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Chosen Family

CHOSEN FAMILY is a weekly podcast with 3 queer internet stars on the rise: Alayna Joy, Ashley Gavin, and Mak Ingemi. With their unique perspectives they mimic a typical heteronormative family. Each week they bring a topic to the "dinner table", give each other advice and answer listener questions about queer life, dating, sex, etc.
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Episodes

Flirting With ChatGPT

This week Ashley, Mak, and Alayna find out what ChatGPT really thinks about them. The answers surprise them, including discovering that ChatGPT is actually…queer? FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtub...

Dec 04, 202457 minEp. 110

Ashley Apologizes (Again)

Ashley issues another public apology. Alayna, Mak, and Ashley talk about the talents they mistakenly thought they had as kids. Mak and Alayna discuss food obsessions. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.yo...

Nov 27, 202455 minEp. 109

Traumatic Pet Stories

Mak, Alayna, and Ashley tell traumatic stories about their former pets. This week’s question: Could you date someone with the same name as your sibling or parent? FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtub...

Nov 20, 202455 minEp. 108

Thank You, Daddy

A revealing voice memo of Mak’s is unearthed. Alayna and Ashley share gay baby pictures. The fam discuss the dangers of burnout, revisit the lesbian commune plan, and try to answer a difficult question: What does romantic love feel like? FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomed...

Nov 13, 202451 minEp. 107

Mak Enters The Void Room

Mak, Alayna, and Ashley get vulnerable. Ashley vents about her PTSD, Mak tries to identify her emotions, and Alayna reveals an upcoming event that is making her nervous. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www...

Nov 06, 202454 minEp. 106

How Alayna Realized She Was Gay

Mak and Alayna roast Ashley’s new fall outfits. Alayna explains the thought process that led her to realize she was gay. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.co...

Oct 30, 202458 minEp. 106

Starting A Lesbian Commune

Ashley, Alayna, and Mak plan their ultimate lesbian commune. Alayna tries not to traumatize her in-laws that are in the next room. Mak unlocks a new level of healing through sports. TW: Discussions of suicide 34:52-39:37 FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: http...

Oct 23, 202454 minEp. 104

Forcing Alayna To Feel Her Feelings

Discussing 9/11 conspiracy theories, Alayna’s mental state along with her strange dream about Ashley, and how to mentally prepare for big moments. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs T...

Oct 16, 202453 min

The One Where We All Cry

Alayna launches her podcast, Mak joins a flag football league, and Ashley confesses her love for Taylor Swift. This week’s question: What songs make you cry? Watch Alayna's new podcast Sleeping Around: https://pod.link/1766365018 FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instag...

Oct 09, 202454 minEp. 102

Mak Goes To Therapy

We delve into Mak’s inner psyche after she asks Alayna an important question: How do you know you have a good therapist? FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.co...

Oct 02, 20241 hr 1 minEp. 101

Ashley Is Quitting Comedy

Ashley reveals a surprising career pivot. Mak discusses a controversial film that disturbed her, prompting a discussion of queer media at large. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twi...

Sep 25, 202458 minEp. 100

Chappell Roan Is A Lesbian

Unpacking Chappell Roan’s meteoric rise to fame and resulting boundary-setting. Also: Aubrey Plaza on a golf cart and Addison Rae’s new music video. This week’s question is from a listener who feels unattractive in their relationship. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy I...

Sep 18, 202456 minEp. 99

Trying To Get Laid In Scotland Pt. 2

Mak and Alayna do a dramatic reenactment of Ashley’s text exchange with a certain someone from last week. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/AshGavs FOLLO...

Sep 11, 202452 minEp. 98

Trying To Get Laid In Scotland

In a surprising turn of events, Mak and Alayna give Ashley a pep talk when she becomes nervous about a potential date. A listener asks what Mak, Alayna, and Ashley would bring to a Chosen Family potluck. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram...

Sep 04, 202447 minEp. 97

Alayna Has Reached Her Limit

Ashley, Alayna, and Mak discuss the purpose of cancelling, the right way to do a queer dating show, and the different types of inner monologues. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twi...

Aug 28, 202451 minEp. 96

This Is Why You Need A Prenup

Mak comes to Mom and Dad with a very grown-up question. Alayna recounts an unexpectedly messy solo hike. This week’s listener question: How do you fairly handle finances in a partnership without creating resentment? FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://w...

Aug 21, 202452 minEp. 95

Answering Spicy Questions At The Airport

Daddy reports live from the airport lounge and answers some inappropriate questions that traumatize fellow travelers. Alayna, Mak, and Ashley also give advice to a listener who wants to cultivate a natural “BDE”. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www....

Aug 14, 202453 minEp. 94

Ashley's...Gamer Era?

Ashley, Alayna, and Mak have a heated discussion about video games. Ashley advocates for her dream non-Pride parade. This week’s question involves career advice for a listener who feels behind in life. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.c...

Aug 07, 202454 minEp. 93

Alayna's Girlfriend Is Gone

This week, the fam discuss the joys and icks of pimple popping. Alayna tracks her girlfriend on her kayaking trip, Mak reveals the truth about dolphins, and everyone advises a listener on formal wear. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.co...

Jul 31, 202453 minEp. 92

Our Paranormal Experiences

Alayna recounts all of the paranormal experiences she’s had over the years and talks about her haunted doll, to Mak’s horror. This week’s question helps out a listener who wants to tell their family that their religious beliefs have changed. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavsc...

Jul 24, 202454 minEp. 91

Memories From Jesus Camp

Alayna and Mak unpack their trauma from going to Church Camp and what triggers it. Ashley recovers from bombing big time on stage. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://...

Jul 17, 202452 minEp. 90

Jealousy In Our Relationships

While Baby is with the sitter, it’s date night for Mom and Dad! Ashley and Alayna discuss jealousy and their different experiences in the closet, and Alayna incites a search into a photo that acted as her gay awakening. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https...

Jul 10, 202448 minEp. 89

We've Been Lying To You

Ashley, Alayna, and Mak talk about their favorite and least favorite fan interactions. Alayna explains why she feels haunted by the name Emily. This week’s listener question involves an allegedly straight roommate who is giving mixed signals. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavs...

Jul 03, 202451 minEp. 88

Unpacking Parental Trauma

Ashley recovers from a shot, Mak discusses her blossoming femininity, and Alayna discusses her love of horror movies. This week’s listener question tackles supportive parenting tips for a Dad. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgav...

Jun 26, 202446 minEp. 87

Mak's Best Prank Yet

Mak pulls off a masterful prank and Alayna shares sad news about her spoon carving journey. The fam also discuss the impact smartphones have had on mental health and tools for sensory issues. This week’s listener question involves the pros and cons of coming out in the workplace. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs T...

Jun 19, 202449 minEp. 86

When Your Partner Has A Crush

Ashley recovers from another eventful weekend. Alayna shares her anxieties as she begins booking guests for her new podcast. This week’s question: Would you want to know if your partner had a crush on someone else? FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://ww...

Jun 12, 202451 minEp. 85

When You Hate Your Friend's Partner

Ashley, Alayna, and Mak debrief on their first impressions of each other’s partners, and discuss what to do when you hate the person your friend is dating. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@...

Jun 05, 202442 minEp. 84

3 Gays 1 Hotel Room: The Sequel

The fun is never-ending as Mak, Ashley, and Alayna gather once again for an in-person dinner. Learn about Ashley’s recent breakup, Mak’s fraught relationship with elevators, and Alayna’s news about school. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagr...

May 29, 20241 hr 1 minEp. 83

3 Gays 1 Hotel Room

It’s happening! Mom, Dad, and Baby all in the same room. Join them as they discuss why Ashley puked on stage, how Mak was traumatized by a crab, and a listener question on how to let anger out. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashga...

May 22, 202452 minEp. 82

Giving Her The Ick ft. Mattea Ingemi

As Dad wraps up her worldwide tour, Alayna and Mak take over with special guest Mattea. Find out how Alayna and Mak deal with their sensory issues and how Mak accidentally gave her girlfriend the ick. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.co...

May 15, 20241 hrEp. 81
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