Marriage Isn't What You Think—A Raw First Year Reality Check (ft. My Husband)
Episode description
Marriage isn’t all sunshine and rainbows—and that’s exactly what makes it beautiful. In this candid conversation, I dive into the real dynamics of my relationship with my husband, David, from communication struggles to breakthrough moments that transformed our marriage.
As newlyweds, we discovered how our opposite communication styles—his quiet introspection vs. my more…reactive tendencies—became our biggest strength. I also reveal the game-changing book that reshaped our marriage, and no, it’s not another fluffy self-help guide.
If you’ve ever wondered why some couples argue constantly while others don’t, how past experiences shape relationship dynamics, or whether communication styles can make or break love, this episode is for you. Whether you're in a relationship or searching for one that lasts, these insights will help you build a stronger, more resilient connection.
In this episode, we discuss:
- How do quiet and reactive partners successfully communicate in marriage?
- How can couples communicate better and avoid unnecessary conflicts?
- How can regular check-ins improve a relationship over time?
- What’s the secret to resolving conflicts when partners have different communication styles?
- Why do past experiences impact current relationship triggers, and how can couples address them?
- What is theEight Dates book, and how can it help couples grow together?
*Not an ad forEight Dates, we just really loved the impact it had.
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