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Dad Tired

Jerrad Lopesdadtired.com
You’re tired. Not just physically; though yeah, that too. You’re tired in your bones. In your soul. Trying to be a steady husband, an intentional dad, a man of God… but deep down, you feel like you’re falling short. Like you’re carrying more than you know how to hold. Dad Tired is a podcast for men who are ready to stop pretending and start healing. Not with self-help tips or religious platitudes, but by anchoring their lives in something (and Someone) stronger. Hosted by Jerrad Lopes, a husband, dad of four, and fellow struggler, this show is a weekly invitation to find rest for your soul, clarity for your calling, and the courage to lead your family well. Through honest stories, biblical truth, and deep conversations you’ll be reminded: You’re not alone. You’re not too far gone. And the man you want to be is only found in Jesus. This isn’t about trying harder. It’s about coming home.
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Episodes

A Widower's Perspective (with Brandon Janous)

In March 2020, Dad Tired community member Brandon Janous lost his wife to cancer after a two year battle. She was 38 and a mother 3. Today's episode will no doubt shift your perspective and priorities as you hear Brandon share with Jerrad what he has learned as a new widower, and what he wishes he would have done differently.

Jun 22, 202039 minEp. 206

Don't Be An Absent Dad

Is it possible to be an absent father, even when you're present? Many adults talk about how even felt like their father wasn't present, even though he was physically around. In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he discusses what it looks like to be Christian dads who are present while being present.

Jun 15, 202028 minEp. 205

Leading Your Family During Major World Events

What does it look like for a Christian dad to be the spiritual leader of his home during major world events? How does he continue to point his family to Jesus when the world seems a little chaotic. Is there opportunity to grow closer to God, and help your family do the same during trying times? In this week's episode, host Jerrad Lopes will discuss what it looks like to be a dad who loves and leads his family well during major world events.

Jun 08, 202027 minEp. 204

Why Great Leaders Have A Morning Routine (with Daniel Harkavy)

One of the biggest fears that we should have as Christian fathers is that we succeed at everything in life, but fail to love and lead our family well. In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by CEO Daniel Harkavy to discuss where the best leaders put their time and energy. The pair spend a good chunk of their time discussing specifically how important a morning routine is, what it looks like, and how that directly impacts you as the leader of your home.

Jun 01, 202046 minEp. 203

3 Steps To Real Change (with Dr. Joe Martin)

Maybe you feel stuck in your old habits, and don't know how to change. Or maybe you've experience serious emotional trauma and you've never had the courage to face it. In today's powerful interview, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Dr. Joe Martin, who shares vulnerably about his past of sexual abuse, adultery, and divorce. Dr. Martin unpacks how someone who has experienced deep emotional hurt, and has made mistakes bigger than they feel like God can handle, can begin to find healing and freedom. A...

May 25, 202057 minEp. 202

The Surprising Quality Every Dad Should Have (with John McGee)

When most Christian dads think through how to lead their family well, one of the first questions that comes to mind is, "What devotional should I read?" or "What should family Bible time look like in my home?" In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Pastor John McGee from Watermark church to talk about the surprising quality every dad should have, and how it changes the way you disciple your children.

May 18, 202043 minEp. 201

Leading Your Family Like A CEO

Are you leading your family like a disgruntled employee, or a successful CEO? In this episode, host Jerrad Lopes covers 5 ways a Christian father can lead his wife and kids in the same way a successful CEO leads an organization.

May 11, 202029 minEp. 200

5 Things Your Mentor Would Tell You (with Alex Kendrick)

Most dads want to be the spiritual leader of their home, yet very few fathers were ever taught how to be that kind of Christian husband and father. In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by award-winning film-maker Alex Kendrick (War Room, Facing The Giants, Courageous) to give 5 practical ways for young dads to step up as the spiritual leader of their home.

May 04, 202038 minEp. 199

Wisdom Beyond Yourself (with Cody Carnes)

Have you ever had a moment as a dad where you did something well and surprised yourself? Almost like the wisdom came from beyond yourself? In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by award winning music artist Cody Carnes (The Blessing, Nothing Else, Run to the Father) to talk about how God gives us wisdom beyond ourselves as fathers. Cody shares openly about his childhood, parenting struggles, and his role as a husband. You'll walk away encouraged as a Christian dad who wants to lead his...

Apr 27, 202057 minEp. 198

Slowing Down Enough To See What Matters (with Ruth & Troy Simons)

In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by best-selling authors Ruth & Troy Simons, and founders of gracelaced.com. As the parents of 6 boys, Troy and Ruth spend their time equipping young parents to know and love the Gospel, and helping their children do the same. If you need some friends to sit down and point you to Jesus, this episode is for you.

Apr 20, 202046 minEp. 197

The Role of a Husband and Wife (with Leila Lopes)

In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by his wife Leila to discuss the different roles that both the husband and wife play to contribute to a thriving family.

Apr 13, 202042 minEp. 196

Called To Be Faithful, Not Successful (with Micah Tyler)

In one of his most down-to-earth interviews to date, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with Christian recording artist Micah Tyler to talk about everything under the sun. The pair cover topics like being the spiritual leader of your home, being on the same page with your wife, depression, faithfulness in what God calls you to, and how Micah came to know Christ. Grab a cup a coffee and enjoy this fun, yet deep, conversation between two friends that will point you closer to Jesus.

Apr 06, 202058 minEp. 195

Technology, The Gospel, and Your Kids (with Nathan Sutherland)

How much screen time is too much? Are video games ok for your kids? How does that Gospel change the way we look at all of these things. Whether you and your kids are addicted to tech, or you don't know how to work a smart phone, this episode will point you and your family toward Jesus.

Mar 30, 202052 minEp. 194

We Stay Because God Stays (with Matthew West)

In this week's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Grammy award winning artist Matthew West to talk about the heart behind his hit song "The God Who Stays". Matthew reminds Christian husbands and fathers that the reason they stick around and stay faithful to their family is motivated by God sticking around and remaining faithful to us.

Mar 23, 202042 minEp. 193

Supporting An Anxious Spouse (with Leila Lopes)

This week's news of the Coronavirus Pandemic has caused a lot of chaos and confusion. If you have a spouse who is already prone to anxiety, these events might add to the problem. In this week's episode, Jerrad is joined by his wife Leila, who admittedly struggles with anxiety. She shares three ways that a spouse can support their anxious partner.

Mar 16, 202049 minEp. 192

The Most Heroic Thing You Can Do

I know a lot of you guys are struggling with what you are doing with your life. Many of you have shared that you feel like you're going through a mid-life crisis as a man, or that you still haven't figured out what you want to do when you grow up. If you can relate to any of that, this episode is for you.

Mar 09, 202025 minEp. 191

What Do You Want Most? (with Lecrae)

In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Grammy award winning hip-hop artist, Lecrae. The world-famous rapper shares parts his story about his father that he's never shared with anyone else. He also talks about his own journey as a father, how we as men can find our identity in what we do (not who we are), and chasing after what you want most versus what you want in the moment. You won't want to miss this powerful interview.

Mar 02, 202041 minEp. 190

His and Her Money (with Talaat McNeely)

Money is often listed as one of the top contributors of stress for most couples. But what happens when you and your spouse don't see eye to eye when it comes to finances? Or maybe neither of you were ever taught how to manage money well? In this episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Talaat McNeely, founder of His and Her Money, to discuss his personal journey of becoming debt free and how couples can do the same.

Feb 24, 202045 minEp. 189

Should You Quit Your Job To Pursue Your Dreams? (with Grant Baldwin)

Grant Baldwin of The Speaker Lab joins host Jerrad Lopes to discuss whether dads should quit their job to pursue their dreams. Grant shares his personal experience of leaving a stable job in ministry to pursue entrepreneur endeavors, and how that can effect a marriage.

Feb 17, 202037 minEp. 188

Raising Kids of Character

As parents it can feel like we are always telling our kids what not to do. In this episode Jerrad Lopes gives practical ways to not just discipline your kids, but to remind them of who God created them to be. The episode offers both theological and practical tips for dads who want to raise kids who are secure in their identity in Christ.

Feb 10, 202025 minEp. 187

Redeeming Dinner Time

If you feel like sitting down and having a family meal is more like a chore, and less like a time to lead your family toward Jesus, this episode is for you. As young dads, it can often seem as though a family meal is something to simply power through and survive. In today's episode, Jerrad talks about why meals are so important throughout the scriptures, and how they can be used to point your family toward Jesus.

Feb 03, 202030 minEp. 186

Hope For Hopeless Men (with Sathiya Sam)

There is a saying that goes, "99% of men admit to dealing with pornography at some level, and 1% lie". The statistic may not be accurate, but the principle remains the same; pornography has affected almost all of us men in some way. In today's episode, Jerrad Lopes is joined by Pastor Sathiya Sam to talk about his personal journey of pornography addiction, and how he is now helping others break free. If you have felt a sense of hopelessness in this area, may today's episode be a beacon of hope....

Jan 27, 202032 minEp. 185

How To Create A Family Mission Statement (with Jeremy Pryor)

It's hard to be intentional about leading your family, when you don't know where you're trying to go. In this episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Jeremy Pryor to talk about why and how to create a family mission statement that your whole family can get behind.

Jan 20, 202048 minEp. 184

Four Questions To Ask When You Feel Far From God

It's hard to lead your family toward Jesus when you personally feel far from Him. In this episode, Jerrad shares very honestly about what to do when you are in seasons of life that are "spiritually dry" and four helpful questions any dad can ask themself.

Jan 13, 202026 minEp. 183

Dad Tired Community Question and Response

In this episode, Jerrad takes live questions from the guys of the Dad Tired community. Topics include technology boundaries for kids, playing favorites with your kids, balancing work and business, Bethel Church, and how to handle parents/in-laws.

Dec 30, 201929 minEp. 181

Running Toward Your Problems

Do your kids know why we celebrate Christmas? Do they understand the gravity of Jesus being born? In this episode, join Jerrad Lopes as he talks about the meaning of Christmas in the midst of the busy chaos, and how it has radical implications for our lives today.

Dec 16, 201923 minEp. 180

When Something Needs To Change (with David Platt)

Pastor and Author, David Platt joins Jerrad Lopes to talk about his new book, Something Needs To Change, while also talking about his own journey as a husband and father who is trying to lead his family well.

Dec 09, 201945 minEp. 179

Taking Ownership As A Dad

When our marriage and family isn't operating the way we'd want it to, our first response is typically to blame. But, what if something deeper is going on? In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he shares why most families are leaning toward death without even knowing.

Nov 25, 201930 minEp. 177
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