Episode 170 - Guilt-Tripping and its Impact on Family Dynamics - What to do if You Are the Problem or the Target Welcome to Dad Space, where we explore topics that matter to fathers and their families. Today, we're diving into a crucial issue that affects many relationships: guilt-tripping and its impact on family dynamics. Understanding Guilt-Tripping Guilt-tripping is a form of emotional manipulation where someone leverages feelings of guilt to control or influence another person's actions. In...
Mar 03, 2025•35 min•Ep 170•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 169 - Counting Down With Pebbles - How One Simple Habit Can Change Your Life A podcasting friend, Dave Beckmeyer has a weekly ritual that you need to hear about - Dave collects enough pebbles to represent the number of weeks that he has left in life, and once weekly Dave selects a pebble and carries one of these pebbles with him during the week and then tossing the pebble into a body of water at the end of the week. This weekly ritual represents the end of a week that he will never get b...
Feb 24, 2025•28 min•Ep 169•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 168 - Dads, Be Sure to Invest in Your Family - Why Relational Equity Matters Building relational equity in your home as a dad: Be Present and Engaged: Minimize distractions, actively listen to your family, and fully participate in family activities. This helps create a sense of connection and belonging. Communicate Effectively: Encourage open dialogue by asking open-ended questions and sharing your own experiences. This fosters deeper understanding and strengthens family bonds. Establish...
Feb 17, 2025•33 min•Ep 168•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 167 - Brandon Neely - Author of Five Smooth Stones - Dad Math and Modelling Money to Your Kids Five Smooth Stones: A Journey of Financial Centering Unlock your financial potential with Five Smooth Stones, the innovative money journal designed for high achievers. This powerful tool provides clear, actionable steps to reach your financial goals with confidence. Why Choose Five Smooth Stones? Clarity and Control : Quickly identify opportunities and make informed decisions to progress y...
Feb 10, 2025•31 min•Ep 167•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 166 - The Spool of Life - Confronting Mortality as a Dad Addressing mortality and the realization that life has a definitive end can be a profound and challenging topic for dads. Here's how to approach this theme in a way that resonates with your audience: Understanding Mortality as a Dad Emotional Awareness: Recognize that acknowledging mortality can evoke strong emotions. It's essential to be open about these feelings, whether it's fear, acceptance, or a mix of both. Life Reflection: U...
Feb 03, 2025•26 min•Ep 166•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 165 - The Presence Detector - How Your Kids Know When You're Really There Today, we're going to talk about something incredibly important for all of us dads: being present for our kids. You know, it's easy to get caught up in work, social media, or just life in general, but our children can tell when we're not fully there. They sense it in our distracted glances, delayed responses, and half-hearted nods. And let me tell you, they respond in ways that might surprise you.The Impact of Dist...
Jan 27, 2025•18 min•Ep 165•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 164 - How to Spot an Idiot - The Art of Recognizing Toxic Behaviour As Dads, we often find ourselves navigating complex social dynamics and trying to set a good example for our families. One crucial aspect of this is recognizing and avoiding individuals who consistently exhibit negative behavior, particularly towards others. Here’s how you can identify those who might not be good for you and your family, and why it’s important to surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. ...
Jan 20, 2025•25 min•Ep 164•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 163 - From Obstacles to Opportunities - How Dads Can Turn Challenges into Triumphs If you were getting paid 1 million dollars to do something, how would you do it? Ability to put your all into something, you have so much to give that hides under the surface, the motivation is what drives you to do better. The only obstacle is yourself. There are many things to blame for not getting to where you dream of, but most of the time we are the ones causing the delay. You have to take action on h...
Jan 13, 2025•21 min•Ep 163•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 162 - Bryan White - Being the CEO of your self and your family - be in business for yourself Bryan White is a Dad of 3, we talk about how we as Dads set the example in our home and how we treat our partner. As Dads we are on a growth journey at the same time as the rest of our family - we are learning and growing in our role and confidence as a Dad. Our kids are watching us - be sure to lead by your example as a Dad https://www.facebook.com/the.thriving.chronicles.podcast https://pod.lin...
Jan 06, 2025•47 min•Ep 162•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 161 - Paws, Protection, and Parenting - The Unexpected Benefits of Family Pets Having a pet in your home can bring numerous benefits to your family, especially for children. Here are some key advantages: Benefits for Children Mental Health: Pets can reduce stress, anxiety, and depression in children They provide emotional support and comfort, helping ease separation anxiety when parents are away Interacting with pets can boost self-esteem and confidence in children Security: Pets, especi...
Dec 30, 2024•33 min•Ep 161•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 160 - Empowering Dads - How to Thrive Amid Overwhelm by Doing What You Can with What You Have Theodore Roosevelt's quote "Do what you can, with what you have, where you are" offers powerful encouragement for overwhelmed dads struggling to meet expectations. Let's break it down into three distinct points: Do What You Can As a dad, you might feel like you're not doing enough, but remember that your best effort is all that matters. Focus on what's within your control and take small steps ea...
Dec 23, 2024•18 min•Ep 160•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 159 - Navigating Fatherhood, Supporting Your Adult Children in Their New Lives As fathers of adult children who have moved out and started their own families, it's important to understand how to navigate this new phase of parenting. Here's a summary of key points for dads: Respect Boundaries and Independence Recognize that your adult children are starting their own family unit with their own decisions and traditions. Avoid showing up uninvited or expecting to have the same level of invol...
Dec 16, 2024•24 min•Ep 159•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 158 - Freedom's Path, The Story of Salem Chapel and the Underground Railroad Do you have a significant historical landmark in your community - have you spent time there? Well I did. I spent time at the last stop of the Underground Railroad, where black slaves seeking freedom found community, safety and the true freedom they desired. I had the honour to sit in this small chapel and to let the walls and the wood pews tell me about the history of this lighthouse of freedom. WELCOME TO THE S...
Dec 09, 2024•25 min•Ep 158•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 157 - Behind the Scenes of The Dad Space Podcast - Are You Curious About This Show Happy December Dads! I take you behind the scenes of Dad Space, share a little about who listens to this show, and I thank all of you for listening! A question for you - outside of the podcast, what can we do to build the Dad Space Community? Any Suggestions? Head over to Dad Space and let me know! Thanks for listening Dave ___ https://dadspace.ca music provided by Blue Dot Sessions Song: The Big Ten https...
Dec 02, 2024•28 min•Ep 157•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 156 - Reflecting on Movember - Grow a Mo, Save a Bro - The Story and Impact of Movember Movember: Changing the Face of Men's HealthEvery November, a global phenomenon emerges as men worldwide grow moustaches for a cause. This is Movember, a campaign that has revolutionized awareness and support for men's health issues, particularly prostate cancer, testicular cancer, and mental health challenges.The Mo-vement Begins In 2003, a group of 30 friends in Melbourne, Australia, sparked a revolu...
Nov 30, 2024•12 min•Ep 156•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 155 - Books for Dads - A Father's Story by Lionel Dahmer, Are You Guilty of Your Child's Choices? "A Father's Story" by Lionel Dahmer details the harrowing experience of Lionel as he grapples with the shocking revelations about his son, Jeffrey Dahmer, who became infamous as a serial killer. The narrative is not just a recounting of Jeffrey's crimes, but a deep exploration of Lionel's feelings of sorrow, guilt, and confusion as he reflects on his role as a father. Throughout the boo...
Nov 29, 2024•12 min•Ep 155•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 154 - Books For Dads - Girl Dad - Navigating Fatherhood With Daughters by David Hall "Girl Dad: Navigating Fatherhood With Daughters" by David Hall is a comprehensive guide for fathers raising daughters. Here's a summary review of the book:Overview This book serves as an essential resource for fathers looking to build strong, meaningful relationships with their daughters. It goes beyond typical parenting advice, offering insights into the unique dynamics of father-daughter bonds and prov...
Nov 28, 2024•12 min•Ep 154•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 153 - A Thought For Dads - I Am Not an Option, Embracing My Value I will never beg anyone to choose me. If you think there’s something better out there, then go. I won’t hold you back. Life is too short to keep someone who is unsure, who wavers like the wind. I believe in the freedom that comes from being true to one’s heart. If you stay, it will be because your heart commands it—not because I asked or because you have nowhere else to go. I am not an option, nor am I a convenience. I am ...
Nov 27, 2024•12 min•Ep 153•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 152 - A Thought For Dads - The Villain's Perspective - Understanding My Journey If I'm being honest, truly honest with myself, I'm tired. Not the kind of tired that sleep can cure. No, this is deep. This is the kind of tired that weighs on your soul. I'm so tired of going through the same struggles, tired of trying and nothing working out.I've given it everything I've got. But here I am, drained. It's not about wanting to die. It's not that. But if the gods were sitting right across from...
Nov 26, 2024•12 min•Ep 152•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 151 - A Thought For Dads - The Power of Your Words, Stop Being A Joke Never speak bad words to yourself, not even in jest. Your mind and body don't know the difference between what is real and what you only think. Words have power, and this world is built on power. If you want to change your fate, then change the way you speak to yourself. The words you whisper and the thoughts you carry shape your destiny. If you fill your mind with weakness, you will crumble. But if you speak with stre...
Nov 25, 2024•9 min•Ep 151•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 150 - What Eddie Van Halen and His Guitar Has Taught Me About Parenting The comparison between guitar players and parenting highlights a common psychological response to perceived inadequacy: Guitar Players: Positive response: Use the better player as inspiration to improve. Negative response: Give up due to feeling overwhelmed by the skill gap. Parenting: Positive response: Learn from experienced parents and strive to improve. Negative response: Abandon efforts or avoid parenting altoge...
Nov 24, 2024•12 min•Ep 150•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 149 - A Thought For Dads - A Father's Dreams, A Child's Journey The day you bury your father, it strikes you like a blade to the heart. You've lost the one man who truly wanted you to rise higher than he ever did. The man who silently prayed for your victories, even when you were too blind to see. In the silence, you feel the weight of his hopes, his strength. It wasn't just his own; it was yours, forged in the belief that you could be more than him. And now, with him gone, you realize h...
Nov 23, 2024•10 min•Ep 149•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 148 - A Thought For Dads - The Beautiful Chaos of Marriage If your husband isn’t the most annoying person in your life, can he even be considered your husband? Think about it. If he doesn’t drive you mad at least once a day, can you truly call it a marriage? A real husband knows how to push your buttons better than anyone else. He leaves his socks everywhere, you end up taking out the trash, and he snores like a wild beast. But that’s part of the deal, isn’t it? Those little annoyances a...
Nov 22, 2024•11 min•Ep 148•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 147 - A Thought For Dads - What to do if I Have Wronged You Did you hurt someone recently? Read this! If I've wronged you, come to me, Speak your truth, let your words be free. Don't hide behind a veil of silence, Or turn away in quiet defiance.If I've caused you pain or sorrow, Tell me now, don't wait for tomorrow. I'm no stranger to imperfection, My flaws are clear upon reflection.But I can't mend what I don't know, Silence builds walls that only grow. Fortresses of unspoken words, Lea...
Nov 21, 2024•12 min•Ep 147•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 146 - Ron Nussbaum - Veteran, Father and Host of Construction Champions Podcast Answers 3 Dad Questions Ron Nussbaum is a visionary leader in the construction industry, renowned for his expertise and innovative mindset. From his time in the Marine Corps to over a decade of experience in construction, he has become a driving force for change and growth. Having worked in field operations, sales, leadership, and management, Ron comprehensively understands the construction industry's intrica...
Nov 20, 2024•5 min•Ep 146•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 145 - Quoteable Moments - Inspiring Quotes to Encourage a Dad with William Shakespeare "It is a wise father that knows his own child." — William Shakespeare Shakespeare’s words remind fathers of the importance of understanding and connecting with their children on a deeper level ___ https://dadspace.ca music provided by Blue Dot Sessions Song: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270...
Nov 19, 2024•8 min•Ep 145•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 144 - Quoteable Moments - Inspiring Quotes to Encourage a Dad with Craig D Lounsbrough "A father is the man who, in the absence of a god, builds a tiny human that is part of him." — Craig D. Lounsbrough This quote emphasizes the profound responsibility and honor of fatherhood, highlighting the unique bond between a father and his child What is your legacy? How are you building your tiny human(s)? ___ https://dadspace.ca music provided by Blue Dot Sessions Song: The Big Ten https://a...
Nov 18, 2024•9 min•Ep 144•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 143 - Podcast Rewind - The Basics of Money with David Chudyk - Credit Cards, Real Estate and More Money Wisdom David joins us to give us the BASICS of Money Management, including - when to get your kids a credit card? - renting or owning property - How Dave set up his son when he went off to university - How we need to improve who we are and how doing so impacts our finances More about our guest: As a financial planner with offices in Greenville and Seneca, South Carolina, David ha...
Nov 17, 2024•12 min•Ep 143•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 142 - Quoteable Moments - Inspiring Quotes to Encourage a Dad with Clarence Budington Kelland "My father didn’t tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it." — Clarence Budington Kelland Time to stop saying "Do what I say and not what I do" ___ https://dadspace.ca music provided by Blue Dot Sessions Song: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270...
Nov 16, 2024•11 min•Ep 142•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 141 - Podcast Rewind - Jim Burns, Empty Nesting and Living With Your Adult Children Back on episode 15 of Dad Space, Jim Burns was an early guest and I really love our conversation around preparing for the empty nest and how to effectively parent your adult children. Episode 15 - https://youtu.be/mLu4tLCbj5k Book: Finding Joy in the Empty Nest: Discover Purpose and Passion in the Next Phase of Life When the kids are gone, you can discover a richer, deeper, and more fulfilling life than y...
Nov 15, 2024•13 min•Ep 141•Transcript available on Metacast 
