Annie is a formal professional poker player turned author, speaker, and consultant in the decision-making space. Annie discusses how coaches can frame and evaluate their decisions based on probability. She gives us tools to make the best decision with the information on hand. Get the Podcast Notes and Subscribe to Our Weekly Newsletter https://www.tocculture.com Take your personal coaching development to the next level with the TOC Coaching and Culture Certification Course The right way to hold ...
Nov 05, 2023•40 min
JP and Nate discuss the second of five Mindtraps from Jennifer Garvey Berger’s book " Unlocking Leadership Mindtraps ". In this episode, JP and Nate highlight The significance of humility in the learning process. Letting go of the need for control and certainty will allow us to focus on making the best possible decisions with the information at hand. The mindset that allows us to be open to the possibility of being wrong and encourages a willingness to learn from our mistakes. How to gain a deep...
Oct 29, 2023•36 min
Two decades ago, mental performance coaching played a significant role in training athletes. Today, the spotlight has shifted towards mental health. In this episode, special guest Lisa Mitzel shares in Part 2 of our conversation, stories and strategies focused on mental well-being. Lisa is a distinguished mental training and mental health coach, an author of two books, and the founder and president of Zen Tiger Mind , a company specializing in equipment and merchandise for mental training and at...
Oct 22, 2023•42 min
The mental aspect of sports is often the most significant obstacle preventing athletes from reaching their full potential. Yet, many coaches lack confidence in guiding their athletes to overcome these mental challenges. In this episode, JP and Nate are joined by a special guest, Lisa Mitzel . She is a renowned mental training and mental health coach, author of two books, and the founder and president of Zen Tiger Mind , a company specializing in equipment and merchandise for mental training and ...
Oct 15, 2023•42 min
Navigating leadership in today's world is more challenging than ever, marked by its unpredictability and rapid changes. Despite this, many still rely on traditional tactics, even when they prove ineffective. In her book " Unlocking Leadership Mindtraps ," leadership consultant, researcher, and coach Jennifer Garvey Berger identifies common shortcuts, or mindtraps, that people fall into. Often, without realizing we're caught in one of these traps, we tend to believe the solution lies in trying ha...
Oct 08, 2023•35 min
In the second segment of our two-part conversation, we are joined again by two world-class water polo players, Cris Pinciroli and her daughter Alissa. JP and Nate discuss with Cris and Alissa how coaches and parents can work together to support high performance athletes with rest, support, and mental health. This discussion encompasses those athletes that are highly inspired and also the ones living in a burnt out world. √ The biggest challenge for sports parents √ Perspective from the balcony a...
Oct 01, 2023•29 min
The demands on athletes have never been higher. In the first segment of our two-part conversation, we are joined by two world-class water polo players, Cris Pinciroli and her daughter Alissa. Cris, the founder of WeTeam, a consulting company focused on high performance and positive psychology, served as the captain of the Brazilian women's water polo team for 15 years and, at one point, was ranked among the top 7 players in the world. Alissa currently plays water polo at Stanford University. In ...
Sep 24, 2023•35 min
A prevalent challenge in the modern-day sports environment is the departure of players due to transfers or personal reasons, which can lead individuals away from their teams. This phenomenon occurs across various levels, including youth, high school, collegiate, and even professional ranks. In this episode, JP and Nate engage in a conversation addressing this reality of players leaving and provide insights on how to respond appropriately while effectively guiding a team. √ Players quitting a tea...
Sep 17, 2023•36 min
Leadership in today’s world is complex, particularly when considering the delicate balance between compassion and candor. In Part 2 of their conversation, JP and Nate further explore this dynamic with guest Kim Scott. This episode is rich with insights on enhancing communication and feedback. The discussion revolves around Kim's book, Radical Candor . √ In emotionally charged exchanges, get curious, not furious √ Bias, prejudice, and bullying can masquerade as feedback √ For leaders, it may not ...
Sep 10, 2023•36 min
Leadership in today’s world is complex. It involves many polarities, such as autonomy and control, support and accountability, love and truth. Effective leadership goes beyond either/or thinking. It necessitates the integration of these opposing concepts. In this episode, JP and Nate are delighted to host Kim Scott, a New York Times best-selling author and renowned expert in leadership. Kim is celebrated for her pioneering efforts in advancing effective communication and leadership practices. Th...
Sep 03, 2023•28 min
Over the past two episodes, our distinguished guest from the Harvard Graduate School of Education, Richard Weissbourd, unveiled some poignant realities about the role of a sports parent. In this conversation, JP and Nate aim to address a crucial question: How can we skillfully navigate these challenges to steer clear of the detrimental sports parenting behaviors discussed in Episode 309? Tune in as they recount personal stories and openly discuss their own trials and tribulations. √ Well-intenti...
Aug 27, 2023•36 min
JP and Nate continue the 2-part conversation with Richard Weissbourd from the Harvard Graduate School of Education. He is an expert in Children’s Moral and Emotional Development. His work focuses on moral development, the nature of hope, vulnerability and resilience in childhood, parenting and effective schools and services for children. He is the author of the previously mentioned book on the podcast, The Parents We Mean To Be . √ Coaches and competition are the drivers of character change √ Sp...
Aug 20, 2023•24 min
In this episode, JP and Nate bring onboard a special guest from the Harvard Graduate School of Education, Richard Weissbourd. He is an expert in Children’s Moral and Emotional Development. His work focuses on moral development, the nature of hope, vulnerability and resilience in childhood, parenting and effective schools and services for children. He is the author of the previously mentioned book on the podcast, The Parents We Mean To Be . √ Raise moral children, not happy children √ The differe...
Aug 13, 2023•39 min
The superpower of being a transformational leader lies in being transparent about our own growth journey and exemplifying it for others. Demonstrating transparency provides credibility, especially when we seek to make improvements based on feedback from our stakeholders, such as our athletes. This approach not only enhances our connection with others but also deepens our overall impact. In this episode, JP and Nate discuss effective and appropriate methods for coaches to engage in this transpare...
Aug 06, 2023•35 min
In this episode, John O'Sullivan joins JP and Nate in an insightful discussion, highlighting the significance of John's newest book, The Champion Teammate: Timeless Lessons to Connect, Compete and Lead in Sports and Life , with Jerry Lynch. Included in the book are ideas on how coaches can guide their athletes to become better performers. Throughout the conversation, the importance of creating a team-centric culture is emphasized. Coaches must be deliberate in promoting values that prioritize co...
Jul 30, 2023•36 min
As coaches, we may not be directly responsible for our athletes' experiences, but we have the power to positively influence them through our actions. In this episode, JP hosts a discussion with Keith Mayer and his son David. Keith, who has been coaching soccer since 1981, currently holds the position of academy coach at Liverpool FC and David is a part of the Red Wolves club in Utah. Both Keith and David are authors of the book Gold Dust: How to Become A More Effective Coach, Quickly: How to Bec...
Jul 23, 2023•45 min
Great leaders aren’t just intelligent, highly skilled communicators, motivators, and story-tellers. They are able to step back and consider different perspectives. In this episode, JP initiates the discussion by sharing personal stories from his childhood, reflecting on moments where he was inclined to argue and impose his will on others. However, he emphasizes the substantial growth he has experienced, particularly in terms of his mindset. Throughout the conversation, JP and Nate share the impo...
Jul 16, 2023•34 min
JP and Nate are joined once again by their special guest, Dr. Alex Auerbach from the Toronto Raptors. Dr. Auerbach holds the position of Senior Director of Wellness and Development, overseeing the Offcourt Development of Leadership and Character within the organization. In this episode, the conversation transitions from exploring the three mindsets of mental performance to discussing specific protocols and practical steps that coaches and leaders can implement to support their teams and programs...
Jul 09, 2023•33 min
Shortly before the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, the Toronto Raptors made a significant move by hiring Dr. Alex Auerbach as their Senior Director of Wellness and Development. Recognizing the immense value of his perspective and insights, they entrusted him with the responsibility of Offcourt Development of Leadership and Character. Additionally, he was granted a seat on their Executive Leadership Team. In the first part of this two-part conversation with JP and Nate, Dr. Auerbach delves into t...
Jul 02, 2023•37 min
For many coaches who choose to welcome feedback, the strategy can become overwhelming, especially when it coincides with the conclusion of a season. JP and Nate have previously emphasized the significance of actively seeking feedback. As part of the mentorship program with TOC, one of the initial stages involves completing a comprehensive 360-degree feedback form across various aspects of life. In this episode, JP and Nate explore the delicate balance of staying true to our convictions while als...
Jun 25, 2023•39 min
In our previous episode, JP and Nate engaged in a thought-provoking discussion with Chip Huth, a former officer in the Kansas City Police Department and a Leadership Consultant at the Arbinger Institute. The conversation revolved around self-deception and the concept of the outward mindset, which was previously explored in episodes 180 and 181 . In Part 2 of the conversation, Chip delves deeper into the transformative power of recognizing the humanity in others. He highlights how this shift in p...
Jun 18, 2023•36 min
JP's latest book, The Culture System , explores the concept of The Outward Mindset in its first chapter. This perspective is crucial for leaders to consistently operate from, enabling them to be authentic and gain acceptance. The podcast episodes 180 and 181 previously discussed this way of thinking. In this week’s episode, Chip Huth joins as a guest to share insights about his upbringing, his law enforcement experiences, and the transformative paradigm shift he underwent throughout his professi...
Jun 11, 2023•36 min
As the academic year comes to a close and sports seasons draw to an end, coaches start planning for the upcoming season. Inevitably, they ponder the question, "What will leadership look like for our team next year?" Is leadership merely about holding players accountable, or does it encompass more? How can we enhance player ownership? JP and Nate explore strategies to tackle the leadership gaps that arise with each graduating class and propose systems to support this endeavor. √ Why leadership de...
Jun 04, 2023•37 min
In Part 1 of our conversation with Dr. Tim Elmore, the renowned founder and CEO of Growing Leaders and a bestselling author with an impressive collection of over 30 books, JP and Nate delved into various topics aimed at bridging the gap between previous generations and Gen Z individuals. In Part 2, Tim takes the discussion further, placing significant emphasis on the crucial aspects of trust-building, relationship establishment, empowering ownership, fostering growth through incentives, and inst...
May 28, 2023•32 min
Over the past two decades, we have witnessed an unparalleled pace of growth, surpassing any other period in human history. Dr. Tim Elmore, an esteemed guest on this podcast episode, joins JP and Nate to shed light on bridging the generational gap caused by this cultural transformation. Dr. Elmore, the founder and CEO of Growing Leaders and a bestselling author with over 30 books to his name, is dedicated to helping adults understand the unique challenges and experiences faced by today's generati...
May 21, 2023•36 min
In this episode, JP and Nate discuss two contrasting perspectives held by sports enthusiasts. On one side, there are those who believe that there is no such thing as failure in sports, but rather continuous progress and valuable lessons to be learned. On the other side, there are individuals who emphasize that the scoreboard is the ultimate determinant of success. Our hosts explore the question of whether coaches, players, and organizations can genuinely prioritize both winning and purpose in th...
May 14, 2023•51 min
JP and Nate are joined by special guest Dusty May, the Head Coach of the Florida Atlantic University (FAU) Men’s Basketball Team for Part 2 of this conversation. Coach May led his team to make history in the NCAA Tournament by advancing all the way to the Final Four. Dusty shares more about his personal journey and how he navigates the rapidly-changing landscape of college sports, while staying committed to leading every day. √ Accept the evolution of expectations and operations √ Value people, ...
May 07, 2023•31 min
Coaches are always looking for inspiration and the secrets of successful coaches, especially those from unexpected places. In this episode, JP and Nate visit with special guest Dusty May, who is the Head Coach of the Florida Atlantic University (FAU) Men’s Basketball Team. Coach May and his Owl’s made history this year in the NCAA Tournament by advancing all the way to the Final Four. As a lifelong learner, Dusty reached out to JP after reading Calling Up . Dusty shares some of his journey and w...
Apr 30, 2023•48 min
Awareness leads to responsibility. Responsibility leads to growth. It is our responsibility as coaches to get our players to the truth so that we can help them maximize their growth. Many times, coaches are fighting against the inaccurate voices that influence players outside of the program. JP and Nate discuss many best practices to enhance the player-coach relationship. √ Accept reality so that perception is accurate √ The cost of candor vs. the cost of kindness √ The false narrative from the ...
Apr 23, 2023•39 min
The fight against mediocrity is taxing. It is even more taxing from a leadership perspective where you can’t just take care of yourself, you have to inspire the ones around you to follow your example. In this episode, JP and Nate continue the conversation with special guest Anson Dorrance, the longtime head coach of the women’s soccer program at the University of North Carolina. He has one of the most successful coaching records in the history of athletics and with Dorrance's guidance, the Tar H...
Apr 16, 2023•55 min
