Dating after 40? You're not alone—and you're not too late.With nearly half the U.S. population single and 70% of dating app users finding genuine connections, it's time to embrace the swipe! We break down why you should be on three apps, how to keep your photos honest (no 10-year-old selfies!), and why your first meetup should always be “just dinner.” It turns out that “Just dinner” isn’t just low pressure—it’s a smart strategy. Whether you're testing the waters or jumping back in, we’ve got tip...
Jun 06, 2025•37 min
In this episode, Tom and Bob dive into the world of datingover 40, unpacking the highs, lows, and hilarious moments that come with it. They discuss the article 20 Tips to Make the Dating Experience Smoother , offering their takes on advice like "Own Your Age," "Stay Open Minded," "Listen More Than You Talk," and "Give Online Dating a Chance." With their usual wit and real-world insight, Tom and Bob explore how dating shifts with age——and why that’s not such a bad thing. If you're back in the dat...
Apr 14, 2025•39 min
In this episode, we’re back with Special Guest Ali for Part 2 of answering your questions from our Crispy Cones event! We dive into the world of dating, tackling big questions like: Is a movie a good idea for a first date? How long should you wait to date after a breakup? What if your date isn’t funny? Plus, we discuss the best ways to turn someone down and how to handle rejection like a pro. Get ready for laughs, insights, and some brutally honest advice. Don’t miss this fun and candid conversa...
Apr 04, 2025•45 min
Get ready for a wild ride in this episode as we’re joined by our special guest, Ali, who’s reading off questions from fans who pulled up to our live event at Crispy Cones —Provo’s legendary ice cream shop serving European-inspired cones that are as tasty as they are unique. We're answering questions like: “How do I get into dating if I don’t want a boyfriend?”, “What do you guys want instead of flowers?”, and the all-time favorite, “How can I riz up a shawty?” Plus, plenty more laughs, chaos, an...
Mar 21, 2025•38 min
This week, we hit the jackpot with the incredible Julie Spira —an award-winning dating coach, online dating expert, and internationally bestselling author! If you’re in the dating game (or thinking about jumping in), Julie’s got the insider scoop you NEED —from do’s and don’ts to pro tips that’ll help you swipe smarter. Oh, and did we mention? She loves online dating! Don’t miss this one—it’s packed with advice, laughs, and maybe even a little love magic. Find Julie at cyberdatingexpert.com or f...
Mar 15, 2025•37 min
Kristen Metzger from Latter-Day Matchmaker joins us to share her expertise on the art of matchmaking and dating. With years of experience, she offers practical advice on how to confidently ask someone out, what to wear, where to go, and how to make a great impression. Her insightful tips will help you navigate the dating world with ease, whether you're reentering the scene or simply looking to refine your approach. This engaging and informative episode will leave you feeling prepared, confident,...
Feb 21, 2025•43 min
Join us for an engaging discussion on dating etiquette and proper behavior with special guest, etiquette expert Candilyn Newell. Navigating the rules and expectations of dating can be challenging, but Candilyn is here to guide you through it all. She’ll share expert insights on what to say on a date, the proper way to get into a car, how to open doors, where to sit at a restaurant, and even dining etiquette. Plus, she’ll reveal one key piece of advice that can solve all your dating etiquette dil...
Feb 14, 2025•40 min
Macie, Amanda, and Jenna spent three months hosting epic group dates to bring people together and make dating fun again! From a Wimbledon-themed pickleball night to a chaotic murder mystery, gingerbread house showdowns, and wholesome apple picking, they created unforgettable memories. But just wait until you hear about the infamous “gaslighting date” (trust us, it’s not what you think!). Tune in as they share the highs, the surprises, and the pure joy of connecting people in creative ways. Wheth...
Feb 11, 2025•45 min
In this episode, Sam Whitney, author of How to Date Authentically: End the Dating Game and Find Lasting Love , explores the shift from dating to impress to dating for genuine connection. Sam shares insights from his book, highlighting the importance of moving away from the pressure of "getting it right" and instead focusing on being authentically engaged with others. He discusses how authentic dating leads to deeper, more fulfilling connections and how true happiness in relationships comes from ...
Jan 31, 2025•39 min
In this episode, we’re joined by matchmaker Becca Sargls to discuss how self-love and acceptance are essential for both feeling and being attractive. Becca shares insights on reframing rejection, celebrating the bravery of dating, and embracing the unique traits that make us who we are. She breaks down how hobbies, habits, and community can transform your confidence and dating life. Becca also challenges the idea of dating as a search for "the one" but instead encourages listeners to view it as ...
Jan 24, 2025•38 min
In this episode, matchmaker and award-winning TV host Michelle G. joins us to discuss the concept of “cuffing season.” This time of year, between fall and spring, often leads us to seek out a partner to hold hands or snuggle up with. But before jumping into a relationship, Michelle reminds us to pay attention to red flags and ask important questions, like "Is this person present?" and "What do they bring out in me?" She also shares the top dating trends for 2025, including slow dating, avoiding ...
Jan 17, 2025•47 min
In this episode, Macie dives into the fun and flirty world of dating with a discussion on the article 51 Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl You Like and Make Her Smile. From playful prompts like “How were you in high school?” to more revealing ones like “What’s the quickest way to your heart?” Macy breaks down how these questions can spark connection and create meaningful conversations. She also shares tips on asking questions like “What are your red flags?” and “Which emojis do you use most often?”...
Jan 11, 2025•37 min
"Your dating profile is your first impression—make it count! In this episode, we dive into crafting a standout profile that truly reflects who you are. Learn tips for great photos, engaging bios, and showcasing your personality to attract meaningful connections. Love starts with a swipe—let’s make it unforgettable!"
Dec 13, 2024•43 min
One of our all-time favorite guests, Rita Goodroe, shared some of the most amazing dating insights that we've had on our show, so we just had to play this episode again! We quote her and talk about her experiences all the time, so I promise you’ll love this episode. Rita is a business manager, motivational speaker, and dating expert who talks about her unique “35 dates in 35 days” experience, where she blogged about everything she learned about herself, dating, and her life. Filled with wisdom, ...
Nov 01, 2024•45 min•Season 5Ep. 3
In this episode, fitness expert Andrea Allen shares her inspiring journey from depression to empowerment. What began as a simple walk evolved into a life-changing fitness journey, a degree in health, and a thriving business. Andrea firmly believes that physical activity isn’t just about looking good; it’s a mental boost that can help you improve yourself mentally, physically, and spiritually, and it can also help you build self-confidence. She emphasizes the importance of self-care as a foundati...
Oct 28, 2024•43 min•Season 5Ep. 2
In the Season 5 premiere, Tom and Bob reflect on some of Season 4’s standout moments, including their insightful conversation with Utah Governor Spencer Cox and First Lady Abby Cox. The couple shares their love story while shedding light on the loneliness epidemic and its alarming health risks. Tom and Bob also dive into the origin story of their podcast, explaining their mission to inspire listeners each week with compelling stories, valuable tips, and engaging guests to get out of their apartm...
Oct 12, 2024•37 min•Season 5Ep. 1
Join successful Instagram creator Kade Peterson and his best friend Lewis Johnson in this exciting episode as they dive into the importance of stepping out of your comfort zone. They candidly discuss embracing life’s challenges, tackling rejection, and finding humor and joy in dating. Kade offers a sneak peek into his 7 Tips for Wellness, sharing strategies to boost your mental and physical health. Whether you’re looking for inspiration or just a good laugh, this episode is packed with the realn...
Aug 16, 2024•55 min
In this hilarious episode, Tom and Macie hang out with Blain Fowler, ESPN and NBC sports analyst and the face of BYU sports. Blain had us in stitches as we tackled the wild world of dating. From being friends with the people you date to finding the guts to ask someone out and surviving epic rejections—we cover it all. And get this: Blain’s wife dumped him in college! He’s got the ultimate comeback story. Join us for laughs, awkward moments, and Blain’s priceless tips on turning those dating fumb...
Aug 09, 2024•51 min
In this episode, we hang out with Utah's Governor Spencer Cox and First Lady Abby Cox. They kick things off by sharing their dating and courtship story and then shift to more serious topics, like the loneliness epidemic and the health risks associated with being alone. They discuss the effects that phones and social media have on human interaction, emphasizing the importance of getting out and connecting with people. They stress that true happiness comes from having positive relationships. And, ...
Jul 26, 2024•48 min
In this episode, we have a candid conversation with two college gymnasts, Sophia and Alilah, who share their personal experiences in the modern dating culture. They shed light on how high expectations often overshadow genuine connections. Then we discuss the article “17 Relationship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore According to Therapists,” like love bombing, labeling all exes as 'crazy,' misrepresenting yourself in your dating profiles, and when your friends don’t want to hang out with your pa...
Jul 12, 2024•44 min
In this episode, we're breaking down first-date etiquette to help you make a lasting impression. First, we talk about being nice—who doesn't love a kind heart? Then, we'll cover why showing up on time is a must and why keeping your phone tucked away is the way to make a genuine connection. Plus, we're diving into the post-date text game with tips on what to say and when to hit send. So, if you need a little refresher, these tips will help you crush that first date and set the stage for round two...
Jun 21, 2024•39 min
In this episode, we sit down with relationship coach Jen Thatcher to dive deep into the world of dating and relationships. Jen shares her insights on navigating the complexities of modern romance, from the frustration of not being able to figure out your relationships to the anxiety of obsessing over being single. She’s all about self-improvement and how stepping out of your comfort zone can totally change the game. Listen for some spot-on advice about putting yourself out there and embracing yo...
Jun 07, 2024•38 min
Join us for a hilarious and insightful episode as guests Traycin & Izak share their worst date stories from a guy's perspective. From spending a date consoling his date's mother for 3 hours to getting dumped at a basketball game and enduring a dinner listening to a girl's self-professed red flags, these tales are sure to entertain. Plus, the guys offer valuable advice for guys, including having the courage to meet new people and remembering that you deserve to be happy. Tune in for laughs, l...
May 18, 2024•54 min
In this podcast episode, Bob leads a discussion on the complex world of dating psychology. Drawing on insights from two compelling articles, he tells us about the "Nice Guy Syndrome," where men feel compelled to suppress their true selves on dates, leading to diminished confidence and authenticity. Then, he flips the script and chats about an article titled "12 Signs You're Dating a Female Narcissist." This article talks about people who are total attention addicts and others who make crazy dema...
Apr 19, 2024•45 min
Get ready for Part 2 of our podcast with Jane, Kennedy, and Megan sharing more hilarious and horrifying dating experiences. Picture this: hiking through the snow for six hours, being on a date with a guy who spends the night flirting with your best friend, or how about getting lost in a corn maze only to have your date confess his undying love? Sound familiar? These girls aren't just dropping laughs; they're dishing out dating solutions and tips like pros. So, tune in for a rollercoaster ride of...
Apr 12, 2024•50 min
Join us for a wild ride on this episode as we welcome guests Jane, Kennedy, and Megan, who tell us some of their craziest dating adventures. Picture this: spilled drinks at Dutch Bros., a temper tantrum in an escape room, watching your date play Fortnite all night, and you won’t believe the "Oh, you're massive" moment. These stories are as jaw-dropping as they are hilarious. But fear not; we’re not just about laughs; we do provide some education and solutions that include the importance of kindn...
Apr 05, 2024•55 min
In our 5th edition of our listener’s favorite, Bad Date Stories, buckle up for a rollercoaster of laughter and cringe-worthy moments! From "A Trip to the Zoo with a Film Major" to the outrageous "I’ll Give You $20 to Date Her," each tale promises laughter and disbelief. Brace yourself for the unbelievable journey of "In One Night My Grandma Passed Away, I Got COVID, and I Rejected a Marriage Proposal from My Kidnapper," a saga that defies belief. And if that's not enough, we’ve got "Painting Gra...
Mar 29, 2024•38 min
In this captivating episode, join Tom, Bob, and Macie as they sit down in the studio with the witty and insightful Anjilee Ferguson, author of the new book, "Yes, No, Maybe So... A Comedy of Dating, Divorce, and Devotion." Her book is like a crash course in dating, love, heartbreak, and everything in between, all served up with a side of humor. She talks about her dating disasters, the heartbreak of divorce, and how she turned it all around to become the awesome person she is today. #datingadvic...
Mar 22, 2024•46 min
Join us for a conversation with renowned BYU professor Brad Wilcox as we discuss the evolving nature of dating. Brad shares valuable insights on dating in today's world and how societal changes have impacted our approach to dating. From appropriate behavior to debunking myths about dating and marriage, Brad offers practical advice for navigating the modern dating scene. And did you know Tom's taking credit for the changes about dating in the latest For the Strength of Youth ? You’ll have to list...
Mar 15, 2024•41 min
In this episode, join renowned body language expert Blanca Cobb as she provides insights into the subtle nuances of confident standing, walking, expressive hand gestures, and the art of inviting body language that is sure to change your dating game. And guess what? We get the inside scoop on Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce's relationship straight from a body language expert's playbook. Is it true love or just Hollywood magic? Blanca tells us everything and you won't want to miss it! So, grab your ...
Mar 08, 2024•37 min
