From getting your taco licked to c*mming EVERY time, this week’s episode is SO good, I’m giving you TWO parts. Welcome to part 1 besties :) I begin the episode with Benny Blanco & lil dicky’s party, why it’s not cool to be a mean girl, and how to have a better week with my Better w/ Benson segment. I then have Renowned sex therapist Emily Morse join us to teach you how to cum over and over again, so take out your notepad and get ready to take some notes. We discuss how to, love your body and...
Mar 24, 2022•1 hr 1 min
Women have been struggling with weight shaming and adapting body positivity because of the misconception that there is only one body type that’s perfect. Truth is, women are built differently and we all need to learn how to appreciate the body we have and wear it with utmost confidence! Today, we welcome Remi Bader. Remi went viral in 2020 for posting realistic trys and hauls that I used to watch, and they were hilarious, where she basically showed the reality of buying clothes online when you d...
Mar 17, 2022•50 min
Sex therapist / author / friend of the podcast EMILY MORSE returns to answer all of Violet's hard hitting questions LIKE: Do some guys cause UTIs? How do you awaken your vulva? Is not giving oral a deal breaker? Can anyone become a deep-throater? How do you reduce your gag reflex? Should you taste yourself before sex? AND How many orgasms can you have in one sitting??? Check out my amazing sponsors! Honey : Get Honey for free today at www.JoinHoney.com/violet Better Help : Get 10% off your first...
Dec 23, 2021•1 hr 16 min
The advice I wish I got years ago… This hour will change your perspective baddies, I guarantee it. Stop getting trapped in your own prisons, learn how to KNOW yourself, KNOW your partner, and make the right changes to start your new life chapter. Author and Therapist, Lori Gottlieb joins me this week with the most life changing adviced we ALL needed to hear. It's time to transform into the NEW YOU. To learn more about Lori: https://lorigottlieb.com/ Click Here To Text me Your Podcast Question! O...
Dec 16, 2021•53 min
Ever wonder why you're SO bad at dating? you're not alone. We ALL are and on this episode we reveal why. Joined by human connection specialist, Mark Groves, Violet goes DEEP into the psychology of human behavior and relationships. This week we're going on an in-depth analysis unpacking as to why we do the things we do while in love and while looking for love. Don’t worry, it’s been scientifically proven that love is basically a drug - so remember that stupid thing you did for your awful ex? It w...
Dec 02, 2021•51 min
Find your true zodiac sign and take my quiz! CLICK HERE Click Here To Text Me Your Podcast Question! OR just text me “Question” to my number (310) 510-6643 and I’ll get back to you! This is part two of my two part episode with the beautiful Stallone Sisters, Sistine and Sophia! We continue talking about who I liiiikkee right now and can’t stop thinking about, we also talk about who Sistine and Sophia are dating, plus a discussion on our zodiac signs, and why it's SO important to know everyone's ...
Nov 25, 2021•54 min
Find your true zodiac sign and take my quiz! CLICK HERE HEY BADDIES!! This is part one of my two part episode with the beautiful STALLONE Sisters, Sistine and Sophia! We cover all the practical skills for women looking to date, our dads, MY REAL NAME, setting my friends up with my leftovers, zodiac signs, signs if you’re actually into someone or not, and what your erotic blueprint says about you and your partner. Thank you for listening and if you want to support the podcast, please check out th...
Nov 18, 2021•56 min
Click Here To Text Me Your Podcast Question! OR just text me “Question” to my number (310) 510-6643 and I’ll get back to you! Buckle up Baddies, this week we have Hannah Berner LIVE and IN-PERSON Crystals, Psychics, Cats, Intimacy issues, LA coke whores, Dating and Marriage…there’s nothing we can’t touch. Thank you for listening and if you want to support the podcast, please check out this weeks sponsors! Pill Club: thepillclub.com/violet Credit Karma: creditkarma.com/loanoffers If you enjoyed t...
Nov 11, 2021•55 min
On this episode, Violet is joined by Devon & Sydney Carlson to discuss relationships, conquering depression, and strange addictions. Be sure to download now to hear how these two sisters went from having sibling rivalry to being BFFs, and of course, naked boyfriends! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Nov 04, 2021•2 hr 5 min
Click Here To Text Me Your Craziest Dating Stories! OR just text me “DATING” to my number (310) 510-6643 and I’ll get back to you! Are women really to blame for men's erectile dysfunction? I THINK NOT For this week's episode, Violet is joined by Justin Dubin. Justin is a Urologist, specializing in men's health. During this episode, Violet and Justin dive deep into misconceptions revolving around sex, and some very interesting facts you probably didn't know about UTI's. This very interesting epis...
Oct 21, 2021•50 min
Your toxic relationsh*t may actually have a chance IF you listen to this episode. On this episode we discuss, Types of empathy and having empathy for yourself, becoming the one you've been waiting for, coping mechanisms, what your partner is really feeling but not saying when you fight, and the type of lover that you are, We dive into turning your toxic relationship back into love, the type of love you're attractive, being emotionally unavailable and reaching true intimacy, self sabotaging and w...
Oct 07, 2021•1 hr 16 min
I don’t cook, I don’t clean, but let me tell you how I got this ring! This week Violet is joined by Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger and she has A LOT to say about your dating game. Tired of being the side chick? Well, Patti teaches you how to become the main and only chick in his life. Patti teaches us specific words and tools you can use to secure the ring, the difference in love languages, and EXACTLY when you should know that it's time to MOVE ON. Ladies, stop wasting your time and heed ...
Sep 30, 2021•38 min
Hi, my name is Violet Benson and I'm an Emotional Whore. Violet's audio diaries are back by popular demand! Do you have a notebook ready? Because, you will WANT to take notes. Today Violet has three diary entries, where she dives deep into a personal story that she's NEVER TOLD BEFORE, how to keep a man, and when you should "hang up the phone" Whether you have been tied up in a toxic relationship, and just coming into the realization. Or you feel you are not being appreciated enough. Just rememb...
Sep 23, 2021•1 hr 6 min
Comedian / Influencer / YouTuber ALEX PAPICCIO shares how to get ALL the sugar without the daddy - dating older vs younger men - ignoring red flags - dumb things guys do on first dates - why liquid courage doesn't always help - and the craziest things we've ever done to impress a guy! Check out my amazing sponsors! Psychic Source : Go to Apple or Google Play and Download the Psychic Source App. Be sure to use Promo Code ‘VIOLET” when you sign up. Or call 1.800.355.9214 and mention promo code VIO...
Sep 16, 2021•47 min
In Los Angeles, the dedicated podcaster who investigates these vicious felonies are members of an elite squad known as Too Tired Too Be Crazy. These are their stories… JK - it’s just our fearless leader Violet. Today the queen is back and joined by former FBI lead international kidnapping negotiator, Chris Voss. Violet learns pretty much EVERYTHING there is to know about winning a negotiation. Turns out everything in life is negotiable, and we're here to teach you how to do it. This episode will...
Sep 09, 2021•43 min
In honor of September's #SuicidePreventionMonth today's episode covers depression because doesn't it sometimes just feel like everyone's depressed??? Well... it's because everyone probably is. On today's episode I share one of the darkest times of my life. As I choke up and cry, I share my painful story of shame, battling with clinical depression 5 years ago and how I almost didn't think I'd survive it. I also discuss the difference between being sad, feeling depressed, and having actual clinica...
Sep 02, 2021•58 min
Are love and success really in the future? Or is it all just a big hoax? Today Violet sits down with the self-proclaimed "Howard Stern of psychics" Chris Medina. They talk about how Chris knew he had a special gift, different types of magic, and stalker ghosts that end up watching you 24/7! CAN WE SAY SPOOKY!?! This episode obviously wouldn't be complete without a reading! Chris gives Violet a reading and there are many surprises in her very near future.... Let's just say that a new love interes...
Aug 26, 2021•1 hr 14 min
On this episode we start with getting to know Corey Rae and her journey as the world’s first transgender prom queen, the movie she’s working on, the one thing you should NEVER ask a transgender person, and horror dating stories before and after transition, Corey then goes into a detailed explanation of her transition from her childhood to her transition physically and emotionally, (including hormone blockers, hormone replacement therapy, body dysphoria, sex therapy, gender dysphoria, surgery, vo...
Aug 13, 2021•1 hr 23 min
Sometimes you just have to speak your mind and let it all out... for your passion for cheese and eating out... not necessarily in that order. Violet is joined by Weezy, the cohost of the controversial and rebellious podcast, Whoreible Decisions. Together they dive into a HILARIOUS conversation from sex to cheese and everything in between.. This power duo will make you laugh, cry, and feel empowered to be in your 30's! They are 30, thriving, and comfortable in their own skin; from having confiden...
Jul 29, 2021•49 min
Today's episode is all about BIG P*SSY LIPS ENERGY!! Including my own since I share 22 pics of my taco with Dr. Nazarian to get her professional opinion on my beef curtains. On this episode, Sheila Nazarian joins me, an award-winning plastic surgeon and one of the top vaginal/ labiaplasty surgeons in Los Angeles, to discuss EVERYTHING VAGINA. We cover every myth and all of your questions; you'd be surprised by some of the answers.We get down and dirty on what is considered a "normal vagina", "ou...
Jul 15, 2021•1 hr 11 min
Cockroaches weren't the only thing drawn to Chase on this season of Too Hot To Handle.... Cue in, Carly Lawrence. Netflix star, Carly Lawrence, from Too Hot to Handle season 2, joins Violet on a tell all sit down on EVERYTHING that actually went down on camera and off camera. She spills the tea on being SINGLE(ISH), who she is currently dating (you heard it here FIRST), and whether or not the door is fully closed on Chase. The girls also discuss body insecurities, overcoming them, intimacy issue...
Jul 08, 2021•1 hr 1 min
Emily Morse is back!!! And we start with, celebrating that I finally had sex!!!, why you're not cumming, why lube is everything, passing gas during sex, what's considered normal fluid in the bedroom, and how I realized I had a yeast infection in the middle of sex.We dig into period sex, hot tub sex, a method for great shower sex, tips for good sex for a smaller pipi, and the #1 ORAL method that gets your girl to cum every time.We end with masturbating, what it's like to date a boss ass bish, ope...
Jul 01, 2021•44 min
Rule Number 1: Never stalk your ex’s...unless it’s your friends ex and she needs your FBI skills. Violet is joined by Australian actress, mom, and overall baddie Claire Holt! Together the two get DEEP (pro tip: never take a Polaroid of your butthole). Claire let’s us into her world elaborating on some of her darkest moments and how she saw the light at the end of the tunnel. We also find out that Emrata has Violet blocked on Instagram for no apparent reason and that Claire isn’t afraid to hold h...
Jun 24, 2021•52 min
On this episode, Violet gives you 9 steps to get over that fuckboy that's ruining your life and answer some of your questions like, 5 things you don't know about her, being rejected, and how being 'Daddyissues' has actually affected her love life in a negative way. GURL, If we are not best friends by the end of this episode and you don't feel empowered and deserving of love then bishhh DM ME because, you amazing, you are loved, and you are going to be OKAY. CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS: Apartments.com ...
Jun 17, 2021•48 min
BBC's, Double Penetration, feet fetish, and Creampies! Just normal conversation topic over here. This week Violet is joined by adult film star Pressure! Together the two unpack ALL there is to know about the adult film industry from a black straight males perspective. They also discuss MANY different types of kinks, tips for you in bed, AND the perfect trick you may need to give head just a little bit better! P.S. If you need threesome advice, LISTEN NOW! FIND MORE OF PRESSURE HERE: Twitter @Pre...
Jun 10, 2021•48 min
And just like that…trouble in paradise! AGAIN. Are we shocked? Violet is joined by superstar Harry Jowsey and therapy is in SESSION! Violet gives us a NEVER before seen side of the heartthrob! In this week's episode Harry opens up and lets us into his entire life, FAR beyond Tik Tok. From rural Australia to internet stardom, Harry has had an INTENSE 24 years of life. Of course, Violet gets to the juicy stuff where we hear HIS side of the drama regarding America’s favorite couple. Will Harry and ...
Jun 03, 2021•56 min
Left my ex bish cuz’ HE toxic… This week Violet is joined by her beautiful bestie Francesca Farago! Together the two are tanned from their recent vacation to Mexico and ready to spill some MAJOR TEA. The girls take us on a minute by minute journey of their entire trip that is SO in-depth that you’re gonna feel like you were wasted (or on shrooms like Violet) on the beach with them. Francesca fills us in on ALL the deets about her infamous relationship with Harry Jowsey, her relationship status, ...
May 27, 2021•57 min
If you’re wondering if you’ll ever retire from the streets, have no fear! Alex is here! This week Violet is joined by not only a fan favorite, but one of her dearest friends, Alex Papiccio. Together these two are a HOT MESS. No seriously, things are getting chaotic. Alex gives us a major life update by announcing that she has OFFICIALLY retired from the streets. But don’t worry, she’s recounting ALL of her h*e memories, to ensure us that we’re not alone. With Violet and Alex, NO topic is off lim...
May 20, 2021•49 min
So you’re considering leaving your entire life behind, packing all your stuff, and moving to LA to become the next Tana Mongeau…well you MAY want to reconsider. It’s not as easy as it seems. This week Violet is accompanied by pop culture connoisseur, Heather McDonald. Heather is famously known as an actress, comedian, author, and host of hit podcast Juicy Scoop with Heather McDonald. Together the two unpack ALL things problematic within Hollywood. Nepotism? Grooming? Creepy managers? Cancel Cult...
May 06, 2021•43 min
On this episode sexy bachelor, Nick Viall joins me and gives us stellar dating advice from a man's perspective that we're all dying to know but are to afraid to ask!! from how to tell if he even likes you or is just using you, getting what you want in the relationship, finding the one, love bombing, getting over a breakup, and so much more! We also discuss The Bachelor Matt James, me sliding into Bachelor contestants dm's and getting rejected, to his turn on and offs in bed and other sex stuff :...
Apr 29, 2021•54 min
