Rory Uphold is joined by Alexandra "Al" Fine, the CEO and Co-Founder of Dame Products to talk about the TABOO topic of female pleasure and how she has made it her mission to help close the pleasure gap. DAME is giving away four toys to Crimes of the Heart listeners. To be included in this giveaway sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ To check out DAME and their A+ products click here: https://dame.com/ To follow them on IG click HERE or to Follow Al Fine click ...
Aug 22, 2023•49 min•Ep. 35
Rory Uphold joins Songs My Ex Ruined to discuss heartbreak, cheating and the Adele song she can't hear without crying... This week Rory finds herself in the hot seat as she swaps episodes with Songs My Ex Ruined, available here: https://pod.link/1654983254 . A Big thank you to Melissa and Courtney <3 For Crimes of the Heart giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder ...
Aug 15, 2023•45 min•Ep. 34
Atsuko Okatsuka joins Crimes of the Heart to dish on Zakir's date from hell, staying present, and accidentally getting married twice. To follow Atsuko click HERE or HERE and watch her special "The Intruder" on HBO or Max. To follow Zakir click HERE or HERE For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold To send a story or leave a voice message f...
Aug 08, 2023•49 min•Ep. 33
Rory has covid so we are revisiting one of her favorite episodes with Gabrielle Stone! The topic is CHEATING, something that inspired Gabrielle's hit book!! They also talk about potential warning signs, getting back in the dating pool after a breakup or divorce, and how you can turn the worst thing that happened to you into a best-selling book that helps other women struggling along the way! To follow Gabrielle on IG click HERE , on Tiktok click HERE and to buy her book EAT PRAY FML click HERE ....
Aug 01, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 32
This week Rory is joined by award winning journalist, author and podcaster Aline Laurent-Maynard to talk about their journey with sexuality -- specifically, realizing they were not only asexual but also aromantic and what that's meant for Aline's love life. To listen to Free From Desire: Asexual in the City of Love click HERE & to follow Aline on Instagram HERE To sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on IN...
Jul 25, 2023•40 min•Ep. 31
To win a 12 pack of JEMS sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ This week, Rory Uphold is joined by Whitney Geller and Yasemin Emory, the co-founders of JEMS, a female run, non-toxic condom company. They dive in on all things toxic - from ingredients, to marketing and messaging, to the lack of information about the STAGGERING rise in STI's... and thankfully, these ladies break down how we can better protect ourselves both inside and out! For sexual eduction tips ...
Jul 18, 2023•35 min•Ep. 30
The hilarious Liza Treyger (Survival of the Thickest; The Degenerates) joins Rory Uphold to talk catfish, toxic ex's and their mutual love of the Hitachi... For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold You can listen to Liza's podcast HERE You can follow Liza on IG HERE or on Tiktok HERE For tour dates and more about Liza, check her website: http://www.glittercheese.com/ To join the mailing list or to leave a voice message for ...
Jul 11, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 29
Happy Independence day -- in keeping with the theme on July 4th, here is a mini episode where I speak to some of my happily married friends (and some of the minds behind your favorite romantic stories) to ask them about what independence means in a romantic relationship. Thank you to Alana Levinson, Jenny Smart, Ben York Jones, Laura Moses, Shannon Bower, Anita Gatto, Meredith Goldstein, and Todd Strauss-Schulson (I love you all xx) For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRA...
Jul 04, 2023•21 min•Ep. 28
Click to subscribe to the email list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ This week Rory Uphold is joined by Tori Dunlap, an internationally-recognized money and career expert, seven-figure entrepreneur, bestselling author, and top podcast host, to talk all things money, finance and feminism. This episode outlines the parallels between money and dating and how listeners can hopefully improve both. Tori Dunlap provides a wealth of knowledge (pun intended) with actionable steps you can imple...
Jun 27, 2023•55 min•Ep. 27
Click to subscribe to my email list & for a chance to win a Higher Love "Dream Wand Kit" here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ This week Rory Uphold is joined by award winning actress, writer, singer, comedian and author RACHEL BLOOM. Together, they listen to a looney "crime" about money from a finance expert named Maddy. Plus, Rory and Rachel discuss virginity, pregnancy, finding the one and so much more. You can follow Rachel Bloom on Instagram HERE & order her book "I Want To Be ...
Jun 20, 2023•52 min•Ep. 26
Click to subscribe to my email list & for a chance to win one of Ian's books here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Today I am joined by Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT. He's a licensed psychotherapist, a nationally recognized sex therapist and a New York Times Best Selling Author. As a fan of his work I am thrilled to be able to share our conversation about the pleasure gap and how both men and women can work together to bring more sexuality equality into the bedroom. To learn more about Ian, vis...
Jun 13, 2023•54 min•Ep. 25
Rory Uphold is joined by hilarious Tiktok star Becca Moore to weigh in on a cringe-worth crime involving a professional Hockey player and one verrrrrrry bad make-out. To learn more about Becca you can follow her on Tiktok HERE and IG HERE and you can listen to the song we reference HERE ! To check out the show's new website or to leave a voice message go here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTO...
Jun 06, 2023•56 min•Ep. 24
With alternative relationship models on the rise why do so many people keep cheating when they could just be non monogamous?? Rory Uphold is joined by Paloma Garcia-Lee to talk all things ethical non-monogamy, what is was like to be with three people at once and who pays for what in a "closed V" relationship. Today we are looking at monogamy, but from another perspective. To learn more about Paloma Garcia-Lee click HERE for her Instagram For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INS...
May 30, 2023•57 min•Ep. 23
Dr. Jolene Brighten joins Rory Uphold to answer the question "Is This Normal" in a conversation that covers everything from what to do when he throws off your PH balance to how to improve sex on SSRI's. They cover topics like when to avoid doggy style, how to eat for your period, why your underwear might have bleach spots and hormones hormones hormones... Plus! Dr. Brighten answers listeners questions about endometriosis and getting pregnant on Plan B. To purchase IS THIS NORMAL click HERE To le...
May 23, 2023•56 min•Ep. 22
Rachel Wolfson and Rory Uphold listen to Jaden's dab date gone wrong AKA Rory's nightmare. Plus! They discuss the new rules of consent, walk-of-shame essentials, the Jackass Universe, and so more.... For video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold For Rachel Wolfson tour dates & comedy click HERE or follow her on Instagram HERE or Tiktok HERE To learn more about Jaden click HERE Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to he...
May 16, 2023•52 min•Ep. 21
Part 2!! Hillary Kerr continues her conversation with Rory Uphold - they talk love bombers, PDA, nontraditional marriages, love languages and so much more! If you missed part one, click HERE to listen to that first! For video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold Follow Hillary Kerr on Instagram ! Listen to Second Life ! Subscribe to her incredible Newsletter ! Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us ...
May 02, 2023•51 min•Ep. 20
Hillary Kerr joins Rory Uphold to discuss Suzy's insane gift related break-up story in this weeks "crime" of the heart. Plus! They talk cheaters, the perks of being single, how to "have it all" and SO much more. This is part one of two part interview!! For video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold Follow Hillary Kerr on Instagram ! Listen to Second Life ! Subscribe to her incredible Newsletter ! To watch Suzy's video about "Roy" click HE...
Apr 25, 2023•51 min•Ep. 19
In this weeks solocast, Rory reveals one of her own "crimes of the heart"... It's a personal story about betrayal, self-protection and having the courage to change. For video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and...
Apr 18, 2023•20 min•Ep. 18
This week Rory Uphold is joined by The Boston Globe's Love Letters relationship advice columnist, Meredith Goldstein. They talk about dating trends Meredith has seen over the years, dating fatigue, snooping, their shortest dates and why you should be wary of the funny guy. Plus!! Meredith talks about her transition from chronically single to coupled. To listen to the Love Letters Podcast click HERE For Meredith's Instagram & for the Love Letters Instagram For video clips from this episode fo...
Apr 11, 2023•57 min•Ep. 17
Emily and Jaime from 2Girls1Blunt stop by to discuss a 'criminally' bad one night stand with Rory. Plus! The girls dish on Only Fans, going celibate, tickle fetishes, and why you should never hook up with a Gregory. For video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold To check out 2Girls1Blunt click HERE or follow their IG HERE For Emily's Instagram & her Only Fans For Jaime's Instagram & her Tiktok Got a Question? Wanna submit a story?...
Apr 04, 2023•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 16
Molly Tarlov joins Rory to discuss a true horror story involving a body shame & a break-up. Plus! Molly Tarlov dishes on marriage, motherhood and her 24 hours on J-date. For Molly's IG click HERE For video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster See Privacy Poli...
Mar 28, 2023•54 min•Ep. 15
Monica Padman joins Rory Uphold to discuss Kiersten Lyon's wild wedding story involving virginity, validation and a major cheater. Plus! Monica and Rory talk about dating, match-makers and the confidence to keep trying. For Kiersten's INSTAGRAM or TIKTOK For Monica's INSTAGRAM or to listen to ARM CHAIR EXPERT For video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at ro...
Mar 21, 2023•1 hr 19 min•Ep. 14
In this episode Rory Uphold shares one of the craziest first date stories she has ever heard. It's full of red flags and way too many cats. Plus! Comedian Katherine Blanford stops by to talk about cheaters, OK Cupid and long distance love. Follow Katherine Blanford on Instagram or Tiktok For video clips from this episode follow Rory on Instagram at @icouldbeblonder and on TikTok @roryuphold Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & Ti...
Mar 14, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 13
Ashleigh Renard (author of Swing) chats with Rory Uphold about how to keep monogamy hot, killer communication, sexy self-help tips and how swinging ultimately saved her marriage. For Ashleigh's Instagram click: HERE. For video clips from this episode follow Rory on Instagram at @icouldbeblonder and on TikTok @roryuphold Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster See Privacy Policy at https://a...
Mar 07, 2023•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 12
Hunter March joins Rory Uphold for some heavy flirting as they discuss pegging, white lies, faking it and so much more. Plus!! They listen to David Kurtz's viral second date story AKA the shittiest date in history. Listen to Hunter's podcast Friends without Ben's HERE To learn more about David Kurtz on tiktok click HERE For video clips from this episode follow Rory on Instagram at @icouldbeblonder and on TikTok @roryuphold This episode is sponsored by RESCUE ROSE - Don't forget to use "Crimes10"...
Feb 28, 2023•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 11
Baby daddies? Epic revenge? Coming out as queer? Marrying the love of your life? This weeks episode of Crimes of the Heart has it all! Plus , pop singer Betty Who stops by to give us tips on monogamy and her take on a WILD Australian "crime". To follow Betty Who click HERE For clips from this episode follow Rory on Instagram at @icouldbeblonder and on TikTok @roryuphold Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle c...
Feb 21, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 10
In this episode, Rory Uphold takes us through Valentine's days past, some bad dates and one epic meet-cute. Welcome back to season 2 of Crimes of the heart! For clips from the show, follow Rory on Instagram @icouldbeblonder and on Tiktok @roryuphold Got a Question? Got a story?! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram. Music credit: Harry Foster See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....
Feb 14, 2023•24 min•Ep. 9
In this episode, Rory Uphold speaks with author and unqualified but highly-skilled secret agent Gabrielle Stone about what to do when your husband cheats on you. The easy answer…dump his ass! Together they talk about potential warning signs, getting back in the dating pool after a breakup or divorce, and how you can turn the worst thing that happened to you into a best-selling book that helps other women struggling along the way! Follow Rory Uphold on Instagram @icouldbeblonder and on TikTok @ro...
Nov 22, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 8
In this episode, Rory Uphold speaks with actor Colton Tran about the most confusing and stressful walk of shame to exist. Plus, Colton opens up about his sexuality and how growing up Mormon affected him and his idea of perfectionism. Thanks again @cykeefer for sharing your insane hookup story! Sponsor- BetterHelp: Go to BetterHelp.com/CRIMES for 10% off your first month of therapy Follow Rory Uphold on Instagram @icouldbeblonder and on TikTok @roryuphold Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? Ema...
Nov 15, 2022•47 min•Ep. 7
In this episode, Rory Uphold speaks with actress Alisha Wainwright about how to win the breakup in the most bizarre way possible. And let’s just say Step #1 is to stop checking your ex's account at 5:10 in the morning. Special thanks to TikTok’s @bellafoofellah for sharing her chaotic breakup saga! Sponsor: MANSCAPED- Get 20% off + free shipping with code CRIMES at manscaped.com Follow Rory Uphold on Instagram @icouldbeblonder and on TikTok @roryuphold Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? Email...
Nov 08, 2022•52 min•Ep. 6
