You Don’t Need More Confidence.
Episode description
Most people think confidence comes after success.But what if confidence isn’t earned…It’s chosen?
In this episode of Daily Power Boost, we break the myth that you need more proof to believe in yourself. What you actually need is a new internal contract—one where you stop waiting for outside permission and start trusting your becoming.
Because self-belief isn’t a reward.It’s an agreement.
In This Episode:
* Why confidence isn’t built from evidence—it’s built from identity
* How outdated inner agreements block self-trust
* The shift from performance-based worth to presence-based authority
* How to write a new internal contract that reflects who you’re becoming
✦ Reflection Prompts:
* What proof do I believe I need before I can trust myself?
* What identity roles am I unconsciously upholding out of fear?
* What would it feel like to authorize myself—without needing validation?
* Where am I still waiting for someone else to confirm who I already am?
✦ Action Steps:
* Spot the Old Contract – Write down 2 beliefs you’ve held that link confidence to performance. (Ex: “If I help enough people, then I’ll feel worthy.”)
* Revoke Permission – Cross out the condition. Write a new statement that begins with: “I am allowed to trust myself because…”
* Sign the New Contract – Speak it aloud. Let your nervous system register the upgrade.
✦ Bonus Resource
Book a No-cost Success Blockers Call
We’ll help you rewrite the identity agreements that are keeping your confidence conditional.
✦ Next Episode
If It Drains You, It’s Not Your Path. It’s Your Past.
Because burnout is often a sign you’re playing a role that no longer fits.
We’ll show you how to spot old loyalties disguised as drive.
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✦ References & Influences
* Steve Hardison – The Ultimate Coach On writing new personal declarations and living from chosen identity.
* Joe Dispenza – Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself On how we emotionally memorize disempowerment—and how to break that cycle.
* Carol Dweck – Mindset On fixed vs. growth beliefs and how they shape confidence.
* Gay Hendricks – The Big Leap On hidden fears and internal limits that block self-authorization.
* Brené Brown – The Gifts of Imperfection On worthiness as a prerequisite, not a reward.
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