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Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

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Formerly Almost Adulting… but let’s call it what it always was.


Welcome to DADDY ISSUES with Violet Benson.


I brought the original name back. Because I am the OG Daddy Issues - the brand that started 12 years ago and turned a meme page into a movement. The name you've always known me by. So we’re done pretending.


This podcast WILL change you... or at least your standards.


We talk dating disasters, attachment styles, adulting, evolving past your patterns, confidence comebacks, mental health spirals, breakups, friendships, and how to stop chasing, settling, and playing small. Tough love backed by real psychology.


I’m Violet Benson - Comedian, Daddy Issues meme queen, ex-accountant, soon-to-be-author, and your unfiltered Russian big sister. I’ll say what your therapist is thinking but won’t text you at 11PM.


Welcome home.


New episodes every Thursday.

This isn’t Almost Adulting anymore.

It’s Daddy Issues.

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Episodes

Manifest Him BACK with Hot High Priestess

Welcome, lovely souls to an enchanting podcast episode filled with the captivating realms of manifesting and tarot card reading. From debunking misconceptions about manifesting to unlocking the secrets of a powerful practice, we'll delve into the art of embracing abundance and love in our lives. Today, Violetta is joined by Sarah Perl a.k.a. Hot High Priestess. Sarah is a tarot card reader, manifestation coach, TikToker, and an entrepreneur. The duo will show us how to properly manifest your des...

Jul 27, 202351 min

Confession Corner - EMOTIONAL NEGLECT

Hey, Besties! Welcome to another Confession Corner episode! Let's talk about something important – emotional neglect. It's something many of us may have experienced without even realizing it. Emotional neglect happens when our feelings, needs, and emotions are consistently ignored or invalidated, leaving us feeling unheard and unseen. It can be tough, but remember, you are not alone in this. Violetta shares her personal story with her friend and how the act of opening up to that friend unplugged...

Jul 25, 202327 min

Shadow Work: 5 Steps to Healing Yourself & Your Relationship

Get ready for a transformative and heartwarming journey with your caring big sister, Violetta. In this empowering podcast episode, we'll explore the magical world of shadow work, where hidden thoughts and desires reside. Join us as we uncover the top three places to encounter your shadow self and learn how relationships serve as mirrors for personal growth. Embrace the power of self-awareness and engage in an inner dialogue to face your shadow with compassion and curiosity. We'll travel back to ...

Jul 20, 202337 min

We got ROBBED in St Tropez

Surviving a break-in is like being catapulted into an action movie you never auditioned for. In that moment, time seems to stand still as you navigate a maze of emotions - fear, shock, and a newfound appreciation for every breath you take. It's like a wake-up call that shakes you to your core, reminding you of the fragility of life and the resilience that resides within you. Despite the chaos and uncertainty, surviving that harrowing experience empowers you like nothing else. Today, Violetta is ...

Jul 18, 202337 min

Let's Talk About It w/ Anna Kai

Step into a world of dating wisdom, gorgeous! In this eye-opening and empowering episode, we're diving headfirst into the realm of relationships, self-discovery, and personal growth. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions as we navigate the complexities of love. Today, Violetta sits down with dating expert Anna Kai. Anna's insights transcend the conventional narratives surrounding dating and offer a deeper understanding of the barriers to authentic connections. With a keen eye for patter...

Jul 13, 20231 hr 7 min

Is Hookup Culture a Lie? w/ Farha Khalidi

Hey, Besties! Today, we welcome back Farha Khalidi for part two of the conversation I had with her last week. Get ready for candid conversations, personal stories, and the sparks of intellectual curiosity as we delve into the realms of love, self-worth, and communication. From debunking misconceptions surrounding OnlyFans to exploring the complexities of dating in the digital age, this episode dives into various intriguing chapters. It celebrates the power of communication, challenges harmful id...

Jul 11, 20231 hr 14 min

Redefine Your Self-Worth w/ Farha Khalidi

Welcome, Besties, to an episode filled with thought-provoking discussions and empowering insights that'll leave you feeling empowered and ready to conquer the world. Introducing Farha Khalidi, a TikToker, comedian, and OnlyFans model known for her political comedy videos where she combines her comedic talents with a political edge to create content that challenges commonly held conservative beliefs. First up, Violetta and Farha talk about her guest appearance on popular manosphere podcasts such ...

Jul 06, 202347 min

Are YOU Happy? w/ Adelaide Kane

Hey there! We've got a lineup of juicy topics that'll leave you wanting more as we say goodbye to June. Adelaide Kane is back for a part 2 of the amazing conversation she and Violetta had last week. First up, Violetta asks Adelaide to reveal the one thing most people don't know about her. The duo also talk about what makes them happy these days, their egg freezing journey and the body changes that no one talks about after the egg extraction, the pros and cons of birth control, and so much more! ...

Jul 04, 202333 min

I AM GOD w/ Adelaide Kane

Get ready to close out the sizzling month of June, also known as Hookup Month, with a bang! We're bringing you a very special guest who's ready to spice up the conversation and take us on a journey of passion, connection, and unforgettable moments. The gorgeous Adelaide Kane joins Violetta today for heartfelt conversations and empowering messages. The pair talk about how you can chase your dreams while still making time for yourself and those special people in your life, how love evolves, grows,...

Jun 29, 20231 hr 17 min

Benson Knows Best: WHEN TO GIVE UP

Hey there, Besties! For our last episode of the hookup month, let's dive into the bittersweet journey of letting go. We know, it can be extra tough to let go when you're caught up in the heat of the moment. Trust your instincts and know that you deserve a love that ignites passion and brings you joy. It's all about finding the courage to embrace your worth, celebrate your fabulous self, and create space for the unexpected. Violetta shares a story of loss and heartache, where we explore the raw v...

Jun 27, 202333 min

DATING SURVIVAL GUIDE

Your go to guide on how to survive the first 3 months of dating and turn it into a committed relationship!! What are the pros and cons of those thrilling first stages of dating? It's common to experience feelings of uncertainty, anxiety, and even fear of rejection. The pressure to make a good impression and the ambiguity of early intentions can also add to the mix. Well, let's take a closer look. Today, Violetta explores the mixed emotions that come with the exciting yet nerve-wracking journey o...

Jun 22, 202332 min

Benson Knows Best: SOULMATES & VULNERABILITY

Hey, Besties! Let's talk about the magic of vulnerability when you're diving into the world of dating. I know, it can be a little scary to let your guard down and show your true emotions, but trust me, it's worth it! Opening up and being vulnerable allows for a deeper connection and a chance for someone to see the real you. It's about sharing your fears, dreams, and even those adorable quirks that make you, well, you. Today, in another Benson Knows Best episode, Violetta it's important to keep a...

Jun 20, 202327 min

Act Like a Prize - Get Him OBSESSED

Hey there, Besties! Let's talk about something that's super important: knowing your worth and becoming the ultimate prize, not just some side chick. You deserve to be cherished, adored, and treated like the queen you are. So, girl, don't settle for being someone's afterthought or hidden secret. Today, Violetta is here to tell you that instead of wasting time telling guys about how badly you were treated by your ex, it's time to focus on yourself and your own value. Love yourself fiercely, more t...

Jun 15, 202324 min

Confession Corner: THE OTHER WOMAN

Hey, Besties! Welcome to another Confession Corner stories. Today, Violetta shares another round of stories that tells how a woman’s childishness caused her boyfriend to leave her on the side of the road, another who’s blaming her bestfriend for her marriage falling apart, and lastly, a wife who’s guilty of cheating on her dying husband. Hear the stories fresh and be the judge! WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ ETSY: Use code: NEW fo...

Jun 13, 202324 min

The Science of Orgasms: A Guide to Unlocking Your Pleasure w/ Emily Morse

Loving your own body plays a crucial role in relationships and intimacy, especially when it comes to sex. When we struggle to embrace our bodies, it can create self-consciousness and insecurity in the bedroom. These feelings can hinder our ability to fully let go and enjoy intimate moments with our partners. However, when we cultivate self-love and acceptance, it empowers us to be more confident and comfortable in our own skin. This newfound confidence not only enhances our own pleasure but also...

Jun 08, 20231 hr 22 min

Benson Knows Best: MEN DON’T MARRY

Welcome, Besties! June is Hookup month so we’re going to be talking a lot about relationships, relationship advice, and so much more! Today, Violetta is back with another episode of Benson Knows Best where she will answer some of your questions. First, she will talk about some of the personal questions she received over DM, and then she’s going to discuss why men come back after breakup, why they end up marrying someone else, and why some of the people that we meet are just lessons we need to le...

Jun 06, 202331 min

Energy Vampires w/ Daniela Melchior

Why is it crucial to invest time and effort in individuals who recognize your true worth? The answer lies in the profound impact that such people can have on your personal growth and development. When you surround yourself with those who appreciate and understand your value, their presence serves as a catalyst for your own self-belief and confidence. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Portuguese actress and Suicide Squad star Daniela Melchior. The duo talks about the time when Daniela h...

Jun 01, 202335 min

Confession Corner - I LIKE MY COUSIN

Welcome, Besties! We are back for another confession corner episode. And for the final episode of the mental health month, we will listen to another batch of reddit stories. Today, Violetta sits down to listen to and share a piece of her mind on some stories which includes a father who’s feeling resentful towards his children after divorce, a woman in her prime striking a deal with his boyfriend after she found out he cheated, and this girl who’s madly attracted to her already married cousin. Th...

May 30, 202330 min

5 Mind Games Narcissists Play - The Psychology of a Narcissist

Welcome to our closing episode for the mental health month! We are often drawn to narcissists due to a combination of complex psychological factors. Their charismatic charm, confidence, and seemingly larger-than-life presence can initially captivate us. Unfortunately, this attraction often leads to a painful cycle of manipulation, emotional abuse, and neglect, as narcissists prioritize their own needs above all else. Today, Violetta starts the episode by defining what is a narcissist and the cha...

May 25, 202336 min

Benson Knows Best: GET UR POWER BACK

Welcome to another Benson Knows Best! Dealing with a painful breakup can be an arduous and emotionally challenging experience. To navigate this difficult time, it is crucial to prioritize self-care and emotional healing. Today, Violetta is back and this time she’s going to talk about how to deal with a guy who used to make you smile but is now losing interest in you. She will also share a story from a caller who is grieving a massive breakup and what you can do to heal from the heartbreak and ge...

May 23, 202327 min

Our Pain is Our Purpose w/ Mari Llewellyn

TW: Self harm Why is self-love crucial for a fulfilling life? One answer lies in the transformative power of healthy living. Embracing self-love means nourishing our bodies, minds, and souls with the care they deserve. When we prioritize our well-being, engaging in regular exercise, consuming nutritious foods, and practicing mindfulness, we cultivate a profound connection with ourselves. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Pursuit of Wellness host and Bloom Nutrition founder Mari Llewell...

May 18, 202345 min

Confession Corner - KENTUCKY DERBY

Welcome back, Besties! Today, Violetta is back with another Confession Corner episode. But this time, she will be sharing her experience when she attended the Kentucky Derby 2023. From her flight, hotel accommodation, and getting some Influencer VIP experience to making out with two guys and not ending up having s*x with both of them because this girl decided to become a celibate. There’s more to this trip than just watching the race so tune in to find out more! If you want to be featured on the...

May 16, 202351 min

Change UR Perspective: GHOSTED

Welcome back!! This is part 2 of the Change Your Perspective week, where we talk about changing your perspective as part of mental health month! This past Tuesday, we discussed how we can view 'situationships' differently. SO TODAY, we will be discussing GHOSTING. Today, Violetta gives us a different perspective on the question commonly asked, “WHY DID HE GHOST ME?” Aside from breaking down the reasons why ghosting happens in a lot of relationships, Violetta also shares tips to turn the tables a...

May 11, 202330 min

Change Your Perspective: SITUATIONSHIPS

Welcome to a brand new Benson Knows Best episode!! This week is all about changing your perspective as part of the second week of mental health month! We're starting the week with discussing situationships and ending the week with ghosting. Today, Violetta talks about letting go and saying goodbye to the person you think was for you but was never the right person for you to love. We will hear the story of a 2-year relationship and how the woman struggled to let go of a man who loved himself more...

May 09, 202323 min

How To Master Your Emotions w/ Jay Shetty

We often project our limits onto other people because it can be difficult to recognize and confront our own limitations. By projecting our limitations onto others, we may feel a temporary sense of relief or justification for our own shortcomings. However, this type of behavior can be harmful both to ourselves and those around us, as it can limit our personal growth and prevent us from seeing the full potential in others. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes the one and only Jay Shetty. Ja...

May 04, 20231 hr 14 min

Confession Corner - REDDIT INCEST

What's the craziest Reddit story you've heard? There are so many wild tales on the platform, from heartwarming and uplifting to downright bizarre and unsettling. Whatever your taste is, there's no shortage of jaw-dropping stories to be found. Today, Violetta’s childhood bestie, Kylie, is back! And this time for another Confession Corner - Reddit stories. The girls sit down and react to stories about the accidental discovery of an 11-year old affair of a mom with her husband’s friend, incest in d...

May 02, 202331 min

How I Stayed At A 50M Dollar House

Staying at a billionaire's house? That's a dream come true! But girl, don't forget to show your finesse and charm while you're there. Today, Violetta shares a few updates about her life. She starts off with the post-surgery experience after she had her eggs extracted successfully, how it affected her mentally, and what no one tells you about post egg freezing. Then, she talks about her recent trip to Mexico where she stayed at James Packer’s $50M house for a weekend - the place, the view, the fo...

Apr 25, 202333 min

That Time I Did M*th with My Bestie

There's something special about growing up alongside someone who knows you so well and has seen you through all of life's ups and downs. Childhood best friends are the ones who stick with you through thick and thin, who know your secrets and your dreams, and who always have your back. Today, Violetta is joined by her childhood best friend, Kylie Gerber. The duo are all about good laughs and toothy grins as they reminisce childhood experiences, from dating the most toxic guys and crying over horr...

Apr 20, 20231 hr 10 min

Confession Corner: FAMILY DRAMA

Life is like a game of Jenga, you never know which block is going to make the whole thing come crashing down. One minute you're on top of the world, and the next you're wondering how you ended up in a pile of rubble. But that's the beauty of life, isn't it? The unpredictability keeps things interesting and makes every day a new adventure, or in some instances, a misadventure. Today, Violetta listens to brand new stories from Reddit. One talks about falling in love with his student ten years youn...

Apr 18, 202327 min

The Downfall of Casual Sex w/ Lainey Molnar

Have you ever found yourself trapped in a cycle of self-hate, unable to escape the negative thoughts and feelings that consume you? It's a painful and difficult place to be, but it's not a permanent one. With time, patience, and effort, you can break free from the grip of self-hate and learn to love yourself fully and completely. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Lainey Molnar - a digital artist with thousands of followers online who draws women empowerment comics to liberate women fro...

Apr 13, 20231 hr 11 min
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