Whoa. What's up, beautiful people. It is your baby mama, favorite baby Mama, Stormy P. And welcome to another episode of Chocolate Chip and Sip the modern day female perspective. Damson back at it again, boom and back at it again is my favorite co host, seventh the Dog. You're gonna hear him panting in their background because this is his home. He can do whatever you wanna do. Okay, when he's at his studio, he can pant wherever he wants to pant. All right, All that aside,
listen, before we get too far into it, don't forget Philly. I am coming to you all right September fifteenth at World Cafe Live. Me and East your Heart Out podcasts have linked up, and I can't wait to see y'all because you know what, y'all be having a lot of this energy in the comments, a lot of this, a whole lot of this, and I want to see it in person, all right, So clickton link in my bio or go to www dot Stormy p dot com and gets your tickets
right now to the Sip Your Heart Out Live show. We're gonna giveaways, We're gonna have prizes and We're gonna have a few special guests. So if you want to see all that, get your tickets right now. Don't be like last time, because every time I have a show, especially in Philadelphia, y'all like to wait till the day before and then text me talking about, Oh, you you still got some more tickets left. You think you
could squeeze out one more thing. No, I can't, and I can't and I don't, Okay, So to avoid all that, get your tickets right now. All right, I can't wait to see y'all. So, y'all, the theme of this episode, it's gonna be dating sucks, but so does my vibrator. Yeah, I'm gonna say that again. Dating sucks, but so does my vibrator. And this is just a realization that I've come to within the last week. Y'all. I'm tired, I'm frustrated,
I'm tired. I hate it, okay, But I don't hate it from the standpoint of, oh, it's so trash'all here the dating pool has p in it. I'm not. I'm not. I don't hate it from that aspect. I have a different perspective. I hate it because if I've done the work on myself and I'm genuinely a good person. It shouldn't be this freaking hard. Am I tripping? Am I tripping? If I've done the work on myself and I'm genuinely a good person, ain't I'm a little cute, y'all? And I've been in a gym. The body is bought
in like it really shouldn't be this heart It is mind boggling. And before y'all hating with the oh you attract what you are and no, no, none of that. I think that my problem is I have those traits for myself. I have done the work. I'm genuinely good person. I'll be in a gym, my body's body and I'm a little cute. Finding that isn't as easy as one would think, regardless if you're talking about in a male or female, finding somebody who's able to reciprocate all of that is not
as easy as one would think. Like, and then I'm not gonna lie on. I'll be getting into my feelings and I'm like, oh, man, all these people out here in relationships, it should have been me, Lord, it should have been me. But then I have to remember a lot of those same people aren't happy in their relationships, and a lot of those same people are people that I wouldn't even want to be in a relationship
with. So we're just gonna go through a few things. I know it's been a few weeks since we've dropped the episode, so I'm just gonna take you on a journey what I've been doing this past few weeks, and you know, come along. Laugh. It's okay, you're gonna laugh because I'll be laughing at my damnsuf. You're gonna laugh. We're gonna laugh together. We're gonna figure this shit out, y'all. I don't care what y'all think or what y'all say. I am determined to be in matching pajamas this Christmas.
That's what I want. I want that for me. I need that for me. I am claiming that for me. I will be in matching pajamas and be happy with the person that you know I'm in matching pajamas with. And it's fucked up because I know, like you know, me and God we locked in right like Jesus is my home boy. I know he's gonna hear this and be like, all right, I got you, bet, And I'm be in matching pajamas with my son, and he would be like, hey, bitch, you wasn't specific enough. You ain't say you
wanted to be in match pajamas with your man. You just say you want to be in MATCHI pajamas. So here you go. Here's the same size for you and your son. Go what what I feel like? It's it's all gets right now. That's five months. I can find somebody in five months to be in match your pajamas with you, don't think so? Tapping on alive, let me know, I think five months is more than enough
time to be uh in matching pajamas. Being single is a really weird place to be, as I take that back, being single and being attractive, it's like everyone's always like, oh my god, so many people be in your dms, Like, I know, you just have your your pickings. Like being single and being attractive, it's hard. Everyone always thinks, oh, I know, you got a lot of people in your DMS. I got a lot of people in my DMS trying to fuck me, not trying
to marry me. Like it's a difference. A lot of people out here aren't really actively trying to be married and being relationships. So like before you go judging, somebody, take a break. Okay, take a break and think about why are you in my DMS? Why are why are you in my DMS? What's the last thing you said to me in my DMS? Was it, oh my god, I think you will make a wonderful wife, or was it damn, I just want to be a sweat between your
titties exactly exactly which one was it? Which one was it? So yeah, think about that. I say all that to say I've been seven stopped licking your nuts. I say all that to say, I'm trying to be into seven. You gotta go, seven, you gotta go, let's go. I say all that to say I can't hear them over there. Okay. I say all that to say, right, you know, I say all that to say I was trying to I'm not gonna lie, y'all be
honest, we family, i'mna be honest. I was taking part in practices that I don't condone, meaning I allowed a few people to spend the block. I know, I know, I hate that for me too. I hate that for me too, But I believe in second chances. So you know what I said, I'm working on myself. Maybe they don't work on themselves. Like, you know, things could have happened, right spoiler alert, they didn't happen. Spoiler alert, nothing happened, nothing changed. Waste
my fucking time. So one of my little dips, I'll just spend the block. I realized this nigga he getting old. Like I allowed one of my dips to spend the block, and when he came back, I was like, oh my god, he's getting old. Now. Before you say, oh, just because he got a gray hair, Oh, just cause some time it's passed. Oh you want to go to bed early? No,
none of that. We go out to a restaurant, have a nice smell, having a great time, and so the waitress acts if we want dessert, and he says yes, and can you bring us two mugs of hot water? Okay, okay. So she brings the mugs and this nigga pulls out two packs of probiotic tea. What this man pulls out his pocket two packs of probiotic tea. I said, wow, bro, you you're
getting old now. This man is genuinely older than me. He got me by like six or seven years, so he is older than me he is genuinely getting old, but it's like, I don't want no fucking probiotic d okay after my meal, and he's now trying to sell me like, well, it's good for your gut health and it's gonna do blah blah blah blah blah, and I'm like, I just wanted my crim roulet to go like I didn't ask for no probiotic take, and then like the same for the
record, though, I'm probably never gonna see him again, as you gonna start there, and it's not because of the probiotic take. I'm probably never gonna see him again because while we were at this same outing, I had a lemon to like put on my seafood right, and the lemon dropped on the table, So I asked, await your excuse me? Can you raring me some more lemons? And he was like, oh, so you can suck a dick, but you can't suck a lemon that has been fellow on
the table. No, I can't, No, I can't. I don't even understand how you got those two together. I don't even understand the correlation between those two. So as if as if, nah, I told you get a fucking mic shot. I told you, I was confused because I'm like, I don't get the correlation between dropping the lemon on the table and sucking it. But I'm never gonna see you again, I you know what.
And I wasn't mad at him. I didn't take it out no type of way because in my mind, I was like, girl, you already know you don't let people spend a block, So whenever you have coming to you is just what you have coming to you, because you know not the letting nigga spend a block. So that was it. That was it. I try to let someone else spend a block. And this one went a little differently because it wasn't that it was a bad thing. It just was
okay. What they don't tell you about like healing, is that once you're healed, and once you've done the work you it makes it more easy to spot the red flags and other people like you pick up on it so fast and what there's a reflection of your past self or reflection of something that you already worked through. Like it's real easy, Like it's it's harder for someone to play in your face. It should be anyway, So I realize A, I really still have a crush on this person, which is weird because
I know I do not be liking people. That was the first thing took me by surprise. B I realized, is it a crush or am I just infastuated with this person? Cause I have been since I was a fucking teenager. Right then, see, I realize, okay, you're just trying to use me as a rebound respectfully, respectfully. This person had just got out of relationship with his child's mother, and I don't think he realizes that
he's trying to use me as a rebound yet. But because I was infastuated when I'm was like, oh, yeah, you know, fine, what's up? That's cool, Like I'll take what I can get. And then y'all, I had to snap back out of it because we're not doing that. We're not doing that. We're not doing that. We're not we're not allowing people to spend the block just to be a seat holder, Like what
the fuck you want me to be a fucking place spiller? Like, yes, I enjoyed the treats and the dates and everything that I can get while you're potentially using me as a rebound. But it's like, I don't want that shit. I want a husband, and I gotta keep that mindset in my rand, Like y'all, I want a husband. I want a husband. I want a husband. Yeah, not just matched with Jama as a whole husband. I needs that. I needs that. More of the story
is fuck that anybody spending block ever again. They ruined it for both of y'all. These two people ruined it for everyone. You know. I think, like, uh, once every three years, I'll allow someone to spend a block, and these two just ruined it for all y'allself, I hate that for y'all. Every three years, yeah like a like a I was gonna say, like, what happens every three years? Don't cicadas come out every so often? Like I'm treat these niggas spending a block like cicadas.
I feel like they come out like once every so many years. From underground, I might have made that up too. I don't know another thing they popped up on my head from this past few weeks since we've been out and about men who practice self care is top tier. Men who practice self care's top tier. I love that for you, like you you book a spot day every once in a while. Moist, you get manicures. Moist. Okay, you get facials, moist, moist like baby, you like to
turn the lights off, light a candle and read a book. Moist. You like to take baths every once in a while, moist like Men who practice self care whatever it is, whether it's picking up a good book, you know, setting inside me time for yourself, you know, get in your car detailed every so often. Because self care comes in many ways. Men who practice self care make me moist. I'm talking about pound cake moist. Okay, Shott said, But be a nigga about it. I don't.
I don't think you have to be a man when you're practicing self care. Okay, okay, but that's something different. I don't. I don't think that. I don't. I don't. I don't think that you have to be a man or be manly to practice self care, because that a part of your self care could be yo, Like, I can take off this cloak or this cosplay that I have to put on for the world all the time, so I can just be me. I can just have that
space to be vulnerable. Yeah, I can't have that space to have peace and be vulnerable right, but whatever it is, if you practice self care, I think that's it. Hey, y'all, I just wanted to remind y'all. Philly, September fifteenth, I'll be at World Cafe Live with East from the East Your Heart Out Podcast. Don't forget get your tickets now, don't wait till the last minute, ask me, because I ain't got shipped for you. Okay, So I don't want to talk about like some things
that I couldn't really put together in my head. You know, these past few weeks, I've been trying to be reflective and certain things just weren't making sense to me. For example, right, And I want y'all if you're watching on live, to answer in the comments. Right when a man says I want you to slapt me out? What do that mean? And I'm gonna repeat this. I'm gonna repeat it. I'm gonna repeat it. When a man says I want you to slapt me out? What do that mean?
When a man says I want you to slapt me out? What does that mean? Like? Cause in my mind right, because y'all know, in my mind, oh you want me eat your ass? Because like, what does a man getting splat it out mean two men? Two men? Like, this is an honest question. What does I want you to slapt me out? Mean to you? Like? Cause in my mind, you want me to eat your ass. You want me to disrespect you? Like, is that what it is? You want me to disrespect you? Baby?
What is it it? Like? What's the man version of saying that? That's what men say? I don't think it's I don't think it's it's it's gender specific. It's just like, Yo, what do y'all mean when y'all say y'all want us to slut you out? Like you want me to eat your ass, You want me disrespect you want to put my finger in you? But it's a rim job, oh, rusty trump bone? Like,
what is it? What do you want? Because? Like when women say that, like, we want that like intense, you know, Like if I say I want you to sut me out, I want to be fucked, I want you to give me four head kisses after risk though, but I want you, I want I want you to fuck me like real bad. So I was thinking, like, what does that mean when men say I want you to sut me out? Do y'all want fourhead kisses to
like is that a thing? Like after the sledding out has taken place, do I have to you know, re re re recuperate, like help you recuperate? Like what? Well? Then, I mean, shit, it depends on what we're doing to slut you out, because you you might need to sit on the donut for a bit. You might need to ice that thing. We don't know, we don't know. Oh oh, yeah, my bad. I forgot who was on Facebook? Y'all? I forgot. I got a dial it back of it. But yeah, that was That
was the long story. Sure. The only thing I got from it is disrespect, Like please d and me or email me and tell me. What does it mean when a man says I want you to let me out. M only comment I've gotten on Facebook other than you with someone saying, oh my work. Yeah, I should have put a not safe for work drawing up here, but so what I cursed by? Now? You you should have known put your earphones on your Yeah, but I'm on Facebook. If
you're listening on audio, I'm on Facebook live today. I usually go alive on Instagram and yeah, so I'm gonna try to get better at it, y'all. I'm just get my life together next, if I come to your house on some late night tip, right, If you invite me to your house on a late night tip and I show up with a bonnet on and crocks, you know why I'm here. Okay. If you invite me to your house on a late night tip and I show up with a bonnet on and crocks, you know why I'm here. Stop playing, Stop playing.
Don't be trying to get all into me and asks, oh have you seen day clone Tyrone? No, I'm trying to see yo tyrone. Pull it out. Stop playing with me. Stop playing with me. You know why I came here. Okay, my body already arm bro, My bondy is already arm bro. I'm gonna put these crocks in sports mode and wear that ass out. Stop playing with me. Stop playing with me, and I get it. I'll be trying to be respectful. I love that, But baby, I can came with the bonnet already going now at the time.
Okay. If I would have came like with my spinning night bag. If I would have came with my spinning night bag and like you know, my bonnet and like you know, my big T shirt and my toothbrush, Okay, cool, we got some time the chilling relax. But I already came suited up. I already came from my uniform. Bro, Like wait, wait, what are we doing here? Why are we wasting the time?
Like? And I think the part that really gets me is don't try to put on like no, no, no, no good ass show or documentary on Netflix or something like that, Like, don't put on nothing that like I'm low key gonna be trying to pay attention to while you clapping the cheeks. Put on to the background music, stop playing with me? Put on put on Family Guy. Put on Family Guy, or like what's good like background shows, the office is good, or like other stuff that you can
fall asleep too. You're not gonna be invested in, you know, like clapping cheeks shows yea, reruns of anything, reruns of anything last sic. Put on something that you can clap these cheeks too, And I'm not gonna be invested in, respectfully, Like I I think that, especially if you have a connection with somebody, you should be able to be honest and be like, yo, I'm what's up? You know why I'm here? What's his name? Marshall Lednche who says that is that, Marshall Ledge, you
know why I'm here? Like, yo, come on Jesus, when Facebook said, oh you're still getting at work? Okay, yeah, but can we get to it faster? Can we not like pretend and play games? It's a respect thing. Well okay, well, well, well we'll add this to the previous conversation. When you say you want me to slut you out, you're saying you want to show up to my house, have me put on the office and have you clap my cheeks and go that's slutting out? Like is that? Is that included? And now I want you to
slupt me out? Fellas, I'm still waiting on answer. What does it mean? Listen, I don't know. I think that I think I don't know. No, shot, you don't got Mike my last thing. We'll not my last thing, but something else that just popped in my mind. I am never going to propose to a man. Never. Never. I would rather drag my bare coucie across the sidewalk on the fourth of July than proposed to a man respectfully. Yeah. Yeah, I'm spreading hot tune or
tartar all down the goddamn street because I would never. I would never. I would never, I would never. Now let me tell you why y'all would never though, right, And ladies, y'all get me mad. I know y'all be mad. You're not gonna like what I'm about to say. But just listen, just listen, Just listen. Okay, don't talk, just listen, all right, There is almost no benefit for a man to
get married respectfully. Right, So when we have situations where women out number men already, and then from that number you have to account for, if you're someone like me, those that are black. From that number, we then have to account for those that are heterosexual. From that number, you then have to account for the ones that aren't incarcerated. Right. So,
now we went from like a bajillion men to twelve. Right now, if I'm a man and I know that like a bajillion women now want me, I know it's like, you know, whatever I want for me to propose to a man doesn't make sense because he's already isn't getting any perks of this. So like I would rather just be chosen. Now, don't get it twisted. I'm gonna shoot my mother, fuck shot. I'm going to I'm always going to approach you. Man, I'm always gonna side in DMS.
If I see you, I like you, I won't chuck. I'm gonna let it be now right. But as far as going to the extreme of dirtying up my knee, I can't do it. I can't do it. That's not for me. That's not for me. Someone said, God, damn all that, Yes, yes, all that, all that and more, it's just not for me. I don't want to do that. I have no desire to propose to a man because, like he, I don't know, fella's tepping you. Would you would you want a girl to propose
to you? Would you want a girl to propose to you? Would you want your girl to get down on one knee and be like, Yo, I love you and I want to love you forever. Let's get married. I don't know. I don't know. I can't do it. It's not for me. I'm not saying I got anything against women who do it. I'm just saying, God, ain't bless me with that ministry. That's not that's not for me. It's not for me. It's not for me.
Someone on Facebook lives said, fuck no, I don't know, and then here's the character though, right, fellas, I need you to really think about it in here, especially if you're in a relationship. What would you do if you went out to dinner you took your girl? Oh my god, fellas, what would you do your girl? Says y'all, Going out
to dinner, get dressed. It's a fancy restaurant. You get there and all your family and friends and loved ones are there, and you turn around and it's Hussy is on the floor on one knee proposing to you in front of everybody. Oh my god. I am cringing thinking about it. And not because it's not a disk towards women. That's not what this is in my mind. Respectfully, I really feel like the man would feel like you're
disrespecting him. I think as a man. If I was a man, I would feel disrespected, like you're taking a piece of my manhood await from me? Do that make sense? Like you're stealing something from me that's not for you to do. Like I would feel so disrespect I would bop her. And I wouldn't bop her. I wouldn't boper. I I wouldn't boper. But y'all, I don't know I don't know. What would y'all do?
I don't know. I don't know. As a if I was a man, I would immediately try to pull her up, like, immediately try to pull her up. Please don't, please don't. And then like is she proposing with like a wedding band? Is it an engagement ring? But niggas, like what is happening? I don't know. I don't know when women propose, do they have like a ring? Or is it a wedding band? Like? What is it? Chance saying all my three friends would tell her? An Now what if she don't tell your friends? Were they
doing? Like y'all, I'm just throwing them a surprise party? Oh my god, I don't know. Okay, Now what if she uses it? Like yo, you just gotta promotion at work, everybody's celebrating. You don't know, like she can use many things to get you there? Seven God, Lee, my boy is tearing his nuts up this week. Oh my god, I cannot And you know what's crazy? Seven is like a big, big big dog. So he's just be get getting it in, getting
it in, getting it in, getting in. So as we keep going here more things that have just popped across my mind within these past few weeks. I don't know who needs to hear this, but these niggas got favorites. Yeah, yeah, men have favorites. And if your man isn't doing what you want him to do, you're not one of his favorites. Respectfully, Respectfully, like men have favorites. And if the guy you're dating isn't doing what you want him to do, you're just not one of his favorites.
Like when they when they when they be feeling them and they like him, they be doing it, all of it. And I know you're like, what what do you mean everything? You keep begging you on, nigga, do they be doing it? You don't gotta ask some twice. You don't gotta do nothing. They'd be doing it. So instead of complaining, and I feel like we talked about this a few weeks ago, instead of complaining that your guy isn't doing something, recognize the game. Acknowledge that you're
just not one of his favorites. That's it, respectfully, And I want y'all to know that sometimes when we be having these conversations, it really come from a lot of the stuff I see y'all complaining about on Facebook. I know. Oh, I know, y'all gonna be mad. I know I
hate that for us. I hate that for us, But in all actuality, I hate that for you because I literally see the same three or four topics continuously pop up on my timeline from different women, and it's like, how how long before we get into a space of them niggas don't like you? It keeps chating on you. Okay, you keep asking him, do simple things, show some interest, take some of the ship. Is blah blah blah blah. He ain't doing it. Like, at what point do
we acknowledge he don't like me? Hey, don't like me. But in the same token, I think that's the more important point. We need to stop dating people we don't like we do. It's it's trash. It's trash, and it's not healthy. Okay, Oh my god, y'all that guy I'm laughing because the guy on Live he just said, help me push my van. But it was a guy who I helped pushes. Ah. I just wanted to say, it's like certain things that people do when they're dating.
It's like, I can tell you never had a serious girlfriend, and I don't know if that makes sense, Like there are certain things that men do when dating, Like I can tell you just never had a serious girlfriend. For example, if you don't know how to take good pictures of me, I can tell you never had serious girlfriend. Okay, you've never been trained properly. You would have not been trained properly on how to take pictures. Do you even know about lighting? Bro, the sun should be in
front of me? Okay? Do you even know about angles? Get down on a squat? Squat tilted up? Okay, thank you? Like tell me that my hair needs to be smushed on one side. Tell me that you know I need to straighten up, suck it in, help me, like you acting you don't even wanna do this. That's how I know you never had a serious girlfriend, because if you did, you would be trained,
and you wouldn't know, you would know, you wouldn't know. I feel like, if you had a serious girlfriend, she's gotten on your nerves enough to make you be aware of Like, there are certain things you need to do when I do. Like, I don't know if y'all saw Damson Adris who's Lorie Harvey's boyfriend, Dampson? Right? Yeah, what's not? Oh my god? Anyway, So Damson uh commedy on Lorie Harvey's photos. Like now, stop saying I don't take good pictures, because it's a thing.
It is a thing like this this, and you know what, I don't know if you're heard shot say he don't have no patience, which oh I was gonna say. That pissed me off, because you're literally a photographer. You should be taking the best pictures of your girlfriend. She should never complain. I don't think it's that we don't have patience. I acknowledge that men don't have patience. Yall the pictures, It doesn't matter. It doesn't
matter if I take fifty here's the thing, here's the thing. I don't give a fuck if I make you take three hundred and fifty nine pictures and I only post two of them. Just do what I'm asking you to do. Okay, I'm gonna take fifty pictures to get one good picture because I have to work my angles. I have to do this, this, this, this, this, which one. I need to know. I have to have options. Nothing wrong with having options. Men love having options when
it come to women. Okay, so let me tilt my head in each corner of this room until I find an angle that I like, thank you. Long story short, if you're over a certain age, you should know how to take good pictures men, and if you don't, it's probably because you never had a serious girlfriend. So the lib says, best pics look spontaneous. Oh, I love me some fake off guard jewels. They're not really off guard, but they look like it's off guard. Like some spontaneous
jewels. Like, yeah, I like those. I like those a lot. Those are my favorite. And you know what I like. I like when uh, okay, I do what I don't with people that I'm actually dating seriously and tapped in with. I like when they send me pictures that they took of me when work together but I didn't know, like, oh I look cute, thank you. That's what i'd be looking like. Okay, yeah, like I like that, like, but only if we're tapped in. If I'm like in the midst of cutting you off, where I
mentally already cut you off. Now you're stalking me. Now I need a PFA because come on, I don't care. I don't care because I'm already trying to cut you off in my mind. But if if I like you, like you, oh, that means you like me. Bag. Like, if I like you, like you and you'd be sneaking pictures of me, they like affirms that you like me. Bag No, I think so it's sweet if I like you. If I don't, Hello police, that's it, that's it. Oh okay, it is a double standard for like,
Man, I don't get fucked. I'm real, I'm be real, Jaed, I'm gonna tell you why I don't care, all right, because it's not a gender thing. Men and women know exactly what I'm talking about. When you like someone, actions are completely different than when they're coming from someone that you don't like. Like, if you're interested or invested in somebody, you you're taking off guard pictures of me. It's sweet, okay, you you texting me every night is sweet? Okay. If I'm not interested
in you, you're taking off guard pictures of me, it's harassment. Oh that's something that you can qualify somebody like you to know, Like shot said, is there a way for you to know that? But that's not something that you know. No oh no, no, no, no no, no, I don't think it's I don't think let me start over. Yeah, I think that that is something that you should know, like we are or we aren't on that level where you should be taking pictures of me,
like unless I ask you too, of course. But yeah, boundies, boundaries, boundaries, next thing, And once again, ladies, don't be mad. This is a safe space. But sometimes I'll be having to tell you about yourself, and it's the last thing I'm gonna say. All right, men don't mind spending money. Men don't like spending money on broke women. And that's just what it is. Men don't mind spending money. They
just don't like spending money on broke women. Like if you're giving the energy of you're asking him to do all the things that you can't do for yourself, He's not gonna want to do them. It's a turn off. It's a it's a fucking turn off. It's a big turn off. And I don't think that women have acknowledged or have acknowledged are willing to accept that. Like it's nothing wrong with saying, like, yo, if you want to date me, you you have to take me to a certain type of restaurant.
I'm gonna go get steak forty eight or whatever the case may be. You know, I'm gonna take that back. I'm gonna take that, man, I'm gonna take that. It's nothing wrong with you asking a man to take you to Steak forty eight or to some famous steakhouse. The problem comes in is when you go out with your girlfriends, y'all go to Friday's. That's where the skinneck is happening. Like yeah, Like if you are requiring a man to do something for you that you can't do for yourself or you
don't do when you're out by yourself, that's crazy. They don't like that, and they can sense it too. They can sense it like, Hm, this isn't gonna last long. They're probably still gonna hit. For the record, I don't want to give I don't want y'all to think that like I'm giving too much credit. But they're probably still going to hit, but they don't like it. I met a girl with the live says, I
met a girl with the craziest double standard. She says that she just wants the f around, but the guys that she f around with are not the type of guys she would take serious. However, the type of guy she likes, qualities, interests, et cetera. Are the type that want long term relationships, but she don't want a long term relationship. She complains that dudes who are down to f around have boring personalities and have no common interest.
Oh that's interesting, that's interesting. Let me read that again. Yeah, she says that she just wants to f around, but the guys that she f around with are not the type of guy she would take serious because there have boring personalities, no common interest. H Hm, that's interesting. You don't if I'm like, I'm gonna punch him. Okay, I M first of all, yes, that is I don't. I don't know if
that would be a double standard. I think she needs to acknowledge that, uh, this is not going to end well for her, Like, I had to think about this a few times before I wrote this last for my ass off, the guys that she likes to f around with are boring. I've honestly never heard that. I'm not gonna lie like I've heard the standpoint of oh, I want a relationship, but the guys who I like relationships or who I like for the relationships are boring. Like that is a new
standpoint for me. I've never heard that. First of all, it's usually the guys and relationships are boring or they know how to manage their anger, so it's unexciting, Like that's what I hear, right, But that's what I hear. Like, and it's like, so I choose to deal with these F boys because they're more fun. That is that is what I see. That is what I hear. That's that I received from women. Right, So the fact that she's saying that the F boys are boring is crazy.
So he says, My thing is, why are F guys are boring? I mean, he boring? Under uninteresting? How long? How does it even turn you on? I was gonna say that too, like, if the guys you're choosing to just like play around with are boring, why are you doing that? Like respectfully, that doesn't sound like something that I will be interested in because I'm not going to join my time here. If he's boring, my cat is bored. So I don't want to give it
to you. I don't understand that. Like, I think she need to go talk to the lady for sure. For sure? Does that count as our edible for today? That can be our edible for today? Right? Yeah? That could be our question? Yeah, okay, whatever, let's do it. Man, Listen, I just wanted to say before I get out of here. September fifteenth, World Cafe Live, don't forget feeling. I'm going to be with you. You're gonna be with me. We're gonna have a thing. Okay, Billy is going down. September fifteenth, World
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