Hello and welcome to Daily English, where we learn ideas that help us grow — in English and in life.
Today’s concept is a fascinating one — it’s about how doing a favor for someone can make you like them more. It’s called The Benjamin Franklin Effect.
What does it mean? The story goes that Benjamin Franklin once had a rival — a man who didn’t like him at all.
Instead of trying to impress or flatter him, Franklin asked to borrow one of his rare books.
Surprisingly, the man agreed. Later, when Franklin returned the book, something changed — the man began to treat him warmly. Psychologists later confirmed the pattern:
When we do a small favor for someone, our mind justifies it by deciding we must like them.It’s one of those quiet truths about human nature — helping builds connection, not just gratitude.
When we serve others, we don’t just win their trust — we soften our own heart too.
Expression of the Day: Do Someone a Good Turn
The phrase “do someone a good turn” means to do a small favor or kind act for someone, often without expecting anything in return.
Examples:
Franklin did his rival a good turn, and it turned an enemy into a friend.You never know what a small kindness can start — one day, you might do someone a good turn and change both your lives.
Even a simple smile or kind word can do someone a good turn without costing anything.
Question for You: Can you think of a time when helping someone — even just a little — changed how you felt about them?
Kindness is more than generosity — it’s connection. Every small favor plants the seed of friendship, and sometimes, that’s all it takes to turn strangers into allies.