joke. So I you know, like I said, there was no rule book on how to make

the announcement, but I thought we did the best we could. She did also have to go work like another shift during the day, so I know, like she had jumped off the show kind of after we had done the conversation, but like it was like we had her on until the moment we announced it because we didn't want anyone to be like, well, where's Falon like whatever, and so once we announced it, it was like, Okay,

well this is the change happening. And now Fallen has to also go work in afternoon shift, so we're gonna let her get up the morning show this morning for the rest of the morning, so she's not doing like a complete double shift for today. Yes, they say all that said, I'm going to keep listening to the morning show like I always do. Bonus for me and katwb that now they've secured my listenership twice a day. Smart move, And honestly, I think that was a big part of it was,

you know, it was like a business programming decision. Let's see, hey, this is from Dan the smart ass Dan's the one who we have on the show. And you might recognize Dan's voice because Dan, he's on probably every Friday, on no phone screen or Friday. He says, Hey, my mostly friends, Dan here from Apple Valley. I want to say that Dave, yes, you're on AARP, doesn't mean that you're worthless and really old. It's more the wrinkles on your face. L L shut up,

Dan, Sincerely your friend, Daniel. We love Dan all right. Next one, Minnesota. Goodbye, Dave. Jenny Drake. I'm sure you'll be flooded with Fallon questions, so I'll just add another one on. I missed the chemistry of you altogether. I'm super happy for Fallon and love that I'll get to hear Jenny even more. How Come we didn't get much of a warning she was leaving. It felt so sudden, and, to be honest, kind of weird. Maybe I'm being dramatic, but the news just hit

me hard this morning. Some of us don't deal well with change, and we need time to process. I hope this doesn't come across as harsh. I still love you and appreciate all your hard work. I think again, I'll go back to Jessica that there's no rule book for I mean, if you announced it a month in advance, is that the way to do it.

I was gonna say, I don't. I don't. I've never worked I've only worked really at this radio station in City ninety seven, very briefly, but I've never worked where someone left the show to still be on the station just like today. Nope. So I feel like had Fallon been announcing that she was moving to New York to go host a show out there or something, we would have done like a tribute of all kinds of things, we probably did like all the best funny bits and funny songs. Yeah,

but it was just a little bit different because she's she's still here. It just was like announced that, like now she has her own show and she'll be doing it at a different time. But I know that probably hasn't really giving you all the answer to you on here. I mean, if I was going to do it again, I might do it a little bit differently and say and play this and this and this. But I think because it did happen suddenly and we didn't really get a chance to sit back and think

about how we wanted to do it. I think we did a good job, and Foulon did a good job, and listeners did a good job of listening to find out what it was all about. But if I was going to do it again, maybe I would change it up a little bit. But like I said, there's no there's no set of rules on how to do it. So next, one random question for you this morning. What's the time in life when you thought, man, I must really love my partner, and man, I really love my partner, My man, I

really love him. Was last night my husband burned his lower back work in construction. Picture of burn the exact size and shape as an exhaust pipe on his back. I was changing his band aid last night. I was picking off the old dead skin that was dirty. I was like, holy shit, you're lucky. I love you, my man, I really love him. Was after my son was born. I had to be put under and sometimes when you have surgery under stomach, it's super painful to lift your arms,

so I couldn't wash my hair. I sat in the hospital shower on a chair, crying in pain while my husband shampooed, condition and brush my hair. I knew I loved him, but that was a moment where I was like, damn, I really love him. It's one of my favorite memories about him. I really like that. I would say, that's a

hard one. I think there's been a lot of moments. I know that I was going through something really awful tenish years ago and I said, I just need you to hold me. I just needed to lay down and I need you to hold me. And I think that and she did, And I think that was one of the times where I said I really love her. Do you have one with Andrew? I have those moments very frequently,

so I couldn't recall the first time that that's ever happened. But I do know that there's moments where I look at him and I'm just like, holy shit, I really love him. But one specifically, I think it was like, honestly, it was after Steve was let go and I was very overwhelmed, and I just you had to not only miss Steve, but also would just do all of Steve's duties. Yeah, And all of a sudden,

I was getting thrown onto all these extra segments. And I think specifically that week, we were writing a children's book or something, and I had like twenty other things happening that day, and then I knew I still had to write like a children's book to present on the show the next day, and so I felt so overwhelmed. And Andrew had he had left a little like sorry, I got distracted because I'm nervous that that has been playing the whole time. Let me check, how is the girlfriend crazy? It wasn't.

It wasn't. Sorry, I saw that, and I got so nervous. Okay, yeah, no kidding, Okay, continue, where were you? Yes, basic audio error. And while I was at living in my apartment by myself, Andrew left like a little package of nice things at my apartment which included like some cold brew and then like a gift card to Target or something just like a couple like sweet things. And I'm not really a gift person, like that's not my love language. But it was one of

the nicest moments where he went out of his way. He lived in Saint Paul still at the time. I was in Minneapolis, and he went out of his way to leave me a little nice note and care package basically because I was very overwhelmed at the time. That is a really interesting thing. You say, what is your your love language? Is presence. No, it's it's not gifts so much. Mine is more quality time and words of affirmation. Those are my top two. Gifts have never really been my thing.

Okay, as I've gotten older, I am more of a I like to give gifts a little bit more than I need to. But it's not really my love language of like I want gifts from my boyfriend. That's I'm the same way as you. I'm not a gift person. I appreciate them. I think they're very sweet. I guess because I'm like at a point in my life where I don't want more things. I'm trying to get rid of things. But I'm my own worst enemy because I ordered things in the

mail. I think my love language is gratitude and I just really like, for example, like when somebody goes and stays at my house in Colorado, I just want to know they're having a great time. They don't have to call me and kiss my ass and go Dave, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. But I just appreciate them saying thank you, we're having a great time. Or if I take somebody flying, I don't expect them to buy me like a basket of wine. And cheese.

That's not it. I just want to know that they had a great time. Yeah. And so sometimes when I do something nice for somebody and I don't get the gratitude, I'm like, oh, well, that's kind of my love language. So all right, last one, this email for you, Dave. Oh it's not for the Minnesota goodbye. So anyway, we're gonna skip that one and not do that one on the Minnesota goodbye. So we will pass that one, and I think then that is it for the

Minnesota Goodbye. Have a great day. Send your emails to Ryan Show at katiebbet dot com. I will try to preread them tomorrow, but we have been like running around like crazy, so we'll try our best. But send your emails to Ryan Show at katiebbat dot com for tomorrow's Minnesota Goodbye

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