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Cheating: When Love Lies

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Each week host Jillian Hamilton interviews affair partners and betrayed partners who share their raw, real deeply personal stories of infidelity. Hear true stories of cheating and affairs told by the people who actually lived them. Jillian delves into this taboo topic and asks the hard questions about affairs: what constitutes an affair, who's having them, and why? These questions elicit unexpected answers that reveal both men and women as people actively seeking something - validation, escape, understanding, vengeance, thrill, love, sex, and romance - outside of marriage or committed partnerships. Occasionally Cheating: When Love Lies welcomes experts in the field of relationships, but mostly we hear directly from people who are currently navigating an affair or have experienced one. 


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Episodes

Sad Mistress Who’ll Never Love Again - Interview with Bridget

Only the most endearing, vulnerable and authentic women can say things like: “ I loved douche bags …they were my kryptonite.” Or, “I thought I would be a prisoner of loving him forever…. I’d be a sad mistress who would never love anyone again.” Bridget Pheatsy, comedian, provocateur, and host of the hit podcast Walk- Ins Welcome is that kind of woman. On this episode Bridget shares her own personal stories of affairs and heartbreak. She describes with complete candor how she weaponized her sexua...

Nov 02, 202156 min

I Hated My Body So I Let Him Cheat - Interview with Erin Washington

Imagine you’re a Division 1 athlete in your prime. You have everything going for you - a great school, a promising future and you’re dating one of the hottest guys on campus. One day you decide to quit your sport, a sport that’s dominated your life since childhood, and suddenly your life spirals into an emotional disarray of eating disorders, body image issues and low self worth. Then sadly your hottest man on campus boyfriend starts cheating on you. This is what happened to my guest today, Erin...

Oct 26, 202149 min

Politicians, Affairs and Sex Scandals

My guest this episode is Anne Michaud author of “Why They Stay: Sex Scandals, Deals, and Hidden Agendas of Eight Political Wives" Michaud’s book recounts the stories of powerful political couples whose lives—both personal and public—were transformed by cheating. She explores what motivated each of these women to stand by their unfaithful man and, by consequence, augment his positive perception in the media as a virtuous American brand. Michaud contends that these wives were given little choice o...

Oct 19, 202150 min

Dangerous Liaisons: When Cheating Leads to Tragic Ends

On this episode called “Dangerous Liaisons: When Cheating Leads to Tragic Ends,” powerhouse attorney Marilyn B. Chinitz, a partner at Blank Rome joins me to discuss several of her most shocking cases where infidelity led to: exposing the abuses of a morally depraved mother, unmasking a serial pedophile, and solving a brutal murder. Chinitz shares the stories behind these high profile cases as we explore how infidelity can escalate to unthinkable ends. Chinitz and I discuss the extent of emotiona...

Oct 12, 202145 min

How Celebs, Billionaires + Legends Cheat - Interview with Mark Simone

On this episode I talk with star radio host and iconic media personality, Mark Simone. Mark is the host of the #1 radio show in New York City from 10 AM - noon every weekday on 710 WOR and nationally on iHeart radio. Also known as Mr. New York, Mark shares titillating and shocking stories of cheating and affairs among New York’s glitterati, the Hollywood elite, international billionaires and music legends. Mark gives us an up close and personal view into the world of high style cheating and affa...

Oct 05, 202149 min

Can Musicians Tour Without Cheating? An Interview With Tom “The Suit” Forst

Tom “The Suit” Forst has been touring the world as what one critic calls a “blues ass-kicker” for decades. He’s traveled the world without his wife as a blues musician and before that as “a suit” in the corporate world. Because of this, Tom has an up close and personal view of how tempting cheating and affairs on the road can be. In our talk, Tom gets vulnerable, raw, and very real as he shares anecdotes about life on the road, and reveals how infidelity has at times become a theme in his music....

Sep 28, 202148 min

To Forgive Or Not To Forgive: That Is The Dilemma

What should you do when your spouse or partner betrays you not only once but twice, or more? How do you respond when the betrayal is on-going with frequent hook ups, titillating sexts, then the ultimate; rapacious sex romps with a lover? Can you ever truly forgive or truly forget these behaviors? On this episode, I’ll address the notion of forgiveness after an affair in a short fictional story I’ve written and will narrate called “To Forgive Or Not To Forgive: That Is The Dilemma.” After the rea...

Sep 21, 20211 hr 9 min

My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With Her Dog

Imagine you’re a bride, and your fiancé invites a woman you barely know to your wedding under the guise that they’re “just friends.” He and his “friend” disappear from the reception for almost 2 hours and no one knows where they are. It’s not surprising that shortly after the wedding this bride’s marriage ends. According to John, my guest today, his girlfriend (this former bride and divorcee) became a cheater: an emotional cheater. John claims she was never a truly present and giving partner bec...

Sep 14, 202144 min

How Many Times A Month Is Enough?

What if you’re not sexting per se, but sending flirty DMs, texts and pictures to someone you’re really attracted to, but your partner has no idea you’re doing this? What if after yoga you and a hot hottie in the class go for smoothies, but you don’t tell your partner, or admit to yourself that having smoothies with them is the reason you go to yoga in the first place. What if you have full on sex romps with someone other than your partner several times a year without your partner knowing? Are an...

Sep 07, 202151 min

Life + Love With My Spouse, My Core Partner, and My Lover. A Frank Discussion About Polyamory.

Does polyamory really make it possible for husbands and wives and committed partners with multiple lovers to have it all? Many say that having an affair makes them feel alive again, but with that exuberance comes deception, duplicity, and deceit. Hiding an affair from your spouse or partner is guilt provoking and burdensome. What if there was a way to maintain the stability of your committed partnership and the passion of your affair. What if you didn’t have to choose between a spouse and lover ...

Aug 31, 202155 min

Answer Me You Son of a Bitch

Silence is the lethal injection in any relationship. It’s more invective and hurtful than a barrage of expletives and a slamming door. In silence, you deny your partner the surety of knowing where you stand and giving them the option to do something about it. I’ve written a short fictional story called “Answer Me You Son Of A Bitch,” that chronicles the agony of a married woman who is ghosted by her married lover for months and months, until one day fate brings a chance for her to win him back. ...

Aug 24, 202153 min

Husband Lies + Cheats On His Pregnant Wife. Years Later Is It Her Turn for An Affair?

From the outside it appears you have the perfect marriage. You and your spouse seem to have it all - beautiful children, successful careers, a lovely home and many of life’s trappings most people can only dream of. To the outside world you’re the perfect wife, and your husband is loving, doting, generous and supportive. But behind closed doors he’s a completely different man: your husband is mean, insufferably controlling, condescending and a serial cheater. To him, the quality and integrity of ...

Aug 17, 202147 min

My Wife Is Mean To Me So I Cheat

A married woman is tortured by the chaos and ever-changing dynamic of her affair with a married man. The woman's lover claims his wife is mean and neglectful and makes his home life miserable These two married cheaters have a deeply emotional affair peppered with intimacy and fantasies, yet soured by episodes of his ghosting, lies and manipulation. The story is a journey from the day they meet through the months of passion and disappointment the woman faces until she comes to the realization of ...

Aug 10, 20211 hr 5 min

Married, Serial Cheater Defends His Playboy Lifestyle. Interview with Clarke.

We all know this type of guy, the classic philanderer. He’s a married, good looking, successful man with swagger. He has a coterie of hot honeys, both married and single women he claims as lovers. His philandering style is so typical it rings like a cliché. Instead of making assumptions about this classic playboy archetype, I wanted to get into his mind. What drives him to pursue, woo, and ultimately sleep with multiple single and married women: all from the same community, his own community, al...

Aug 03, 202140 min

My Husband Confessed To His Affairs, But I Kept Mine A Secret

A husband is suspected of having an affair with not just 1, but 4 different women- simultaneously! After the wife gets a bizarre and suspicious phone call in the middle of the night, this husband and wife question whether it’s time to divulge long held secrets and face serious issues that threaten their marriage. This short fictional story called “My Husband Confessed To His Affairs, But I Kept Mine A Secret” is based on a true life conflict. I’ll begin the episode by reading the story. After th...

Jul 27, 202140 min

Betrayed Husband on Marriage Counseling Gone Wrong

Your marriage is in shambles; riddled with stories of cheating, drugs and alcohol. You and your spouse seek out a professional: someone who’s going to guide you, and help lead your marriage back to solid ground. There are so many mental health care professionals that are heroes and saviors, but what happens when the therapist you and your spouse rely on betrays you? On this episode of Cheating: When Love Lies, find out why it’s critical for every couple to vet their therapist, and find one they ...

Jul 20, 202154 min

Cheating: When Love Lives...Coming July 20!

Affairs are prevalent but rarely talked about relationships. The podcast, Cheating: When Love Lies, is a deep dive into the complex emotions surrounding these secret unions. Creator and host, Jillian Hamilton, delves into this taboo topic and asks the hard questions about affairs: how common are they, who's having them, and why? These questions illicit unexpected answers that reveal both men and women as people actively seeking something - validation, escape, understanding, vengeance, thrill, lo...

Jul 06, 202130 sec
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