¶ Podcast Intro and Rose Battle Setup
Oh, she accepted.
We went on day and night.
You've been on day and night.
No, I've been down since the afternoon.
You you're saying I've been on day and night?
Yeah, I saw you this morning.
I took like a a huge break in the middle of the day. How could I have been in your room if I was still on?
Right, no I know, I know, but so you're on it in the in the morning.
Yeah, I go on in the morning for like two hours and then I try to come on at night, yeah.
How many hours?
Why are you talking like that?
Well quite. Well, sorry, like this.
I like I'm gonna go from like seven. What time is reset now?
You're in Calgary?
Yeah.
An an hour ago at ten o'clock.
Um okay, okay. Did you come here to battle me or just to say hi? No, I don't want to do a battle.
Do a b do a rose battle then.
Total is you wanna do a rose battle? Yeah.
Let's see.
It's total math. You guys we're doing a rose battle. It's it's roses only.
Yeah, roses only. Go to the gift gallery. Karen, I know you could help me Nicole, you can help me.
I agree up to you. And hit the road. It'll send way more roses fast So hit my little picture gift gallery, hit the roses and it sends them twice as fast.
Let's go, ladies, keep playing. I love that. Tanya, this is a fun one. It's just about those small points tapping. Heidi, everybody, the whole teamwork will make the dream work. You should tell my team how you feel about my audience.
Are you just uh you want me to provoke your side tonight?
I think you sh I think you do. You just provoke them. I just I miss the provocation so people know your true your true self.
¶ Rose Battle Tactics and True Self
My true self. Yeah. No, I was telling them about their true self.
Okay, tell them about that. What's their true
It's total mess over there putting vomit emojis in the chat. Yeah, right. No?
Sure, the bed.
Are you here total now? Jacob's Jacob's mad Jacob's side is mad'cause I called them all a bunch of old ladies who are desperate and now they all hate me over there.
Ladies help us out. Karen, do you hear what she's calling you? Annie. See Karen? Help me.
See he uses me to provoke them so then they look they're at seven hundred roses. You guys you gotta hit the um my picture and then the roses and then it sends all of them in like a big junk.
The chunk. It's called the Gift Gallery. Those that don't know, have you heard of the Gift Gallery?
Thank you, Rain. Yeah, I I honestly never pay attention to my gift gallery anymore. I always found it so annoying.
It's kind of a weird offshoot, but I it's a good way to win this rose battle.
Yeah, yeah, to use the Get Gallery approach.
It's here it is by the way. The gift galleries in this little bit right there. And if you poke the rose one. Nicole, you got it right now. Two and a half thousand. Nicole's a gift gallery queen. Honestly. Nicole, beat your gift gallery. Did you already push the gift gallery? Nicole, you got the gift gallery.
You're doing pretty good, especially since they're doing the gift gallery way and you're just doing it the normal Rose way.
Yeah, wait. The girl who's my gift gallery queen for the uh roses is actually my number one shooter. Like earlier on.
So do you know that black um User, what's going on with her? Like why do you guys what like what's going on with her? I'm getting beaten by all these ladies. Yeah. Yeah. I don't know what's going on, user. Like what she d what did she do?
Heidi, keep playing with us. Nicole, thank you so much for revving it up. Heidi, keep'em coming. Again, that gift gallery can just skyrocket us to the top. That gift gallery can do it.
Black widows, they rip off their heads of their maids.
and then suck up the inside.
I don't know about that but
They eat'em, they eat'em, or they just kill the man for no reason.
Yes, because once they once you've served your Oh, is it still that user? User, I've actually heard about that before, but I didn't know if that was true. Soda, are you in here? Do you see that?
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Yeah, they just mate and then they rip off their heads because that's all they're good for. That is helpful.
Black Widow. Keep playing, Nicole, don't stop. Ham have you hit the gift gallery? Do you know how to? Did you did you guys hear how I told you get the gift gallery level up on those don't let her win in the rose battle. Listen, it's about having a bigger team. We're a b big team. Tanya, Tanya, don't give up. Heidi, keep playing. Annie Samasumek.
Why didn't she drop a bunch of roses?
Do you know what happened is I got a bunch of I got a bunch of restrictions for no reason.
Everyone's getting restrictions. I haven't gotten any.
I'm for no reason. And um I got, you know I'm as soon as I rebooted it's been really good. Um and And um total mess I think fell asleep. Invite total mess for me, somebody. Tanya, she'd listen to you.
I tried to have a truce with her.
¶ Wine, Truths, and Mature Desires
I'm not letting you have no truces. You set precedents. You set up precedence that we're gonna keep
Yeah, why are you telling them I'm the nemesis? Just let me have a couple of glasses of wine and come back to me.
Me. That's right. We'cause we don't try exactly your true self shows up all of a sudden you're like
Yeah, no, yeah, my true self.
Yeah.
I'm kinder, but then I th the things that like your chat was coming after me first and I just responded.
You were calling me Satan.
I called you the devil, yeah.
Cause because I suggest that mature women ha fulfill their physical desires.
Yeah, you're telling it to be a bunch of Promiscuous.
No, I was telling them to do what they want. Nicole with a thousand three hundred points. Tanya, thank you everybody. Tanya, Heidi Heidi got a glove. Keep it up, Tanya. I mean Heidi. Cheryl was there a little bit. Thank you everyone who was tapping. Total mess is back. She's back.
You understand? I think you some of your comments aren't coming through, but you don't need to spam me because I have no idea what's going on with her. So you can keep me out of it.
I'm gonna ask.
Total mass.
I'm gonna ask um Where is the AI? She's just wanna do a rebattle? Let's do another one.
No, she
What's a rose bathroom?
I'm not gonna be your little pawn for a total.
They're not my pa-
And I heard what you were saying, but you didn't even know I was still in your room and you were like, Don't trust her.
Exactly. I I knew you were still in my room, I was letting you know.
Why would you say that?
Why would she trust why would we trust precedence, like I said?
Not you and me. I mean if that's the new presidents, I guess.
That's well I mean that's not the n all of a sudden there's a new president when w when after you've said it you're like and you're holding yourself accountable. That's that's horrible. Jacob, you're that's the type of guy I am. I've learned. What does a black widow do to its mate?
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Black widow spiders are infamous for their gruesome mating habits, which often involve the female killing and eating and eating and eating the male.
I'm not doing a another battle with
After procreation, this behavior is where they get their name. Here's a breakdown of what happens. Courtship the male. Black widow approaches the female's web cautiously, often performing a vibratory song and dance by plucking the strands of her web. Some studies suggest males twerk or shimmy their abandon their abdomens to create distinct vibrations that signal that they are potential mate, not prey.
They may also ooh, that so that's what I mean, you could be prey, right? They may also cut thread.
I'm a female.
Or try to make with the right.
We are going to apologize to each other, sure. But no, I didn't apologize before you guys.
After mating, the female often kills and consumes the male. This act is thought to provide her with a valuable source of protein and nutrients to support the development of her eggs. The widow reputation is strong. It's important to note that the frequency of Cannibalism in black widows can vary by species and is observed more often in captivity than in the wild for some species.
In some cases, males often survive to mate with other females. However, male black widows generally have much shorter lifespans than females, partly due to the risks associated with mating. So yeah, I guess it's you know how like yeah. Do you know you know what the most common like what what a statistic what increases your chance of being murdered as a woman is?
Yeah.
It's the opposite for the spiders.
Yeah, isn't that crazy? Yeah, well I mean, are you saying other things in my chat? All I saw was what did I miss? Did you apologize? And then the next comment is, okay, have a good night. Did you say something else?
¶ Moral Stances on Promiscuity
I think Total Best is actually like really wants to be my friend.
Yo, Total Mess is the nicest person in the world. So you being kind of mean, I was like, Oh, you messed up. I wasn't I'm not gonna let you have another chance at some of the nicest people in the world is what I'm trying to say.
What do you mean you you came over here?
Oh I mean to be.
So you wanted another chance. You wanted me to provoke your side.
I like it.
I don't care.
Almost she's like in that mood. Wait till she has a couple of drinks and it feels like fine like being feisty.
I don't know what she did. Well the other person that came in here kinda hinted at what she did. And I didn't know for sure if that's like true. Are you guys with soda? Okay, too bad. Too bad a black widow didn't get a hold of you. That's what they're saying. Too bad a black widow didn't get a hold of you.
Of me? Yeah.
Tell total mess to apologize to me because she's she's hurt I'm hurt now, so she needs to apologize to me.
Total total mess has never heard a fly. Do you hear it? So I don't trust it. That's what I mean. It's like this is off. There's no way Total Mess did anything wrong.
I don't understand why she was like she said that she used to come into my room and support me and stuff. She never I don't she never did that. Yeah, sh you oh yeah, you were in the washroom. Oh, yeah. Yeah, she her and I were talking, like I was in the chat and she was in the box. True, Rean.
Oh, she said she would have supported her. So the way total mess works that if we're good, then she'll like get in there and get on your team and stuff. Even though she's like on our team. She she definitely like
She's still I would have but that night I something must have happened because I wouldn't have just started going off for no reason.
I was having fun. Provocative and you were like, This is evil. This is evil behavior, you're Satan. And we were like, Oh my god. And it's like you were like more or less telling mature women it's wrong. For them to wanna
Well, I do think it's wrong to just sleep around with people and not be in a committed relationship.
No, but wait till you're a mature woman.
That's the thing. Like I wouldn't tell anyone to just have random sex with a bunch of people at any age.
I'm not saying random sex, man. I mean I don't have have safe sex.
Yeah, but you're s you're saying to the older women to pursue younger men and have sex with them with and not be in a relationship. I don't think that's morally the right thing to teach people. And so I spoke up about it. And since they're all horny over there. They didn't like me telling them what was up, that they should be in meaningful relationships.
with someone who values them and probably someone age appropriate because age appropriate has a better chance of being successful long term than pursuing someone way, way, way younger than them. That's the truth. And that's actually loving to tell them the truth. So they're mad at me for telling them the truth and actually looking out for them? Like that's a girl's girl. The guy who's like, yeah, older women, come get me. Like what's the motive there?
So why are they mad at me for having their back and telling them the proper thing? They just don't like to hear it because they don't wanna know that they have to go for someone age appropriate. They'd rather live in their fantasy land chasing some young hot guy. So yeah, sometimes the truth hurts, but it's better that I'm honest with you guys and tell you the truth than live a lie.
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Of course you wouldn't wouldn't it wouldn't benefit you to agree with.
No, I just don't think I think that you're missing out on understanding. what kind of d the level of adventure you're gonna desire after you get over this thing that you're in right now.
What's the thing that I'm in? That I want I want to be in a relationship.
It's pre-perimetopause. You're in pre-perimetopause. And like women in prepared pause area.
Where I have a lot of different options and no one can play with me. Whereas when I get older, just someone whispering sweet nothing to me when he twenty years younger than me will convince me to be with him. So I don't have to fall for th those games right now. Like total mess. Here. You hearing me talk like this triggers you because you know I'm right.
If if you didn't think I was right, you wouldn't be triggered. If someone were to call me out and say something that was completely inaccurate, I would laugh and be like, whatever. But if someone called me out, so and it was kind of deep inside of me and I didn't want to face that truth, yeah, it would probably trigger me. So you know I'm telling the truth.
Do you how many people do you talk to that are over?
Hold on, total mess. Instead of asking me to apologize, you should be thanking me.
Karen, see what I see?
So you're welcome for the being the only person here who actually is looking out for you and saying, find a guy who respects you, who's age appropriate, they can live with and and build a life together.
Yeah.
Someone's selling you some fantasy.
Who is this? She's young. She's just a this is how young all the young women think like this. All the young women Young women think like this. All of'em. It's weird because like there's some sort of line in the women line of women world that like they just change. They're like poo.
Yeah, they get lonely.
Sure, that's what it is. But a lot of'em got lonely after a marriage and a relationship that they sat in and they hated.
¶ Patriarchy, Male Decline, and Relationship Glue
Tell me tell me why I'm wrong that uh what that older women shouldn't seek out meaningful relationships and not just have random sex with people.
I'm not saying random. I'm saying that just I want I think that they can have as much fun as they'd like and I won't judge them for doing it and I think it's their world and why you're wrong about the fact that because they're peers When you grow up with your peers, men fall off really early in life. So you're surrounded by men that aren't fallen off yet. But them and actually you're probably surrounded by men who have fallen off and are lying to you. And they aren't being real with you.
And it's the patriarchy. And they probably give you a f a feeling of like this this committed good relationship, whatever you're calling it, is is a feeling that's it's unreal. It's it's a lie. It doesn't exist.
No, I'm very aware of how men can manipulate hello. case in point and I'm very aware of how men can total mess, lead by example. I am leading. You're the biggest follower I've ever seen. Mm-hmm. You flew buddy out to come see you like
No, I flew out there. They were already together. I flew to go visit two people that were out there with each other. They actually went down to Florida. But then we hung out and I drove with her. took care of me too. Twelve days she took care of me.
Did she finally like collect after all the gifts when you flew out there?
Yeah. I guess. I mean that's what you want to call it.
Exactly. And then he and then he plays in your face all day, total man. So you he like you go and collect with her and then I come in the room and he flirts on on me and it's funny. I t I said this to you guys last time. The man you want wants me, and that's what makes it even funnier. Is that I can sit here and talk shit and he still wants this more than he wants you. Like talk about looking like a fucking clown.
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It's a business.
She's not thinking total. She's not. She's not. She I don't believe in what you're saying about total mess. Is total I don't know where she is. Is total mess in there? Awww I don't think you're hurting Total Ness's feelings. It's up to her. T total mess come here if you've got any issues, if you need me to I think Total Mass can handle it. She definitely is not like that.
getting rude again, not the way God wants you to lead.
Yeah, she's having fun.
Well, Messy, you wanna talk to me about the way God wants us to behave? while you are like committing one of the seven deadly sins, which is lusting over this guy. So don't preach to me about God and morals and how to live holy when you're being a horny toad in Jacob's chat. That's very lustful. Very bad. You're a sinner. Very bad bad. That's why I say this is like demonstration.
Marie, Marie. Wait till wait, she's still got a decade before she figures out who she is.
No, me?
Yeah.
You're so you're saying I'm lost that these like birds in your chat aren't lost?
I see that I figure what I found with ladies ladies find themselves when they finally stop doing what you're talking about, when they stop thinking that there's some sort of morality to their own to their own ful fulfillment.
The like lowest bitter. Okay, Jacob, let's be honest.
You're the one who keeps on adding the lowest bidder. See, here's what here's what it you don't understand that the men that you're with And even the younger men are easily they're they're easily seduced. And they actually want th they want things that these that the ladies that are mature want, not what you want. So the partners the partners that you're trying to describe are actually wanting the same thing that you're
Women girls into like you literally just made them look so stupid. You just said that the immature men want what your older women want.
Younger men have a drive and and w women and immaturity as you call it is actually maturity in a lot of ways. So young men are really well aware of what they want. You aren't. You don't know what you want.
Mm.
What do you want? Yeah. And this was relationship that you keep talking about. What does this relationship look like?
Um, definitely not a guy who tells me that it'd be good for me to hook up with a lot of people and have meaningless fun.
Okay then tell me what kind of guy it should be.
A man who sees that being physically intimate like that is one of the most meaningful things that we can do together. And so it should be reserved for meaningful relationships in marriage.
Okay, so you get married.
Yeah.
Forty. And how old is he? Old or younger? Same age?
The this person, I don't know, he's it's a mindset and a personality. So you get okay, you get married, then
Okay, but how old is he? Like what kind of partnership is it? Like are you talking about a guy who's a little bit old like your peer? Is he an older gentleman? Who turns you on? Who do you approach to get this thing that you're describing? Where do you smell it?
I don't know, it's it's a personality, it's not an age, it's not the thing. That's not what it's about. It's a maturity and it's its values.
There's something there. And values. Uh uh. Are you single right now?
You don't agree in v with values.
I think that there's needs that are met with your partnerships. There's needs that are being met. That's really why you do but
And it's way more meaningful and it feels way better when you're with someone who cares about you.
What happens when the somebody who you're with can no longer perform?
Well, you're with the person for more than just sex. So you ha you can have other things with that person or you work together to get it back and there's other things you can do and he can't perform that you figure out together in the bedroom. But the relationship the center of the relationship isn't the sex because you don't do that all day every day. You have to have
What are you talking about?
Yeah.
Sex is what you do all day every day. That's what keeps people together. That's why you're with somebody. See I feel a lot of
Yeah, so you don't raise children together, you don't pursue goals together, you don't travel together, you don't watch shows together, you don't read books.
You watch shows to have sex together. You you you go travelling so you can bang on the balcony together.
Like there's a lot of other things that happen in a in a
No, that's the fundamental is like that's the glue that keeps you from being my roommate or being my best friend.
Yeah, I don't think it's the glue. I think the respect and the mutual values is the glue. Because you don't know in the in in my perfect world, you won't even have that experience together until you're married. So the glue is just the the commitment to each other. It's not the set. The commitment is the glue. You marry the person, then you can have that intimacy together, and then you communicate through that intimacy.
what you're encouraging is to not commit to each other and just to hook up. And that's not cool. And those women, like you're saying that I'm immature, yet these women should have so much more wisdom than me because they're like
¶ Trauma, Empowerment, and Cougar Crusade
thirty years older than me, and the fact that I'm sitting here, with all of their experience, that they still don't get it, you're picking the women who are the most vulnerable. If at this age they still don't get it, they are the most vulnerable easy targets and here I sit trying to protect them and they get mad at me for trying to protect them.
Well I mean yeah you're right, they're thirty years older than so maybe they they look in hindsight and a lot of the thing I think that makes my it so interesting in my chat is that in hindsight because they're looking at you kind of in hindsight, like, I thought like that when I was twenty two.
So that's my evidence is a lot of women being like, Oh, that's how I used to understand it too. A lot of them got married to that guy that I'm talking about. I'm not talking to you in my chat. I'm talking to them. And it's like a different conversation, that's all.
In hindsight, and they are they have dealt with a lot of trauma and they made some bad choices and they're really hurt at the men that they tried to have meaningful relationships with who ended up just using them. So now they're trying to take their power back by making sex a thing that they think they can control through you because they got used for that and they didn't get that meaningful relationship because they didn't have discernment in other ways.
So now they think like the OnlyFans girls, they're women who have been used and s over sexualized. So they're taking their power back by I'm gonna now monetize this thing so no one can use me for it anymore. I'm gonna benefit from this thing. And that's what these older women are doing. They, because they made bad choices, now they're older and like, I'm gonna take my power back. I'm gonna prioritize my orgasm. It's not because they actually don't want something more meaningful and substantial.
It's twisted. They haven't figured out yet how to be in a relationship with someone, to demand respect, to make sure their boundaries aren't crossed. This is if you really cared about them, this is the stuff you would talk to them about.
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Jump into bed, wait till emotional. How much longer do we have to Okay. I I like this. This is this is what I mean. I think that this is the Cougar Crusade aspect of like why the world sucks and there's a Cougar Crusade. It's like for some reason she doesn't She doesn't e she doesn't respect the fact that there's people thirty years older than her they're like, Yo, you're gonna change.
And what I wanted to ask for me, what's gonna happen is like, how do you know you're gonna be in a good relationship in thirty years from now? How do you know it's gonna work so well?
I can tell you one thing, I assure as hell won't be in a relationship where a guy only wants to have sex with me.
You'll be lucky if your guy that you choose still wants to have sex with you and is capable in thirty years when you're sixty. Just from my understanding, uh unless he's younger by ten
Wait, hold on. Are you so is this what you're encouraging? You're telling them to go with a younger man because the men their age can't perform.
That's one of the massive reasons. Oh yeah.
That's the only reason.
Once once once they hit forty, they're outperforming the man immediately. So all of a sudden they're the alpha in that regard. That's what I'm trying to say. Women are the alpha because when it comes to performance and doing what makes us alive, women like come to life heavily. Like they double down in their forties, fifties, and sixties. Whereas men in their forties are immediately shut down.
That's what's happening. And so yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely. Oh yeah, there's a lot of shutdown men.
Just like a lack of depth. You just like you don't you're not encouraging anything really meaningful. It's just the fact that whether or not his P P can work. As what
I love that.
Go with the younger guys because they can still perform sexually, forego all the men that are possibly great men that are their age, you're telling the women that are age appropriate women for these men to ignore these men and go for younger men. That sounds a lot like these guys that go for younger women because like these physical attributes and that's
Correct. Correct.
Correct.
And actually what you're talking about is the way that men go for women in their physical is actually common sense. And a lot of these men a lot of lot of those men like that's the common law. That's the way things work is that's the patriarchy. These old guys prey on younger women actually. And yeah, unlike flip the switch. And number one, women don't prey on the younger guys. The younger guys want the same thing, so it's a different attraction. Un unlike the mature men who are out there
doing whatever you're talking about, this the the the this or whatever this this they create this space safety for the young girl. It's really they're just predators. They're actually black widows and about to eat your head. And that's the patriarch. So then That's the patriarchy. So then what I want to flip it on its head. For me it's a very simple solution. Do what m what old men did to young women. I'm like mature women do that to the young guys.
Except unlike there'll be a different outcome because it's a whole different situation. The outcome will be much different. And it's a s the the s the experiment that you're discussing we've already played out. That's the world we live in by the way. What you're talking about is the world we live in. And to change the world we live in to have a revolution
We need to have you crack your head open and start thinking about what the fuck is going on instead of just being this thing. Because the way you think, young women think, number one, that's that is that is drilled into your head. You're brainwashed. And I can tell because I speak to room fulls of mature women who are like I was brainwashed. But no one talks about it because you are so brainwashed. By patriarchy.
¶ Future Desires, Morals, and God
No. Yes. No one no one can convince me to have rant like sex with men that don't care about me.
You you don't desire it enough. You're it's still you're still in denial of your want for it. You're scared of it. It's gonna change the next ten years. It's gonna wake up and take control of you, I guarantee it. You can't promise me you gotta come tell me in ten years when you're actually gonna be like you're gonna do all this act, you're gonna make, oh my god, boss, I know, I know. And then we're gonna meet other young women when we're up there, and they're gonna be the same.
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No. And your and your whole chat keeps talking about like Marie God Bible God Biblical and then they're doing what they're doing. It's major contradictions, but I said what I had to say. I would just be repeating myself at this point.
If they wanna like I would love to see how that works out for them. They keep chasing these young men who will will drain them of their resources, take advantage of them, and then the young men will turn around and marry someone who's actually proper and And for them, but that's fine.
Okay, and we get to find out how it wort works out for you, finding this this perfect guy that gonna be he's able to fulfill you in every way. He's gonna be every piece of the puzzle that you need. We'd like to find that out as well.
And the women in your chat is like I'm not desperately looking for a man who'll just look in my direction. And that's probably why I attract the men.
Karen, you should write that in her chat. She you gotta you gotta see Karen and Karen, let her know how old you are.'Cause she is in Timbuktu baby.
If Karen's young, is she young or is she like
You'll find out. But yeah, because w for me, what you're saying contradicts what I get and I do speak to m mature women. I do speak to women over forty.
I've seen your chat. They're I can see why they love you.
I do love them back. I know. And I love them because they're honest and they're real. And instead of having me have to t to go through this thing and and make this character that doesn't exist that young women love and he's just a big old fake. I get to be myself and let them know that I'm I can't perform like I did when I was twenty six.
No, no, Jacob, you love them because of your own because of your own experience of base of when you were really young and you had that older woman come after you and it kinda changed you in a way where you start to pursue old women and you get to fulfill your own kinky desires by going after them.
Right.
It's not because you it's not it's about you and what you gain. It's not genuinely helping.
Well, I I've got definitely driven. I I'm more attracted to to mature women. I like women who are self aware and have a strong identity.
Yeah, because you got taken advantage of by an older woman.
Okay. I mean I feel like I have a broader perspective on life and had have had a much, much fuller life than the average man.
Karen, um I think my I don't know why my chat um filters so much, but I think Karen might have tried to put like her age in my chat and didn't show up. So what is it? Just tell me. Okay, then just say say what she was trying to say'cause I think she came in here and might have dropped it, but my chat is heavily filtered. I don't know why. Okay, you're sixty eight. So what point are you trying to make? I'm very confused now.
that you're wrong about who you are and you're gonna change a lot in the day. Everything you're saying you're gonna laugh at and think is a joke. And you're you're gonna fucking be excited to meet a younger guy. You're gonna be so fucking stoked when when you're gonna have fun and your kid has grown up and you have time for you. You're gonna put on high heels and you're gonna fucking shake it. You're gonna shake what God gave you.
You're gonna shake it, you're gonna be proud you still got it when you're forty, forty five, and fifty, you'll be like, I got it, and then you're gonna go around look you're gonna you're gonna look for guys your own age and they're gonna stink and you're gonna fucking hate it. And then there's gonna be a fucking 26-year-old dude who's gonna fucking wanna give you what you want and you're gonna say, yes!
Do 45 year old men stink?
Compare compared to the twenty six year old, yeah, they're better. She's not gonna be frustrated. She's gonna change. I promise. She's gonna change.
No, my frustration is only my frustration is only because I'm trying to I think I care about your women in your chat more than you care about
I mean, I think I got some fucking badass fuck.
I you know, I don't actually th I I would agree with you. Like these women are Draw like they the way they come at me, like they're women who are passionate women. And I see a lot of like I watch how they interact with each other. They they're a c a cute little family over there. And I've never spoken against their character. I just think that this part of their desire and their yearnings.
It's like a band-aid versus really healing what needs to be healed. And I'm trying to tell them the truth of what needs to be healed deep down. It's like they're falling for the promiscuity of the world too. And I'm like, this will not fulfill you.
The promiscuity of the world is it belongs inside a woman.
It's it's an external thing.
It's a woman thing. The conservatism is man is the masculinity because the masculine cannot continue to expand where else the women continue to expand, the men don't, the men eventually shut down.
I wanna I wanna be really clear. They're trying to fulfill something that's missing within them with something that's external. And the only way that they can really Get centered is to fulfill that thing that It's something spiritual that they're missing and they're trying to fix it with something physical that just doesn't work.
What do you mean spiritual? When you wanna do the deed? And that's a spiritual thing.
Desiring to get off. I think they crave closeness and connection and that comes through that intimacy. And you're giving them the very end of it, but that's not what they're actually desiring. They want, I see them. They're in your chat. They want community. They want connection. They want unity. And then they get it with that close.
Okay, the way that you get the community by the way is when you actually look at each other is like, Do you wanna fuck? Do you wanna fuck? Oh my god, I do too. Instead of going like, I don't wanna fuck, like you are. Like Like you're going around no, she's trust me, when women the unity's gonna come when women are like, yo, we're badder than the men and we can fuck like crazy.
Fine. If you guys just want to shag, then do that.
You're gonna wanna just shag. Women shag. Women are the shaggers. There's a preconceived notion that men are the shaggers. Women are the shaggers.
I think that everybody has a desire for that physical.
dies. Men dies early. Men are like died way early. And then women women when it's not just about making babies, which it is for these young women, and that's a part of this fucking wall, when the baby aspect's gone, all of a sudden women are liberated, they want to outdo the men. As soon as that baby volatility s stops being it's women all the way.
And then there's all those all men fall off at that age and women fucking double down. That's why there ain't enough men. Not enough good men to fulfill on the women. Let the mature women grab the young man. The smarter mature woman's gonna give her give him the juice. Where do you think he's gonna be going? Why do you think I was always with mature women? Because fucking the young women are uh
And the and the men that fall for the Ugh are gonna get divorced. They're also bullshit on paper and everywhere else. Ugh. And then it I'm sure they're impotent as well.
¶ Online Dating, Self-Worth, and Spirituality
Eventually. Ugh. Great on paper. Oh and a great relationship with like a lawyer or a doctor or whatever.
K are you Kay, are you encouraging them to just hook up? Are you saying find them because their men can't perform, find a connection with a younger guy?
And I suggest of start using the internet to put yourself out there and actually connect with as many men as possible virtually. That uh that you fulfill you and let you kind of sniff around in a a massive array, a huge spectrum of men that are on the internet.
And though to find one to commit to.
I can't I can't tell them what they're gonna do. They choose to I I I I would suggest they take the risk that they're wit that they're think are safe. Like say if they're not gonna hurt them and go ahead. Last night I I just met a woman I did a a podcast, if you wanna listen to it, I'll link on my bio with a woman who was strangled and and uh assaulted very badly. And uh so like on the online dating list. So we have conversations about that as well.
So I mean you have to be safe. Yeah. First and foremost, but yo, if you can find a great love
I think you're setting these women up for narcissists and psycho.
I think you're setting yourself up for the guy you're talking about is a narcissist. Any guy who's uh lies to you and says he's gonna be your guy of your dreams. And'cause he's and any guy that's willing who wants to trap you in a monogamous relationship, he just wants to control you. Any man who wants monogamy, I mean I'm not a monogamist.
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That's sad. But they're grown women and they're gonna do what they wanna do. But
It's that's what I mean. They're f they've got thirty years on you, some people here. So I feel like you're the baby girl.
Yeah, and somehow I've got it figured out way before they got it figured out.
Well you think you do. I'm sure if ladies, how many people thought like this when they were younger? That's me you're you're the way you think isn't unique. Nothing unique is coming out here.
Actually the way I think is very unique in the in the way that the world is currently, with how you see Instagram and everyone showing their bodies with OnlyFans, with our music, our music videos, everyone's just shaking their ass. Everybody's promiscuous. The way that I think is very unique. to encourage people to um honor themselves and hey, if they want to talk about God, God says that he will destroy anyone who doesn't take care of the temple for the temple is holy and you are the temple.
He's saying take care of your bodies and treat yourself like a temple. All these women who are godly over there, so treat yourself like a temple and stop letting trash men. Put their in you. Like do you guys do you guys not care about the type of food that you eat? Do you not care about the type of music you listen to and the people you surround yourself with? And so you if you care about all these other things, you're not gonna care about
Who's able to sex with you? And yes, of course, you're not gonna have babies anymore, but there's other risks that you're putting that you're Making yourself susceptible to
Again, we're gonna think that they're smart enough. They live to sixty, they know how to prevent that too.
Love how they want to defend their ability to be whores so bad. Like they're like, no, I'm determined to be a fucking slutmer, you can't convince me otherwise. Then go do that. Go do that, Nicole. Go spread your legs as many men as you want. I'm trying to tell you to chill out and close your legs, but if you're determined to be at like a cum dumpster trash bag, go do it.
D I think she seriously feels like this though.
No, Nicole is like so determined to just have a high body count. Go do it then, Nicole. Go do it.
I don't know.
No no like no good man, no decent man wants a woman who has been ran through. I promise you that. And I just
Let's say she makes him feel good though. I don't know if she knows what she's doing. And a young man doesn't know better. It's like a young woman when she meets that fucking guy. And I have a feeling a woman who's as giving and caring as whatever you just described, there's probably a lot more depth than people are aware of.
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I can't believe like I can understand like the young women who get manipulated, but the fact that you have a bunch of like bold broads in there who still haven't figured it out, but that's your target market and they're they're it's an easy target, like They're lonely. It's the same with like these older guys that are buying sex, like they're lonely, they're sad, they don't have like a lot of they don't have
a social circle. They might have some money'cause that's their they're old enough to have some money. So they can throw you some coin. Some with these other old men that are low and me like this how a lot of people get rich. They exploit vulnerable people. So if that's if that's your thing, do your thing. But that's not my thing. I like to protect people and have them find themselves and and be centered and emotionally healthy and seek out meaningful relationships.
And that's why I called you the devil, because I think you're misguiding people and sending them down a really bad, dark path, a really lonely path. But that's whatever. Like I you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink, right? They can do whatever they want.
¶ Evolving Perspectives and Final Views
Yeah, it's good it's good for me to hear your perspective.'Cause your yours is not an an original style. This is a typical this reminds me of all the girls in their under forties, thirty fives. Around thirty five they change. Some some of them change a little like earlier and some of'em wait'til they're forty, but it's a there's a change. And it's a whole different ball game.
Anyways, I think I don't think that mine is actually my thought process isn't very typical. Just look around, but You can say that because then
around meaning that I look around at people getting married, what's gonna happen in that relationship? And who's the one who wants to get married? Who do you think convinces him to wanna get married? That's all the young women in their fucking dream world that doesn't exist. The fucking that that hardcore the world isn't what you're describing. And the idea of it and that we it's kinda held together for young women for some reason.
Both sides of your mouth because you're telling me that these women are women of God over there. And then you're like, who are these young, who are these young guys that want to get married? If they're women of God, then they should have been dating men of God.
God I don't know what you're talking about women of God. I mean I'm not a God guy. I think God is is inside of us and I think God wants to fuck for sure.
This is the guy you follow, he's saying that God wants to and you guys think that
Yeah he does. God wants to fucking do it. The moment God feels safe, I'm pretty sure God wants to jump some bones.
Okay, I'm gonna let that one just hang in the air and let you we'll leave on that note.
I love that. I'm gonna record this by the way, I'm gonna make this a podcast.
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Woo.
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I am married and enjoy this life.