PRE-ORDER KELSEY'S FIRST BOOK! DON'T F*CKING PANIC - the sh*t they don't tell you in therapy about anxiety, panic disorders, and depression. THIS WEEK!! Berrion Berry (so fun to say) stops by to tell us WHY HOLISTIC treatments for PERIOD PAIN and all things vaginas became her life calling and how YOU can have less painful periods ASAP!! And of course, you know any chance Kelsey gets to talk about her vagina is a good episode.... CHECK YA PANTIES! CHECK OUT BERRION & THE FLO ACADEMY! https://...
Sep 21, 2020•47 min
If I had a dollar for every time I thought about starting an Only Fans during quarentine, I'd probably have as many dollars as I would have if I were just to START THE DAM THING. How are people making cash money RN off OF? What about the classic SEX WORK itsself?! How has it changed?! How will it change forever after quarentine? We chat with Dancer/ProStripper and host of Stripper Stories "Chloe" to get the insider knowledge all from the source! BUY KELSEY'S BOOK: DON'T F*CKING PANIC - the shit ...
Sep 14, 2020•50 min
WEEHHHOOOO SOUND THE ALARMS! Ya'll been asking - so we delivered. A Hoes Throughout History SPECIAL - this is the first time we've done A MODERN HOE!!! ANd WHO BETTER than the wap queen herself - CARDI B. This episode is full of va-jay jay, Jazz tells us if she's ever sucked a d*ck or not, and the MEANING OF LIFTING UP OTHER FEMALES. LMao what a show description huh?! ORDER MY BOOK HERE: shopc.at/dfp FOLLOW JAZZMYNE FOR MORE HOE SHIT: @jazzmynejay Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/...
Sep 07, 2020•1 hr 3 min
PRE-ORDER KELSEY’S FIRST MENTAL HEALTH BOOK “DON’T F*CKING PANIC” here! https://shopc.at/dfp ALIX. FREAKIN’. PEABODY. Is a straight up huuuuuustler honey. She’s dominated the wine industry in the amount of time it takes you to pronounce Sauvignon Blanc! She’s raised 7 MILLLLLLION DOLLARSSSS for her WINE IN A CAN company (thats Made By Chicks, of course) BEV!!! @drinkBev BUT *GASP* At what cost?! Alix walks us through the highs and lows (can there BE a low with wine!?) about becoming a founder, C...
Aug 24, 2020•53 min
Mr. Robot has been regarded as one of the most accurate representations of living with a mental health disorder on television (now on Amazon Prime!). But WTF is it like to BE on the show when you have extensive expirence in the mental health world yourseLF?! Painter, Actress, mental health advocate and all around badass, Carly Chaikin lets Kelsey come sit on her couch and talk about it all - they go COMPLETELY OFF TOPIC a lot but its a podcast so shush. WATCH MR.ROBOT ON AMAZON PRIME NOW @CarlyC...
Aug 17, 2020•52 min
CANT DO IT ANYMORE!! IM AT MY VAGINAS END!!!!! It’s time to talk yeast. Chronic yeast. WHY. HOW. WHEN. WHAT IS THRUSH AND HOW DO AFRICAN FROGS PLAY A ROLE IN THIS WEEKS EPISODE?!!? Kelsey talks her chronic yeast infections, where she’s been in active denial about it and lets off some steam since she’s been on this no-sugar CANDIDA DIET! Good luck yall…u gunna need it.. PRE ORDER DON’T F*CKING PANIC on 8/16!!!! SUNDAY!!!!!!! FROG ARTICLE lmao https://www.businessinsider.com/xenopus-frogs-pregnanc...
Aug 10, 2020•41 min
PRE-ORDER "DON'T F*CKING PANIC" AUGUST 16th **MARK YOUR CALENDARS!!!!** THE BIG DIRTY 30... or how could it possibly be that big of a deal with everything happening in the world? How has society set up women vs men vs those who identify as neither or fluid to be set up in this world for this GIANT MILESTONE?!?!? Kelsey's big 30th birthday is right around the corner and she reflects on the pros & cons with her already 30year old boyfriend LE DEEJAY Kappity Slappity. PRE-ORDER "DON'T F*CKING P...
Aug 03, 2020•1 hr 2 min
WHEWWW - is it a nightmare? folklore? a bad dream? Nope. It really happened. Kelsey really got a boric acid pill stuck in her urethra. Yep. You read that right! Find out exactly wtf happened and some tips and tricks on getting the lowest bill possible when you go to the emergency room!! shout out to all the doctors and nurses who are working so hard during this pandemic!! FOLLOW US: Podcast Instagram/Twitter: @ConfidentlyPod Host @KelseyDarragh DROP US A LINE: Confidentlyinsecurepodcast@Gmail.co...
Jul 27, 2020•47 min
Are you a good witch or a bad witch?! CAN YOU TALK TO DEAD PEOPLE?! SHOULD I TRUST MY GUT OR DO I JUST NEED TO FART?! Healer/Witch/Creator/Badass friend of Kelsey's and fellow Producer on the Justice4Saraya Documentary STEPH BAER stops by to give us the 101 basics of ENERGY HEALING CLEAR THE ENERGY IN YOUR ROOM: https://youtu.be/vyVbSm1Gyh4 BAER INTENTIONS: http://baerintentions.com @baerintentions Clearing the House : 001 Put a stick of selenite in the center room and play the YouTube link for ...
Jul 20, 2020•1 hr 14 min
#Justice4Saraya: #SaveSaraya please sign the CHANGE.ORG PETITION HERE: http://chng.it/CJvWWJMM Please donate to Saraya's legal funds & future treatment GoFundMe page: https://www.gofundme.com/f/justice4saraya?utm_source=customer&utm_medium=copy_link&utm_campaign=p_cf+share-flow-1 FACEBOOK PAGE: https://www.facebook.com/Justice4Saraya/?ref=page_internal Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Pr...
Jul 06, 2020•1 hr 48 min
**THIS EPISODE IS NOT INTENDED TO REPLACE MEDICAL ADVICE FROM YOUR DOCTOR! ALWAYS SPEAK WITH YOUR MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL BEFORE TRYING BEE VENOM THERAPY*** Brittany's Viral Tik Toks about Bee Venom Therapy: https://www.tiktok.com/@britterbeez?source=h5_m https://www.britterbeez.com/ @Britterbeez Instagram MORE INFO ON BEEN VENOM THERAPY: https://www.beeculture.com/bee-venom-therapy/ ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6720840/ ALL PROCEEDS FROM THE SALES OF "DO BETTER BE BETTER" WILL BE DONATED TO TH...
Jun 29, 2020•57 min
the viral video that sparked it all: https://twitter.com/briantylercohen/status/1268198096825008130 GoFundMhttp://bit.ly/thepromisefund8dxZS Cash app: $GivionneJordan Pharaoh Almighty “Gee” Jordan Jr was arrested after peacefully protesting and kneeling in front of riot cops as he screamed “I love you. I am not your enemy”. After 40 million views and the pressure of becoming an accidental activist fell into his lap overnight - Gee tells us how he’s been handling his new platform while staying tr...
Jun 22, 2020•1 hr 21 min
EXACTLY 365 days later...after one of the most dangerous drinking experiences of her life, Kelsey reflects back on what it took to get here, the shit they don't tell you about getting sober, and shows how great life is without alcohol. If you suspect you might have a funky relationship with drinking, please check out: https://alcoholaddictioncenter.org/alcoholism-resources/ thank you to all of your confidantes who never judged me for my drinking OR more importantly on my decision to stop. check ...
Jun 15, 2020•55 min
ALL PROCEEDS GOING TO: https://www.joincampaignzero.org/reports FUND MORE BLACK LED ORGS: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Mo2E-M9Bw57ndJrRVegxVhwhI11SWFNPQdQEFVyn02Q/preview?pru=AAABcrXg21c*NAP03qnAxS4VlKUkwiCFDw ABOLISH vs DEFUND: https://www.mpd150.com/ My fav Black Led podcast recs: scam goddess https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/scam-goddess/id1479455008 strong black lead https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strong-black-lead/id1451219002 why won't you date me https://podcasts.apple....
Jun 08, 2020•32 min
Orginizations accepting donations by Tribe: Minnesota Freedom Fund: A community-based nonprofit that combats the harms of incarceration. Donate here . Official George Floyd Memorial Fund : A fundraiser created by Philonise Floyd, brother of George Floyd. Donate here . Black Visions Collective: An organization dedicated to Black liberation and to collective liberation. Donate here. Reclaim the Block : A group that organizes the Minneapolis community and city council members to move money from the...
May 30, 2020•43 min
CALLING ALL HOES! This memorial day (historical, right?), we're learning about a revolutionist who is undoubtedly THE MOST FAMOUS WOMAN IN COLOMBIAN HISTORY!!!....and yet...once again...WE AINT NEVER HEARD OF HER! Well thank GOD KARI KOEPPEL wrote an entire ass book about these women we need to know: Strong Women: 15 Biographies of Influential Women History Overlooked AND! Kari was kind enough to do a GIVEAWAY of her book! Head over to @ConidentlyPod THIS WEEK to see how easy it is to win a copy...
May 25, 2020•51 min
OHHH YEAAAAHHH you didn't think we'd go all of mental health month without a specific focus on Kelsey's FAVORITE TOPIC now did ya?! THATS RIGHT!! May is mental health awareness month and this is a HOSTFUL episode filled with SO MANY FUCKING GIVEAWAYS AND TIPS AND TRICKS my lil' brain can't keep up!!!! From a BOOK READING about getting out of bed, a group pedicure sesh, and a whooooole lot about TIK TOK - Kelsey's telling you what she's doing to keep her shit balanced as FUCKED during the most un...
May 18, 2020•1 hr 6 min
'ELLO, u aight? I wunna tell ya, straight out tha YOUKay. My cheeky new mates & I speak well on tha INTERNATIONAL DICK, YEAH?! ...okay im sorry. I'll stop. I had SO MUCH FUN with these proud sluts, Florence and Reed from F*CKS GIVEN & Come Curious (Seriously, I learned SO much from their youtube channel!) about the pros and cons of sex culture over the pond!!!!! CHECK OUT OUR NEW ** TSUNAMII PUNANI MERCH ** https://teespring.com/stores/kelsey-darragh FOLLOW OUR GUESTS: @FlorenceBark @Ree...
May 11, 2020•47 min
UTIs, Chronic yeast, Cramps, Clits, and SO MUCH MORE. Kelsey reached out to all her fellow vagina owners to just gather round and talk SHIT - of course, we do talk a lil' bit of love!!! ...but mostly we gather round to talk about the commonalities about the various vagaina problems we all seem to be facing.... thank you to all my lovely friends who were so open, vulnerable and REAL about your better half. DONT FORGET MAY IS MENTAL HEALTH AWARENESS MONTH! FOLLOW US: Podcast Instagram/Twitter: @Co...
May 04, 2020•1 hr 16 min
PCOS! ANXIETY! ACNE! AND MORE! THE GODESS kween of HORMONE EDUCATION - Candace Burch (@yourhomonebalance) answers ALL YOUR QUESTIONS about how hormones place a roll in our daily lives. I can't recommend getting your hormones tested ENOUGH!!! Find your baseline! I decided to wean off all medications & stopped birth control after 12 years before I got mine tested just to see WHO I WAS without all the added fun. AND CANDACE IS GIVING THE CONFIDANTES $100 OFF HER JUMPSTART TESTING KIT USING THE ...
Apr 27, 2020•1 hr 2 min
TW: Rape, suicidal ideation How does healing after being raped even begin to occur?…what does the victim see as JUSTICE?...how can we guarantee change in this cycle of abuse? Marlee’s journey: deciding to spend 8 hours with her rapist to heal instead of going through the difficult ass-backwards legal system that probably guarantees no change has inspired me and completely changed the way I look at healing & sexual assault. Please check out more about restorative justice at https://www.rehuma...
Apr 20, 2020•1 hr 25 min
Wait...I hope that title wasn't too misleading because these are in fact TWO SEPARATE TOPICS! Okay - so with this virus its been a bit tough to get guests to come over (because, duh, not allowed) BUT FEAR NOT! because so serendipitously - two confidantes stepped in as GUESTS to share the awesome activism and awareness they are doing to make HUGE changes in other's lives. Yall just so selfless I love my confidantes!!!! CHECK OUT JACOBS SPEECH HERE:https://www.floridatoday.com/story/news/local/202...
Apr 13, 2020•1 hr 22 min
WOOOO! this was SO FUN and so exhilarating! I was SO NERVOUS to call and surprise some of you that have been doing amazing work during this time. In this episode I give it ALL to you guys - self care tips, stickers, weird 5am voice memos to myself, and A READING FROM MY BOOK!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH thank you all for being you and being kind to yourselves during this time if you want to learn a new skill with the quarantine time - check out SKILLSHARE.COM/KELSEY for 2 months FREE Support this pod...
Apr 06, 2020•54 min
LISTEN UP CONFIDANTES! I thought i knew everything there was to know about sex and masturbation. Until I met Remy. Which is unique because I've been having the big O for over 20 years of my life and Remy just came...2 years ago for the first time! AND NOW SHES THE BEYONCE OF CUMMING. REMY KIASSIMIR - HOST OF HOW CUM PODCAST didn't have an orgasm until the age of 28. So she decided to start a podcast about it! spoiler alert: she DOES come by episode 6! She's giving us confidants all the tips tric...
Mar 30, 2020•1 hr 15 min
SOUND THE ALARMS! ITS ANOTHER EPISODE OF HOES THROUGHOUT HISTORY: THE NIGHT WITCHES! #HtH huge shoutout to @JAZZMYNEJAY and follow her ASOS account @asos_jazzmyne I know with all the shit happening in the world you guys asked for something a little light - a littler FUNNIER and a little...HOEY-ER! So i present to you the NIGHT WITCHES. OOoOOoSPOOOOKYYYY WITCHES!!! or....ARE THEY? maybe they're the most badass female soldiers you've never heard of? PERHAPS they were soviet union women who proved ...
Mar 23, 2020•47 min
**CHECK OUT OUR NEW MERCH STORE!!** WELL WELL WELL WELL WELL what do we have here? The end of the world? Over-panic? QUARENTINE?! Well...well...seriously, I can't deal with the stress of whats going on so what better way to take an hour break from this virus stuff to talk bout BUTT STUFF??! Zach Noe Towers, Steven (stove) Kanter, and KapSLap La DJ Lucas give their respective perspectives on ANAL and all the shitty things it entails! IF YOU GET ANYTHING FROM THIS EPISODE LET IT BE THAT YOU SHOULD...
Mar 16, 2020•1 hr 18 min
Ahhh the construct of VIRGINITY! Its a tale as old as time. But we’re here today joined by @Lily_Marston & MAMA DARRAGH to talk all things hymens, backseats, and buttholes. Virgin Mary? I don’t know her. Follow Lily: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgsgwY1juNJIYGgauQxjTlQ https://www.instagram.com/lily_marston/?hl=en LINK TO SONG: https://open.spotify.com/album/39tNwVMO4zHA6QJZyuhuVo?si=u9FfV4eJRqm4TvAqOE4mJg Search “KAP SLAP” on Apple Music WATCH LILY & MEGANS DOC https://www.youtube.c...
Mar 09, 2020•1 hr 2 min
we had to do it. I'm not happy about it BUT I COULDN'T NOT TALK ABOUT POLITICS!!! Theres so much fucking shit on my timelines and in my earballs every day about it!! And of course, with all my frustrations I know the only person who wouldn't yell back at me about this was a stoned white guy - my buddy and writing parter Ian Wolterstorff!!!! Who are YOU voting for? DONT FORGET TO VOTE IN THE PRIMARIES! IT HELPS LOTS OF STUFF BESIDES DECIDING WHO IS GONNA BE PREZ! learn everything you need to know...
Mar 02, 2020•1 hr 1 min
WWEEEOoooOOOO sound the alarms!!!! or...don't? wait...should I be freaking out about whats going on in the world with these outbreaks? Or can I keep on my regular scheduled program of managing MY OWN OUTBREAKS (hi yeast fections!) WHEN CAN I PUT DOWN THE GAS MASKS? Do those masks even help?? What about flying? IS IT SAFE or am I being xenophobic? Kelsey & Kapslap talk all things CARONA and historical pandemics....oh....and about kelsey's foster dog eating cum. great. Learn more about corona ...
Feb 24, 2020•1 hr 11 min
OW OW OW OW OW OW OW OW OW -kelsey getting ready for this episode. Seriously, could a pain flare (the worst of 2 years) have shown up at a better/worse time than during the recording of this podcast episode with LE DJ KAP SLAP JARED LUCASS?! Kelsey talks about being confidently insecure about the current virus spreading across the world, the crazy shit-uation with JAMEELA JALIL and finally, a surprisingly heartfelt convo with her lover about being in a relationship with someone who is constantly...
Feb 17, 2020•1 hr 19 min
