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Roadtrip Reflections: Navigating Memories with Dan the Roadtrip Guy

Jul 22, 20238 minSeason 2Ep. 38
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Ready to hit the open road with me, Dan the Roadtrip Guy? Buckle up as we journey through my childhood memories, back to when my truck-driving dad instilled in me a deep love for the highway and the freedom it represented. I share tales of my summer spent with him traveling the east of the USA, and the life lessons I picked up along the way. I also reveal why I ultimately chose a different path, despite my initial aspirations to follow him as a truck driver.

Now, I'm turning the rear-view mirror to face you, our listeners, challenging you to reflect on your own childhood dreams and life paths. The journey is more than just a personal narrative; it's a larger reflection on cherishing our memories and recording them for posterity. So, let's hit the road together on this heartwarming episode of Dan the Roadtrip Guy and explore where our past takes us! You can find me online at dannyneal.com. See you on the road!

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Speaker 1

Absolutely nothing beats windshield time . Welcome back to Dan the Roadtrip Guy , a podcast where we have candid conversations about life lessons learned on the road . I'm your host , bimmer Enthusiast and Roadtrip Extraordinaire , dan Neal . And now on to the show . It's just me today and no guest on the show .

I just was reminiscing about my childhood with a coworker yesterday and just felt like putting this out there and keepsake for me , if nothing else . Growing up , I had wonderful parents and my dad was an owner-operator of a big rig . The truck I remember is a 67 Kenworth and he drove that from probably 1967 and 1989 when he retired .

Growing up , all I ever wanted to be was a truck driver . I think as kids we always want to be something Astronaut , fireman , policeman , race car driver which maybe I wanted to be that a little bit too . But I vividly remember wanting to be a truck driver , just like my dad .

I love the open road , I love the thoughts of the independence and freedom you got from that , and so that's what I wanted to be . And I remember sitting in the truck . I was probably six years old when he got it .

I would sit in that driver's seat and pretend I was a truck driver , even put on his hat every now and then to make myself really look like a truck driver . I know there's a picture somewhere of that . It was a cool truck . It was green and white and gold . I think his favorite color must have been green because we had a lot of green stuff .

He would later on paint the truck into a scheme that he had come up with . He hauled freight at first , then he hauled some produce and he wrapped up his career probably the last 18 or so years hauling steel and steel type products on flatbed and then in a dry van . I think maybe he got tired of tarping those loads because that was a tough job .

You know he'd sit in that seat and they were burgundy and white striped and had a sleeper . And you just pretend you were a truck driver . That was in CB days , so you're talking on the CB . It had an eight track player .

He took great pride in that truck and keeping it running and doing things to it , enhancing it all along the way , even lengthened out the frame of it to make it a longer chassis on the truck . When I was nine years old I spent the summer with him riding around the kind of the east coast of the US , from Florida , south Florida .

I'll never , always remember the smell of Florida , I think from those trips down there We'd go to Cleveland I remember there was . He would haul fish out of Cleveland and the plant was so cold it was just very cold to stand in there while they loaded the trailer with frozen fish .

We'd go to Pittsburgh and I remember those streets they were kind of cobblestone , where they would go and load produce . Great memories of being on the road with him . He had a partner at that point , willie Bab , and so they all produced together . Then when he hauled steel he was by himself . I just remember wanting to be a truck driver .

So I was probably in college and I kept telling him I wanted to be a truck driver and he said , oh , that's fine , but you got to go to college . And I think , dad , maybe I'd wished he had been able to go to college , didn't ? He would have been a great engineer .

Wasn't a thing the man couldn't fix or come up with some part to make it work even better ? I think it was important to him for us to go to college and have a college education In college .

I don't believe I was married yet and I'd always told Linda I wanted to be a truck driver and she seemed okay with that and maybe we would have hit the open road together and saw the US One day . We were sitting at home and said , hey , I've got to run down to Tennessee .

You know , it was a short run from our home , a few hours and once you go with me .

And so we had to spend the night and so we slept in the truck I think I might have slept in the sleeper and he just kind of leaned over the doghouse which you know was between the two seats in the cab and covered the engine , and at least that's what he called it For the life of me .

I'm not sure why , unless it's just because it kind of looked like a doghouse , but anyway I remember us sleeping in the truck . I remember we unloaded , we headed home and he let me drive for a little bit . And I just remember he's so patient , he was so patient with me .

From time to time He'd say you know , there's a lot more road on your side over there if you want to move over just a little bit .

And then , trying to change gears in that truck , it had two transmissions of five speed and four speed and you really had to finesse those , to change them , had to get those revs just right , which he I don't think I ever heard him rake a gear .

I raked a few gears , I finally got it back in gear and we were headed down the road and we got home and you know , we probably had dinner and we're sitting around and he looked at me and he said so , you still want to be a truck driver ? And I said you know , dad , I don't think so . And he said good , so I think I think that pleased him .

I think it was a rough life when you're on the road all the time . I remember he would leave on Sunday afternoons , usually around three o'clock , depending on where he had to go , so he might have left earlier , he might have left a little later and we might hear from him once a week .

He would typically return home on a Friday or Saturday sometimes , and then Saturday was filled with getting . The time was filled with getting the truck ready for the next week , because you know , if the wheels weren't turning , you weren't earning . He would spend his Saturdays maintaining the truck and then hit the road again on Sunday .

Looking back on that , I've heard people say you know who have ? You know a traveling parent or something ? Oh no big deal . It's quality time when they're home and it was . It was a good time when he was at home . He made time to do things .

But looking back on that , there were a lot of missed opportunities when he was on the road and we wouldn't hear from him very often because back then it was expensive to make a phone call . There were no cell phones like you see everybody talking on today's .

That call home , you know , could have been a dollar or two a minute , I don't remember the exact cost . But he would usually call home once a week , couldn't wait to answer the phone and then he and mom would . We talked for a while . I truly miss both my parents .

My dad died a little over nine years ago , mom almost eight years ago , coming up in December . Wonderful parents miss them both and I think I'm glad I'm not a truck driver . If anybody ever offered me the chance to ride across the country with them I'd probably take them up on it . For now I'm very content not to be a truck driver .

That's about it , just a childhood memory . I encourage each of us to think about our memories , write them down , record them . We've got these handy little devices these days that make it easy to record Hope . You enjoyed it . I hope you enjoyed this episode of Dan the Road Trip Guy and we look forward to having you back again next time .

In the meantime , if you want to find me , you can find me on the internet at Danny D-A-N-N-Y , neil N-E-A-L dot com . Until we meet up again , keep having conversations and keep driving .

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