Hi, I'm Amy Shepherd. I'm looking through it and although we have different last names, we're married. Now we've been told the secret to a successful marriage is communication. So we're going to talk it out every week. Share our challenges, and pet peeves. Then we're setting each other. Some goals, some couple goals, couple goals. The podcast is for those who might be looking to life their way through challenging scenarios that all couples.
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Just rolls into one one crazy week after the other one. Yeah, just constant s week, has been hell because we moved from our apartment. Into Mom's house. So four-bedroom, apartment, down to one bedroom, how do you feel better? Honestly I'm still not done unpacking. I think we are going to impact how we like, we don't even know what we're doing. I know. But pretty much already unpacked but there's just like random shit everywhere, so, it's frustrating. Yes.
Very frustrating sucks. Yeah. So what's been the most frustrating part about moving for you? You've been a bit of a bit of a stallion. Yeah, like you're like a Clydesdale. I'm glad you just fucking get in and get it done. Yeah it's just been pretty much two weeks of just like putting crap and boxes and now it's like unpacking them the crap from said boxes.
I just anyway you guys get it moving socks, everyone says that everyone hates it. It's just one of those parts of life that you have to go through every now and then and unfortunately, that week was us. Hmm, this week for us, but life also did, Stop on the work front. We actually played the love. How you say we because it makes me feel like I you were there. I was that sure Shepard played the NRL opening game Broncos. First cowboys, who's your
favorite team Broncos? Good question, good answer. Good answer. Sorry. I don't mind but they want a yours. So yeah we got to play the halftime of that which was really Leaf. Um, it's been a little while since we've done old song called football.
Yeah. When was the last time you did it a couple years ago, I think maybe was it the AFL Grand Final. I had people giving me so much shit because I'm a bulldog supporter and then they saw me wearing a Broncos jersey, which was your Broncos Jersey? Now like where's your loyalty? And I've been out of the two games that was on to tent out of the two teams that.
Yeah, but I've been tossing up my little to the, to the Bulldogs for a number of years just because there are sydney-based team and you can't watch them live so well you can but it's a bit more effort so I was like the Dolphins could be a good one to jump on. Okay, Hudson license. Oh, it's good enough for me. All right. But then when I go to Jersey I was that Sammy self somebody here and I could just jump on the Broncos bandwagon. I got a jezebel, you're in the right City.
Well, Dolphins reimbursement to now all day, right? Cliff? What's the different a button? Well, I that's what I would argue. Is lots and Sydney. This is suburb, isn't it? Anyway, we got to perform our new song which is coming out on Friday. What's it look like? It's called good time and should I play a little real snippet of it? Yeah, it's been a long time coming. We haven't released a song for like two years so like he's finding a little snippet for you guys. I must have tennis down.
One second. You keep talking. We've already filmed the film clips about right now, is this a real of me training? Sure, it's enough. If it's doing well, we've just teased it on, like, Instagram and Tick Tock, and people have been They're in reels about summertime because I really love ya summertime feel and obviously United States really gets it and might I just can't stop burping. I'm sorry, I'm really sorry. No, not, I don't fart.
But burping like hook up this morning and I was just like rose and I literally thought I'm gonna be sick because, you know, sometimes we wake up some mornings and You like really hungry but you brush your teeth and you donate. Yeah. And you kind of feel like sick. Yeah, you're gonna eat, man. I know that but I can't make a flipper noise in this house because everyone wakes up because I'm up so early. So I was trying to be a good dude and like tiptoe around the house and not eat.
Meanwhile, every 5 meters or more. God, you're not pregnant. Are you all right? I don't know. And in that I was actually watching a crazy video on tick tock. I'm going to mention the account, but anyway, there was a trance. Woman. Is it a man? That's now a woman. A trans woman is that trans man? Anyway, it was a like a bloke that was now. Sheila And they were about to have a surgery to put a woman's uterus in them, that's fertilized, like, pregnant have it in there for the eight months
or whatever. And then have it, cut out and give birth. And did it go through it? It, no, I did. This is just what they're about to do in the person was obviously, wait, how is that safe for the baby? This was what the person was very much against said person. And was questioning, it's interesting for like progression of Science in medicine, but I don't know if that's safe for baby but I'm not a doctor. So, Yeah, I think it's pretty risky.
I think it's pretty risky. Wait, is it a baby or is it just for its sperm fertilized cell. Yeah, so it's literally like they're going to put the uterus in the body and grow it as if they're gonna like just stick it back and baby in there as an impossible. I'm sorry. It's like it's not a cocoon. Well it sounds like how exactly so call me to play the clip. No but anyway it's yeah why I like, wow. If that actually is going to happen or if that person just thinks it's gonna happen.
We'll see. That's really interesting mad, isn't it? It's not mad. Interesting. Hmm. Some people take mad as like the wrong thing. Yeah language. Brit hang out with a British Dude too much. Maybe not too much. Yeah. Anyway, back to your Your thing myself. Yeah, I cut you off with that segment. I'll cuz I burped you had garlic here we are. So we're obviously all roommates again. How many of us living in this
house five anyway. So we were eating dinner before him as we're at bombers doing the dishes, everyone's burping Rose, and the girls. Then decide to go. I've eaten so much, garlic am IA, me. Did you eat much garlic or one of the dishes and would like to spend all of the random garlic cloves and grilled them, like roasted them and put them in a bowl and I love garlic.
You do only one so I really hated to some kind of liked you did but like you're going to be facing the wall tonight and I shall don't even know which way I want you to face because depends on which end that's coming out. Goodness. But guess, what's on this? We can all see. We've got a few. So, we put a thing out on Instagram, and I found out that you can actually do it. Anonymous posts are people don't, okay? Yeah, a just told me about it. So I'll do that next week. Bear with us guys.
But we asked for some things that you do with your partners and there were two or there was a number of things but to that I want to talk about is what are some weird things you do with your partner? Yeah, question out to Instagram. And what were some of the answers? Well to that really took me by surprise. Was one called Fart fashion. Now, fart fashion. I could get into this game. I think he quite funny.
So in the few characters that the person had to describe this game, fight fashion is a game where you strike a model pose and then you fart without breaking character. If you were to do that, well be your post. What would be my pose. I blew stealing like look back. Yeah, I'd have to like get all dressed up high heels. Just for dramatic effect. Oh my God. Would you wear a mini skirt or a big skirt? I don't own any miniskirts. I like to blow it away so I
think that's a fun game. Oh my God. Wait is it like come on let's play fight fashion or maybe it's just like, I'm just like when you need to find why didn't get to have a conversation? So if you're listening to this, can you Click us a message with the rules. Maybe it's like an unwritten law, right? Where it's like it happened once. But now every time you do it, you sort of struck a pose and see if you make the other person. Laugh. Yeah. But farts in general, if they are.
Why are they funny? I just find them funny. It is and it makes the other person. Laughs, it's like so many different tonalities, you know, wet one, a warm one, a tight one, a strong one, let's see if we can get on Spotify. Fart noises. Over 1000 farts. I like that sounds like the men's toilets at the gym in the morning. Just obscene. That was gross. One more. All right, that's enough. I wonder if that was one person. That just recorded all their
farts. Wish. Surely that would take a long time to do that many. Yeah. And like the internet Story. How do you produce one like that? Like I've heard you produce. On some asking you for advice. Well, that was weird. I can see people. So what Ivan to work? I decided rolling. Wow, yeah, yeah, we're not that he's a father still funny, I would give it, I would definitely play that game. So I think thanks for the recommendation.
We're probably not going to make a real about it or habit of it or a habit of it, but It's funny. I'm going to do it. I think that's a great game and I think if that keeps you guys spiced up then, awesome. So what's it? Someone else say, what were some other talking in strange voices, couples that stalk and strange voices? Now, we've never done it how we darling. We used to talk in American accent. There's an American I couldn't remember what accent was. I remember.
Emma ripped on us, bro, was American. Yes, in French. We always do French nerdy. Yeah, we do accent. Can you remind me just Getting our character. No, honey, I can't. It's so cringe now my god. Oh no. I feel like every couple does it surely if you don't, you know, coupling like you don't know how to Instagram and let us know. You gotta feel comfortable. Tell us we're not the only weirdos. I feel like we're going to get ripped up for that. Well, it's out.
Now it said we said what we said. Oh my God! Oh my God. And we do French like all the time whenever I ring the doorbell bonjour darling. Oh, he's okay. It's really nice. Well, I was going to say something else, but that's enough but that was two of the there was so many. Screenshots. Because I was like, talk to me and strange voices, but model pose and fight. What, which secret conspiracy would you like to start? What, that's a question.
That's a question for us. Yeah, childhood birthday parties versus birthday parties with your partner. What do you mean going to a childhood birthday? Like, oh, your childhood. Birthday party. Childhood birthday parties with fun. Party bags. Can we bring back the party bags? Did you ever do a Birthday at McDonald's. Everyone got Happy Meals. And you just played on that little playground for what felt like eternity, so sad because we grew up in PNG.
We never ever but I'm sure you had like sticks and stones and stuff. But no, we had birthday parties but never at McDonald's or anything like that. There was another one. What rub my face in his underarms it tickles. Him clean, of course. No, I you it never no chance. It would be like Velcro with my beard and your armpit where it's at. Right now. What about your armpit? My armpits dang, I would not put deodorant under that. So disgusting, I would make him watch Disney movie.
They are comfort for me. He loves encoder and Canada. It's in can't. Can't there is called Encanto anyway it's in. Can't do probably is I love Disney movies as well but not as much as Lockheed loved Shrek. I love Disney movies. I feel like the latest one. We I'm safe. We which one? Nokia. Yeah, that was a good thing. You didn't like, it wasn't super into it. I liked it, I prefer Disney and Pixar. Yeah, well, it's now Disney Pixar. You don't know. I just, I just Classics.
Like Pinocchio is a classic. I destroyed cartoons. All in the one thing I do, like the classics, takes you back to Childhood? Yeah, I agree Shrek. This reminds me of when I was a young kid I had no responsibility. My parents were going to bring me sausage rolls and tomato sauce. How old were you interact? I'm out I would have been about 12. Yeah yeah that does check out because you're older than me. I was a teenager.
I Mojo teenager I get Feet, I get feed in my face to inspect comment, on his damaged toenails from ultra running, I can get around that alternate. You peel. Flipping bananas with your toes. That's not that bad. Yeah, but I don't put them in your face. My feet are like not healthy. Well it looks like all your toenails. Yeah, but I am really surprised Frodo challenge like Frodo feet. I think quite haryana should. I waxed them? No, fucking chance.
That would hurt. I could you imagine how much that would hurt I can imagine because as well. I've been waxed before. Oh there you go. Well there you go. So it means been waxed couples. Do weird things. It's true. We want to hear more from you. What else do you do? What's your pet peeve this week? I recognize get roasted this week, why? I don't know, I just feel that you can answer your own pet peeve this week.
I don't know. My pet peeve this week was probably that I had to do most of the move by myself, but oh, but I understand that you've got a job. So do I, but anyway, um, could have use a little help with the packing boxes. That's my pet peeve. I understand one challenge that I had. Was not knowing. What to do with anything? Yes needed to die. That's why you just get a box and you put it all in. I was going to throw so much
stuff out. The challenge that I have is you girls go. Now, let's just move this to this house and we'll have a look. I'm just like, no, no, that's not double handle stuff because it's going to sit there now. It's been it whites here.
We got a lot of and I feel like, I feel like we avoided a lot of disagreements by you taking that approach and me not being there for that cuz the limited time I was I was like, yeah, but you did redeem yourself because you over the weekend helped move some bigger big-ticket, items helped cleaned all the garage here. So it's a more space and you redeemed yourself. So I redeemed myself. I'm back in the good books, all right? I'm on My pet peeve, which what's your goal for me, then?
Is just to continue to help me unpack because we still a mess up there. But I also find it very challenging because we don't know whether we're going to stay here and I don't, particularly want to fully unpack and set up when we know that you know we might be looking for another house in a month I know. But it's like your clothes in a washing basket. They're all on Pat. My there is another washing basket up that's probably from washed one. GSA then yeah.
Cuz all my clearly. They're like we don't have that much stuff here. And he does anyone else bicker like this? It's funny though.
I think it could. I think I said this to I said it to Emma because there's so many moving Parts in a obviously, the assumption is that you just want to move all your stuff from and this could be anything, but you want to move all your stuff from point A to point B or whatever it is but you don't really communicate the process of it. In meaning, for me if I was just going to I would go. What are the basics of what we need? Everything else is irrelevant,
right? Whereas obviously that's not. How We reviewed, you know? Yeah. Because so that probably think you try to take the simplest route, the quickest and fastest route, but that sometimes that's not going to be easy or cheaper down the track on yourself. The quickest and fastest route know because you don't think forward enough to like, oh wait, maybe I do need that. Now I have to go and buy another one. Well, here's what his yeah. Okay, I can understand that.
I also feel if I don't think about, I don't need it and the more stuff you have, the more you have to worry about, that's not true. Just because you can't think of it in the moment doesn't mean you don't need it. No, I know. But over a lot of the stuff that we've moved there's a lot that we still don't need. But anyway, Anyway, what's my pet peeve? My pet peeve is the flip side of that was just We could still color a lot of stuff. A lot.
Like what? Clothes shoes, I did so much coloring and I know things I didn't want to let go. I'm so proud of you that I really am. So, so I'm still in the process of. I've still got a whole room of like stage stuff that I have to do, but I think we're completely didn't, there's no right or wrong. I'm not right. You're not right, I'm not wrong. You're not wrong. I think I'm right. Happy wife. Happy life. No, because I prefer Minimalism minimum minimalism and whereas you are the opposite.
So we have different viewpoints on how we would do things. Yeah which is okay so we got to meet in the middle somewhere and that we have that we bloody well laugh. All right. Well on that note I think it's time for bed because we have just where bad. Yeah. Yeah we've had a week as you can. Tell we've had a week. You'll yeah, well, I got Sam see this weekend, I'm so pumped. Going to be send Thomas Rhett, Zac Brown Band. Jordan Davies Morgan. Wallen Hardy.
Bailey, Zimmerman only female cam but they don't have too many females in the lineup, like, from America this time, next Jackson's playing. Here's Des the Buckley's Buckley's. So, go and see some of the guys to life was, unfortunately, I won't be making CMC, which I'm really I am sad about but also happy because I will be Shepherd. We were releasing a song on that Friday so we will be in Melbourne doing a bunch of promo and a show. And unfortunately, I missed out
on the good times. I'll be a good time. Do you know what? I'll send you some videos. Thanks, I'd be really kind. All right. On that note. Oh just quickly if you do like this show, make sure you head over to Spotify, leave a rating and review. You can also now comment, Went on Spotify and engage in a discussion on the podcast. And finally, share the episode you very much. And don't forget pre-safe good time tonight.
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