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Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fifefinlayson-fife.com
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a sex and relationship expert who has been interviewed for hundreds of podcasts–and now you can access all the amazing content covering issues of faith, sexuality, integrity, belonging, and more right here on the interview archive! Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. Her teaching and coaching focus on helping LDS individuals and couples create greater connection and passion in their emotional and sexual relationships. In addition to her private practice, Dr. Finlayson-Fife has created five empowering and highly-reviewed online courses. Each course was designed to give LDS individuals and couples the tools requisite to creating healthier lives and stronger intimate relationships. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also offers many workshops and retreats where she teaches these life-changing principles in person. The advice offered through any and all podcasts in which she is featured is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.
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Episodes

Men and Intimacy

In a conversation with Rhonda Farr of The Intimacy Podcast , Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about... False cultural ideas that many men internalize about sexuality. How to manage desire differences and a spouse's refusal without anger or withdrawal. How to approach sexuality when a spouse has experienced sexual trauma. A sneak peek into what will be taught in the Men’s Sexuality course (COMING THIS FALL)! To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Online Course Pa...

Jun 18, 202057 min

Defining Ourselves Through External Influences

In a conversation with life coach Heather Frazier of Pivot Parenting Podcast , Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about... Why we measure ourselves by external things. How to be true to yourself. How to foster integrity and confidence in your children. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Online Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram , YouTube , or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access...

Jun 17, 202038 min

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 31 - Live

In a conversation with Nate and Angilyn Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast , Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers several questions sent in by listeners. Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers questions relating to… Depression and sexual arousal. Loss of attraction for a spouse. Sexuality and desire during pregnancy. Fantasy as a form of intimate connection. Making sense of the practice of polygamy and how the theology can impact intimacy in modern marriages. This episode was recorded via a Facebook Live. Watch t...

Jun 04, 202059 min

The Psychology of Men's Sexuality

In a conversation with clinical psychologist Zac Rhodenizer of The Psychology Of Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about the the psychology of male sexuality. Dr. Finlayson-Fife covers topics like... What women have a hard time understanding about male sexuality. What men have a hard time understanding about male sexuality. How to respond to sexual dysfunction (erectile dysfunction, and performance anxiety, etc.). Understanding the male lower desire partner. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fif...

May 25, 202043 min

How to Own Your Highest Desires

In a conversation with Makenzie VanWinkle of the " My Audience Is Me " Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about what it looks like to live your life from your highest desires. Dr. Finlayson-Fife covers topics like... Why it’s important to lean into our desires. The difference between desire from the best in ourselves vs. the worst in ourselves. How people pleasing can negatively impact your relationship and peace of mind. What a life led by your higher desires might look like and how to get there...

May 14, 20201 hr 15 min

Interfaith Relationships & Faith Crisis During Marriage

In this discussion with Sarah Mendenhall of the Sitting Down With Sarah Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife responds to questions such as… What are the stages that couples go through when facing a faith challenge? Can you arrive at shared values in a mixed-faith relationship? Can you live in two different paradigms of belief and still be friends and good parents? How can you talk to your kids about a parent's faith transition? How can you teach your children shared values when each parent believes diffe...

May 06, 20201 hr 9 min

Self-development for Men - Part 2

In part two of of her discussion with Matt Davis of Steelyard Academy Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses the following topics... Taking greater responsibility for yourself. Finding greater meaning and purpose in your life. How to better measure success and happiness. Understanding sex as a powerful form of communication. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Online Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlays...

May 04, 202039 min

Self-development for Men - Part 1

In a discussion with Matt Davis of Steelyard Academy Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses the following topics... Understanding the relationship between anxiety and depression and externalized expectations. Claiming your life choices in the face of pressures from others. Understanding resentment and what it can teach you about yourself. Balancing expectations and freedom appropriately to foster self-development in your child. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , ch...

Apr 28, 202035 min

The Higher Desire Wife

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Dr. Corey Allan from Sexy Marriage Radio to discuss the higher desire wife and the lower desire husband relationship dynamic. This episode addresses The difference between validation and intimacy. The difference between noble sacrifice and martyrdom. Some of the reasons for low desire in a husband. How to create a more honest and intimate relationship with your spouse. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Onlin...

Apr 21, 202033 min

Sex after Loss

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Amy Watson from the Smooth Stones Podcast to discuss intimacy after loss. This episode addresses How to address feelings of guilt about sex and pleasure following the loss of a pregnancy. How having compassion towards self and others is fundamental to processing loss and grief. How to keep anxiety about pregnancy from affecting your sexual relationship. How to maintain a healthy relationship with your body, even if it has let you down. To learn more abou...

Apr 15, 202045 min

Developing Emotional Maturity

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson Fife and Preston Pugmire of the Next Level Life Podcast examine emotional maturity, its roots, its effects and how to invest in your own self-development in order to thrive in relationships and business. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Online Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. ww...

Apr 09, 202046 min

Women's Bodies and Cultural Religious Mixed Messages

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Cherie Burton to talk about: How women often become disempowered sexually in religious traditions. How many religious traditions (often unknowingly) contribute to body shaming, inhibit self-expression, and undermine self-development. How women can foster a stronger self in their lives and spiritual practices. How women can foster peace with their sexuality. AND MORE! To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our...

Mar 31, 202052 min

Integrity, Self-Honesty and Pornography

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins The Betrayed, The Addicted, And The Expert Podcast to talk about: The common relational patterns at the root of addiction and betrayal and how to change these dysfunctional dynamics. How to relate to religious belief to foster courage and integrity rather than fear. What “sex-positive” means in a religious context. How women can integrate their sexuality without being vulnerable to a sexually irresponsible or indulgent spouse. How to understand a...

Mar 26, 202052 min

Allowing Yourself to Fully Experience Being Human

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Preston from the Mettle Mentality Podcast to talk about the following: The importance of intimacy in happiness. Perfectionism and its challenge to openness / intimacy. Understanding shame and guilt. Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts , Spotify , TuneIn , and Stitcher ....

Mar 18, 202054 min

Resentment and How It’s Affecting Your Marriage

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sara Payne from the The Doctor’s Wife Podcast to talk about resentment. Listen to this episode and learn the following: Learn what resentment can teach you about yourself Understand how resentment affects sexual desire Learn about intimate marriages and making room for two equal partners. Understand how you may participate in being taken for granted. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Online Course Pa...

Mar 09, 20201 hr 7 min

Setting Boundaries

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Cami Hurst from the Sex Therapy 101 Podcast to talk about learning to say no when needed. They talk about topics such as learning to set boundaries and dealing with a spouse’s pornography use. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. w...

Mar 03, 202021 min

Understanding Sexual Development

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Cultivate A Good Life Podcast to talk about healthy sexual development. They talk about how to teach your kids about sexuality without shame and fear. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com You can also lis...

Feb 24, 202023 min

Understanding Desire

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Cultivate A Good Life Podcast to talk about desire. They talk about what desire is, why it matters, and how to identify and develop the desires you have. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com You can also ...

Feb 20, 202043 min

Interview With my Mom - (AKA Dr. Finlayson-Fife)

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins her daughter Jane to talk about her career as a marriage counselor and the things she’s learned along the way. This interview was done for a journalism project for Jane’s 8th grade class. We ask that you please excuse any background noise caused by Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s family and dog. This episode also covers topics like how to create a happy marriage, the kind of impact your marriage is having on your kids, and what Dr. Finlayson-Fife wishes mor...

Feb 13, 202015 min

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife - Mormon Sex Therapist Talks About Integrity and Sexuality

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Women With Fire Podcast to talk about topics such as sexuality, integrity, and teaching our kids about sex and desire. Dr. Finlayson-Fife shares about her experiences that led her to become a relationship and sexuality therapist. This episode also covers topics like female sexuality and desire, integrity versus compliance, and how to teach youth about sexuality. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our ...

Feb 12, 202057 min

How to Strengthen Your Marriage by Healing Your Body Image

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Stephanie Webb from Eat Confident Co to talk about body image. Dr. Finlayson-Fife offers her perspective on how a woman’s relationship with her body influences her intimate relationship, how to set healthy boundaries in a marriage, and how to empower yourself as an equal partner in your marriage by healing your relationship with your body. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a lo...

Feb 05, 202038 min

Choosing Your Partner

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Rich and Celeste from the Marriage Theraoke podcast to talk about how we deal with the dissatisfaction in our marriages and how to more fully CHOOSE our partner every day. This podcast episode explains how you can get from “I HAVE to be with my partner” to the freedom of “I CHOOSE to be with my partner”. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also fol...

Jan 28, 202037 min

Goal Setting and Collaboration in Marriage

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Monica Tanner of On The Brighter Side Podcast . Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife talks about setting personal goals and setting goals as a couple. She goes into detail about what collaborative goals look like and common pitfalls/problems that come up when trying to keep new goals, and how to overcome these. Dr. Finlayson-Fife ends the episode talking about how to care for your mental health this year and how to have the best 2020 possible....

Jan 14, 202031 min

Improving Intimacy Q&A with Dr. Finlayson-Fife

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Ray Cox and Ellen Hersam from the Improving Intimacy in Mormon Marriages Facebook group. Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers questions about neediness, using sex to avoid conflict, differences in desire, and advice for newly weds. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Gr...

Jan 09, 202059 min

The Lower Desire Wife

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Corey Allan from Sexy Marriage Radio to talk about the dynamic of desire differences and the lower desire wife. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired in October, 2019. You can also li...

Jan 06, 202026 min

Raising Our Children in an Over Sexualized World

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Jodi Chaffee from Our Modern Heritage about how to raise kids in an overly sexualized world. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on December 17th, 2019. You can also lis...

Dec 19, 201943 min

Singles and Sexuality - Navigating With Clarity and Integrity

This podcast episode is an audio recording of Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s presentation Sexuality and Singledom: Navigating with Clarity and Integrity. This presentation was recorded in New York City at a singles’ conference called “Of One Body: The State of Mormon Singledom.” This recording was originally published by Mormon Singledom on Soundcloud 4 years ago. Because this presentation was recorded on a cell phone, the audio is rather quiet. You may need to turn up the volume higher than your used to ...

Dec 13, 201945 min

Betrayal Trauma Part 2

In this episode, Bloom for Women interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife as part of its Love Rice Podcast series. This is a continuation of the discussion that was begun in part 1. The topic of this conversation is "betrayal trauma" and overcoming the impact of infidelity and other forms of dishonesty in intimate relationships. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on In...

Dec 12, 201930 min

Betrayal Trauma Part 1

The Bloom for Women team interview Dr. Finlayson-Fife as part of its Love Rice Podcast series. The topic is "betrayal trauma" and overcoming the impact of infidelity and other forms of dishonesty in intimate relationships. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.co...

Dec 12, 201927 min

The Art of Belonging

In an interview for the Love Rice podcast series from Bloom for Women , Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about how to belong to others as well as ourselves. She also explains how reconciling these tensions is related to our spiritual development. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website , check out our Course Page , and take a look at our upcoming Events . You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.F...

Dec 09, 201930 min
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