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The following podcast is a Dear Media production. Hello, hello, everybody. It is Thursday yet again. Not just any Thursday. It's December. Yes, it's the first. thursday of december is it when this video comes out and by the time this video comes out miss k and i will be packing for new york that was my tea oh well we'll get there in a bit but let's get into the episode

Just a couple elephants real quick. Yes, we do have face mask on because this is a very last minute episode. I had asked Miss Kay to come this morning. I asked Nikki to come this noon. Yeah, at noon. And they both pulled up with no makeup. I went downstairs. I had no makeup on. And we were like, well, I was like, if we put on makeup now, we're not going to start filming until 10. Yeah.

So yeah, and Ozzy's here today. Us three is here today. So you already know this will be a quick episode because we have to hand Ozzy's ass back to him again. Say hi, Ozzy. Say hi, Ozzy. This is what Ozzy sounds like before losing. Yeah. That's great. Before he loses. I can't even make promises that I'm going to win today, so.

We'll make you win one. Don't make promises anymore. And we all have our face mask on today because we just, I was like, let's not put on makeup. Like, let's make this the self-care episode. Period. And yeah, we're going to talk all self-care all this 1st of December. And yeah, cue the intro. Girl, you already know who it is.

And we're back. Okay, let's really address the biggest elephant in the room. I feel like we owe Miss K an apology. You guys, I'm already over this story. But yes, I guess we have to address it. Girl, when I motherfucking tell y'all, whatever we talk about on the podcast, it's usually things that we are already over. Miss Kay and I, we're not.

that dramatic. You know what I mean? And in the video, I was really dramatic and it comes across very dismissive of how she felt. But... It's how we talk. It's literally, that's how we talk outside of the camera. Literally, relationship. Y'all don't even know. Girl, I hold back for when Nikki's here, girl. You guys should really see how me and Nikki talk to each other. You guys do not want... Because if y'all were that...

Honestly, it was a little too fucking much. Like, I was called so many fucking things. Like, mean. Egotistical. Like, I'm literally like, girl. I get it. And I'm a Leo. And like, girl, I'm not going to tell you I'm not mean. I'm not going to tell you I'm not a bitch. I'm not going to tell you I don't have an ego. But in that story in particular, girl, if you guys couldn't read between the lines. It wasn't our fault.

It was Nicki's fault. It was Nicki's fault. It was everyone's fault. It was everyone's fault. It's Danette's fault. It was Jeanette's fault. Because if Jeanette's text went through, Miss Kay would not have felt the way that she did. Yes, yes, yes. But you guys. You guys, prior to that date, I was already over it that night. Miss Kay was over it the day of. Yes, I vented to my sister. I vented to Kat. I was like, this is what happened. I'm over it.

And was. And literally you were over my house the next day. I was chilling. Like nothing happened. But no, don't take that seriously. If you felt like I was very dismissive of your feelings, I'm so sorry. Obviously that was not. Also, thank you for the apology. But also, I have to tell you guys this. They apologized to me that day. As soon as we had the miscommunication, they texted me like, oh, I'm so sorry. We didn't really... Yeah.

Because neglect is crazy. I'm like, Miss Kate wasn't even saying all that. But people are like, you neglected her. I'm like, you guys. Yeah, because they didn't want me there. She was home. They didn't want me there. I get it. Yeah, Kiefer, don't be saying all that because they're gonna be like, oh, y'all didn't want me there.

Girl, it was serious at the moment. We apologize to Miss Kay. And now that it's not that serious, we wanted to talk about it. And I understand. And I've seen the video. Like, I get... why I came off very dismissive. But girl, that's really just how we talk. If anything, since I was the person that you guys felt like...

I never felt like he was being rude to me. I never felt any feelings about when that whole conversation was happening. I was chilling. I don't think they were even paying attention at all to how we would laugh in between each. Yes, please stop because that's all I've been hearing from Brett I don't really read the comment section but last night it went through on my feed, the TikTok, and people were like, I couldn't even finish the video. Girl.

Oh, I'm so sorry. You know what? It's fine. No, Kiefer. Because I know where I stand. I know I'm not a me person. I know I'm a bitch. And I know where I was that night. And also, in our family, it's like... When things get miscommunicated, yes, we butt head, yes, we yell at each other. But at the end of the day, we literally talk to each other.

Nothing. And we're family. Like, girl, it's one thing if Miss K is my friend. Yes. But this bitch is literally my fucking cousin. Like, girl. Yes. We didn't talk for a whole year once.

Yeah. Over something smaller. We get over it. Very like. Anyways, we didn't even really address the bigger, bigger, bigger, bigger elephant in the room. And it's Miss Nikki. I was like, wait, what? What do you mean? I forgot. I forgot. I was so sorry. We literally introduced Ozzy to the game. You guys, I know you guys are hearing a third voice. And when we forget to introduce, I'm so sorry. But we got Miss Nikki B in the house today. If you were hearing other voices, that was Nikki. Yeah.

It's me, Nikki D. Would you guys like to say what face mask you guys got on? Just in case because I already know they're going to ask. I have the one that turns into like a clear skin. Yes, she has the face shop one. Oh, the face shop. Yes. The home aesthetic. I did the vitamin C one. So it's like really good for like glow. Period. And I just have like my MediCube or MediPeel night collagen wrapping mask on. I might not even look like I have a mask on on camera. I might just look shiny, but...

I do. And this was the... And before you say I made them do a sheet mask, they chose a sheet mask. Don't try it. We do choose that. Because I already know they're going to be like, oh my gosh, Brett is such a bully making the two girls cover their faces while he does a clear mask. They chose. We did.

Anyways. Stop blaming Brett for everything. Literally. I'm like, we're going to start bullying you. Literally. Literally like, girl. Okay. Miss Kay, should we try these drinks? Yes. Okay. So this is going to be my drinks I made for you guys since it is... what nine o'clock eight o'clock at night i made you guys a little hot chocolate but not just any of the hot chocolate yeah it's dark chocolate with peppermint and a little vanilla on top

Okay. Miss Kay, I don't know if you've been watching my story, but I am in my latte art journey. Do you know how to make a heart on your latte? Yes, I do. And I know how to make a tree. Wait, Kiefer. You know the little squiggly lines and then you like... You have to stay back and teach me. Okay. What? You need to get the great, right consistency of milk.

Okay. I feel like a little elf working in the Santa shop. Do you guys taste the mint? I don't know if I put in a... No. I taste a little bit like the... The thought of it. I taste the thought that you put. I should have added more because I only put like four pumps. I taste the thought. You were like, I should put a mint in here. I taste that.

No, I did ask you for, what is that called? Candy canes. We don't got candy canes. I was going to put it on top so it's like melting on it. We don't. I feel like if I look really hard, I might be able to find candy canes. But it's really good. Thank you. I'm hoping you guys enjoy it. Oh, and my tea of the week was supposed to be that we're going to New York. Yes. And guess what I'm going to go do for like one of like, you know, like a little quick bye. I want to go see the Rockefeller tree.

Oh, we're going to see it, period. Okay, because I've never seen it and I've always wanted to see it. Oh my gosh, it's so beautiful. Really? It's huge. I mean, I can't wait. Big, big trees, but that one, I think because one is a real big tree. Because a lot of the ones here...

That are big. They're fake trees. Yes. And also we have like different trees. We call it like the Hawaiian tree. Yeah. You know the one with the like branches? Yeah. It looks like a pine. Yeah. Like a pine tree. Like the Charlie tree. I know what you're talking about. I don't know what it is. Like we have a farm too in North Shore. It's kind of like very sparse though. Like it's very spaced out. Yeah, very branchy. Like what is that Charlie Brown tree?

Yeah. Yeah, that. I don't know what it would be called. Yeah, the Charlie Brown. Yeah. Me. But yeah. What are you most excited for? Wait, hold on.

Besides the Rockefeller, when was the last time we were even in New York together? Last time I was in New York. We literally, I think it was... Was it the trip? Was that the trip? The trip. When we stopped over and then we went to Sweden. Yeah. Yeah. No. No, we did not go to Sweden. We went to Paris after. Yeah, it was that trip. It was the trip. When everything unfolded. Yeah. Wow. That was a very... The Versailles trip. The Versailles trip. Yes, that was the last one. Okay. Wow.

That was a really pivotal... Let's just say that trip was a very pivotal trip for my career. It is. It was the Versailles trip, the park trip. Yeah. If you know, you know. But low-key, why was that a good trip? If you delete all the memories of... Other than that? That? Yes. It was such a good trip. Us in Versailles was such a vibe, girl. Us walking around at night.

Me and Miss Kay, that was the first time because that was probably the second time we went to Europe together. But that was the first time Miss Kay and I looked at each other and was like, we're glad we're here. Yes. And also that was a time when like Brett wasn't...

busy because you were doing every show and we were there for the Jack Moves. Yeah. The first one, yeah. I think for both, we were there for Jack Moves. But the first one, I was very like, show, show, show, show, show. Yes. Like you were like, in and out, in and out, in and out.

And speaking of communication, there was some bad communication in that first trip. See? I am not the one. I am not the one. And it wasn't me either. They're gonna think it was me. Okay, wait. Let me give you a backstory. So that trip... Wait, Kiefer, we can't talk about it. Oh. No, I wasn't going to say your name. I was just going to say the miscommunication part. What's happening with somebody on the team. Yes, somebody on the team.

So somebody on the team had communicated with me prior to going that it was for a fun trip. Like, it was me because I think it was like... My me truly was just a plus one. Yes It was like me leave it was like that was the last trip with me working for Brett kind of thing Yeah, you know, it was like my final goodbye and then Brett was like since I promised you a Europe trip You're gonna come with us. And so we went

We went to Sweden and then that's when I was like in my vacation move because I was like, wow, I'm really out here doing nothing. You know, like I'm just like, I just got tagged along. And then I noticed like little things were like... Things would happen, start happening. And then they would ask me questions. And I'd be so confused because I was like, girl, I'm like... Not clocked in. Yeah. And this person didn't communicate with me that Miss...

That she told Ms. K that she was just here for a vacation. So I would ask Ms. K for help for things. Which you never mind. I don't mind at all. But that person started asking you for things. I know you would mind because you don't work for her. And that was when I was like getting like running stuff for you and then stuff. I don't mind at all. You guys, every time I go with Brett, I try to make his life the most easiest as possible because he's...

He already has like such a busy schedule. So if I can like try to help him a little bit, I will. And so… And it wasn't like big task, by the way. I was like, can you please get me this Mason Pearson brush? Yes, getting a brush, getting the hair. Remember my little, like, it was like fun, like little outing task. And so...

I had to get your clothes. And I was like, why am I doing that? And I had to walk. And it was like a 30-minute walk. And I was like shopping. And I was like, why am I doing that? And then she goes, well, isn't that what you're here for? And I was like...

Excuse me? What do you mean? You said I was here for vacation. I thought I was here for fun. I'm like, I didn't thought I was working because I noticed Brett was getting annoyed at this point because like things were like... getting miscommunicated and like he needs things and i i'm over here like leaving my phone on the side so i wasn't like accessible

you know yeah yeah so it was like it's girl you had your own schedule you wanted to do yes i wanted to go to the louvre i wanted to go to do this because i thought i was free you know and then i had to fill up stuff and then it started going with like the whole like you thought i thought He told me that this was a vacation. He said, she said, this and that. And I literally sat down with Brett. And I was like, Brett, I thought I was here for vacation. And I was literally like, wait.

And I was literally like, wait. What do you mean? What do you mean? And then I started saying, sorry for asking you to do so many things. But also I was like, who told you that? And then we kind of got into it. But so yeah. Not her. Not me and her. It was you and... them but yeah oh my god yeah that was that trip it was that trip yeah that was a pivotal because i felt so bad when i saw brett like we were in sweden i felt so bad when brett was like like pulling his own luggage.

And he had like four luggage and he goes, can somebody help me please? And I was like going from like the, what is that called? The museum. And I was like out there, like literally sightseeing everything. And I was like, you'll be fine. And I was. Because I'm a strong girl. She's an independent girl. Sorry for interrupting your program. This episode of The Baddest Radio is sponsored by Squarespace. Thank you so much, Squarespace, for sponsoring today's video.

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What do you love about New York the most? I just love how everyone is so different. Everyone is like minding their own business and everyone looks different. Yeah. You know how in Hawaii it's majority Polynesians. And Asians. There's a bit of everybody in New York. I know what you mean. Everyone's not going to look the same. Oh, that's so cool. Nikki B., have you not been to New York yet? I've never been on the East Coast. At all? At all. I think I've been to a good amount of states, but...

I don't think I've ever ventured. How far east have you gone? What's the farthest? I think Texas. Or is it Colorado? That's not even east. That's west, girl. Southwest. I've been to Colorado. That's the farthest probably then. Where's Colorado? it's like central right yeah it's like kind of like right here wait since we're talking about traveling can we talk about like the time like brett had a what is that called he has his and he brought all of us

Oh my god. Okay, so when I was 18 years old, you guys. If you guys don't go that far back into the Bretman lore of it all. I went on tour when I was 18 years old. And I would visit different… And for each time I flew out because I would literally go... to a city, come home for a week, and then go to another city. And I think I had like seven different trips at that time. I was in the Chicago and Detroit. I was in Portland, LA. Yeah. Seattle.

And San Francisco. Yeah. Jazzy, they were there. And then I had Laura. And then you brought my sister as well. So I would just take somebody new each trip. Those were so fun. What is the most... Okay, from your trip, what was the most memorable? Girl, from like your stuff, I think it was Detroit. I fucked up with someone that day. My Uber driver.

I hooked up with my Uber driver that night. And he was from South America. South Africa. Yeah. Oh. Because I had my own plane. Because they booked their own separate. And I had to book my own. You were there early. Yeah. Because you guys ended up getting. delayed. Yeah. For like five hours. So you said... I said no. I was literally... So you said... Let me just connect. No, I was literally... I have five hours, guys. Okay, so from the hotel to the airport, it was like an hour-long drive.

It was a 10 o'clock drive and like it was dark, pitch dark. And I was like so bored. And we started having conversation. And then it turned left somewhere where he... I don't know how... Oh, you know where it turned left, girl. Oh, yes, I do. Because I fucking... I insisted it. How did it go about? So it was basically like... I remember this story. I never heard this one. No, it was basically like kind of like...

They were talking. We were talking and he asked me a question and I was like, wait, are you single? And then he goes, I am single. And I was like, okay, cute. And then I was like, I've never been here before. And then we kind of started talking. And then I go, I've never met anyone from South Africa before. Yeah. And then he goes, well, South African men are great. And then he goes, what makes them great? And then...

And then I go, can I see? And then he pulled it out, showed me. And I was like, wow. If you're happy and you know it, clap your hands. and then i was like can i touch it oh yeah and then and then yeah history has made and then babies got lost yeah period nikki

No, you need to tell them about your story of the lookout. The mountain. I will. The mountain. After y'all. Okay. My favorite one was San Francisco. It was kind of ghetto. Your manager at the time booked us up. A hotel in the middle of... Nowhere. No. Girl, it was so scary. There were... There were prostitutes. Really? Outside. And they were us. And it was us. That was my first time seeing like hookers like on the corner. And I was like, oh my gosh. Really? And like it was gated. It was like.

It's kind of very sketchy. It was in like Timberland or something like that. I was like, I am not fucking staying here. I was like, yeah, please. Can we go somewhere else? But also... Remember when we were driving around in San Francisco with your friend? Yeah. We almost died. Why? San Francisco, I didn't realize, is very hilly. It's very steep. Everything is like a drive up.

I had a friend that met us and like she wanted to drive us around, take us around San Francisco. Was that the elevator story? No. That was my favorite part. Oh, okay. I'll tell that story. But she was driving us and it was... Literally felt like I was losing my life. She was going the wrong way. Oh my god. We were like...

And if it was an uphill, she would go really slow. And if it was a downhill, she would gas that fuck up. I'm literally like... The whole time I was literally like, I can't even enjoy what I'm seeing. A fucking rollercoaster. It was crazy, yeah. It was crazy. My favorite part from the trips that I both took you I'll start with Nikki. My favorite is when the Oregon part actually We had met with our track friend that went to the College there and she invited us to a party

And we go to the party. We pregame at a dorm. At her dorm. And it was now time to head to the party. It was like a group of like 12 of us. Give or take. Give or take 12 people in an elevator. And a tall guy was just like, guys, let's all jump on three. No, there was more than 12, guys. There was more than 12. You're overcapacitated. Yeah, capacitated. In that elevator. Capacitated. You mean decapitated? Capacitated. No, it was overcapacity. That's what I meant. Right.

But somebody was like, let's all jump. Me being a dumb bitch, jumps. So he goes, one, two, three, jumps. Girl, elevator stuck. Oh my God. For how long? 30 minutes, I think? No, I think it was 15. It was short. But to Nikki, it was 15. It felt like hours. I wanted to kill everyone. Nikki, I've never seen Nikki so silent. Nikki was like...

Trying to... Trying to fucking like... I was trying to breathe. We were also drunk, guys. Doing breath work. So like, we were all drunk. Like a pack of sardines in the fucking... And you know what? You know what had me? When one of the fucking stupid ass drunk boys were like... Guys, stop breathing. I can't breathe. You guys are sucking all the oxygen. Oh my God. I was like, I'm going to kill everyone. I'm going to kill everyone. And we were only half an inch off the ground.

Literally, when it worked again, it literally just went. We were already on the ground. We were on the ground. You know, like the ending of the elevator where it goes like this? Yes. We were already on the fucking ground. Someone opened it from the outside and... We took a step out. I'm so mad. I'm so mad. I love that because that was the most intimate thing me and Nikki has ever done. No.

With a group of people. With a group of people. Yeah. My favorite one from Miss K's trip. Wait, Kiefer. What was the mountain one? You went to a party. Oh, God. You went to a party. Fine, fine. You were like, wait, no. Can I say what happened first? Fine. Okay, so Brett was so tired because, you know, we got there and then you did a show right away, right?

And then I was like, oh my god, I'm so tired. I went to sleep. And then I woke up and then Bert was getting ready. And I was like, where are you going? And he goes, my friend invited me to the hills. And I was like, the hill? Oh, the mountains. Yeah, it was like mountains in the… I don't know where it was. But it wasn't… I was like, you're going to go to a mountain? I was like, are you going to be okay? And he was like, yeah, I'm going to be okay. And then I was like, okay, have fun.

came back and then he goes, the mountain wasn't even a mountain. It was like a street called mountain. Yeah. Yeah. And then continue. But it was, it was, it was in a hill, not a mountain though, for sure. So I was invited to another college party from a friend that was going to college. We were in... Which one was that? I think it was before Detroit. Yeah. So Chicago. No, we were there for like a day.

Before that. It was either Chicago or Detroit. Yeah. Well, one of those. Whichever one has a Mountain Street. I went to a house party there and... It was a college party. A lot of the girls knew me because at the time I was already kind of like Bretman Rock. And I seen this boy. He was really cute, but I just, I could tell he was straight. So I was really like not trying to do too much, but I see him rolling a little.

a jointy joint joint yeah and I go sit next to him and I was like oh are you are you gonna smoke and he was like yeah I'm just like rolling it real quick like you can you want to smoke yeah and then I was like yeah and then I thought we were going to smoke literally there because everybody around was smoking. But they were smoking cigarettes and drinking and like there was weed too. So I really thought we were just going to smoke in the house. Girl, he goes, oh, we have to smoke this outside.

I don't want anyone to get mad or I don't want to share it. Period. And I was literally like, okay. But at the time, literally, it didn't still click to me that like, He was into you. He was into me at all. Because, bitch, Loki, I was cute that night, too. But I just, I just, he was just giving straight boy energy. So I was literally like, girl, what the fuck? Wasn't he in the relationship? No, I thought.

I thought he was with... Because your friend was like, I think he's in a relationship. Yeah, with the girl. But they're not. They're not. They're not. Because he was there with her. But they weren't together. I think she was with somebody else. I think she was actually even actually gay herself.

So he was giving two gay best friends. But anyways, we're now in the parking lot. And still, we're still in the parking lot. And still, I did not think this bitch was like trying to hook up. Until he's like, okay, let's get in my car. And I was like... This is a little bit of an intimate setting. Me and you with a joint. So we started like hotbox. Just me, you and the joint. Literally, I don't even know your name yet. Exactly.

how much we got to know each other. Because I literally just watched him roll the joint. He was like, you gotta smoke this outside. We're outside. Because I would never share my joint with a stranger. Exactly. No, no. And then... And then, so, oh my god, this was so fucking long ago. But we hotboxed and then we were just talking about like high conversations and we start, like he starts laughing a little way too much.

And then I was like, wait, I think this boy is actually feeling me because why is he laughing at something that wasn't even a fucking joke? Or maybe we're just high. It wasn't literally until he grabbed my neck. And you know how I don't like my neck being grabbed. Or like this.

And I, and I like flinch like, cause you know, I hate, I hate my neck being touched. And then, so I tell him like, I don't like my neck being touched. And he was like, dude, so what do you do when people kiss it? And I'm like. I was literally like, nothing. I was literally like, oh, like neck kisses? Like, that's fine. He said, just don't touch back there. Just literally, you guys, I think I might have already talked about this, but...

I hate getting the back of my neck touched. There's a reason why. Especially even like cuddling. Like I hate... Breathing on it. Like do not breathe on the back. Like especially when I laugh really loud. Like you guys might see me like go like this. Because I even... My hair touching my neck like makes me like Anyways, so he goes How about neck kisses and then he starts kissing my neck and the next thing you know I had a dick in my mouth

It's not even back in the car, girl. 1 plus 2 equals 4. Literally, girl. And that boy, oh my gosh. She was so fucking... Yes. And then everyone knew. I think everyone knew. Oh, and when we walked back in, bitch, everybody knew, including my friend. Yeah. It was like, girl, you literally smell like dick. And I'm literally like, it's a joint.

It was a joint. It was a joint. And the whole fucking night, like, we couldn't even act like we were normal. Because, like, every time we would just keep making eye contact and, like, everybody would be like... And I think we, like, low-key matched, too. I was like, period. But I think he was, like, not out. Oh, it was. I think he's out now, though. I'm pretty sure he's out now. But at the time. Good for him.

And then you came home and I was like, how was it? Straight to the shower. No, I was like, how was it? And I was like, I'm just trying to match your energy. I'm like, you're not the only girl. Oh yeah, because that was after Detroit. Yeah, oh my gosh. Oh, that's so fun. And that was probably like my last hookup ever too. Yeah. That's so sad. And then you went to your relationship. No. No. Not right away. Yeah. But...

That's for the next episode. I love the self-care. Yeah. See, if the duty calls, the duty calls. You gotta self-care sometimes. Literally, especially if you're young. Like, how do you guys feel? Let's talk about hoe era. Or being, or hookup. kosher real quick okay okay can i just be honest okay i really got if we want to talk about like like that thing i really got scarred the very first time i did it because i've hooked up

I hooked up with a military guy from Hawaii. And then I was like, what? Coming off high school, I was 18. And he was like in his mid-20s, late 20s. Oh, period. hooked up with him. And then two weeks later, I get a call and he goes, I just tested positive for chlamydia. And I was like, you fucking got me fucked up. This is my first time hooking up with someone and you're telling me that?

And so I literally was like yelling at him. I was like, you gotta get me to the doctor because I didn't want to pay for it. I don't know how expensive that is. Yeah. You get the shots and everything. For sure. And I took my blood test. I went to go take the pill. It was so big. And it turned out I didn't get it. So thank God. That's gross if you got it like after you. Exactly. That's why I was like... I was like, that's disgusting. And ever since that day, I never hooked up with anyone that...

at least I see the second time or knew their status. That's why I'm like, all my friends are always like, oh, you never, why is that you never hook up with anybody? It's like, because that story, I never tell that story. But that scarred me from like wanting to just hook up with anyone in like the first place. And also it's like, it's real. As fuck. Yeah, it is real guys. As fuck.

And it's so scary knowing that you don't even have it, you know? Or you have it. Yeah. And I didn't know that he had it. Period. Well, everybody knows my first time. Yes. Oh, the fuck? Disneyland. Disneyland, girl. But yeah. But now every time I hooked up with someone, I'm always like, what's your status? And then the first day, they don't get none. The second day, I'm like, okay, we can do stuff. Yeah.

Period. Girl, I feel like when I turned 21, it's so weird that like my whole era was only like from 18 to 21. But... I would say it was the time to be a hoe. Like, why not? Like, an experiment. But after I got in my first relationship, I really could not. I could not hook up with people that I'm emotionally not. attached to or invested in. Like even now, I have the same kind of rule as you where it's like,

The first time, never. First time, I don't do no need that, girl. You have to stimulate my mind before you stimulate my inside. Yeah, you gotta fuck me in the brain. Also, have standards, guys. Like, do not give yourself out too easily. Yes. Unless they're super cute and attractive and you never think you're gonna hook up with them again. Yeah, literally. Very much that. That part. Yeah, so if you're like, oh my god. Like, we all deserve to not.

That part. Yes. Not for everybody. My favorite is macadamia nut. Polynesians. She's like the coconuts. Oh, she loves the coconuts. I like my pecans I like my demure nuts Like a little cashew with the shell inside still yeah you know exactly like the first class warm nuts warm yeah Wait, let's start. Wait, did you have any sentiments when it comes to whole era, hookup culture? No, not really. I feel like she's like, I'm still on it.

We also you guys I know we're laughing a lot and we're joking a lot, but please please be safe And be free to ask them too. And don't ever forget to ask for consent. Both ways. And enthusiastic consent is consent. What is enthusiastic? Like you have to be enthusiastic about it because sometimes... No! Stop it. No, I don't want to that. Girl, that's not enthusiastic at all. It's like, yes. Because sometimes people will say yes because they feel pressured.

You know what I mean. Because it's like the partner is like kind of peer pressuring you to do it. Yeah. So yes. That makes sense. Consent and know your status and girl. Have fun. Yeah. And if you don't want to face consequence, cover that shit up. Yeah.

Well, we're talking about self-care. What are your favorite types of things to do for self-care? I like to… Let's start with Nikki. Oh yeah, go Nikki. I love shopping. That's my weakness. That's also like my me time. I don't have a problem with going to the mall by myself, guys. You know I do, girl. Period. Breville always call me and be like, meet me somewhere. Yeah. But I love just like...

taking my time and just like looking at everything and also just like my self-care is going to the beach by myself too. Touch some grass, guys. Go see some nature. Go listen to the ocean. Lay in a park with a blanket. I don't know. Like just be in tune with nature. Yeah. Just to keep yourself grounded. So. I love all that, Miss Nikki B. Wow, that's amazing. Mikayla, what are your favorite? My self-care is my peace.

I like to just drive around by myself. Did you see the comment that clocked you a little bit? When? When you were like, I've been on the other side of the island a lot lately. And then somebody was like, you know what that means. Oh. Stop. Why are we on that side? Is it because the marine base is over there? Right. Because why are we on that side so much, Miss Kay? I like that side because that side is more greener than this side.

True. It's greener on the other side. The grass is always greener on the other side. Because they have a forest there, all the trees are out. Over here, it's like brown grass. I'm sorry, but it is. She said windward side. Like the mountains, girl, that's rock mountain. Over there, tree mountain. Yes. Okay.

Okay, shit on the west side then. Shit. No, I'm not the west side. You guys have the best beach. Like, we're the best side. The best side. This bitch really said you guys have... Girl, you're a west side girl. Shut up. I am a central girl. Girl. She said try. She said, you guys, like she didn't grow up in Ever Beach. But no, I like to just drive around. I also like going to the beach by myself if I want to. And just sit there and literally just put my...

feet inside the sand and lay down. You're a beach bunny. Yeah. And I also love to just sleep. Yeah. I'll be taking my naps a lot and I need my naps because I listen to your body. Your body will tell you things and you don't even know that they're telling you it. When I think of self-care, I feel like people always think of like... doing your face mask, taking a bath. But I think self-care is so much more than that. I think the most important self-care you could do is sleep.

Like it's really such a privilege like sleeping and getting the all eight of your hours It's truly such a privilege because me as an adult now I literally like celebrate if I could even get like six hours in my day because like my, either my body alarm just wakes up after six hours or just my body doesn't want to sleep for more than five, like six, seven hours, six, seven. Sorry. But literally, like, I love my Garmin watch because, like, every day I'm like, ah! Seven hours today, like...

I'm talking in it. Did you see that joke? He's like six, seven, eight, nine. Girl, don't start.

Don't start. Wait, should we play the imposter game? No. Why? Oh, we can. What's that? Where we're like given a word. A word. And then there's one of us gets a word. Okay. And then one is an imposter. And then we all take turns saying a word that describes the word without giving out the word. And the imposter either has to like guess what the word is or we have to guess who the imposter is.

Okay. You want to play one round? You want to play one round? Yeah, let's try it. Mr. Ozzy, can you send us a text message? Guys, we like playing games. If you haven't noticed. Yeah. We love challenging the mind. Yes, we love to like compete against each other because... Honestly, it's... We're really competitive. Yes. And I like competing with competitive people because they take things seriously. This too...

have been competing for the whole entire life together. And I love it because they take it seriously. Well, honestly, it's because they made it our personality. All right, you guys, for the last bit of the episode, we are going to play the imposter game. If you guys don't know the imposter game.

It is basically where, well, there's three of us playing today. One of us will be an imposter and then two of us will know the word. One person or the whole group will get a hint of what the word is and it'll be a broad hint. And we basically have to see who the imposter is. We have to guess who the imposter is or the imposter has to guess the word. And if you get the word or if the imposter gets the word by the end in the third round.

we're gonna say okay if you're the imposter say the word if you're the imposter say the word and if you don't know the word just stay quiet or if not sure just stay quiet and that's when we vote who the imposter is yeah okay okay Sorry, the hint is person. I have my microphone off. Chicken. Brown. International. Oh, period. Okay. Way. Way? Way. W-A-Y. Way. Way. Way? Way? Let me do a different one. No, you can say it way. Way, I'm trying to remember what y'all said. Chicken. Chicken.

You said international? Yeah. Whoever the other non-impostor is, make it as broad as possible because I feel like I know who the imposter is. Wait. Broad as possible? Yes. Don't go too close. They will get it. Or I think I know. Volcano. Volcano. What? Okay. You're the boss. I know what it is. Makaha. Okay. Okay. Wait, that makes sense too. No, it doesn't.

Yes, it does. Nikki, it does. Nikki, are you the... Okay, do we think... Is this the last round? We have to go one more. Oh, one more round. Okay, we might need this one round because I don't know now. Let's do... Hook. Hook? Let's do... Let's do... Green Rock. Green Rock? Not to be confused with Green World. Green Rock? Okay, Kiefer, go. Filipino. Okay. What was your words? All three.

What was it again? My words was way, way, chicken. Mines was brown, green rock, and volcano. Okay, and mines was international. Makahan Filipino. Yeah. What was yours? No. It doesn't even matter. It don't matter. You're the imposter. You're the imposter. I feel like Brett is the imposter. No, girl. Okay. Well, would the imposter like to say the word or should we just vote? Bretman. Is that the word? No. But I'm not the imposter. No, you are. Yes, you are.

Wow Wow Wait Ozzy for the impostor you just put impostor Yeah, yeah, that's I was like some confused. I was like, huh, but it's okay. It's okay. Yeah. Yeah, you still got it. We still got it All right, next word and in the category is the the the hint Oh, that was a good one. I was like, yeah, I knew what you were saying. You got it from the first word, right? Yeah. Because me too. I was like, that's my girl. Away. Away, away. I get it. Wayfinder. You know, I was thinking about that.

That's why I was like the way because he was like, he wanted to be in Heihe in Moana. Yeah. So it made sense to me in my head. Okay. I thought the Green Rock would have like, yeah, I was like, yeah, I was like international. The sailing. You can have Nikki go. Jobs. Salary. Okay. That is so broad. Right. Union. Ooh. That, that, that. Jesus. Jesus. Okay. Go. I didn't question your words. You get mine? Right. I get it. I get it. I get it. I get it. I get it. Shut up. Okay, sorry.

I don't know about you. Labor. Labor. Mine would have to be man-child. Right. Because I was going to say that. Let's do... Let's do... Vacuum. Vacuum. Nikki, you didn't even want to go. No, I'm last. You said... Jesus. Jesus. You said man-child. Is this baby boss? No. Do you give up? Yeah, I do. It's Carpenter. Carpenter. Because Jesus was a carpenter. And Sabrina Carpenter created a song called Man Child. I hate you guys. It's a salary. Okay. Wait. One more word.

We have to do one more. I love this game. It's so fun. We'll give you the hearts back. You guys are making it hard. Oh, there's an app for this too, you know. Okay, we can play it on time. Girl, we can't play that on a fucking podcast. Why? Because it's audio. Oh, yeah. Okay, guys. I'm winning right now. I'm winning. Heads up. Heads up. We would have to narrate everything. Alright, I'm putting Nicki's hand down. Guys, guess who? Imagine if it's like the animal. The card game animal?

No, like the category. Animal? Like the, you know, the heads up, the animal category. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Woof, woof. That was hard. I got a question the other day. If you were an animal, what sound would you make? That would be me. Oh, hell no. Do you know what they remind me of? When you step on Torah. Do you know what reminds me of? That tooko in the Philippines. Oh.

Tukku? Yeah, it goes... Tukku! Ew! So loud, Nikki. Is that a bird? No, it's a lizard. Oh, it's not like that. Yeah, but it goes... Ew. Okay, what noise would you make? Ew, that's an ugly sound. Nikki would make... Alright, new word. New word, new word, new word. Okay. Ozzy, another word. Because Nikki, you can't react. Nikki is the imposter. She basically is like, I'm the imposter again. Oh, man.

Sorry. Nikki. What was the word? Shave eyes. Fuck. I could have won that one. I'm sorry. If only this was like actual imposters, I would love to be an imposter. I feel like I would have said Lilo and Stitch. You would have curveball. I would have been like... Iceland. Bitch. I would have been like I would have been like I would have been like with condensed milk on top

Snowball. I wouldn't know what to say. If you said Lila and Stitch. That's so broad. Yeah. But you would know. Yeah. I would know. I would be like warm. tropical exactly and yeah you would've ate you would've fooled us I would've been like wait that's the trick about like being an imposter is just like go based off like whatever your peers are saying and

What makes it hard is when you go first. Yeah. But that's why you have the category to go off. Okay, I won't react today. Next word is... The hint is food. You want me to start this round? Miss Keegan. Japan. Mouthful. Girl. I guess. I guess. Okay. Digest. I hate you, Nikki. Culture. Snack. Hot or cold. Hawaii. Rice. Was that the third round? Ding, ding, ding. What? Wow. Kiefer? Wow. Kiefer? Wow. I honestly thought that was... I thought you were...

Was it the third round? Yeah. I thought Brett was the imposter. But until the last one... I feel like... Yeah. What was the two words? Only those girls. Because she want to say mouthful. What was the other word? Digest. ding ding ding and hotter cold hotter cold hot or and sometimes cold and then you said mount for It's impossible. Cultural. No, I said cultural. I said rice. Rice. But everything has rice. That thing, thing, thing.

I'm like, dang, only you would know that. Me, you, Princess, and Inlang Bakut, girl. Because that's how I knew. Because I knew you were looking at Miss Nikki like she got it. No, I did. Wait, what was my other word? No, but then I said... You said Japan. I said Hawaii first, and that's when you went thing thing. So I was like, okay, wait. Who was more broad? Okay, bitch. Should we vote?

I well if you're an imposter and you know the word who what the word is say it now or stay quiet. I'm not the imposter. I'm not the imposter. I'm not the imposter. Okay, so should we vote? I honestly feel like it's Brett. Just because this is my reason. When you went mouthful, he kind of like just went digest right away. I said Hawaii, you went ding, ding, ding. And then when was the last one? Kiefer, you know what the fuck? It's not me. I know, but... It is you. But rice, girl?

No, Nikki, you're playing too fucking much in my face. I was actually trying this game. Just vote. Okay, you can lose. I think it's Brad. I think it's Brad. Who was the imposter, guys? Because it was me. I knew! Yeah, I knew, bitch. I knew! But Keefer, I almost got you there, girl. Yeah, you did. Because the thing, thing, thing. Monopooman. Oh. That's what my family calls it. Monopooman. But I was going to say Monopooman. I also said snack. Yeah.

Do you want to know the word? Is it monopula? No. I had a feeling. Yeah, but because you said hot ankle and that's so broad. And you said digest right after she said that. Yeah. Period. I was literally gonna stop at hot and I was like, wait, what if it's cold? But you can have musubi hot or cold. There are some foods you can have hot or cold. Yeah. Like, I...

I actually thought it was going to be soba. Oh, because I said Tokyo. Yeah, Japan. Because of the seaweed. Yeah. And then I went to Hawaii for the musubi. And then that Hawaii was like threw me off. I was like, is it ramen? And you can still have ramen hot or cold. Anyways, that was the game. That was a good one because I didn't give up like how you did.

Girl. Alright. Should we do the product of the day? Yes, we can. I'll start. In celebration of our very fun episode last week, my... Product of the day is the Bosch and Loam Lumify eye drops because she came in handy for us that week. It did. My product of the week is going to be the mask that I'm wearing just because I love the whole clear mask thingy.

Just because I feel like it worked. You should try it. You got another one. You should try it but sleep. Oh, on it? Okay. Yeah. Nikki? My plan of this week is... this lip balm that Brett got for me from Korea. Did you like anything else than your thing that I got you? Yeah, the scalp sprayer. The serum. I be spraying it every night before I go to sleep. We were like...

We were like comparing, contrasting of the things that you got us. Yeah. Because we were Jazzy last night. And I was like, Jazzy, he didn't give you that lip balm. And she was like, no, he didn't. But she got a full set. But then I heard that she got a full set. And I was like, a full set? Wow. And then Kiefer was like, do I have to wait five months before I see Brett to get that?

What? Full set? I don't know. You gave her a cleanser, a moisturizer, a toner. Oh, girl. Those were from my PR, though. But they're all from Korean brands. They're not from Korea. No, but we're still thankful. We're just like, you know, we're like me and Nikki was like, he really is missing out with this.

You're like, you didn't get the tour. Yeah, no. Miss Kay, I still can't believe you went through that in a week. You don't... She didn't. Were you using that shit as a fucking one? I lied. I'm literally like, a week is fucking crazy. I just wanted another one. Like, look, guys. It's so good. It's the best thing ever, you guys. I li- don't even use it anymore. Just cause- Zoom in. She got a blank slate for it.

Well, that is all for the episode, you guys. Miss Nikki B, Miss K, where can they find you? Seabreeze Collective, S-E-A-B-R-Z Collective. Thank you for joining her giveaway, by the way, you guys. Yes, it was a big giveaway. Did you send out the winners? Yeah, I did. Oh, wow. And if you like any of Nicki's jewelry, she makes it. Besides the jade bracelet. Oh, yeah. And you will find them at Seabreeze. Miss Kay, where can they find you? You can find me at TheBaddestRadio, all set M-I-S-K-A-Y-E.

And you already know me, Bretman Rock and Bretman Rock everywhere. And make sure you guys like, subscribe and give the baddest radio the best rating there ever as it was. We love you guys and we'll see you next Thursday. Oh, by the way. What? If you guys haven't, you know, gotten a gift yet, what can they get? The Baddest Radio Merge. Yeah.

Also, Princess will be back next week, but Miss K won't be here. I might not be here, yeah. Yeah. Yeah, it's okay. But yeah, we'll see Princess next week, you guys. And I'll see you guys later. Aloha. Bye, bitch. I'll see you next Thursday. Yeah. Don't forget to follow, rate, and like. You can follow me at BretmanRock on everything and follow the podcast at TheBaddestRadio on all social media.

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