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Beat, My cheeky is I just had a question. So I don't know why, but I have a difficult time Letty and my boyfriend take care of me. You know, he does have a really good job. He obviously makes more than me. But I just feel bad asking him for help when I need help financially, or even allowing him to pay for things that I mean, he obviously could pay for. I don't know what to do about it, and it's kind of getting to the point where it's kind of bothering him that I don't allow him to
help me. But I don't know. I don't know if it's like the independent woman in me or I don't know why I feel like that. I just need some advice because I feel like I'm getting out of hand. Thank you, love you by oh.
Mama Sif I get you, I understand it is for sure that whole independent I got this, I could do it myself. Thing that is good, but if it goes too far, it can be bad, especially with the man. And I'm telling you this from personal experience. A man wants to take care of his woman. Mind you. I don't know if I shared this here, but I can pay for my own nils when I go get my nails, and I love getting my nils done every week. And
I asked the media the other day. I was like, Babe, can you please send me some like through cash app. I don't have any more money in my cash app and he said, yeah, what do you need And I'm like, I want to get my nails done and I just want to have money in there, and he was like, yes, of course, and he sent me money and it made him feel so good. Mind you, I make money, I'm good, but it makes them feel needed and wanted and you have to feed that in him, because a man needs that.
He knows you got it. He loves you. He knows you're an independent woman. He knows that, but he also wants to feel my woman needs me, like I want to take care of her. It also could be an insecurity of yours that you're like, if I take, if I take, and then it doesn't work, and he's gonna throw it in my face. You gro We got to get that out of our head because it does is no good. They get it. They then you have to allow him. Just let him ask him like can I
have a hundred bucks? Don't say borrow? Can I have one hundred dollars? I want to get my nails done or whatever I need to pay this bill. He believe me, he's he's he's gonna love it. He's gonna love it because he knows you're an independent woman. He knows that already. You don't have to show him that. Let yourself be vulnerable and be loved. I promise you it'll make your relationship a lot better. We got to feed the king and our men. The more you feed that, they feel, oh,
it gets better. They're like they want to take care of you more, try it, let those guards down grow. It's the best thing you're gonna be able to do for yourself and for that man, for your relationship. Let me know how it goes. We're gonna move on to the next question. And her name is Raina.
First to the foremost. I want to say that you are my go to girl when I'm at work. I listen to you at work when I can. And another thing I want to commend you for guando this is con dios tolo. I just absolutely love that, and that just inspires me and makes me know what kind of person you are. You're very genuine and you just give me good vibes. I have a cheese my question. I
know that you're very open to your fans. I want to know how you feel about your Tapita and everything she has to say about in regards to your family, to your mom. Told you Alita because she's said some manner stuff. That's what I want to know. But take care and I'll still keep on listening to you. Okay. Bye.
Oh my god, Raina, you are so cute. I love your question. I love how you started off. Thank you so much, grateful and grateful to have you here. Okay, so my theia beat them. I don't talk to her a lot when I see her. She's gone on my concerts without ever asking me for a ticket. She buys her own tickets, her books, all my merch like. She's very supportive of my career, and she's always loved me. I've always I've never had an issue with her. She loved my mom very much. My mom loved her very much.
She has been a bit problematic in some ways in the family, never with me, but again, I never done anything to cause that with her. I know she has issues with my grandma and a lot of my family members and stuff. I don't necessarily agree with how she goes about it. To be honest, I don't like to like get involved or play into that because it's just it's a lot, you know, and our family is so public and it hurts me. You know, it hurts me
very much. If I have to come out and defend my siblings, I'm gonna do that, and I'm gonna say what I gotta say. But even then I try to be very careful because at the end of the day, there's love there. Things will never be the same. I highly doubt that, but I don't want anything bad to happen to them, you know. So my Tapita, like I have no issue with her, Like I honestly I love her. I'm grateful that she goes out there and defends me like sometimes, like I see that she defends me, I'm like, wow,
I've never not once asked her to do that. I think it's the love that and appreciation she has for my mom. And she's just like she's known me since she knows my heart, you know. So I'm just I'm grateful with that, and she supports my siblings. It's just there's so many things that have happened, and I'm going to leave it at that because a lot of the things she ain't lying, you know. Anyways, you know what.
That's it, Raina.
That's how am I end it? Because that's it. That's all I'm gonna say. But there's your question. I mean, that's the answer to your question. Thank you again for listening. Okay, guys, so we have another question from an anonymous listeners Animo.
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Mexico and Politica and Canal the Molocras then Borta or Bye Alice Grist for pre Junta Okay, guys, So she's basically asking me, for those of you that don't speak Spanish, she's asking me what I think about politics Mexico, United States, if I get involved, if I just ignore it altogether, Like what do I think? That's a great question. So
I'm gonna answer her in Spanish and I'll translate. Okay, por joke catas sore la politica la aurita and jo no meto mene is mi reson oago perom no mocho and la politica pork and new opinion st controller competamente affected em amne in mentalmente paro iago look jo sumano come persona comtista, the una Louisa was positiveneste mundo cambiar and my persona para job persona mental meneferte affected government, Jose came lost presidentes pen You are affected, you know
nomals and is the home affected especial public and put continues opomas dam more eluse as basicamente. So, guys, basically, what I told her is that I try my best not to get involved in politics, especially with this election that just happened. Of course, it's my responsibility to vote and to do my part, but I like to just separate myself because I feel like it's something that I don't have control over. It's something that even if I
wanted to change it, I can't. I just have to do my part and separate myself from it and really just do inner work and try to be a positive voice in the world and everything that I do, and just work on myself so that it doesn't mentally affect me as much, because I used to let it affect me a lot, and it was causing a lot of anger and anxiety in me, and I just decided to say, I'm just gonna do my part as a human being and help the world in any way that I can,
and try to get people to do more of that so that as a whole we feel better emotionally mentally. But I try not to get involved in politics, to be honest. So that's what I was telling her. Perro and La thank you everyone for listening to Dear Cheeky's and for watching. We appreciate you very much and we will catch you on the next episode of Dear Cheeky's. I Love you guys. This is a production of iHeart
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