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Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

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Formerly Almost Adulting… but let’s call it what it always was.


Welcome to DADDY ISSUES with Violet Benson.


I brought the original name back. Because I am the OG Daddy Issues - the brand that started 12 years ago and turned a meme page into a movement. The name you've always known me by. So we’re done pretending.


This podcast WILL change you... or at least your standards.


We talk dating disasters, attachment styles, adulting, evolving past your patterns, confidence comebacks, mental health spirals, breakups, friendships, and how to stop chasing, settling, and playing small. Tough love backed by real psychology.


I’m Violet Benson - Comedian, Daddy Issues meme queen, ex-accountant, soon-to-be-author, and your unfiltered Russian big sister. I’ll say what your therapist is thinking but won’t text you at 11PM.


Welcome home.


New episodes every Thursday.

This isn’t Almost Adulting anymore.

It’s Daddy Issues.

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Episodes

Stagecoach Confessions: Stars, Drama, and Lana Del Ray

Get ready to saddle up for an unforgettable adventure as your Russian big sis, Violetta, takes you through her first-ever Stagecoach experience on Almost Adulting ! In this wild and insightful episode, Violetta shares: The Patron house Crew included: Violetta, Kat stickler, Jason tartick, Kelsey Anderson and Joey graziadei from the bachelor, Georgia v, Erin falter, Nick dio, Nick norcia, Polly B and Alex Hall from Selling OC, and last but not least Lana Del Ray and Nikki Lane. Meeting Music Icon...

May 07, 202429 min

Is It Love or OCD? With Dr. Patrick McGrath

Unraveling Relationship OCD: A Deeper Look with Dr. Patrick McGrath Is it just a quirk or could it be Relationship OCD? This misunderstood form of OCD often masquerades as simple jealousy or relationship ups and downs, but there's much more beneath the surface. In this compelling episode, we dive into the intricacies of Relationship OCD, exploring: What exactly is Relationship OCD, and how does it differ from other types? The fine line between normal jealousy and this form of OCD. The impact of ...

May 02, 202446 min

9 Types of Codependency With Mark Groves

Hey Besties! Today, we're diving into the full length of the second half of Violetta’s eye-opening interview with Mark Groves. Get ready for more insights and surprises! Are you more invested in your partner's life than your own Netflix queue? Do you find yourself constantly adjusting your mood thermostat based on someone else’s emotional weather? Buckle up as Violetta and Mark dissect what it means to be codependent, from obsessing over how others perceive us online to partnering up with someon...

Apr 30, 202459 min

Get Your Ex Back With Dating Expert Adrienne Everheart

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes Adrienne Everheart, a certified dating and relationship coach & feminine energy therapist who specializes in connecting women to their authentic self and creating the loving relationship they desire. In this sizzling session, Adrienne reveals the mystique of feminine allure and provides insightful strategies designed to empower women, whether they are healing from past heartaches or aiming to rekindle an old flame. Her advice is not just about attracting...

Apr 25, 20241 hr 46 min

My Therapist Once Told Me...

Hello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse of the Wednesday premium episode!!! To listen to the FULL episode and get AD FREE weekly plus TWO EXTRA episodes a week, go subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ On today's episode I discuss, Stagecoach, OCD, and my favourite quotes from my therapist! I also give you some advice, my favourite Kdrama's and my experience with finally getting back on dating apps! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and C...

Apr 24, 202418 min

In Case You Missed Me

Hey Besties! This episode is all about the highs, the lows, and the hilariously unexpected. Violet opens up about feeling a bit down and explores why sometimes, despite everything, it just seems like things won't get better. She discusses the simple joys of being happy and the importance of being present in those moments. But it’s not all about the downs; there’s an up when she talks about getting sponsored to go to Stagecoach—and yes, she’s going solo! Tune in for an episode filled with humor, ...

Apr 23, 202435 min

It's Okay to Not Be Okay

Hey Besties! Today, let's try something a little different. Violetta challenges AI to give intriguing insights it might offer on our everyday dilemmas. From practical tips on mustering the courage to reach out and effective breathing exercises to manage anxiety to quick mood-boosting activities, discovering happiness, and the best life advice ChatGPT can offer. Whether you're searching for a laugh, a cry, or a moment of inspiration, this episode promises to be as enlightening as it is entertaini...

Apr 18, 202445 min

How To Win An Argument

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading from Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power - Law #9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Arguments. Discover why winning through your actions rather than arguments can lead to more meaningful victories and why saying less can actually get you more. Whether you're going through tricky social situations or just trying to get ahead in life, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you master the art of keeping it cool an...

Apr 16, 202429 min

Law of Attraction: Make Him YOURS

Hey Besties! It’s 2024 and we’re done being nice girls. Violetta breaks down the SECRET to dating men - getting him to commit and learning the difference between a nice girl and a b*tch. GIRLLL, all you ever did was take care of him, be nice to him, and put him on a pedestal, and now you don’t understand why you got dumped…well, maybe that IS the problem – you’re too nice! In this episode, Violetta teaches you how to stop being too available and how to become the b*tch that men will go crazy for...

Apr 11, 202429 min

20 Signs You're Doing Better Than You Think

Hey Besties! Today is another Benson Book Club Tuesday! Let’s take another look at 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Ever catch yourself thinking, "I don't know what I’m doing with my life"? You're not alone! In this episode, we dive into 20 signs that you're actually doing better than you think. We'll explore what it truly means to lead a good life, challenging societal metrics and embracing the idea tha...

Apr 09, 202423 min

How to Handle Conflict

Hello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse from Saturay's premium podcast episode where we discuss how to handle conflict, especially for people who struggle with it. Hope you enjoy! To listen to the FULL episode and get ad free episodes plus two extra episodes a week, go subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Apr 07, 202414 min

Law of Attraction: Attract SUCCESS

Hey Besties! Today, we discuss the PSYCHOLOGY, the SCIENCE, and the SPIRITUALITY behind Success along with a few calls to actions to make it happen for you!! Let’s listen to some life lessons about what success truly means and unravel the paradox between failure and success, all with a dash of Violetta's flair. Discover actionable tips to halt self-sabotage and uncover traits common among successful people. We'll explore the synergy of passion and perseverance, why willpower isn't your only ally...

Apr 04, 202439 min

P DIDDY & RAYA - Violetta's Diary

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts or CONFESSIONS with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other. Today we discuss some things I WOULD NEVER share on my regular podcast since I am afraid of a lawsuit or people coming for me so if you want to hear the full story, go listen and subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privacy Policy at h...

Apr 03, 20248 min

Get People to Like You Instantly

Hey Besties! Today, for another reading session of Benson Book Club, we will take a peek into How to Win Friends & Influence People written by Dale Carnegie - a book about ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking, and how to change people without arousing resentment. Together with Violetta, we get to hear practical tips on winning people over instantly, incredible stories of people who mastered the art of being likable, and how to arm yourself with six foolproo...

Apr 02, 202426 min

The Psychology of Self-Sabotage – Why Do We Do It?

Hey Besties! We're diving headfirst into the complexities of self-sabotage. Why do we often self-sabotage? How do we snap out of the self-defeat funk? Embrace the beauty of failure, kick negative thinking to the curb, and discover 18 tips to boost your spirits. It's all about flipping the script, surrounding yourself with positive vibes, and quitting the blame game. Get ready to transform your perspective and sprinkle some fab into your life! If you are looking to listen to today's episode witho...

Mar 28, 202446 min

When to Have S*x

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading a part of Chapter 19: When To Have Sex from the book Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L Lambert, and will be sharing her thoughts on when to take things to the bedroom, decoding men's real dating agendas, and identifying the tell-tale signs of true romantic victory. Ever regretted going too far, too fast? We're breaking it all down and guiding you to date on your own terms. Let's get real about romance, empowerment, and...

Mar 26, 202425 min

4 Confidence Hacks To Transform Your Life

Hey Besties! Welcome to episode TWO of Dating University available ONLY on the PREMIUM podcast. Violetta is going to get real about everything from pimple patches to our 'pick me' girl pasts. It's all about embracing your fabulous self, finding that rock-solid confidence, and saying goodbye to people and habits that just don't spark joy anymore. And let's chat about relationships - why it's crucial to know what you want and how not to fall for those oh-so-tempting but totally empty flatteries. R...

Mar 24, 202417 min

What Your Attachment Style Says About You w/ Sarah Baldwin

Hey Besties! Today, we get to listen to the second half of Violetta’s conversation with Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person. Violetta and Sarah will dig deep into what it means to have an anxious or avoidant attachment style, how to overcom...

Mar 21, 20241 hr 2 min

INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other. Today we dive into sliding into dm's, my intrusive thoughts and lots more. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privacy Policy at htt...

Mar 20, 202416 min

From Lovers to Strangers - What Went Wrong?

Hey Besties! Welcome to another Benson Book Club Tuesday! It’s been a favorite so we will discuss another chapter of 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Violetta dives into a heartfelt exploration of the transient nature of relationships, where we ponder the journey from being strangers to becoming lovers, and sometimes, strangers once again. This podcast delves into the gratitude we owe to those who've dep...

Mar 19, 202433 min

5 Signs Your Friendship Is Toxic w/ Jordyn & Alex (Mean Girl Podcast)

Hey Besties! Let’s welcome Alex Bennett and Jordyn Woodruff, the duo behind the Mean Girl podcast. In the show, these two come together for honest conversations about sex, friendship, mental health, and living in the big city as outsiders. Violetta, Alex, and Jordyn didn’t hold back as they talked about what makes friendships last, setting boundaries (because, hello, we need space!), and why growing apart might just mean you're growing up. Ever wonder how to navigate friendships when life stages...

Mar 14, 20241 hr 25 min

Use a Man’s Mind Against Him

Hey Besties! In today’s Benson Book Club, Violetta will take inspiration from Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L. Lambert - a manual on how to stop manipulation, command attention, and be seen as a must have by any man. Let's take a look into men's true intentions in romance, separating truths from "D*ck Lies," understanding sexual significance, and uncovering why men pursue new conquests. Learn why you might be unknowingly auditioning for a role you didn't choose in the complexity of love an...

Mar 12, 202436 min

The Nervous System Explained w/ Sarah Baldwin

Hey Besties! Today, we welcome Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person. She focuses on showing individuals that they are safe and can get unstuck, which leads to thriving and living the life they're meant to live. Violetta and Sarah will unpack...

Mar 07, 20241 hr 8 min

BE SUCCESSFULLY DELUSIONAL

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other. Today we dive into the TEXT that ENDED my toxic friendship, vision board update, and how to be successfully delusional. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadul...

Mar 06, 202414 min

What Motivates Men to Commit

Hey Besties! Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray. The book provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication and relationships by acknowledging the differences between them. Today, Violetta will talk about the dynamics of motivation and love as she unpacks the secrets to motivating the opposite sex and explores the balance between love, responsibility, and boundaries. From understanding the i...

Mar 05, 202436 min

Why He Doesn't Want You

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other. Today we dive into how to change your perspective when it comes to goodbyes, people, being ghosted and when he doesn't want you - from the why to the how to the moving on. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure...

Mar 03, 202410 min

Loving Those Who Can't Love Us Back

Hey Besties! For another Benson Book Club session, we’re going to dive deep into Why We Hold On Tightest on the Things That Aren’t Meant for Us from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think . Violet shares her candid insights on navigating the complexities of relationships - from moving on from unrequited love and why we often find ourselves drawn to those who can't reciprocate our feelings to invaluable advice on finding peace and self-love amidst the chaos of modern romanc...

Feb 29, 202429 min

Feeling Ungrateful

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other. Today we discuss feeling ungrateful, creating a vision board, and large wieners jk maybe. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privac...

Feb 29, 202412 min

She's a Narcissist w/ Scheana Shay (Vanderpump Rules)

Hey Besties! Today, Vanderpump Rules cast Scheana Shay joins Violetta for an exciting and at the same time heart-tugging conversation. Throughout her time on "Vanderpump Rules," Scheana became known for her outgoing personality, dramatic relationships, and candid portrayal of her personal life on the show. In addition to her work on reality television, she has pursued acting and music endeavors. She has appeared in several television shows and films, as well as releasing her own music singles. V...

Feb 27, 202457 min

You’re Not My Person w/ Kamie Crawford

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes television host and producer Kamie Crawford. Kamie also hosts her successful podcast, Relationsh*t and MTV’s long-running reality-based documentary series “ Catfish: The TV Show ”. Get ready to dive into all things fun and fabulous with Violet and Kamie. They chat about everything from what's currently keeping them busy to the importance of staying hydrated (because, let's face it, we need to keep those vibes flowing!). Plus, we'll dish on some seriously spi...

Feb 22, 20241 hr 6 min
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