Special Collection: Alain de Botton on the true hardwork of love and relationships

The philosopher argues that as a culture, we'd be happier and saner if we re-examined our view of love, because our romantic notions can actually work against the relationships we want most. (R)

Alain De Botton's novel from 2016 called The Course of Love challenges many assumptions about falling in love and what comes next.

Alain first tackled the subject when he wrote Essays of Love in his early 20s.

The episode of Conversations was first broadcast in 2016

The producer was Michelle Ransom-Hughes and the Executive Producer was Pam O'Brien.

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