In this episode, we’re talking about something that hits deep: what it feels like when someone walks away—but expects you to wait. Maybe you’ve been there. You gave your heart, your time, your consistency… and in return, they gave confusion. Silence dressed up as “space.” Excuses instead of effort. And yet, part of you still held the door open, hoping they’d come back. This conversation is for the ones who waited—out of love, out of belief, out of loyalty—until one day, you realized that love sh...
Jun 23, 2025•19 min•Ep. 203
Breakups are messy—even for the one who ends it. In this episode, I walk you through the timeline of what usually happens after someone breaks up with you. Not right away, but in the weeks and months that follow, there’s often a shift they didn’t expect. The relief fades. Doubt creeps in. And if you’ve gone quiet, that silence starts to get loud. We’ll talk about the common phases dumpers go through, why they sometimes reach out even when they’re not sure what they want, and what it really means...
Jun 20, 2025•15 min•Ep. 202
What really causes someone to regret the breakup? In this episode, I walk you through five real moments that often shift the mindset of someone who left you. These aren’t guesses or vague ideas—they’re specific turning points. Internal realizations. Psychological cracks. The kind of things that don’t always show up on the surface, but mean everything when you're trying to understand what’s going on behind the silence. Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk Book a coac...
Jun 06, 2025•14 min•Ep. 201
They thought you’d wait forever. They thought you’d stay in place. That you’d stay loyal no matter how long they disappeared. That you’d be available whenever — if they ever changed their mind. And for a while… maybe they were right. But something changed. You didn’t just wait. You grew. You got quiet. You got stronger. And now… they don’t know where you stand. And that uncertainty? It’s doing something they never expected — it’s making them feel your absence. In this episode, Coach Lee breaks d...
May 18, 2025•16 min•Ep. 200
They walked away. But somehow, they still feel in control. That ends now. In this video, I’m going to walk you through how to take your ex’s power away. Not by playing games, but by showing them—subtly and clearly—that they don’t hold emotional control over you anymore. Get Coach Lee's $7 Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back! See ReunionBlueprint.com! So many people give their ex power without realizing it. Every little reaction… every attempt to show them what they’re missing… even just overth...
May 10, 2025•14 min•Ep. 199
Body $7 Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com You think they’ve moved on. They’re silent. Distant. Maybe even cold. But behind that silence, something else is happening—and they don’t even realize it. In this video, I’ll reveal five hidden ways your ex is subconsciously testing you after the breakup. Not because they’re playing games… But because they’re trying to protect their pride, their narrative, and the version of the story that makes them feel right. And every time you don’t r...
Mar 30, 2025•12 min•Ep. 198
Your ex might seem calm, distant, or completely fine after the breakup. Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com . Book a coaching session with Coach Lee at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ Maybe they’re silent. Maybe they’re posting like life has never been better. Maybe they’ve even convinced themselves that they’re at peace. But here’s the truth—they’re struggling more than they’ll ever admit. Breakups don’t bring instant clarity. They create doubt, emot...
Mar 17, 2025•16 min•Ep. 197
Right now, it might seem like your ex is completely certain about their decision. They’re acting distant, cold, and unbothered—like you never really mattered to them. But here’s the truth… they’re more confused than you think. Get Coach Lee's "Reunion Blueprint" for just $7 at https://ReunionBlueprint.com Book a private session with Coach Lee at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ Breakups don’t bring instant clarity. Instead, they create doubt, second-guessing, and emotional contradi...
Mar 05, 2025•15 min•Ep. 196
Your ex may seem unaffected by the breakup, but that’s likely not the full story. There are several reasons why they appear to feel nothing—at least, for now. Get Coach Lee's $7 "Reunion Blueprint" at https://ReunionBlueprint.com . If you are in a troubled marriage, get Coach Lee's FREE mini-course on saving your marriage at https://MarriageRadio.com/marriagehelp 1. Dopamine and the Relief Stage When your ex decided to break up, their brain rewarded them with dopamine, the same chemical that giv...
Feb 28, 2025•13 min•Ep. 195
Your ex may act fine after the breakup, but deep down, they’re feeling emotions they won’t admit to anyone—including themselves. In this podcast episode, Coach Lee reveals the hidden pain your ex experiences as time passes and why they might start to regret leaving you. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The Pain of Uncertainty: Why they start questioning if breaking up was a mistake. The Emotional Crash: How their initial relief turns into emptiness. The Power of Nostalgia: Why their brain rewr...
Feb 22, 2025•12 min•Ep. 194
At first, it might seem like your ex is doing just fine after the breakup—maybe even relieved. But that feeling won’t last forever. In this episode, Coach Lee dives deep into why your ex actually feels worse as time goes on and how their emotions shift in ways they never expected. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why your ex’s emotions are delayed after the breakup – Understanding the psychological timeline that makes them feel worse over time. How nostalgia rewrites the past – Why your ex sta...
Feb 18, 2025•14 min•Ep. 193
The Impact of Radio Silence on Your Ex Radio silence is one of the most effective strategies after a breakup, particularly if your ex was the one who ended the relationship. It works hand in hand with no contact but has its own unique impact. By removing yourself from your ex’s life completely—no texting, no social media updates, no interaction—you create a noticeable absence that forces them to feel the consequences of their decision. Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back for on...
Feb 14, 2025•20 min•Ep. 192
Does No Contact Work with a Borderline Personality Disorder Ex? Breaking up with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) presents unique challenges, leading many to question whether the no-contact rule is effective in this situation. In this audio/video, Coach Lee explores how no contact impacts individuals with BPD, the reactions you might encounter, and whether this approach fosters healing, clarity, and even reconciliation. What You’ll Discover in This Video: Why No Contact Work...
Feb 07, 2025•17 min•Ep. 191
Why Your Ex Misses You Later (And What You Can Do About It) Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back! After a breakup, you may find yourself missing your ex almost immediately, but they often take longer to feel that same sense of loss. This delay happens for a reason, and understanding why can help you handle the situation in a way that increases your chances of getting them back. Here’s what happens in your ex’s mind after a breakup and what you can do about it. 1. The Delayed Los...
Feb 06, 2025•16 min•Ep. 190
One of the most surprising ways to get your ex back is to genuinely move on. It sounds counterintuitive, but detaching from the relationship and focusing on your own growth can actually make your ex reconsider their decision. In this video, Coach Lee explains why shifting your mindset away from desperation and toward self-improvement increases your attractiveness and draws your ex back toward you. Get Coach Lee's "Reunion Blueprint" to get your ex back! https://ReunionBlueprint.com Why Moving On...
Jan 29, 2025•13 min•Ep. 189
Why Your Ex Might Be Struggling After the Breakup Get Coach Lee's $7 "Reunion Blueprint" to get your ex back! When a breakup happens, it’s easy to think that your ex is completely fine—especially if they’re the one who initiated the split. However, the reality is that they’re likely struggling in their own way. Understanding why your ex might be having difficulty with the breakup can provide valuable insights into their behavior and help you navigate this challenging period. 1. Silence Can Cause...
Jan 27, 2025•13 min•Ep. 188
When it comes to breakups, the no-contact rule is one of the most powerful tools you can use to heal, regain your confidence, and, in some cases, increase the chances of reconciliation. However, your ex may not make it easy for you to stay silent. Even if they ended the relationship, they might use subtle (and not-so-subtle) tricks to get you to reach out first. Understanding these tactics and why they use them can help you stay strong and avoid falling into their trap. Here are some common tric...
Jan 22, 2025•12 min•Ep. 187
Breakups are hard enough on their own, but they can become even more painful when your ex responds with anger, cruelty, or mean-spirited behavior. It’s natural to feel confused and hurt, wondering why someone who once cared about you is now acting this way. Understanding their behavior can provide clarity, help you process your emotions, and guide you in making the best decisions moving forward. Get Coach Lee's $7 Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com to get your ex back - even if it...
Jan 19, 2025•14 min•Ep. 186
"Reunion Blueprint" at https://ReunionBlueprint.com just $7 For marriage problems, get Coach Lee's free mini-course at https://www.marriageradio.com/mini-course-to-save-your-marriage/ Breakups are never easy, especially when you’re the one left behind. Emotions can run high, and the urge to reach out, explain yourself, or try to change your ex's mind can feel overwhelming. But as counterintuitive as it may seem, silence is one of the most powerful tools you have after a breakup. In this article,...
Jan 16, 2025•13 min•Ep. 185
What It Means When Your Ex Says They Need Time or Space It’s common to feel confused and even panicked when your ex, boyfriend, or girlfriend says they need “time” or “space.” These words often leave people wondering: is this the end of the relationship, or is there still hope? In this article, we’ll explore the meaning behind those phrases, the possible reasons someone might say them, and what you should do in response to improve your chances of reconciliation. Why They Might Say They Need Time...
Jan 06, 2025•11 min•Ep. 184
Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit Coaching session at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ What to Do When All Else Fails: Strategies for Getting Your Ex Back When you're at your wit's end, unsure of what else to try, and willing to take some risks to rekindle your relationship with your ex, it can be a challenging and emotional time. These moments often come when you're ready to move on but feel the need to try one last thing. Here are some uncon...
Dec 26, 2024•12 min•Ep. 183
What Is Your Ex Thinking If They're Dating Someone Else? After a breakup, seeing your ex dating someone else can be incredibly challenging. You might wonder what’s going through their mind and whether this new relationship is a rebound or something serious. Here are key insights into what your ex might be thinking if they’ve moved on to someone else and how this dynamic can evolve. Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit 1. The Stages of Grieving the Breakup Can ...
Nov 30, 2024•12 min•Ep. 182
"If" is a poem by English poet Rudyard Kipling, written circa 1895 as a tribute to Leander Starr Jameson. It is a literary example of Victorian-era stoicism. This is a reading by Coach Lee, especially encouraging young men. If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or being ha...
Nov 23, 2024•2 min•Ep. 181
Deciding whether to move on from an ex can be challenging. Many grapple with the emotional turmoil of a breakup, questioning whether waiting or trying to get back together is worth it. Below are some key considerations to help you navigate this decision. 1. Ask the Right Question: Should You Try to Get Them Back? Instead of asking if you should give up, ask if your ex is worth the effort. Reflect on their behavior during and after the breakup. If they left without trying to resolve issues or wal...
Nov 23, 2024•16 min•Ep. 180
When Your Ex Begins to Feel the Impact of Loss: Exploring the Shift in Emotional Dynamics After a Breakup Breakups bring a challenging range of emotions. Typically, one person may feel caught off guard and devastated, while the other may seem to hold all the power. However, the emotional dynamics between the one who initiated the breakup and the person who was left behind can shift significantly over time. Known as “role reversal,” this transition often surprises both individuals, flipping the f...
Nov 20, 2024•20 min•Ep. 179
Making the Breakup Impactful for Your Ex: Steps Toward Potential Reconnection Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit Breakups often leave one person holding all the cards, typically the one who initiates the split. If you’re hoping to reignite the relationship, it’s crucial to understand that your ex needs to feel the cost of the breakup on an emotional level. Without this sense of loss, they may never fully understand what they gave up. In this guide, we’ll exp...
Nov 09, 2024•11 min•Ep. 178
No Contact: Now What? When going through a breakup, many people understand the importance of giving space, or as I call it, going "no contact." However, once you're in no contact, the question becomes, now what? In this article, I’ll help guide you through the next steps, whether or not your ex decides to reach out. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit 1. When Your Ex Reaches Out The biggest question I hear is, What should I do if my ex contact...
Nov 05, 2024•18 min•Ep. 177
When Your Ex Begins to Feel the Impact of Loss: Exploring the Shift in Emotional Dynamics After a Breakup Breakups bring a challenging range of emotions. Typically, one person may feel caught off guard and devastated, while the other may seem to hold all the power. However, the emotional dynamics between the one who initiated the breakup and the person who was left behind can shift significantly over time. Known as “role reversal,” this transition often surprises both individuals, flipping the f...
Nov 01, 2024•20 min•Ep. 176
Read the full article, "Getting Mixed Signals From My Ex" at https://myexbackcoach.com/getting-mixed-signals-ex-boyfriend-girlfriend/ How to Handle Mixed Signals from Your Ex: A Balanced Approach to Getting Them Back If you've ever been on the receiving end of mixed signals from your ex, you know how confusing and frustrating it can be. One moment, they seem interested in rekindling the relationship, and the next, they pull away, leaving you in emotional limbo. This push-pull dynamic is a common...
Oct 19, 2024•15 min•Ep. 175
Rudyard Kipling’s poem "If" is a classic piece written nearly a century ago by the British poet. In the poem, Kipling offers a series of guiding principles, directing his son—and by extension, all of us—on how to live life to the fullest. The poem emphasizes the importance of perseverance, discipline and personal growth. It encourages resilience in the face of life's challenges, reminding readers to persevere through adversity and always strive to rise above tough situations. "If you can keep yo...
Oct 17, 2024•2 min•Ep. 174
