IS IT TRUE?! IS THE GHOST OF JAMES DEAN THE HOTTEST OF ALL TIME?! Well....not in our humblest of opinions!! Plus, we're fostering a new dog and launching new merchandise! The conversation transitions into reflections on pop culture, mental health, and creativity, particularly in relation to the pressures of traditional Hollywood. And finally we CUMlminates in a lively discussion about the recent 'Hottest Men' list, exploring themes of attractiveness, representation, and cultural impact. tell us ...
Jul 14, 2025•34 min
WE FRAACKIN DID IT!!! the next book is DONE!! This week - we got some good house keeping updates followed by AN EXCLLUUUUSIVE SNEEEEEEEEAK PEEEEEK into the chapter all about patriarchal programming...would you get this book even if you werent dealing with heartbreak?! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy...
Jul 07, 2025•27 min
DROP THOSE CREDIT CARDS AND PUT YOUR HANDS WHERE I CAN SEE THEM!!! This episode we're talking about the oh-so-adulty financial stress and broader implications of a potential recession (Wtf is a recession anyway???). The discussion covers the definitions and indicators of a recession, coping mechanisms, and practical budgeting strategies (which were made by yours truly so you know they WORK!). TAKEAWAYS: takeaways Naming your feelings around money is crucial. Recession can be viewed as a reset ra...
Jun 23, 2025•37 min
BRING OUT YOUR DEAD!!!!! In this episode, we delve into the often-taboo subject of death, exploring personal fears, societal attitudes, and the funeral industry's practices. We emphasize the importance of discussing death openly, planning for it, and considering alternative burial methods. The conversation also highlights cultural differences in how death is perceived and celebrated, advocating for a more positive and less fearful approach to the inevitable. THE MORE YOU KNOW KIDDOS!!!! Chapters...
Jun 16, 2025•37 min
CAAIIIIIIIOO BELLA!!!!!!! This episode, Kelsey shares her experiences while vacationing in Rome (PIZZA!!) , reflecting on the joys of solo travel, the disconnection from news and politics, and the beauty of embracing i-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-c-e!!! Tells us - what are your solo travel tips?? Whats the best gift you gave a lover?! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.c...
Jun 09, 2025•22 min
ITS OUR FAVORITE TIME OF YEAR MATCHED WITH OUR FAVORITE SPECIAL CONPOD SEGMENT: a PRIDE THEMED Hoes Throughout History! This week, we celebrate Pride Month by sharing the remarkable story of Dr. Mary Edwards Walker, a pioneering figure in women's rights and medicine. Theres SO MUCH DRAMA from Walker's defiance of gender norms, her contributions during the Civil War, her experiences as a prisoner of war, and her lasting legacy in the fight for women's rights and gender equality. ENJOY GHAYS!!! Ch...
Jun 02, 2025•34 min
SEND THIS TO YOUR LOVER! YOUR PARTNER! ANYONE THAT BLEEDS!!! Take a trip with Kelsey down the various phases of the menstrual cycle, discussing the physical and emotional changes that occur during each phase! BECAUSE THEY DIDN'T TEACH US THIS SHIT IN HIGH SHOOL! From the menstrual phase to ovulation and the luteal phase, Kelsey provides insights into self-care tips and how partners can support individuals during these times. Cause yall know about the importance of understanding one's body and tr...
May 27, 2025•34 min
THE FEMALE TAX!!! HORNY DRAGONS!!! THIS PODCAST HAS IT ALL!!! Join kelsey and the athelete (@regitfit) to recap the rein faire in all its busty glory as we as playing the trending game where MEN try to guess FEMININE products! Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Feedback on Previous Episode 03:01 Experiences at the Renaissance Fair 05:50 Costume Choices and Preparation for the Fair 09:09 The Horny Atmosphere and Kinky Tales 12:14 Games and Challenges: Guessing Feminine Products 26:55 Wrap-Up and Fut...
May 19, 2025•33 min
READY TO QUIT THE CORPORATE GIRLY LIFE and follow your dreams?! That's exactly what this week's guest, @DanaTeller did! Growing up with actor brother, Miles Teller, Dana lived a very unique position being "celebrity adjacent". But, being the FUNNIEST performer in the family comes with an impossible to be ignored path...Dana shares her experiences and insights as she navigates her new career path, emphasizing the need for self-advocacy and authenticity in the creative process...and helps us laugh...
May 12, 2025•48 min
LISTEN UP CONFIDANTES!! If there is ONE BOOK you could get your significant other to read - ITS THIS ONE!!! This conversation delves into the complexities of sexual desire, focusing on the dual control model, which highlights the importance of both accelerators and brakes in sexual arousal!!! WHICH IS SOMETHING VERY BASIC WE ALL SHOULD'VE LEARNED IN SCHOOL! The discussion explores the differences between spontaneous and responsive desire, the impact of stress on libido, and the concept of non-co...
May 05, 2025•42 min
HELP!!! IM OLD!!! WHAT THE HELL?! when did this happen?? turns out...you're getting old in sooo many tiny little sneaky ways that the OLD you will HATE YOU FOR! Lets explore the complexities of aging and the science of longevity. You'll learn about trength training, the role of mitochondria, and the impact of chronic inflammation on health. BEST OF ALL! You'll get practical steps to take to combat aging...bc we're all gunna die so lets try and slow down the process shall we?! Chapters 00:00 Embr...
Apr 28, 2025•39 min
Remember when police responded to a false report of an active shooter situation at my home? Welp! I DO! The discussion delves into the emotional and psychological impact of the event, the inadequacies of police communication, and the broader implications of swatting as a dangerous prank. It's a doozy journey of coping with trauma, the importance of personal safety, and the lessons we learned from this experience Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Adver...
Apr 21, 2025•55 min
PUT ON THOSE GLASSES AND OPEN UP THOSE PAGES! We're introducing the 'Emotionally Horny Book Club', where we discuss three books that explore themes of sexuality, dating, and emotional health! THE BIG THREE THAT MATTER! Kelsey dives into the narratives of 'Boy Slut' by Zachary Zane, 'How to Date Men When You Hate Men' by Blythe Robertson, and 'Open Deeply' by Kate Laurie, offering insights and saucy personal reflections on each. Chapters 00:00 Welcome to the New Studio! 03:27 Exciting Film Premie...
Apr 07, 2025•48 min
don't look!!! or do....but don't be surprised when what you see is a pile of doggy doo doo on the screen aka KELSEY IN DEPRESH MODE!!!! aka moving, breaking up with your thrupple and trying to naavigate a good ole episode of depression <3 what are your hacks? Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy...
Mar 31, 2025•38 min
KELSEY IS MOVING!! She's literally un-studioed aka it's all in boxes and being moved to a gorgeous, fresh new space!!! Pls enjoy this repost of the most popular episode of the year! Kelsey got an abortion and WE’RE TALKING ABOUT IT bc abortions are health care )and much more common than you may think) 😎 Find out all about Kelsey’s whole experience while Zach tries desperately to make the episode about him 🥰🥰 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advert...
Mar 24, 2025•45 min
SOUND THE ALARMS!! WE'RE GETTING INTO SOMETHING NEW TODAY, KIDS ! Manga...it's always intrigued us but we never understood it ...which is why we brought in THE expert herself - the hilarious, beautiful and manga-obsessed JOYCE LOUIS-JEAN . She's here to discuss her experience with the Try Guys, aspirations for reality TV, and the intriguing world of manga and anime! She helps us explore its diverse genres, particularly focusing on queer narratives like Yuri and Boys Love (BL). Trust me...you'll ...
Mar 17, 2025•52 min
CAN WE GET AN IWD REDO?! After realizing NO ONE in her life celebrated IWD this past weekend, Kelsey decides to revisit the best things women have done this past year INCLUDING her buying 25 bins off facebook marketplace from an absolute criminal. 00:00 Celebrating International Women's Day 24:04 The History and Significance of Women's Day 39:02 Modern Achievements and Ongoing Struggles for Women Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries...
Mar 10, 2025•40 min
CAN WE GET AN IWD REDO?! After realizing NO ONE in her life celebrated IWD this past weekend, Kelsey decides to revisit the best things women have done this past year INCLUDING her buying 25 bins off facebook marketplace from an absolute criminal. 00:00 Celebrating International Women's Day 24:04 The History and Significance of Women's Day 39:02 Modern Achievements and Ongoing Struggles for Women Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries...
Mar 10, 2025•40 min
LETS ANSWER ALL YOUR LISTENER QUESTIONS: jealousy, boundaries, HOW TO GET THERE IN THE FIRST PLACE!! "It's going to be messy. It's going to be beautiful." "Communication, baby, communication, communication, communication." "Jealousy doesn't equal bad." "Boundaries are things you decide you need." "Emotional check-ins are mandatory." "You can always go back to non-monogamy." "You can always go back to that why." "The greatest gifts are on the other side of fear." "You never want to force yourself...
Mar 03, 2025•51 min
DON'T BE ASHAMED!! WE ALL HAVE THEM!!! Sexual fantasies have been around since the first person who had a BRAIN AND EYEBALLS...(maybe not even eyeballs??) from astrology and comedy to mental health and sexual fantasies. But before we dive straight into dream land...Our dear friend Kevin Sullivan (@TheKevinSullivan) discuss the challenges and triumphs of content creation, the impact of mental health, and the importance of comfort in exploring fantasies. hehehehehehe FOLLOW KEVIN: www.tiktok.com/@...
Feb 24, 2025•46 min
What could go wrong on a family ski trip to Aspen filled with hot paramedics, the flu, and a bucket list filled with champagne? LISTEN IN TO FIND OUT JUST HOW INSANE THIS FAMILY SKI TRIP WAS!!!!!! 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 02:48 Valentine's Day Celebrations and Spa Experience 08:48 Family Ski Trip to Aspen 15:03 Skiing Adventures and Injuries 21:53 Post-Injury Reflections and Family Dynamics 24:06 The Ski Accident and Concussion 30:06 Family Dynamics and Adjustments 36:12 The Cloud...
Feb 17, 2025•49 min
RYAN'S BAAAAACK! Yall loved him so much you know I had to bring him back to help me decipher the art of a D*CK PIC!!! The details behind consensual and....what to say when you get them unsolicited! SO get our your thinkin' caps and lets chat the social dynamics surrounding the sharing of intimate images. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Connection 03:12 Mental Health and ADHD Journey 05:59 Stress and Tax Season Woes 08:51 The Nature of Opinions and Misinformation 11:49 The Importance of Acknowled...
Feb 10, 2025•51 min
Join me and expert cutie-patootie @BeatriceHazlehurst from @unconvergirlpodcast explore the intricacies of celebrity journalism, the challenges of forming adult friendships in Los Angeles, and the ethical dilemmas faced by journalists in the age of clickbait culture. Beatrice Hazlehurst | @beatricehazlehurst | https://www.instagram.com/beatricehazlehurst/?hl=en (UN)COVER GIRL | @uncovergirlpodcast | https://www.instagram.com/uncovergirlpodcast/ Just in case! spotify: https://open.spotify.com/sho...
Feb 03, 2025•55 min
SOUND THE ALARMS!!! Our first guest host of the year is the hilariously iconic RYANN GRAHAM (@gudguyryry) talkings politics and peen. what else could you want?? Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy...
Jan 27, 2025•55 min
We've LOVED having our bestie ZNT here for the last 2 years and we can't wait to see what he does next with Good Morning Sodomites!!! FOLLOW HIM ON ALL THE THINGS!!! P.S. we talk TIKTOK BAN, ZACHS NEW DATE, AND FIRES IN LA! but mostly we just love on zachy <3 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy...
Jan 20, 2025•47 min
In this episode, we’re exposing the corporate monstrosity that is Nestlé, because if anyone’s profiting off baby formula, slavery, and water theft, it’s them. So grab a snack (preferably not from Nestlé) and get ready for a wild ride through corporate corruption, because we’re about to make sure you’ll never look at your coffee the same way again!!!!!!!!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy &...
Jan 06, 2025•42 min
HAPPY NEWW YEARRRRR CONFIDANNNTTTSSS - or are we that happy?!!? IDK!!! Kelsey discusses her feelings about New Year's resolutions, the importance of self-discovery, and the impact of relationships on her journey. Kelsey babbles about fashion choices, unexpected pregnancy, abortion, career challenges, relationship growth, and creative pursuits!!!! DID YOU HAVE ANY CASUAL PROFOUND GROWTH???!! LET US KNOW IN THE COMMENTS<3 Chapters: New Year Reflections and Personal Growth 03:02 Career Milestone...
Dec 30, 2024•54 min
This week Kelsey and Zach talk the logistics of threesomes, getting h-word in an escape room, Zach’s BJ reviews 💦 AND what the Confident Bottom community REALLY thinks about Luigi 🥵❤️ Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy...
Dec 16, 2024•47 min
This week, K&Z tackle the topics of zach's newest grindr date not getting a word in, kelsey's new thrupple crush, and the UHC ..uh...situation?? Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy...
Dec 09, 2024•50 min
This week Kelsey and Zach recount their Friendsgiving movie extravaganza and discuss the best way to crush on potential lovers 🦃🎥🍿 PLUS Kelsey tells Zach all about the dangers of fast fashion and landfills over-flowing with the impulse decisions of those of us who like to BUY NOW 🫠🫠 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy...
Dec 02, 2024•45 min
