Conversations with… Bella G. Part 2

you are aware who's on the podcast today. And drumroll please, it's my sister Vella. Hi. Hey, alright, So today we decided we are going to do a sister Q and A. Basically, I asked on my Instagram if people had questions or need advice. I don't know if for a quality fight to give any advice, but I think throughout the years we've learned a lot through just growing up and being so close to one another that we thought this would be a really fun episode. And you guys loved when

she was on last time. So running it back, here we go again, and I think let's just jump right into it. Sound good, sounds good? Um, So we got a lot of questions on my Instagram. Bella is looking through them right now, and you want to kind of pick them since you're the guest. I saw a lot of similar ones, a lot about like growing up with famous parents, a lot of guy advice, a lot of um, just general questions about stuff we've been through. That's obviously

been very part of my favorite question. There's one question. I guess we'll start with it because we were laughing pretty hard about it yesterday. It said, um, how did you two meet? Do you want to answer that? I just thought that question just needed to be highlighted because we're met because we have the same mom and dad. You know, you know fun fact the stork flew and dropped me off, and then a year later the store came in and dropped Livia off, and then my mom

and I got really lucky. Really um no, but when I was first, or when mom first told you that she was having another one, didn't you say like you didn't want me? Oh? No? And Mom, when we were a little mom um, it was like right after she had you, you were probably a year and I was probably two years old, and she came to me and she's like, well, do you want another little sister, And I just looked at her and I went, no, no more.

Also when we were kids. Also when we were kids, I was like mute because Bella would Bello would speak for me, so she'd be like, I'll have I'll have a glass of milk, and Olivia will have one too. So I really didn't have any uh need to speak when I was a kid because she did it for me, which I think is ironic because I would say, out of the two of us, you're more shy than I am, for sure, but you to this day have like weird issues like will you call and do this instead? No?

Do you know why I do that, Bella? Because I think you need to work on speaking and talking to people and not making me do it all the time. That's why I do that. So I make you call because I always call on my own, though now you don't. If I'm alone, I will call. What do you mean? Okay?

This we're talking about the fact that if any time there's like an appointment or something that needs to be scheduled, I'll be like, Bella, you have to call and cancel something or go up to that person and ask about this. Because I feel like, I'm the one that always does it, but maybe I'm wrong. I just thought you've been doing that this entire time because you're lazy. No, let's start with one that was probably the most asked, which is what was it like growing up with mom and dad

having famous parents? At what age should we realize our parents were famous? But I feel like, for me when I was reading this question, I never even really knew that we had famous parents, Like I thought, maybe because growing up in l A. There's a lot of actors, actresses, celebrities, a lot of our friends parents have similar jobs. So I feel like we didn't really I think it was that weird or different. Did you know? Not at all?

I don't. Yeah, I don't think you realize it. I don't know, not thinking about it because I never even to this day, I'm not like, it's not the first, it's not only the forefront of my mind. Does that make sense? So I'm never thinking like, oh, yes, my parents are famous. It's just those are your parents, those are their jobs. There's not much more to it than what it is, like baseline, I don't think there's ever

been a time where we're like, oh, the life was famous. Well, well maybe recently we felt that way, but prior to that, especially growing up, Mom was so low key. Yeah you know what, though you want to know a funny story, our mom would literally downplay. I didn't think Full House was a big show at all in my entire childhood. I never thought it was a popular show. I thought

she was some like. She kind of always made herself seem like she was just some like she's she but she doesn't really, She's not like crazy, she doesn't do that do that much. Do I think she's been It has been that popular? And I think she did that because I mean, ay, we were so young when she was well we were not born when she was on full House, but we were so young when she was on like nine to No, and then um like her full House reunions were not in the like on screen,

but just like personal reunions and stuff. I never realized how big the show was until Fuller House was coming out and I saw on YouTube because I could really

understand YouTube at that time. It was like right when I started my channel and I saw the amount of views the trailer had, and I like called mom and I was like, uh, do you want to explain to me, why the fuller House trailer has I think I had like over thirteen million views or something that I thought was just absolutely insane, and she was just laughing and we still talked about that. I'm like, okay, I found a really late full House was a big show because

we never watched it growing up. I actually watched recently the first episode of full House that mom was in because I just wanted to see her. She's so cute, I was, She's so dying, she's so young, so beautiful. Um, okay, So I guess the Sorry for the tangent answer, I think, yeah, I guess. All in all, what it's like is uh, we personally didn't really think it was that different because I think our parents tried to downplay it. Also, even

it's not downplay. Moms just such a humble person. Sorry, didn't mean to cut you off, but she's just so humble. She's never talked about her work like we were. Recently, she was telling us a few stories from like the full House days, which is what thirty something years ago,

and me and lives. She called me afterwards and was like she never like, we don't know anything about those And it was ten years of her life, those ten years of her life, because she's just very quiet about it and doesn't shove it in your face or down your throat. She just did it. And then yeah, that's she works in silence, which I think there's something to be said for that in general. This is a really funny question. Do you and Bella have dance battles to

your previous performances on Dancing with the Stars? I can't dance. Also, can you imagine if I like turned on the TV and you're like, my tango, let's go. He hurt you if I like force you to do it? So funny? Uh No, we have not done that. We have dance parties to music, but not to Olivia's Dancing with the Stars performances. We do have a lot of dance parties though.

That's like a thing I feel like I remember my childhood was that if it was us to our parents, sometimes our brother would be there, sometimes he wouldn't, but we'd really throw down in the kitchen and have some fun dance parties. What is a favorite childhood memory? Is it weird that I just don't remember anything ever anymore in my life? Um, I'm sure I could come up with one. Do you were the spider in the Santa

Monica house? No, okay, because I'm I don't know if I dreamt the swan up or if this was a real story. But you were there? Remember the swings that we had? Oh my god, you didn't dream that we had a like a little play structure outside in her backyard when we were probably like two years old, three years old and older than that, five whatever, And I just remember on the swings there was like a huge as spider that would always stare at you know. Also in that house, I almost lit it on fire. Let

me tell that story. It's not a favorite childhood memory by any means, but I did almost light my house on fire when I was probably four years old. Um, somebody had lit a candle and left it in the laundry room. And I remember we had gone swimming, and I belieaking mistake, rookie mistake, and I believe our parents were taking us to Disneyland dinner. Why would be going Disney End at night? I don't recall it being at night. Why would you have thrown a towel in that room?

I think we were swimming. Why would we be swimming because we were four What four year olds don't swim at all times of the day. There was no like electronics. We weren't allowed to watch TV during the week. I think I was swimming in the pool anyway, how I recall as I was swimming in the pool, I was swimming in the pool. I got out. I put my towel in the laundry room like a very good four year old, very well behaved. And I am four, so I didn't know that candle would light it on fire.

So I threw it over the candle. And I think you just threw it in the laundroom. I don't think you purposely were like a cattle. Don't. No, you're right, I just threw it on the counter. Anyway, We were all leaving the house and then my mom forgot something, so she like turned around to go back inside the has to go grab it, and she smelled fire and followed the smell, and the laundry room was lit up.

So I think I have one of my favorite childhood memories. Friend, I just thought about I don't even know if it's a favorite, but it's one of the only, not only things I can remember. But something I do remember is when Mom took us to the High School Musical two premiere, which was a lit um when they she took us to Disneyland during the day of the premiere because she's

the coolest mom ever. And then it was the second movie and they did it in like the Disney California Adventure Hotel is where the premiere was, and I remember we went, we swatched the movie and we were I don't know why this is a part of the memory that sticks out of my head, but remember in the actual movie of High School Musical when Sharpe is doing her like fabulous number, there's the swimming people in the

pool doing like water aerobics. I just remember walking like over a bridge with Mom and you, and like I looked in the pool and these like people were doing like men and women were doing like water aerobics, and I was like, this is the coolest party I've ever been to. They actually did throw it down pretty cool parties. Oh this is a really good question. Actually I saw this earlier. It says this girl that asked the question also has a sister, and she said, do you guys

ever compare yourself to one another? And and then she followed up by saying like sometimes she gets really jealous of her sister and she doesn't know how to like not compare herself or feel jealous. That is a really good question. Do you want to take it away? I will because I remember in high school, like I would go to mom and like cry because I'd be I was in my sophomore year probably, and I think you were a freshman, and we were. I was hanging out

with a group of boys who were like juniorism. I thought I was. I wasn't, And they'd always be like, where's your sister, where's your sister? Where's your sister? And I would go home to Mom and I would cry, and I'd be like why do they always have to ask me where she is? Like am I not enough? And Mom was like no, Like it's just like whatever Mom's sweet reasoning and advice was. But it's funny because I used to compare myself to you, but I was

never jealous of you. Does that make sense? So like I used to beat myself up about it, but I was. It was never in a way where I was. There's any like militias, not even that jealousy is like a malicious thing, but there was never any and it can, and it can ruin relationships too. But I never was jealous. I was just sad. That's really sad. I actually don't even know that. Oh really, sorry to hear that. It's wear them boys now losers, long gone, long gone. Um,

you know, I actually did not know that. I think for me, I compare well. I actually have a really memorable story. And Mom was taking us to a premiere and we it was I think The Old Dogs from Me or something, or maybe it was like a high school musical esque thing. Anyway, you wore you wore a vest and they curled your hair. Bella walks out in this like pin striped vest and dad made, by the way, it was like a moss noble and her hair was curly,

like super curly. You should look up this photo online somewhere. Anyway, Bella walks down the stairs and this little vest and curly hair, and I remember looking at her and just being like you, I hate your hair, like that's so ugly, you're so ugly, or something like that. We were like probably nine, I was nine or eight years old. You're jealous, so yeah, we're looking at the shot of me. Yeah, you were in the vest. If this goes on social you guys can see this is what I hated Bella for.

She had curly hair and it's just look at your hair, that's really embarrassing. But she had her hair was pinned back like that. Anyway, I just remember looking at her and think she was the most beautiful, stunning little girl ever that looked so good going to this premiere and I was so insecure about how they did my hair, and I hated my outfit and I remember bullying you because I was I was so jealous. So anyway, circling back, Obviously I was a child when we did that. I

would never do that now. But I do think that jealousy is a real thing, and comparing yourself to a sister, especially when you're so close an age, is uh, super normal. But what I will say, and I know this sounds very cheesy, but I do think it's important. You have to remember that there's really only one of you, and also your sister should be like well, hopefully if you have a nice relationship, it's like you're built and best friend.

And uh, jealousy can create so much animosity and like ugly feelings towards no matter what the relationship is, but especially with sisters, it's somebody that you know, ride or die, has your back. So it's kind of just in my opinion, I think I learned later in life, like what a waste of energy to be jealous of my own blood because I'm special in my way, she's specially on her way and we're best friends. You know, I'm with you on that. It was other There was another part of

that question. She just said that, um, how do you not compare yourself because she compares herself to her sister a lot. Oh that was the whole question. Well, well, however old you are, I feel like I learned, Um, I probably stopped comparing myself when I was honestly, when I went away to college. I think because there was like enough separation between the two of us where no

one knew you at that point. And I think it's what Olivia just said that you have to remember, is like that, at the end of the day, is your sibling and you're going to have traits that not outweighed there's but like you're gonna have your own traits that are special to you and only to you, and those are the things that you guys have to celebrate within each other rather than feel like, oh, because they're funnier

than me than blah blah blah, whatever it is. You just have to celebrate the good things in your siblings because you're lucky that your sibling is that way and that cool, and it's kind of great. If you get to be jealous of your sibling, that means they've got something going on and you should be proud of your sibling for that rather than jealous. So just like switch the mindset of instead of feeling like you don't have it,

just realized they have something that's really special. Yeah, agreed, period. The biggest fight we've ever gotten in. This was a really popular question for some reason. But I can't I was gonna ask you because I literally can't remember ever a huge fight we've been in. Um milw Yeah, I guess when we got our dog, I was really um. I just didn't really help Bella take care of him that much. Well, I would have him. That actually sounds really bad, like when I don't know, when he was

with me, I would take great care of him. I always took care of him. You just it was there was also just a lot of factors. It wasn't only you per se that was keeping you from taking Milow. I'm not going to put details in here, but there was a lot of different factors, and I was getting annoyed because I was like, man up, stand up for yourself,

please and take care of her dog, and you weren't. Yeah, like that was like my main point in my therapy sessions to my sister is so mean to me about my dog and mine in therapy, Like my sister won't take care of my dog. You have a responsibility and she want to take care of the dog with me. Yeah, I told Bella, I'm trying my best. Um. At one point you texted me along paragraph ing like fine, I'll let you have him. Well, no, that's not what happened, liar.

What happened was is you said, either you need to let me have him full time, or you need to start doing week on, week off like we had planned because we we got our dog when we lived together, and then we moved apart, and so then we were like divorced parents doing a week on, week off and

he was like her child. And then I just would really leave Bellow with most of the responsibility for most of the time, and um, and then she was like, you either need to need to do your part or give him to me, and so I took her back and fine, you can have him full time. You're right, he's too much work for me. And then I was like, wait, I totally take that back. You definitely still have to take care of when we signed up for this dog together,

and that's that. What is your favorite qualities about each other? Or what do we I guess like it says, describe each other's personalities. And then another question was what are each other's favorite qualities? But I kind of like describe each other's personalities because we know each other so well. Oh, thank you, I've nothing good to say about you, Okay, describe my personality. I'm curious. Okay, I think you're super sarcastic. I think you're sensitive, and I would say super sweet.

I also think you're really smart. I think you're creative, and I think that you know how to have a good time. Thank you, You're welcome. Can you do mine? Yeah, describe your personality or just qualities about you? I guess I feel like it's the same kind of I guess personality. I guess I didn't describe your personality like a personality is well, I would say you're sarcastic. That's definitely a huge part of your personality. And I guess I did

sensitive sweet Yeah. And then a good quality that I like value is you're always down to have a good time. Sometimes I actually that's not true. Sometimes you're not. Sometimes I'm left You're you're always down to have a good time, which I admire. I'm just not that kind of person. Yeah, but um, let's think you're what what does Olivia Olivia Jade's personality? I think you're super down to earth, thanks, you give phenomenal advice, you are wise beyond your years.

You're fucking hilarious when you're not trying to be. She makes the best dumplings of all time. Um, that's on a personality trade. I just had to for um what else? I think you're humble, and I think you're really strong and brave. Thanks be. And that's my favorite quality. What is that you're strong and wave? Thank you? Um. Somebody said who is your go to person when you need advice besides each other? And I would say my mom, Mommy, she has such good advice, and my grandma, my mom's

honestly nanny has great advice advice. One really funny story actually about my grandma. When I was in seventh grade, our mom was going to a Broadway show and she took us to New York with her. But I think it was like a little bit mature because she went. I think she just went with like Stamos or somebody, and I give Stamos the show. Oh it was like bye by Bertie or something. Right, No, we went to that a phenomenal, phenomenal musical. It was like some like

politician play he did. It wasn't a musical. Well, anyway, she goes to this play and she left us at the hotel with her grandma And I was had a big crush on this boy and I was in seventh grade and he did not like me at all. And then I was texting him. My grandma was telling me what to text this boy. By the end of the conversation, he was like, I have the biggest crush on you, And I was so thrown off because I knew he never liked me. So I don't remember what she's a master.

I don't know what the cons they both have. I think is nanny has such good advice that like got passed down to mom. So I think we'll give good advice to our kids. I hope. I feel like I'm the type of friend that all my friends come to for advice. And I don't even mean that, and like, wait, but I said that your wise beyond your years and you give great advice. Um. See, that would be something that some siblings would be jealous of that I'm wise. No, like you know, like I don't know I give advice

that you're good at giving advice. I was just trying to point out, like comparison, Yeah, and that's something you can celebrate your sibling for rather than not. This one says who gives better advice? But I think our advice is always different. I think our advice is I just think you and I are so different, even in the way that we think our advice is so different. But I think we both give good advice to a certain degree. Yeah, I think that you give more straight up advice. Yeah,

like I don't dance around something. I'll just say it as it is. And I think you're more gentle when you give advice. Yeah, so I think we're both I think we both have good advice. I also think it's super depend didn't want a situation. Um, and what we're talking about, is there anything in your life that's holding you back right now. I was talking about this with my friend yesterday that I think my brain is something

that constantly holds me back. I don't know if you feel the same way, but the anxieties and stuff that come up with things you're doing in the future, it almost makes you not want to put in as much effort or as hard of work as you can, because if you this might just be my own thing. But if I don't put in every single like drop of effort, if I don't get like good feedback necessarily then and if it's like okay feedback, I'm like, okay, I didn't

put that much effort into it. And I think that's what holds me back is the fact that I'm scared to do it and still get a negative response to it. So you fear rejection. No, it's not rejection, it's criticism. Oh interesting, Yeah, from anything, Like I swear to have the reason, like it's really hard for me to work out because I'm like, well, if I don't work out and I don't lose weight, like we're good, you know, it's like a weird loop that goes on in my head.

That's so interesting. I think that I don't have that as much. I think there are definitely things that get in the way of what I want to do, but it's not so much my brain. I think it's just the situation I'm in, not that i'm in. I'm I have a very blessed life. I don't want that to

be construed incorrectly. And the point of what I'm saying is that with everything that happened in the last few years and just being in the media in a negative way, I think that I feel held back, like everybody hates me and nobody wants to work with me, and brands think I'm like hazard, You're not a hazard and anyway, So yeah, I think that's what holds me back, just because I feel so I just feel so like I just I feel like everybody thinks I'm like a terrible person.

And um, I don't even say that for like pity. I don't deserve pity in any sense of the word. I just think that For instance, recently I would is um, I think I got to talk about this. I was invited to an event like a beauty event and I was so excited about it because it was right after Dancing with Stars. I hadn't been invited to like really a beauty event in so long, and I was just

looking forward to it. I thought like, oh my gosh, a brand wants to work with me again or just have me there, and like they're not embarrassed about me being there. I think it's going to ruin their brand whatever. And I kind of hadn't heard from this brand throughout the week, and we were supposed to have like COVID test sent to the house and all this stuff. And

I invited my brother to be my date. I was really excited, and like about probably three hours before the event, I had you know, my glam all ready to go. I had my dress fitted. I was so excited and grateful. And I get a call from my publicist and she's like, I'm livid. But I've never had this happen in all the years I've worked with people. And they just like basically revoked your invitation and said that you can't come because it might look bad for them and they don't

want you there. And I just remember I hadn't even met my publicists yet, because I have one on like in l A that I know. And then there's another one that's a part of the team, Kate, who lives in Florida slash New York. So I hadn't met her at this time, and so I was trying really hard not to cry on the phone because I didn't want her to think I was like a little bit. And so I was like, it's fine, everything's fine, like it's all good, no worries, and she's like, no, it's not fine.

It's really not fine, like it's it's actually really rude. And I was like, no, it's fine. And I remember hanging up and just like being in my car and pulling over and just like bawling, crying, and then, um, I guess this was kind of recently. This is in like December, but so yeah, I guess I I feel held back because of situations like that where I just think that, like, I'm never going to get over this hump of being canceled. Who coped with the scandal better?

I don't think either of us coped well with the scandal because it was a very dramatic two years of our lives. I was Hella depressed, Hella depressed, and also we just didn't. We're young, so you don't know try like something like that to that degree. And I don't mean it in a way that other people don't go through young ages. I'm just saying to the degree and the also the mental damage that can cause because of outside opinions and everything and whatever it may be that

I've gone over in therapy. You don't know how to cope at the age of eighteen and nineteen years old or old nineteen and twenty, whatever it is. You don't have the your brain isn't developed enough to cope, which like that. So I think we just handled it poorly, Like we didn't handle it like an adult wood We handled it like children, And I don't think that was a good way to cope with it. We made it through. I didn't kill us, but I also don't I wouldn't

say we had like good coping tactics or anything. Yeah, do you think one of us cope better? No? I don't think so either, Like it hit us the same. It's also hard too, because what I think a lot of people um maybe just don't understand or don't want to understand or like, especially those that like are really adamant about not liking our family, are liking us, or like thinking a certain way about us. I think that people forget that at the end of the day, we're

still humans. And like when you're talked about that negatively that many days in a row, which is literally like what a year straight, probably in the media going into stores, seeing our mom with like devil earrors on magazine covers and just like stuff that like regardless of the situation, and like, we're humans. It sucked to see and it hurt, and it was embarrassing as and it was just like

it was terrible. It was it was really it really damaged like my confidence for I mean still, I think even if people, even guys I like see or friends I make, I always am like, oh, I understand, like if you don't want me to like stand next to you or like like I don't want to ruin your reputation. Um. So I don't think Sorry I went off on a tangent, but I don't think either of us cope super well

with it. I think we were super young, and it's never easy seeing um that much about yourself in the media, especially when you don't even know what's going on at the time and you're still putting everything together and you're like, wait, what's happening. It was really challenging, and it was also really frustrating because half the stuff that was written was completely fake, and so then people were starting to take

on this narrative that wasn't even real. And that's so frustrating to me because it's like, what's the point of journalism if you're not going to accurately report what's going on? And then it makes me ever reading and trusting anything because I'm like, wait, I guess they kind of got the gist of what the scandal was, but if you read through lawyer papers and stuff, you didn't really get

the gist of it, not what the media said. You know, the media and the court case are two different things completely. But anyway, I just think it's really interesting, um how how much damage it actually can do, not even just for us, but just anybody going through something where you feel like, oh my god, everybody hates me. It's like, well, of course you're going to be a little messed up from it. Also, to me, it's so interesting to see

like this. I feel like I just hold science experiments in my own brain, or like social studies in my own head because I'm always like coming up with weird theories, as you know. But it's so interesting to me when like the scandal is something I I hate calling it the scandal, the event, to the hula whatever, You're like, um, whatever it was, it was. It's crazy how easily manipulated people's brains can be, where if you read something enough and you don't know anything else about it, you're just

willing to believe it. Like there's no part of the human brain that well were some people, for sure, but like mass majority, no one questions a lot of things that are just put right in front of them. Yeah, I'm one of them. I'll read something be like, oh that must be true, and then after going through some stuff like in the media personally, I was like, oh, maybe that's not true. So now I look at everything a little bit differently. But you know what, I also think.

I think that now I think majority of the world or people on social media and just the media in general kind of no things are fabricated or exaggerated. But I still think there's a handful of people that like really think everything reported is accurate and like the details are correct and your first any time I've ever seen somebody say something about me, followed with a source close to Olivia. I have never said these words. I've never

talked about these topics. I don't even know who this source could be, because someone from the whatever outlet that's publishing it. If you just you can then use whatever you want. Yeah, like this one time I posted a middle finger photo when I was nineteen, in the height of the scandal. I've never talked about this, but it weighs on me and I need to finally just share my truth about this stupid photo I posted. Yes, I was an idiot for posting this. I think it looked

so distasteful. I think it looked so braddy. I think it was just not the right time. But I just want to explain from my perspective what went through my head. So obviously, it had been like a year of just being written about every single day, and I knew my side of things, and the media had their side of things,

and I was frustrated. And I was nineteen, and I I was with all my girlfriends and we were taking pictures the night before and they had taken a photo of me, and I just was flipping off the camera. And I never intended to post this. This was just like a memory. I wake up the next day, I'm like, I see something else written online about me that's fake. And I was so fed up. I was so so so fed up, and so I throw up the middle finger photo on Instagram. I have not posted once throughout

this entire ordeal. I have, nobody's heard from me. It's the first thing my dumbass decides to do. I throw up this middle finger photo and I caption it like I tagged at TMZ, at Daily Mail, at Perez Hilton, at all these outlets basically, and I said hashtag close sources, and everybody was like, wow, this girl thinks she's above

above the law, above everything. Well, that just perfectly sums up how the media misconstrued things because you weren't talking about anything other than the fact that you were saying a close source, they're not real. Yeah, And so I was Obviously, my mom calls me and she's like, you cannot post up, Like you need to delete that right now. That is like completely inappropriate. And I was like, okay, sorry,

and so I delete the photo obviously, um. And I felt really guilty about it, and I was like, after I posted because I feel like sometimes my brain just doesn't think about the consequences of what I'm going to do. And so I after I deleted, after talking to my parents and they were just like, that's absolutely not okay,

you need to take that down right now. I was so embarrassed, so mortified, And then on top of that, everybody started writing about in all the comments on like different pages of me posting this, because obviously people screenshotted it and wrote about it, and I just remember feeling like I'm just the worst human ever. But my intentions were never to be like, screw the government, screw this,

screw this policy, Like that wasn't it. I was literally just mad that people were writing fake stories and saying close source said this. So I just tagged a bunch of outlets that were known to report falsely and some close source says and that was the extent of it. I wasn't excusing our behavior of the situation, and that got really taken out of context. So now finally I can finally, finally, finally expose that it was not uh malintentioned,

but definitely came across pretty bad. So three years later, I'm still sorry about that one y'all, let's do one more question and wrap this up. Let me, let me, let me Okay, you sing a song real quick. Olivia is going to sing the lower acts for you all. Let it grow, specifically, let it grow. Let it grow. You can't see what you don't, so plant the seed inside the year, just one way to know it's worth. Let's celebrate the world anyways, let me say, let it grow. Okay,

here's something you want to do. Some guy advice. Yeah, let's ended up with some boy aid advice. Had someone asked ever shared boys? No? Have we ever kissed the same boy? No, we haven't. Trust me. I don't think we have you there. I don't even think we've ever liked the same boy. So no boy advice. I saw a breakup advice and herperk advice breakup advice. How to know if a guy likes you? Guy talk. I like this girl. Can I say her name? No? Maybe not?

Maybe she doesn't want to be public. Oh that's really fair. She asked about boy advice. Well, cute girl, you know who you who you are and I like your questions. Okay, so let's answer them then, Okay, hit it um. Guy advice break up advice. Okay, let's start with how to know if a guy likes you. Go. I don't know if a I likes you. I feel like in my

past experiences it's been pretty obvious. Like I just feel like I know, like if they're making an effort to hang out with me, or if uh they're texting me a lot, or if they're like doing nice gestures or checking in on me, including me in plans. I feel

like that's a pretty good indicator. I think you'll know if a guy likes you, like if you ain't can convince yourself like, okay, must like me for this small thing that he did once six months ago, Like chances are he probably doesn't, because I don't even mean that in a harsh way. I just mean realistically, guys are so obvious. I feel like they don't even think that deeply into things like we think they do. I think if they like you, you'll know, and if they don't,

you'll also probably know. Yeah, that's literally it if you have to justify any behavior, he's just not that into you. He's just not that into you. And then I saw a lot of heartbreak and break up advice. Um for that one, I just have a really simple answer that I don't need to ramble on about, and it's just time. It's just time, like you will be healed with time.

It's a fact. And it feels like your world is crashing down and that you have the worst like rip and tear in your heart, but with time, everything does really heal, and you have to know that. And you also have to know that everything happens for a reason, and I really lean into that. When i'm like super sad, I'm just like, Okay, well maybe if this happened a different way, it could have been a worse outcome. So just remember it takes time, it's normal, and it's life,

and you probably will never escape it. I agree with that. Also, this is like pre break of advice in a weird way. But when you're in a relationship, make sure you never forget your friends and don't focus all your time into that one person because if you do break up one day and hopefully you never do um, your friends are going to be the ones there for you during that breakup.

So don't ever just like disregard them because you're in a relationship, Like, make sure you're able to balance that time period, all right, guys, thank you so much for tuning into this podcast, and I hope we gave us some good advice or just answered your question. I don't even think we gave advice. I just hope we answered the questions you were curious about. And I hope you know anything that's said it's it's really coming from a

place of honesty and just personal experiences. I say this every time, but I just feel the need to, Uh, we're really We're really self aware, I promise. So if you're taking things the wrong way and thinking we're being assholes, we're probably not, you know. Okay, guys, thank you so much for tuning in, and I will chat with you all next week. BA