Pick your colour, pick your path! In this special October tarot card reading, I’ve pulled out three different decks that predict the rest of your month—from your career to life to love! Each deck is tied to a colour that calls out to you. Timestamps: Green - 2:03 Pink - 12:51 Red - 21:16 Each colour holds a unique reading packed with guidance for the month ahead. So, which one is speaking to you? For more premium extra episodes+ad free episodes, subscribe to the premium podcast here Don't forget...
Oct 15, 2024•28 min
If you're feeling lost, stuck at rock bottom, unloved, unheard, unmotivated, or unhappy in your current situation—if you feel completely defeated, like you've lost your sense of purpose, and that things will NEVER get better—this episode is for you! This is the wake-up call you've been waiting for. Today I get personal on what hitting rock bottom taught me and how I pulled myself out, and how you can too. We discuss: How everything feels like salt, when you walk around wounded. The truth about w...
Oct 10, 2024•40 min
Instead of colonising why don't we DEcolonise today? Trauma that is! Join me in this transformative conversation with global thought leader and TEDx speaker, Yemi Penn, as we dive into alternative approaches to healing trauma. We explore powerful topics like: Decolonizing trauma: What it means and how it changes your healing journey. Bending your reality: How to rewrite your narrative and create a thriving life post-trauma. Facing adversity and why cultivating a mindset of curiosity and rebellio...
Oct 03, 2024•55 min
My most unhinged episode yet or at least in the top 5! If you have ADHD or think you might or just want to laugh your a$$ off then this episode is for you. From my worst date stories to my doctor drug testing me for a snow habit at 9am, to giving you a tarot card reading for that one burning question on your mind—this episode has it all! Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Love ya! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.c...
Sep 26, 2024•30 min
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "I’m not enough?" Today, we’re calling that out for what it is—the biggest lie you’ve ever told yourself, and the one thing holding you back from living the life you’re meant for. This week, we’re kicking off a brand-new series ! Every week, we’ll be debunking one LIE that’s been holding us back from living our best lives, and we’re starting with this episode. For ad free episodes + extra weekly episodes, subscribe to the premium podcast here Today, we’re ...
Sep 26, 2024•44 min
Ready to uncover the dark, dirty secrets of starting a business? But first, Violetta catches you up on her $95,000 dentist bill (yes, you read that right), and the mid dude that made her an offer she almost couldn't refuse... ALMOST. "Violetta is joined by Ret Taylor, co-founder of the wellness brand Ned, as they dive into the often overlooked, not-so-glamorous realities of starting and growing a business. From how banks can put your business on a hidden blacklist that could kill your dream befo...
Sep 12, 2024•36 min
Find out why this episode hit over 100,000 downloads on its first day —Tune in RIGHT NOW to learn the psychology of WHY MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!!! whether beginning, middle, or end--it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta is bringing you part two of one of her most viral episodes to explain the reasoning behind this unavoidable phenomenon and a 3 step playbook that guarantees he'll come crawling back in NO time! In this episode, Violetta covers: Reasons he pul...
Sep 12, 2024•39 min
Do you want to stroll into any room like you own it and have people hanging on your every word? Do you want to be so magnetic that the partner of your dreams can’t resist being drawn to you like a moth to a flame? And how about finally standing your ground and making sure no one ever overlooks you again, so you can start living the fabulous life you’ve always deserved? Well, you’re in the right place because this episode is your ultimate guide to leveling up your confidence game in dating and in...
Sep 02, 2024•39 min
Welcome to BAD B*TCH UNIVERSITY, baby ! This is the second of FOUR powerhouse episodes designed to change the way you've been dating, raise your standards, kick your self worth and self esteem into high gear, attract only the best, and unlock the NEW AND IMPROVED YOU!!! For ad free episodes + extra weekly episodes, subscribe to the premium podcast here TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - 13:12 - Catch up with Violetta: How to circumcise a man Female circumcision Nipple piercings - good girl vs. bad girl. 13:13 -...
Aug 22, 2024•46 min
Welcome to BAD B*TCH UNIVERSITY, baby ! This is the first of FOUR powerhouse episodes designed to change the way you've been dating, raise your standards, kick your self worth and self esteem into high gear, attract only the best, and unlock the NEW AND IMPROVED YOU!!! For ad free episodes + extra weekly episodes, subscribe to the premium podcast here TIMESTAMPS: First segment - Catch up with Violetta - 0:00 - 28:21 Get ready to pee your pants with today’s segment! Violetta discuss a bizarre new...
Aug 15, 2024•54 min
Ever wonder what really makes a man fall head over heels? Well, what if I told you it wasn't through your looks or even bedroom moves but instead it has to do with how much you PISS HIM OFF. Well... kinda. On today's episode we cover: The Love Hormones: Women have oxytocin, the love hormone released during sex and cuddling. Men? They have vasopressin, their “monogamy hormone,” which kicks in when you stress him out! Stress Him Out: Discover why a little stress is good for making your man fall fo...
Aug 08, 2024•46 min
Join me as I sit down with Jana from Love Island US Season 6 for an exclusive tell-all episode where she spills secrets from inside and outside the villa that will surprise you! For ad free episodes + extra weekly episodes, subscribe to the premium podcast here TIMESTAMPS: SEGMENT 1 - Let’s catch up! - 0:00 - 12:04 I discuss why stretching isn't for me, my childhood dream job, that time I applied for the CIA and helped the FBI with a case during the pandemic, and lastly my plans this past weeken...
Aug 01, 2024•1 hr 4 min
When your man doesn’t value you, then he DESERVES to lose you. Want to teach him a lesson? Then tune In! Sometimes detaching doesn’t mean goodbye forever; it means giving yourself the time to figure out what you want and deserve. Today’s episode is for anyone who: Needs to reassess their relationship and feelings. Wants to wake up a partner who's taking them for granted. Is ready to walk away from someone they love. Needs help with anxiety and detaching from stress over uncontrollable outcomes. ...
Jul 25, 2024•45 min
STOP RIGHT THERE AND LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE RIGHT NOW!! Today, August 8th, marks the MOST powerful manifesting day of the year—the rare 8/8/8 Lions Gate Portal. Don't walk, RUN to listen to this episode on how to manifest everything you've ever wanted!! I will be giving you FIVE manifesting techniques to do today and for the next full moon that will get you everything you ever wanted from goals to love. Please see below for timestamps for each one. TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - 6:06 - Intro to Lions Gate m...
Jul 18, 2024•31 min
Ready to uncover the truth about casual sex and reclaim your power? Tune in to get smarter in dating, reclaim your power and get back into your feminine goddess receiving energy. ✨ TIMESTAMPS: First segment - Catch up with Violetta - 0:00 - 14:06 Get ready to pee your pants with today’s segment! Violetta dives deep into her most bizarre seggs dream that was so weird, she had to ghost the guy in real life. Then, she reveals her totally foolproof (or not) method for kicking boys out of her house. ...
Jul 11, 2024•1 hr 22 min
You don't get brownie points for going the extra mile for a man you met two weeks ago. You don't get brownie points for putting up with his disrespect or cooking for him a five course meal on the second date, because you want to show him that you are wifey material, even though he has never once reciprocated your energy. So if you want someone to chase you, you have to treat them like a drug dealer treats their clients. You get them hooked and then you threaten to take it away -- Not with your w...
Jul 04, 2024•1 hr 5 min
Privet besties!! Today we take a break from Violetta's Russian tough love and present you with a fun deep dive episode into the juicy world of Love Island US Season 6! We're spilling all the tea on the July 11th drama and everything that has unfolded up to it. We break down how we got here and unpack all the makeups and breakups from the psychology side of it all the way to their zodiac signs. Who’s vibing? Who’s clashing? And who will make it outside the villa?? Grab your popcorn because Violet...
Jun 27, 2024•41 min
Ready to flip the dating game on its head? 🔄 In this episode of Almost Adulting , I dive into the 9 game-changing rules that transformed my dating life from a stress-fest to a worry-free zone! Whether it's saying 'yes' when you'd usually say 'no' or learning the fine art of flying solo, these tips are your new dating playbook. Tune in to discover why talking to multiple men isn't just fun—it's essential, and why waiting for sex could be the best move you make. Get ready, because it's time to ma...
Jun 20, 2024•35 min
Ever been told you're special as a kid and now you're a hot mess of perfectionism and OCD? Welcome to the club! In this laugh-out-loud yet deeply relatable episode, Violet Benson gets real with Kaitlyn Bristowe about the rollercoaster ride of wanting to be chosen, fear of aging, and betrayal. In today's episode, we discuss: The Upsides and Downslides of Being Told You're Special as a kid: What it looks like as an adult in your relationships and work. Body Dysmorphia & Fear of Aging: Attachin...
Jun 13, 2024•49 min
In this episode, Violetta gives you the "dummy'' guide to emotional intelligence by sharing some insight from Brianna Wiest's 101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think. Get ready for some tough love and practical wisdom to boost your emotional intelligence. What You'll Learn: Embrace Pain : Why avoiding pain is holding you back and how to let it flow through and pass. Pain’s Role in Happiness : Discover why pain is necessary for true happiness and personal growth. Emotional Health Hacks : Th...
Jun 11, 2024•39 min
Hey Besties! Today, we’re diving into some of Violetta's favourite attraction principles from the ultimate dating bible - Why Men Love Bitches! Ever wondered if there was any truth to men knowing right off the bat if they want to date you or just sleep with you? well guess what, there is! Today we uncover all the truths men DON'T want you to know, including the two categories men put women into and how you can navigate these to not only snag your dream man but also transform into that irresistib...
Jun 06, 2024•31 min
Hey besties! Ready to attract the love of your life? In this juicy episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta is spilling the tea about her personal life and then diving into the manifesting secrets behind Project 369: The Key to the Universe - Final Edition . This isn’t just woo-woo talk; it’s a step-by-step guide to manifesting your soulmate and living your best life. Episode Highlights: Vibe High: Get on the right vibration level to attract your soulmate. Self-Love Magic: Learn why loving yourself ...
Jun 04, 2024•34 min
In today's episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta Benson dives deep into Chapter 8 of John Gray's Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus . Ever wondered why your relationship feels like a never-ending cycle of miscommunication? Well, it's time to uncover the juicy truths about the different emotional needs between men and women. Violetta dishes on: The #1 reason couples break up 💔 Why you're failing at dating 😬 why you're turning each other off The six primary emotional needs that are required ...
May 30, 2024•39 min
Ever wondered about the real difference between THC and CBD? Tune into this electrifying episode of Almost Adulting as Violetta Benson spills the beans on her unforgettable game night, featuring a magical mix of CBD and chocolate shrooms that made for the best night of her life. Violet sits down with Ellese Symons, the powerhouse VP of Marketing at CBDistillery, to uncover her inspiring journey from battling chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia to finding renewed vitality with CBD. They also dive in...
May 28, 2024•43 min
Get ready for an unforgettable episode of Almost Adulting ! This week, Violet Benson is joined by Alex Hall, the star of Selling the OC , who’s here to spill the juiciest tea and set the record straight once and for all. From the cheating allegations to what really happened in Dubai and everything in between, it's about to get frosty. In this exclusive interview, Alex reveals a side of the story that’s never been told before, dropping a bombshell about a mysterious third party. Whatever you thin...
May 23, 2024•1 hr 3 min
It's time to do some summer cleaning and dump those energy vampires you've been keeping around!! In this eye-opening episode of Benson Bookclub on Almost Adulting, we dive deep into Law 10 from Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power": " Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky ." Discover why the company you keep can make or break your life and success. I'll share not only the wisdom from the book but I also unpack the psychology behind this law and give you actionable tips to start TODAY to detox your soci...
May 21, 2024•40 min
Anna hathaway who?!? Nicholas galitzine who!?!? This TRUE STORY that I share today is about to become your new 'The Idea of You' favourite love story. It will have you in tears before you finish listening. Join me in this heart-wrenching yet hopeful episode as we dive into the powerful TRUE STORY of a man who loses the love of his life in a tragic car accident. Battling the depths of depression and contemplating ending his own life, he is pulled back by the desperate plea of his young niece. Str...
May 16, 2024•34 min
On today's episode, Join your Russian big sis, Violetta as she unravels the tale of Buddha’s enlightenment and Disappointment Panda's brutal truths. She then explores if happiness is an algorithm we can crack or if we’re just wired to be a bit miserable. Why do we suffer? Is pain necessary for survival? Are we all just masochists in denial? and why blaming others is the perfect cop-out!! Violetta then delves into how dissatisfaction is baked into our DNA and why the greatest truths in life are t...
May 14, 2024•29 min
Babes, stop trying to CHANGE HIM, did he poopy his pants??!? Girl chill. Dive into this explosive solo episode where Violetta unravels the secrets of dating with 7 Game-Changing Dating Tips that will Transform Your Love Life forever!! Learn why men pull away , how to spot early dating red flags, why he won't commit, and the real reasons he’s not choosing you . Violetta share personal stories of her recent dating experience, including why she cried at Stagecoach, and insights on how to tell where...
May 09, 2024•34 min
Privet zychiky and welcome to a brand new PREMIUM episode on Wednesdays! Today Violetta shares some life changing advice that will get you thinking and touch your beautiful heart and mind. From a letter to your younger self to boundaries to dating advice. To listen to the rest of the episode, go to the premium ad free podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....
May 08, 2024•13 min