In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of Ten Thousand Hours of Writing Podcast about how to respect the differing views and beliefs of others as well as how to approach difficult or uncomfortable conversations about religious topics. To hear more from Sherrae Phelps, visit her at www.tenthousandhoursofwriting.com . Some of the questions addressed include: Are all conversations discussing conflicting beliefs valuable to engage in? What about controversial conversa...
Sep 13, 2019•16 min
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Rachel Nielson the host of the 3 in 30 Podcast for moms. They discuss why your sex drive may have decreased post kids and marriage, as well as what you can do to get it back. To learn more about Rachel Nielson’s podcast, you can visit her at www.3in30podcast.com or follow her in Instagram at @3in30podcast . To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our website , check out our course page , and take a look at our upcoming events . w...
Sep 12, 2019•38 min
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of Ten Thousand Hours of Writing Podcast about the topic of thinking for ourselves. In this episode you will learn more about how to make your own decisions based on your integrity and moral compass rather than approval of others. To hear more from Sherrae Phelps, visit her at www.tenthousandhoursofwriting.com . “One of the things that interferes with our ability to think for ourselves is our need and desire for approval—our ...
Sep 12, 2019•36 min
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of Ten Thousand Hours of Writing Podcast about the topic of submission. In this episode you will learn more about what submission means and how it can be driven either by fear or moral courage. To hear more from Sherrae Phelps, visit her at www.tenthousandhoursofwriting.com . “When submission is a virtue, it’s an active choice to yield to something because you think it will create the greater good. It’s not driven by fear; it...
Sep 12, 2019•17 min
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of Ten Thousand Hours of Writing Podcast about the topic of indulgent suffering. In this episode you will learn more about how to act out of virtue and integrity and how to let go of immature thought patterns that can be harmful to personal development. To hear more from Sherrae Phelps and Ten Thousand Hours of Writing Podcast, visit her at Www.Tenthousandhoursofwriting.Com . Often to determine if something is right or good o...
Sep 12, 2019•16 min
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Sherrae Phelps on her podcast Ten Thousand Hours of Writing. They discuss the different “versions” of forgiveness and how to forgive in a way that is healing and not harmful. To hear more from Sherrae Phelps and her podcast, you can visit her website at https://tenthousandhoursofwriting.com/ . The main question that this episode explores is this: What are some misconceptions about forgiveness? And in what ways is counterfeit forgivene...
Sep 12, 2019•29 min
In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by holistic nutritionist and eating psychology coach, Stephanie Webb all about how to create and maintain a sexual sense of self while in the throes of motherhood. You can hear more from Stephanie by visiting her website , EatConfident.co, or by following her on her Instagram , @stephanie__webb. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our website , check out our course page , and take a look at our upcoming events . www.Fin...
Sep 09, 2019•30 min
In this Rational Faiths podcast Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers two new questions: The first question covers the question of how to make sense of wet dreams in the context of marriage, and how to address differences in sexual desire and biological needs in constructive ways. The second question addresses the role of erotica and visually explicit imagery in a woman cultivating her desire in marriage. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also addresses the upcoming transition for the “Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist” series ...
Jul 09, 2019•40 min
In this podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to address three questions sent in by listeners. The first question is regarding maintaining intimacy in long-distance relationships, the second is about discomfort with “talking dirty” during sex, and the last question is about masturbation. This episode was originally aired on December 18th 2018.
Dec 10, 2018•45 min
A discussion with Dan Wotherspoon, Charles Randall Paul, Joseph Stanford, and Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife on the meaning of covenants in religious practice, and particularly the meaning of covenants when one's faith has evolved or shifted. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www....
Nov 01, 2018•56 min
A discussion with Dan Wotherspoon, Charles Randall Paul, Joseph Stanford, and Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife on the meaning of covenants in religious practice, and particularly the meaning of covenants when one's faith has evolved or shifted. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www....
Nov 01, 2018•56 min
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to respond to two questions. One question is about navigating intimacy after having learned to orgasm after many years of going without. The second question asks how to respond in a relationship in which the spouse is habitually deceptive. This episode was originally aired on August 11th 2018.
Aug 11, 2018•45 min
In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths team to respond to three new questions, all coming from men, covering topics of intimacy after tragic loss, disparity in desire, and becoming a more confident lover.
Jun 21, 2018•49 min
In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to answer two questions : The first question is about the impact of childhood sexual abuse and parental negligence on desire and intimacy in one woman's marriage. The second question is about a man whose wife wants him to be more sexually assertive. This episode was originally aired on February 6th 2018.
Feb 06, 2018•56 min
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Angilyn and Nate Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast to talk about intimacy, sexuality and the meaning frames or "false traditions" that limit our relational and sexual development in marriage. To hear more from Nate and Angilyn, visit them at www.mormonmarriages.com. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . www. Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originall...
Feb 04, 2018•51 min
Dr. Finlayson-Fife and the Rational Faiths team tackle two questions submitted by listeners. The first asks about “dirty/degrading” talk during sex and the second seeks advice on teaching about sex in a positive way.
Nov 28, 2017•41 min
Here in the 20th installment of the “Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist” series Jennifer responds to three new questions. One question is about garments and intimacy, another asks about the difficulty of communicating sexual needs, and the last question comes from a couple in a dependent relationship. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts , Spotify , TuneIn , and Stitcher ....
Aug 30, 2017•46 min
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths team to answer two questions submitted by listeners about infidelity in marriage. One question comes from a man whose wife had a series of affairs, and the other question from a woman whose husband was deceptive about his involvement with another woman. Both questions address the issue of trust and trustworthiness : How it is created or ascertained, and how we sometimes collude in not knowing things about our spouse we are not sure we...
May 03, 2017•47 min
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths team to answer three listener questions. The first question is about a sexually entitled husband who is unresponsive to his wife’s wishes, the second question is about the use of vibrators, and the third question is from a person navigating a mixed-orientation marriage.
Apr 04, 2017•53 min
Here in the 17th installment of the “Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist” series Jennifer answers two more questions submitted from listeners. Both questions address desire and desirability from different points of view. Rational Faiths originally aired this episode on February 5th 2017. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts , Spotify , TuneIn , and Stitcher ....
Feb 05, 2017•50 min
In the 16th installment of the Ask A Mormon Sex Therapist series Dr. Finlayson-Fife responds to two more questions submitted from listeners. One focuses on nudity and modesty, and the second question comes from a person in a really tough position in a sexless marriage in which discussion and negotiation of sexual relations are off limits. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts , Spotify , TuneIn , and Stitcher ....
Nov 30, 2016•52 min
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to discuss the results of a study about sexual arousal, and Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers a question from a listener who is frustrated at inability to reach orgasm during intercourse.
Aug 08, 2016•34 min
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about understanding and responding to pornography challenges as well as low sexual desire in men.
Jun 03, 2016•1 hr 1 min
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to discuss ways to spice up your sex life, how to navigate a robust sex life with older children in the home, and how to cope with physical ailments that often come with age like erectile dysfunction.
Feb 02, 2016•39 min
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to take on questions about the cultural anxiety surrounding oral sex in a married relationship, and about objectification and appropriate lust.
Nov 22, 2015•52 min
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about overcoming the perceived threat of spouse's previous sexual experiences (including pornography), and the effect on desire and self-confidence. They also address the topic of long distance sexual relationships.
Oct 16, 2015•42 min
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about how to raise children (especially girls) to own their sexuality and how to help children navigate worthiness interviews.
Sep 06, 2015•43 min
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about what you can do as the higher-desire person to improve your sexual relationship. They also have a discussion on LDS male sexuality.
Jul 24, 2015•42 min
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife and the Rational Faiths Podcast team discuss household duties, relationship dynamics, female desire, and LDS singles and sexuality.
May 30, 2015•52 min
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to have a discussion on the loss of sexual desire upon marriage, how to respond to it, and more on fantasy and how to reconcile it with goodness.
Apr 26, 2015•43 min
