Are you a dad who feels like you're doing everything "right"—but still feel lost, disconnected, or worn out? You’re not alone. In this episode of Dad Mode , Mike Tobias shares a powerful, practical roadmap to help you rediscover your God-given identity, reclaim your purpose, and lead your family with clarity and courage. 🔥 Learn how to overcome emotional exhaustion 📖 Explore a biblical framework for authentic masculinity 🛠️ Start 3 simple daily practices that will realign your life 💬 “You’re...
Jun 12, 2025•13 min•Season 2Ep. 13
In this heartfelt episode of Dad Mode: God, Grit, and Goals , host Mike Tobias sits with Jay Erwin to share his story of losing his daughter, Audrey, at eight months of pregnancy. Discover how Jay and Carolyn found Christian grief support and healing through faith, leaning on God to navigate the pain of stillbirth. From planting a magnolia tree to honor Audrey to finding hope after loss, this episode offers a biblical perspective on grief. If you’re seeking hope after miscarriage or loss, this C...
May 29, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 2Ep. 11
Built for the Fight isn’t just another men’s book. It’s a wake-up call for every man who feels stuck—and for the women who love them. In this episode, Mike Tobias unpacks why most men are silently drifting, how biblical masculinity offers a better path, and what it really means to fight for your identity, family, and legacy. 💥 Kindle edition launches May 22 📬 Get updates + free preview: BuiltForTheFightBook.com...
May 08, 2025•8 min•Season 2Ep. 11
In this special reading from my upcoming book The Paradox of Biblical Manhood , I dive into Chapter 9: Living the Paradox: The Strong Yet Humble Man . This episode is a heartfelt exploration of what it truly means to be a man in today's world—one rooted in both strength and surrender. Join me as I unpack the tension between cultural expectations and biblical truth, and how we as men, fathers, and leaders are called to live courageously yet humbly. If you’ve ever wrestled with what it means to be...
Apr 24, 2025•13 min•Season 2Ep. 10
As Easter approaches, we’re looking at the final seven statements Jesus made on the cross—words that reveal what true strength, humility, and legacy really look like. In this special Dad Mode episode, Mike Tobias unpacks how each of these last words connects to the paradox of biblical manhood: power restrained, purpose fulfilled, and trust fully surrendered. Whether you're a dad, husband, leader, or just someone trying to live with more intentionality, these words offer a fresh perspective on wh...
Apr 17, 2025•18 min•Season 2Ep. 9
What happens when comfort becomes a man’s highest goal? In this raw and revealing episode, Mike Tobias shares a deeply personal story of financial collapse, identity loss, and the painful process of rebuilding strength from the ground up. Drawing from a pivotal chapter in his upcoming book The Paradox of Biblical Manhood , Mike unpacks why our culture’s obsession with ease is weakening a generation of men — and what it truly means to stand firm. From biblical wisdom to neuroscience insights, fro...
Apr 10, 2025•21 min•Season 2Ep. 8
When life hits hard—you won’t rise to the occasion. You’ll default to your training. In this episode of DadMode , Mike Tobias unpacks why motivation isn’t enough for men serious about faith, fatherhood, and legacy. Drawing from his upcoming book The Paradox of Biblical Manhood , Mike shares personal stories, Biblical wisdom, and neuroscience-backed truths to challenge and equip you to train your body, mind, and spirit with intention. You’ll walk away with: A new mindset on discipline and resilie...
Apr 03, 2025•22 min•Season 2Ep. 7
What does it really mean to be a man? Society offers two extremes: Either you’re the tough, emotionless "alpha male," or the passive "nice guy" who avoids conflict. But neither of those are biblical. In this episode of DadMode: God, Grit, Goals , I break down The Paradox of Biblical Manhood —how real strength comes from humility, leadership, and discipline. 📖 What You'll Learn in This Episode: ✅ The Three Pillars of Biblical Manhood (Discipline, Leadership, Legacy) ✅ Why Jesus is the Ultimate E...
Mar 20, 2025•21 min•Season 2Ep. 6
Join me, Mike, on this eye-opening episode of DadMode: God, Grit, Goals as I share my recent trip to India. I went expecting to teach and ended up learning—from navigating strict conversion laws to embracing new insights about faith and work ethic. Discover how recognizing my own unconscious bias led me to a deeper understanding of my pro-life, Christian values—and how being ‘too nice’ can sometimes stop us from truly helping others. I left changed, challenged, and more connected to both my God ...
Jan 30, 2025•53 min•Season 2Ep. 4
In this debut episode of the Oh My God! series, I dive into the heart of my book, starting with the preface and the first two chapters. Together, we’ll explore the transformative journey of embracing doubt, rediscovering awe, and uncovering your God-given identity and purpose. From the foundational truths of God's goodness and grace to the challenges of doubt that deepen faith, this reading sets the stage for a life of bold belief and meaningful action. Whether you’re new to faith, rekindling yo...
Jan 02, 2025•52 min•Season 2Ep. 3
In this episode of the DadMode Podcast, I share something special—a short story called The Archer’s Journey , inspired by the themes in my upcoming book, Oh My God! Rediscovering Awe, Identity, and Purpose in a World of Doubt . This story is a creative teaser, capturing the heart of the book in a fresh way. We explore themes of grace, identity, community, and finding purpose in everyday life. It’s a meaningful reflection for anyone who’s ever felt stuck or distant in their faith journey. Tune in...
Dec 27, 2024•10 min•Season 1Ep. 2
Welcome to Season 2 of the Dadmode Podcast! In this new season, I’ll be sharing readings from my upcoming book, Help My Unbelief . Today’s episode covers the Table of Contents, Preface, Introduction, and Chapter 1: The Honest Baseline . In Chapter 1, I reflect on wrestling with doubt, trusting God in moments of uncertainty, and discovering what it means to take small steps of faith when you don’t have all the answers. You’ll hear the story of my brother Jerry, the hospital room that became an an...
Dec 19, 2024•41 min•Season 2Ep. 1
In this episode of Dad Mode: God, Grit, and Goals , host Mike Tobias dives into the crucial elements of building a safe and nurturing family environment—what he calls Home Turf . From infancy to young adulthood, discover how to create a home that supports each stage of your child’s growth, fosters independence, and aligns with your family’s core values. We’ll cover practical tips for every age, insights from psychology and brain science, and address common challenges parents face along the way. ...
Nov 14, 2024•1 hr 15 min•Season 1Ep. 59
In today’s episode of Dad Mode: God, Grit, and Goals , we’re diving into practical ways to build strong, lasting family values. In a world full of distractions and constant demands, creating a foundation for your family rooted in faith, purpose, and unity can feel challenging. That’s where the Family Compass framework comes in. Join host Mike Tobias as he shares simple, actionable habits you can start using today to reinforce your family’s core values and create a lasting legacy. Whether it’s in...
Nov 07, 2024•26 min•Season 1Ep. 58
Today is Election Day—a day filled with tension, hope, and uncertainty. As the nation waits for results, it’s easy to let fear take the wheel. But as Christians, we are called to navigate days like today differently. In this special episode, we explore how to choose faith over fear, how to love our neighbors despite our differences, and how to stay anchored in God’s promises no matter the outcome. I share personal stories of setbacks and God's provision, practical action steps for finding peace,...
Nov 05, 2024•38 min•Season 1Ep. 57
In this episode of Dad Mode: God, Grit, and Goals , host Mike Tobias shares the story behind the Family Compass, a powerful tool for guiding your family with purpose and unity. Inspired by conversations with leaders like David Green and years of consulting experience, Mike explains how to define your True North and align your family’s choices with core values. Tune in to learn how this framework can help you build a 'kingdom family' rooted in faith and intentional living.
Oct 31, 2024•26 min•Season 1Ep. 55
In this episode of Dad Mode , Mike Tobias shares how fathers and family leaders can rise above the noise of today’s divided world. Inspired by insights from Jordan Peterson and Greg Hurwitz, Mike dives into breaking free from the victim-oppressor mindset, practicing gratitude, and protecting our kids from social media manipulation. Plus, how to balance creativity and stability to create a strong family foundation. If you’re ready to lead your family with strength and confidence in a chaotic worl...
Oct 24, 2024•32 min•Season 1Ep. 55
Welcome back to Dad Mode: God, Grit, Goals! In this episode, Mike dives into the fascinating parallels between raising children and developing artificial intelligence. Drawing inspiration from Proverbs 22:6—“Train up a child in the way they should go, and when they are old, they will not depart from it”—we explore how timeless biblical wisdom can shape the moral compass of both our kids and the rapidly evolving AI systems becoming part of our world. Join us as we discuss: Hyper-Intelligence Unve...
Oct 17, 2024•27 min•Season 1Ep. 54
In today’s episode, I’m sharing a personal confession about my recent struggle to keep the Sabbath. As I’ve been trying to practice this sacred day of rest, I’ve found myself stressed and scrambling, which shows just how much I need it. We’ll explore the biblical foundations of the Sabbath, discuss why it’s more than just a rule—it’s a gift—and share practical steps for preparing your week to honor this day. If you’ve ever felt caught up in the hustle and struggled to slow down, join me as we se...
Oct 10, 2024•16 min•Season 1Ep. 53
In this episode, I share my personal story of surviving a life-threatening pulmonary embolism and the lesson I learned the hard way: motivation alone isn’t enough. We dive deep into why motivation fades and how building momentum—through small, sustainable habits—can lead to lasting change in your health, faith, and life. We’ll also explore how comparing yourself to others can demotivate you and derail your progress. Instead of focusing on external comparisons, I’ll show you how to shift your min...
Oct 03, 2024•33 min•Season 1Ep. 52
In this episode of Dad Mode: God, Grit, and Goals, we explore the deeper spiritual connection between our faith and our health. Drawing from 1 Corinthians 6:19-20, we’ll dive into what it means to treat our bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit, and how this perspective can transform our daily choices in profound ways.Discover practical, faith-based practices you can start applying today, such as mindful eating, rest, and exercise as forms of worship and stewardship. You’ll walk away with actiona...
Sep 26, 2024•33 min•Season 1Ep. 51
Welcome to the 50th episode of "Dadmode: God, Grit, Goals"! In this milestone episode, host Mike dives deep into the powerful intersection of faith and personal health. Are you ready to take control of your well-being and break free from reliance on systems that may not have your best interests at heart? Join Mike as he shares his transformative journey of losing 40 pounds through intentional nutrition and faith-driven choices. Discover how witnessing a close friend's battle with cancer opened h...
Sep 19, 2024•38 min•Season 1Ep. 50
In this powerful episode, Maria recounts how her son narrowly avoided a human trafficking scam while searching for a summer job. After receiving a divine warning, Maria intervened just in time. We dive into the dangers of online job scams, the red flags to watch for, and how faith played a role in this incredible story. A must-listen for parents and young adults navigating today's digital world. #HumanTrafficking #OnlineSafety #Faith
Sep 12, 2024•56 min•Season 1Ep. 49
In this episode of DadMode: God, Grit, Goals , Mike Tobias dives deep into what it truly means to lay down your life for Christ . It’s not always about big, life-changing events—it’s about the small, everyday things we hold onto: control, comparison, and the scarcity mindset. Join Mike as he walks through the AAA Prayer Formula , a simple, practical approach to aligning your heart with God’s will. By the end of this episode, you’ll learn how to live in abundance, surrender to God’s plan, and emb...
Sep 05, 2024•25 min•Season 1Ep. 48
Are you tired of making the same resolutions year after year, only to find yourself back at square one? In this episode of DadMode: God, Grit, Goals, Mike Tobias dives deep into the true keys to lasting transformation. Discover why quick fixes and 90-day programs often fail, and learn how to embrace a new approach rooted in Vision, Intention, and Means. Drawing on biblical wisdom and practical steps, Mike will guide you through the process of real change—one that sticks. Whether you’re strugglin...
Aug 29, 2024•53 min•Season 1Ep. 47
In this episode of DadMode: God, Grit, Goals , Mike Tobias pulls back the curtain on how the very systems we trust—healthcare, the food industry, and government regulations—are rigged against us. Discover the shocking truth about why so many of us are struggling with our health, and why it’s more important than ever to take control of your well-being. Mike shares his personal journey of losing 44 pounds, getting off medication, and becoming the healthiest he's been since college, all by making s...
Aug 22, 2024•23 min•Season 1Ep. 46
Are you struggling to hit the mark in your life, whether in your relationships, career, or spiritual journey? In this episode of the DadMode: God, Grit, Goals podcast, we dive deep into Philippians 2:1-16 to uncover the secret to living with purpose and grace. Learn how God's standard serves as the ultimate measure for our lives, and discover why grace—not perfection—is the key to aligning with the greatest good. Join us as we explore the power of humility, unity, and the transformative role of ...
Aug 15, 2024•29 min•Season 1Ep. 45
Welcome back to another episode of DadMode: God, Grit, and Goals! In this episode, we explore the essential topic of raising resilient children and building their character through faith and challenges. As a father of six and grandfather to five, I've learned a lot about the importance of letting children face challenges and even fail, especially when they're young. It's a crucial part of their growth and development. In this episode, we cover: Understanding resilience and its biblical roots, wi...
Aug 08, 2024•39 min•Season 1Ep. 44
Welcome to another inspiring episode of "DadMode: God Grit Goals." In this episode, host Mike Tobias dives into the powerful concept of self-competition and how it can transform your life. Discover why your only true competition is yourself from yesterday and learn practical strategies to outdo your past self every day. Mike shares personal anecdotes about his journey towards better fitness and discipline, highlighting how starting with just a few situps and pushups evolved into a consistent, tr...
Aug 01, 2024•40 min•Season 1Ep. 43
In this episode of DadMode: God, Grit, Goals, host Mike Tobias dives into the powerful promise of Philippians 4:19: "And my God shall supply all your needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus." Join Mike as he explores the deeper meaning of this verse, its relevance in our modern lives, and how we can fully trust in God's provision. Discover practical ways to differentiate between wants and needs, find peace in God's plan, and understand the significance of asking God even when He a...
Jul 25, 2024•20 min•Season 1Ep. 42
