In this episode, Charlie discusses the trap of taking the step of being bigger for a time, then waiting for the other person to step up as well. If we approach our challenges as a virtual-reality "game" custom-made by G-d for our growth, we can see how we win by rising above. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintai...
Sep 08, 2020•1 hr 22 min
In this episode, Charlie takes your questions and discusses how ignoring negativity and being positive toward others frees from their drama and leaves us space to be givers. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and su...
Sep 04, 2020•13 hr 4 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how trying to project what's in another person's head is doomed to failure. If we keep our relationships simple, focused only on giving, they will be much more fulfilling. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish l...
Sep 03, 2020•12 hr 53 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how we burn energy judging others based on facial expressions and body language. Most of the time, what's really happening has nothing to do with us. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcas...
Sep 02, 2020•7 hr 25 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how to translate every-day emotions to every-day life. Our minds are programmed for survival. When we re-program them to assume the best and focus on the positive, we rise above instinctual behavior and free ourselves from negativity. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this ...
Sep 01, 2020•12 hr 36 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses the importance of treasuring our thoughts. By guarding our minds against external circumstances, we protect ourselves from others' negativity. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters an...
Aug 31, 2020•11 hr 59 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how circumstances and feelings are separate things. When we detach what happens to us from our emotions, we can react in an empowered, positive and productive way. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers...
Aug 31, 2020•17 hr 5 min
In this episode, Charlie takes questions and discusses how to stay positive in a negative environment, how to journal more effectively by creating space for yourself, and how to build habits +1 step at a time. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewis...
Aug 31, 2020•6 hr 40 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how when our focus turns inward in the face of challenge, we feel alone. We are meant to connect with others. If we look outward, focus on others and just act, we reconnect and lift ourselves above our challenge. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help...
Aug 31, 2020•13 hr 43 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses the effectiveness of going over challenge. The soul is triggered when it's in a giving mode. When we engage in challenge by focusing on others' pain instead of our own, we are able to infuse it with meaning. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us c...
Aug 31, 2020•20 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses engaging challenge with enthusiasm changes how we remember it later. In this way, we hack the narrative in our minds, allowing us to see and remember challenge in a positive light. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping...
Aug 26, 2020•8 hr 58 min
In this eposide, Charlie discusses how judging the challenge in front of us puts us in a disempowered place. If we let go and accept that we don't yet know the value of a challenge, we will be enriched in ways we cannot imagine. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our go...
Aug 26, 2020•13 hr 38 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how assigning meaning to our discomfort and purpose to our pain helps us move from a feeling of suffering to one of strengthening. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us...
Aug 24, 2020•17 hr 37 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how journaling helps us look at chunks of our day with an observer mentality. Also discussed is how to give in a free way, so that if the recipient isn't grateful, it doesn't bother us. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of he...
Aug 21, 2020•12 hr 23 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how positivity gets us in the framework to be able to properly approach challenge through excitement versus through disempowerment. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support u...
Aug 21, 2020•14 hr 58 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses the benefits of chunking, where we break the day down into small pieces and focus only on what's right in front of us. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a dona...
Aug 21, 2020•16 hr 28 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how we can experience challenges in a positive way if we don't try to pre-judge them ; thinking we know what will happen. Instead, if we prepare for the challenge, we can develop a commando mindset enabling us to achieve greater success. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain th...
Aug 21, 2020•16 hr 57 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses our limitations in predicting the future. When we approach life with gratitude, it creates a platform for us to see challenges in the most empowered way, trusting that even if we can’t understand it now, that challenge may be the best thing for me. This mental framework taps into our inner strength and enables us to achieve great things. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com ...
Aug 21, 2020•22 hr 59 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how going on the positive offensive, not only brings more joy into our lives but changes our frame for how we deal with the whole day. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and suppor...
Aug 17, 2020•10 hr 40 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses the pitfalls along the way of changing our lives, and how to look for them and navigate around them. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thec...
Aug 17, 2020•17 hr 57 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how by bringing more positivity into our minds, we play offense with positive feelings. This changes the context of anything negative that happens to us. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become po...
Aug 13, 2020•6 hr 7 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how negative emotions block our ability to tap into our power. The attribute of gratitude has the ability to overcome that. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a...
Aug 12, 2020•12 hr 20 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how what happens in life is mostly neutral. We give events their meaning, and gratitude is the filter through which we can enjoy the things we have without having to lose them first. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helpi...
Aug 12, 2020•19 hr 8 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses the process of bringing materialism into our lives and how, through gratitude, we actually clean out the materialism so we can properly appreciate the things we have. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lectur...
Aug 10, 2020•15 hr 12 min
For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechesedfund.com/jewishpodcasts/donate
Aug 07, 2020•11 hr 55 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses the best approach to reviewing how we acted in a moment of a challenge as a way to clarify our goals. This way, the next time challenge comes, we're better prepared to deal with it. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helpin...
Aug 07, 2020•20 hr 28 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how happiness is really a muscle. If we perceive challenges to be “workouts” for our happiness muscle, we will be able to approach them in a more empowered place and grow better from them. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of...
Aug 07, 2020•1 hr 5 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how outcome-based happiness conditions us to be mostly unhappy, which then prevents us from being successful. Happiness leads to success, not the other way around. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers...
Aug 06, 2020•16 hr 17 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses how material accomplishments are not feeding our need for happiness. The more we pursue it, the more we create neuro-connectors to keep us miserable. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcas...
Aug 04, 2020•21 hr 31 min
In this episode, Charlie discusses what happiness is not, and trying to understand the traps that get in the way of us being happy. For more content from Charlie, and/or to order Charlie's book Unlocking Greatness, please visit http://www.charlieharary.com This podcast has been graciously sponsored by JewishPodcasts.fm. There is much overhead to maintain this service so please help us continue our goal of helping Jewish lecturers become podcasters and support us with a donation: https://thechese...
Aug 04, 2020•2 hr 33 min
